M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao h\u00e0m trong n\u00f3: L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh bao h\u00e0m k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i khi \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0o x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1eadn th\u00f9? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi k\u00ecm n\u00e9n sao?<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m tinh t\u1ebf c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u. Khi b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u00f3, v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ecb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n k\u00ecm n\u00e9n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao gi\u1edd. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang t\u01b0 m\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n bao h\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd s\u1ee3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n, v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00ec ra. Cho n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean: kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n gi\u1eadn, h\u1eadn, hay b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00f3 l\u00ean ai \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00f3 l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m; ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gh\u00e9t v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang gh\u00e9t s\u1eb5n, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u1ec9 cho b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi v\u00e0 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m t\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n cho t\u00f4i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 mang ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang c\u00f3 trong t\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 gh\u00e9t, gh\u00e9t x\u00ec ra. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 y\u00eau, th\u1ebf th\u00ec y\u00eau s\u1ebd to\u1ea3 ra. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 t\u1eeb bi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1eeb bi s\u1ebd bay ra. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m l\u1ed9 ra.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu gh\u00e9t x\u00ec ra, \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb hay trong ti\u1ebfng Ph\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho n\u00f3 – nirmit – c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n; nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u1edf b\u00ean trong. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 mang nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 ra. Cho n\u00ean t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng c\u00e1m \u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i – c\u00e1m \u01a1n r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 gh\u00e9t \u1ea9n k\u00edn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n chuy\u1ec3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ecdi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra h\u1eadn th\u00f9. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong b\u1ea1n, nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt v\u00e0 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gh\u00e9t b\u1ea1n, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y gi\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u00edt, nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec gi\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 ra. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a gh\u00e9t, cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng n\u00e9m n\u00f3 l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1m \u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t, c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, n\u00e9m n\u00f3 l\u00ean tr\u1eddi \u0111i. \u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 hai: c\u00f3 t\u00ednh bao h\u00e0m v\u1ec1 gh\u00e9t n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f5i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. C\u00f3 t\u00ednh bao h\u00e0m c\u1ea3 gh\u00e9t n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea5u, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, \u00e1c, x\u1ea3y ra, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bao h\u00e0m n\u00f3 trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t x\u1ea3y ra, b\u1ea1n bao h\u00e0m n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 y\u00eau.’ Khi b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t.’ Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1eeb bi, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi.’ Khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn.’ B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i \u0111ang gi\u1eadn \u0111\u00e2y’ – d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 gi\u1eadn \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n; d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn – n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 y\u00eau,’ d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t; kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. N\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, b\u1ea1n bao h\u00e0m n\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao h\u00e0m n\u00f3. C\u00f3 t\u00ednh bao h\u00e0m c\u1ea3 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u n\u1eefa \u0111i. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn, v\u00e0 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc – r\u1eb1ng ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t’ – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn,’ m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn’? Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t: khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn,’ b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb c\u01a1 s\u1edf kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang – gi\u1eadn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n; \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh gi\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n – r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd gi\u1eadn, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd gh\u00e9t, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng y\u00eau, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 n\u00e0y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, ‘C\u1eaft gi\u1eadn \u0111i, c\u1eaft gh\u00e9t \u0111i, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t.’ Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh; ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh, t\u1eed t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 v\u0103n ho\u00e1 – b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ee5t xu\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y – nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. B\u1ea1n thu l\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n. Khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn, c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed9 ra th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. Khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 gh\u00e9t, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, \u0111\u00fang. Bao h\u00e0m c\u1ea3 gh\u00e9t, bao h\u00e0m c\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn, bao h\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111ang c\u00f3 trong b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bao h\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed5 nh\u00e0o m\u00e3i m\u00e3i, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. \u0110i\u1ec1u hay l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i to\u1ea3 kh\u1ecfi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh gi\u1ea3, v\u00ec n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o ra ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m. V\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed5 nh\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed5, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda d\u1eabn t\u1edbi t\u00e2m linh.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn,’ l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ghen, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u00e1c. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh,’ l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 Brahma. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf t\u1ed1i cao.’ Th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 atma, c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 t\u1ed1i cao’ – th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ec5. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ghen, gh\u00e9t, gi\u1eadn, \u0111am m\u00ea, d\u1ee5c,’ b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. V\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh gi\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5; b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t, trong ch\u00ednh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u, n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, v\u00ec ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n cho gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t l\u00e0 d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, l\u00e0 v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eadn. Khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1eadn. S\u1ef1 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o h\u1ea5p thu m\u1ecdi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1eadn.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c s\u01b0 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, ‘Ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn. Ta n\u00f3i trong khi \u00f4ng gi\u1eadn, l\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o.’ \u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1. ‘Ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn. Ta n\u00f3i: trong khi gi\u1eadn, l\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o.’ Th\u1eed \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i. Khi gi\u1eadn t\u1edbi, l\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u00f3. Quan s\u00e1t n\u00f3. \u00dd th\u1ee9c t\u1edbi n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, c\u00e0ng \u00edt gi\u1eadn. Trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, gi\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 – c\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o.<\/p>\n
N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 trung l\u1eadp. C\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1eadn. C\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gh\u00e9t. C\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh y\u00eau. C\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb bi. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t; \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n trong \u0111\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1eadn, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh d\u1ee5c, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, \u00fd th\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o trong nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i c\u0169 \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c – c\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, ‘B\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0103n, ng\u1ed3i. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u00f4ng l\u00e0m, l\u00e0m \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, l\u01b0u t\u00e2m, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u0111ang l\u00e0m n\u00f3.’<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt \u0111ang b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i th\u00ec m\u1ed9t con ru\u1ed3i bay t\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eadu l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1eadu l\u00ean tr\u00e1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c s\u01b0, cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd g\u00ec t\u1edbi con ru\u1ed3i n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea9y tay v\u00e0 con ru\u1ed3i bay \u0111i kh\u1ecfi tr\u00e1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, v\u00ec nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi c\u00e1c s\u01b0 m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i cho, cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c s\u01b0, ‘Ta xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat.’ \u00d4ng \u1ea5y nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y gi\u01a1 tay l\u00ean l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. C\u00e1c s\u01b0 ng\u1ee1 ng\u00e0ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, v\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ru\u1ed3i. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y gi\u01a1 tay l\u00ean l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9y tay g\u1ea7n ch\u1ed7 con ru\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eadu – b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0a tay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, ‘C\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.’<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c s\u01b0 kia n\u00f3i, ‘Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ru\u1ed3i – n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y – cho n\u00ean th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec?’<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, ‘Ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 ta \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 – \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 vi\u1ec7c gi\u01a1 tay l\u00ean. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a ta. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u1ef1a robot.’<\/p>\n
T\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gh\u00e9t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean bao h\u00e0m gh\u00e9t, gi\u1eadn, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Bao h\u00e0m n\u00f3 v\u00e0o trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, bao h\u00e0m n\u00f3 trong h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5. B\u1ea1n t\u1eeb tr\u1eddi t\u1ee5t xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng n\u00e9m n\u00f3 l\u00ean ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3; di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00f3 l\u00ean tr\u1eddi. T\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn, \u0111i v\u00e0o trong ph\u00f2ng, m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. L\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, hay ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ed1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, ‘\u00d4ng l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 t\u00f4i,’ v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t c\u00fa ra tr\u00f2. T\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. T\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. Gi\u1eadn s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddi; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m ngu xu\u1ea9n l\u00e0m sao. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang l\u00e0m n\u00f3 cho c\u00e1i g\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t vui l\u00f2ng, r\u1ea5t y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi b\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t b\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, r\u1ea5t y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n xin \u00f4ng \u1ea5y tha th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 t\u00ednh bao h\u00e0m. Kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd. K\u00ecm n\u00e9n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nguy hi\u1ec3m, \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i. V\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n k\u00ecm n\u00e9n, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n chung cu\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean. K\u00ecm n\u00e9n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u00ean. Di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngu xu\u1ea9n, v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n. Di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o trong khi di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb “Vigyan Bhairav M\u1eadt t\u00f4ng – t\u1eadp 4, Ch.62”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao h\u00e0m trong n\u00f3: L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh bao h\u00e0m k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i khi \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":895,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[66],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cach-song-va-chet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=894"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":896,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/894\/revisions\/896"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/895"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}