{"id":940,"date":"2020-09-11T18:31:21","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T11:31:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/wordpress\/?p=940"},"modified":"2020-09-11T18:31:21","modified_gmt":"2020-09-11T11:31:21","slug":"yeu-binh-thuong-va-yeu-cua-phat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=940","title":{"rendered":"Y\u00eau b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ph\u1eadt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ebft. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec xin th\u1ea7y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t y\u00eau bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a gh\u00e9t, n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi gh\u00e9t. V\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t, gh\u00e9t v\u00e0 y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a y\u00eau &#8211; v\u00ec gh\u00e9t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c. B\u1ea1n y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t ph\u1ea7n h\u1eadn, n\u00f3 \u0111i \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi, n\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee3i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i khi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, n\u00f3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n gh\u00e9t tr\u1ed3i l\u00ean. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng y\u00eau &#8211; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0o trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n, nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00eam v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y. N\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c chuy\u1ec3n trong v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n. N\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt, v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9, l\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u00e2n n\u00e0y, nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean n\u00e0y, bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. \u1ede m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i &#8211; kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi y\u00eau &#8211; to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u00e2n, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, g\u1ecdi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 &#8216;y\u00eau&#8217; l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hay, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n Ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb &#8216;y\u00eau&#8217;. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb &#8216;t\u1eeb bi&#8217;. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 n\u1eefa c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng r\u1ea5t hay. V\u00ec t\u1eeb bi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1ecb tr\u1ed9n l\u1eabn v\u1edbi \u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1ecb tr\u1ed9n l\u1eabn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh &#8211; b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ngay b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. B\u1ea1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn; do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o, lo \u00e2u. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t; b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 hai. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n chia th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ea3nh m\u1ea9u, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh m\u1ea9u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp l\u1eabn nhau. Hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng; hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. Nh\u1edb, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa hai c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp, c\u00f2n th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i l\u00e0 \u1edf ngay ch\u00ednh gi\u1eefa, n\u01a1i hai c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp. Ch\u00fang ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1eabn nhau &#8211; v\u00e0 c\u00f3 si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t. Cho n\u00ean y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt v\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i; y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, cho n\u00ean ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 trong y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 trong y\u00eau th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n. N\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n t\u1edbi t\u1eeb gh\u00e9t. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea, thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n, n\u00f3 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n. V\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta, y\u00eau b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i sai. Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n cho n\u00f3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra \u0111am m\u00ea trong b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n s\u00e2u.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ee9 hai, y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m &#8211; y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau b\u1ea1n, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 y\u00eau. Ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u01b0 x\u1eed theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, chi\u1ebfc c\u1ea7u. Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u00f4ng \u1ea5y hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 y\u00eau. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111o\u00e1 hoa c\u00f3 trong v\u01b0\u1eddn &#8211; b\u1ea1n \u0111i qua v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hoa \u0111ang g\u1eedi h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1i t\u1edbi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho b\u1ea1n &#8211; khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai \u0111i qua, h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111i qua, h\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n, y\u00eau bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 mang n\u00f3 ra. Khi kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y B\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec1, th\u1ebf n\u1eefa \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf n\u1eefa \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ec7t, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m. Cho n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u1ecb m\u1ec7t v\u00ec nhau n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u y\u00eau. H\u1ecd b\u1ecb m\u1ec7t, h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n k\u1ebd h\u1edf, kho\u1ea3ng h\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t ch\u00e1n v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. Hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t v\u00ec y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1edf. Nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 th\u1edf, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ba theo sau: b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n y\u00eau, Ph\u1eadt s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. V\u00ec nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n c\u00e1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n. Ph\u1eadt do v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00fat \u0111\u1ea7y b\u1edfi y\u00eau m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, &#8220;T\u00f4i y\u00eau b\u1ea1n.&#8221; Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. N\u00f3 tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y im l\u1eb7ng th\u1ebf t\u1eeb \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y y\u00eau, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n m\u1edf v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y y\u00eau b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec &#8211; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t, s\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u00e2n t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 &#8211; kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 n\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u an b\u00ecnh x\u1ea3y ra. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n. R\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, n\u00f3 \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. M\u00e2u thu\u1eabn li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o ra r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1c c\u1edb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, quan s\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, hay v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n, r\u1ea5t th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i. S\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 quan s\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t ph\u1ea5n ch\u1ea5n, c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c, nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau? V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? V\u00e0i ph\u00fat sau b\u1ea1n d\u1ecbu xu\u1ed1ng, ph\u1ea5n ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u00e3 qua, v\u00e0 sau v\u00e0i gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ch\u00e1n, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi tr\u1ed1n \u0111i ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 sau v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tranh \u0111\u1ea5u. Ch\u1ec9 quan s\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 x\u1ea3y ra t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i c\u1edb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau nh\u01b0 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eady khi anh ta t\u1edbi; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00f4i, anh ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i gi\u1eadn. