T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe th\u1ea7y nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi chu k\u00ec b\u1ea9y n\u0103m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng chu k\u00ec n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c ra c\u00f3 chu k\u00ec b\u1ea9y n\u0103m trong t\u1eebng ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed7i b\u1ea9y n\u0103m m\u1ed9t – m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh. V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u1ee7a chu k\u00ec n\u00e0y v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a chu k\u00ec th\u1ee9 hai.<\/p>\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00ean b\u1ea9y tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa; th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. M\u00e3i cho t\u1edbi l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i tinh ranh c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u00e1i ranh m\u00e3nh, m\u1ecdi l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i, tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i; n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 r\u1edfm, n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111eo m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. T\u1ea7ng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i gi\u1ea3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bao quanh n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1n, d\u1ee5c, c\u00e1i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e3i t\u1edbi gi\u1edd b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean n\u1ea3y sinh trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3… v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n! L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c… C\u00e1i nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1ea3y sinh v\u00e0 n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. V\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n…<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t, l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa: b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, tham v\u1ecdng – b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111i v\u00e0o trong cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng h\u01a1n, th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u1ebf n\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9i tu\u1ed5i hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t; l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa m\u1ed9t chu tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i hai m\u01b0\u01a1i t\u00e1m, l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa – n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 an ninh, thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n, s\u1ed1 d\u01b0 ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng. Cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi hippy l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, \u201cKh\u00f4ng tin c\u1eady b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai ngo\u00e0i ba m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i.\u201d Th\u1ef1c ra h\u1ecd n\u00ean n\u00f3i hai m\u01b0\u01a1i t\u00e1m tu\u1ed5i, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ngay th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i ba m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00ec ba m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ba m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec9nh. Chu tr\u00ecnh l\u1edbn h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi n\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u1ebft, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ee3. S\u1ee3 n\u1ea3y sinh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, gi\u1eefa ba m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m v\u00e0 b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i hai, m\u00e0 ung nh\u1ecdt v\u00e0 cao huy\u1ebft \u00e1p, \u0111au tim v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra – v\u00ec s\u1ee3. S\u1ee3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y – ung th\u01b0, lao ph\u1ed5i… Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ngu\u1ed3n cho m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i tai n\u1ea1n v\u00ec s\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n: ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea5t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi ch\u1ebft v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u01b0\u1edbc qua tu\u1ed5i ba m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00ednh tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1<\/em> l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 – v\u00ec n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee3i th\u00eam n\u1eefa, s\u1ebd qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n… V\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1n anh ta c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 hay c\u00f4 ta c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 quan h\u1ec7. Quan h\u1ec7 d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n; \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra t\u1ea1i tu\u1ed5i b\u1ed1n hai – b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea7n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, th\u1ea7y, n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i, n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 g\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u00e3 xong, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1u, n\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u00e2n theo nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi v\u00e0i tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/p>\n V\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i ba, n\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n ra t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u1ecf ng\u1ed9 satori<\/em> \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i ba, r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 satori \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft n\u1eefa – n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau.<\/p>\n T\u1eeb “D\u00e0nh cho ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean, Ch. 19”<\/em><\/p>\n \u0110\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i ba b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec – \u0111i v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. L\u1ea7n n\u1eefa b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb – t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1edfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, r\u1ea5t tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, v\u1edbi th\u00f4ng minh l\u1edbn lao. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i v\u00e0i n\u0103m n\u1eefa th\u00f4i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ebft. V\u00e0o l\u00fac b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i, khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc d\u00f9 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u2013 ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111ang t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n Nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u00e0o m\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng. \u0110\u00edch x\u00e1c ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng t\u1ecf v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9… b\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau; qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau, g\u1eafn c\u00f9ng nhau. Khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9; khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u2013 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u1edf ngo\u00e0i c\u1ea3 hai – ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf b\u1edfi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf b\u1edfi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng ph\u1ea3i mang, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00f4 tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. L\u1ef1c tr\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bay. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1nh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u1ebft, \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111ang t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1edf h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, “Con t\u00e0u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1edbi, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian tr\u00ean b\u1edd n\u00e0y. Ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y ch\u1ed1c t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ra \u0111i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, k\u00ec l\u1ea1. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau, \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ra \u0111i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m, nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e1m \u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra – c\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t l\u1eabn x\u1ea5u, c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00fang l\u1eabn sai, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1eeb c\u00e1i \u0111\u00fang, m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 t\u1eeb c\u00e1i sai n\u1eefa \u2013 c\u00e1c hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n, v\u00e2ng, c\u1ea3 t\u1eeb h\u1ecd n\u1eefa. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ed9m c\u1eafp ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u00f9 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 – m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. M\u00f9a h\u00e8 v\u00e0 m\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng, no n\u00ea v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3i kh\u00e1t, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1m \u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. T\u1eeb \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh – Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe th\u1ea7y nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi chu k\u00ec b\u1ea9y n\u0103m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng chu k\u00ec n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Th\u1ef1c … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":827,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-than-the-tam-tri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=825"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":832,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825\/revisions\/832"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/827"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nV\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 g\u00ec? M\u1edf h\u1ed9i v\u1edbi ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft. Ch\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, vui s\u01b0\u1edbng, ch\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng, \u0111\u00f3n ch\u00e0o, l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u0110\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ea1m tr\u00fa. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 lang thang \u1edf mi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea5t l\u1ea1, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi: ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.
\nS\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i ba l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00f3ng v\u00e0o trong m\u00ecnh. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o, quay v\u00e0o trong. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u. Ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t im l\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n, ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh b\u1ea1n. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t s\u1ee5t gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n.
\n\u0110\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng r\u1ed3i. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tu\u00e2n theo h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ebft \u0111ang t\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, c\u00f9ng chu k\u00ec n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00fac ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi, ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 l\u1ea7n m\u1eefa. B\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n.
\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n th\u1edd b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1n l\u00e0 garbha, b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi ng\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1n th\u00ec ph\u1ea7n b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1n n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u00fd; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i v\u00e0o. Trong pha cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng – ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng – ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111i v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111i v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec7n th\u1edd b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t n\u01a1i ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ch\u00e1y, n\u01a1i \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3, n\u01a1i ng\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, n\u01a1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n
\nKhi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00e1m \u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft, m\u1edf h\u1ed9i cho c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho, th\u00ec c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eb9p. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 cao tr\u00e0o c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec9nh cao nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec9nh. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed7 k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng – v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh cao tr\u00e0o, ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec9nh cao, \u0111\u1ec9nh cao nh\u1ea5t.
\nC\u00e1i ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec3m, s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong n\u00f3; th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1edf hoa trong n\u00f3 \u2013 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00f4ng hoa. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho n\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n