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra r\u1eb1ng anh ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1c c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp b\u00ean trong, \u0111ang l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t n\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean Hollywood r\u1ea5t n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, \u0111\u1eb9p quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 \u0111i t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t studio \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p. \u1ea2nh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee5p ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, &#8220;\u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady? \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb9p tuy\u1ec7t tr\u1ea7n!&#8221; Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh n\u00f3i v\u1edbi n\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean, &#8220;V\u00e2ng, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n m\u01b0\u1eddi hai tu\u1ed5i khi t\u00f4i ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh c\u00f4. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n m\u01b0\u1eddi hai tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f4 qu\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u00ecn b\u00ean trong v\u00e0o c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra. N\u1ebfu \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i qua v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n gi\u00e0 h\u01a1n &#8211; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh b\u00ean trong, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7! Anh ta n\u00f3i, &#8220;C\u00f4 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n m\u01b0\u1eddi hai tu\u1ed5i h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb kh\u00e1c d\u00e0nh cho n\u00f3. T\u1eeb t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 l\u00e0 &#8216;y\u00eau&#8217;. Nh\u01b0ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 l\u01b0u \u00fd m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u00e2u. N\u1ebfu ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea trong n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y y\u00eau b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y y\u00eau m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi &#8211; b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 &#8211; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng \u1ea5y y\u00eau.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Ngh\u0129 v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong \u0111i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi y\u00eau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gh\u00e9t. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi y\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u00f3 gh\u00e9t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. N\u1ebfu y\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u00f3 gh\u00e9t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu, v\u00ec ph\u1ea7n gh\u00e9t s\u1ebd qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu y\u00eau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gh\u00e9t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra cho ph\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 v\u1eabn x\u1ea3y ra &#8211; cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. V\u00e0 ch\u00ednh c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1eadt&#8230; v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1eadt \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tranh \u0111\u1ea5u, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e3i c\u1ecd, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1ng l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n, \u0111\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u00ean kh\u00f9ng, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1eadt. V\u00ec ph\u1eadt s\u1ebd cao t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ph\u1eadt y\u00eau tr\u1eeb phi b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1eadt, v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3 hai c\u1ed1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c l\u1eabn nhau r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t cao. H\u1ecd \u0111em ra c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u1edf b\u00ean trong h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c gian nan! B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai n\u00e0y. Cho n\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng, b\u1ea1n quay l\u1ea1i xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nhau v\u00ec h\u1ecd t\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang, v\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd l\u1eafng d\u1ecbu, khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ec9 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. Kh\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u1ec9 tr\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u1ec9 tr\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gian nan, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc xu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n<p>Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng, khi h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u coi nhau l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, r\u1ea5t xo\u00e0ng x\u0129nh, r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng &#8211; ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ecf ra l\u00e0 v\u1eady tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n; gi\u1edd h\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a qu\u1ec9. B\u1ea1n ng\u00e3 s\u00f3ng xo\u00e0i, b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00eau b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ebfm khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t may m\u1eafn r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm hoi. N\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 trong nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp. Ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9. R\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u l\u1edbn &#8211; nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i du h\u00e0nh, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh <em>sadhana<\/em> n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong y\u00eau v\u1edbi v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt. N\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sadhana, sadhana v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3. V\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t Ph\u1eadt hay m\u1ed9t Jesus, hay m\u1ed9t L\u00e3o T\u1eed, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh h\u1ecd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec9nh trong m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1ng ra \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi trong nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00ed m\u1eadt l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ed5i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 trong th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 xung quanh. Ph\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua l\u00e0ng hay th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. V\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 nghe m\u1ed9t Ph\u1eadt hay \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t Ph\u1eadt hay \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, y\u00eau n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a. Nh\u01b0ng gian nan s\u1ebd l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y. D\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i du h\u00e0nh tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y r\u1ed1i. Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t, y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n h\u1eadn th\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i &#8211; tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. D\u00f9 c\u1ed1 \u00fd hay v\u00f4 \u00fd, h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u01a1i n\u00f3. Theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. H\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb t\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng mong \u0111\u1ee3i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed h\u1ecd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau t\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch y\u00eau c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac &#8211; nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau t\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec h\u01a1n c\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, v\u00e0 do v\u1eady b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh! V\u00ec \u00edt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh &#8211; m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 &#8211; t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi t\u00f4i ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ng\u1ee5 \u00fd cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00eau b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh v\u00ec nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u00f2n dai d\u1eb3ng. V\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 l\u00e0 kh\u00f3. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb &#8220;Vigyan Bhairav M\u1eadt t\u00f4ng &#8211; t\u1eadp 4, Ch. 72&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ch\u1ebft. 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