{"id":6092,"date":"2026-05-27T16:13:53","date_gmt":"2026-05-27T09:13:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=6092"},"modified":"2026-05-27T16:13:57","modified_gmt":"2026-05-27T09:13:57","slug":"nguoi-di-theo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=6092","title":{"rendered":"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u1ea7y ng\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed; v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo t\u1edbi trong ph\u00f2ng g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>El-Shah y\u00eau c\u1ea7u t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd, t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t, n\u00f3i t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0y ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y Sufi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u2013 h\u1ecd tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tin tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0o gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ecd tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed theo d\u00f5i. Th\u1ea7y h\u1ecfi t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo, t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a h\u1ecd t\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, l\u00ed do g\u00ec, th\u00f4i th\u00fac g\u00ec, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm g\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y Bahauddin l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed g\u00ec? H\u00f2n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed n\u00e0o? Ai l\u00e0 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i? V\u00e0 ai l\u00e0 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t? V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y?<\/p>\n<p>El-Shah n\u00f3i,\u00a0<em>Ta \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta ma d\u01b0\u1ee3c khi anh ta \u1ed1m, cho n\u00ean anh ta ngh\u0129 ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do, ti\u00eau ch\u00ed, h\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1 th\u1eed: anh ta b\u1ecb \u1ed1m v\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta thu\u1ed1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng, cho n\u00ean ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ma d\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, anh ta ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn ta l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1eafc anh ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian c\u00f3 ma d\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ea5y! B\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t th\u1ebf! \u1ed0m v\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa kh\u1ecfi, vi\u1ec7c \u1edf g\u1ea7n Bahaudin c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec m\u1ea5y. \u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129 hay b\u00e1c s\u0129 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u.<\/p>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00ec \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e1c s\u0129, b\u00e1c s\u0129 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, \u201cli\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p\u201d n\u00e0y n\u1ecd; h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i h\u1ecd t\u1edbi, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng quan t\u00e2m ch\u00fat n\u00e0o t\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf; h\u1ecd \u1ed1m, v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u, thu\u1ed1c m\u00e0u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 thi\u1ec1n, h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, h\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 sai. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u1edf g\u1ea7n t\u00f4i, h\u1ecd n\u00ean t\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, v\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u00f4i th\u00fac t\u00e2m linh trong h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, hay c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u2013 c\u00e1i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nhau, v\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hai th\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 hai c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa trong b\u1ea1n. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t cho tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh. N\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf l\u00e0 tai \u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i nh\u1edb t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t giai tho\u1ea1i trong \u0111\u1eddi Jesus. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ec3 trong c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Sufi c\u00f3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>Chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n Jesus v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n nh\u1ecf. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111u\u1ed5i theo m\u1ed9t g\u00e1i m\u00e3i d\u00e2m, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat, b\u1ecb th\u00f4i mi\u00ean. Jesus ch\u1eb7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi, \u201c\u00d4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady? Sao \u00f4ng ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi \u00f4ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n ngu xu\u1ea9n th\u1ebf?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y nh\u00ecn Jesus v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201c\u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra t\u00f4i sao, th\u01b0a ng\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra \u00f4ng \u2013 l\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u00f9 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o m\u1eaft t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1edbi m\u1eaft t\u00f4i, c\u00e1i b\u1ecb h\u00fat h\u1ed3n b\u1edfi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb9p? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi m\u1eaft t\u00f4i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u1ea5p \u1ee7 h\u00ecnh b\u00f3ng \u0111\u1eb9p! C\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 th\u1ea5y? V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u00f9, th\u01b0a ng\u00e0i, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i th\u1ebf, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 ban ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh cho t\u00f4i. Gi\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jesus c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tai ho\u1ea1. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1eady, nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh tai \u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n say, n\u1eb1m trong c\u1ed1ng, k\u00eau kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 la h\u00e9t. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi, \u201c\u00d4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady? Sao \u00f4ng ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb say v\u1eady? Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng th\u00f4i \u2013 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi n\u00f3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ee1, l\u00e0 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i! V\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd quay l\u1ea1i, \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f2i n\u00f3 l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111i!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi say m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201cTr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5t, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean t\u00f4i r\u1ed3i sao? T\u00f4i b\u1ecb \u1ed1m v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eb1m li\u1ec7t gi\u01b0\u1eddng trong m\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103m, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u00f4ng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o t\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh cho t\u00f4i. Gi\u1edd t\u00f4i m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3? T\u00f4i t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng! \u0102n, u\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb! T\u00f4i tu\u00e2n theo qui t\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 gi\u1edd t\u00f4i m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb v\u00ec \u00f4ng. \u00d4ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i th\u1ebf!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jesus tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd h\u00ecnh dung r\u1eb1ng m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ebb b\u1ecb bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh tai ho\u1ea1. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y quay l\u01b0ng. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n.<\/p>\n<p>Khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1eafp \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u1ed1 treo c\u1ed5 m\u00ecnh l\u00ean c\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. Jesus t\u1edbi \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, ng\u0103n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201c\u00d4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady? Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 qu\u00ed gi\u00e1, m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u2013 v\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 cho \u00f4ng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111ang ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 n\u00f3! \u00d4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u1ebf?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y nh\u00ecn Jesus v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean, \u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft r\u1ed3i. \u00d4ng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o t\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i. Gi\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec? Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u2013 \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o t\u00f4i l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i. T\u00f4i ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ed3i sinh t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c! T\u00f4i ch\u00e1n ng\u00e1n v\u1edbi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ed3i sinh t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 trong ba n\u0103m li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5. Gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ef1 t\u1eed \u2013 xin \u00f4ng \u0111i kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e2y! Ai bi\u1ebft, \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o t\u00f4i l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng, m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb \u2013 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh tai ho\u1ea1, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 m\u00f9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tu\u1ef3.<\/p>\n<p>Bahauddin n\u00f3i:\u00a0<em>Ta \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta ma d\u01b0\u1ee3c khi anh ta \u1ed1m, cho n\u00ean anh ta ngh\u0129 ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao anh ta \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ta, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u00ean trong n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec ma d\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta. Th\u1ef1c ra, ta ch\u1eb3ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, ma d\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 anh ta lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n quanh ta ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f2ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p anh ta \u1ed1m l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa \u2013 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho anh ta ma d\u01b0\u1ee3c, thu\u1ed1c. Ta ch\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng vi\u00ean v\u1edbi anh ta.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i l\u00e0m sao! M\u1ed9t Bahauddin, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y cho b\u1ea1n \u2013 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n coi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng vi\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111i t\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1c ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i n\u00f3i n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i sai, ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, ph\u1ea7n ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111i t\u1edbi Satya Sai Baba. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai quanh \u00f4ng ta. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u00e0m ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n ma thu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u201cph\u00e9p m\u00e0u\u201d ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. \u0110\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1edbn ch\u1ea1y theo. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00e2m linh. H\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb, t\u00ecm ti\u1ec1n, t\u00ecm c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf g\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai, v\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u n\u00e0o, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch thu h\u00fat ng\u01b0\u1eddi sai. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2u. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u00ed do sai n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai n\u00f3i: \u201cCu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf ra t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p t\u1edbi th\u0103m th\u1ea7y.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>El-Shah n\u00f3i,\u201cAnh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ai nghe anh ta. Ta \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng anh ta, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thanh th\u1ea3n x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c anh ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m theo Freud, ng\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh th\u1ed1ng. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nghe. B\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean tr\u00e0ng k\u1ec9, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0 nghe, c\u00f2n b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u00edch, \u0111i v\u00e0o li\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ef1 do. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u00fd ngh\u0129 n\u00e0o t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ch\u00fang. Sau phi\u00ean m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thanh th\u1ea3n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 thanh th\u1ea3n t\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1edbi trong ba hay b\u1ed1n hay n\u0103m n\u0103m l\u00e0m ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa c\u0169ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa c\u0169ng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n l\u1eb7ng d\u1ea7n l\u1ea1i. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c r\u1ebb. Thu\u1ed1c r\u1ebb h\u01a1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Chi ph\u00ed m\u1edbi th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ngu v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. N\u0103m n\u0103m l\u00e0m ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m, h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn \u0111\u00f4 la ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 ra \u2013 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i! B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ngu. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u01b0\u1eddi: \u201cTh\u1ebf th\u00ec anh \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y?\u201d Cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i gi\u00fap \u00edch. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea9y r\u1eeda, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed li\u00ean t\u1ee5c phun m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Khi b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i ch\u00fang l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u00e3i, ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ea3 ra, ch\u00fang bay h\u01a1i kh\u1ecfi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. V\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 nghe, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 b\u00ed m\u1eadt kinh doanh c\u1ee7a ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc: ai \u0111\u00f3 nghe. Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ai nghe ai? Ch\u1eb3ng ai ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i. Th\u1ef1c ra, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe, c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra: C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp trong to\u00e0 th\u1ecb ch\u00ednh, v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i m\u00e3i \u2013 m\u1ed9t ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch gi\u00e0 \u2013 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng. Duy nh\u1ea5t Mulla Nasruddin c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, duy nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t sung s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta c\u00e1m \u01a1n Nasruddin: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng y\u00eau t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf, hay \u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf, hay \u00f4ng khen ng\u1ee3i tri\u1ebft l\u00ed c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i th\u1ebf.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nasruddin n\u00f3i, \u201cXin \u00f4ng \u0111\u1eebng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfp sau \u2013 t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea9y r\u1eeda. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1; n\u00f3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea7m t\u0129nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u1ecfi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 lo \u00e2u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u00fat \u00edt v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng nghe v\u00ec anh ta \u0111ang trong c\u00f9ng thuy\u1ec1n. Anh ta c\u00f3 lo \u00e2u ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a anh ta. L\u00e0m sao anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe c\u00e1c l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? V\u00ec n\u1ebfu anh ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nghe c\u00e1c l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, anh ta \u0111ang thu th\u1eadp lo \u00e2u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. Cho n\u00ean anh ta nghe v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3ng. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o tai n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi tai kia. S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng lo \u00e2u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. V\u00e0 lo \u00e2u ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra trong nh\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111i\u00ean: M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m quan s\u00e1t hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean qua l\u1ed7 kho\u00e1. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n h\u1ecd v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. C\u00e1c gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111i\u00ean. Ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec1 \u0111i\u00ean. H\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft trong \u00fd ngh\u0129, h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft trong vi\u1ec7c ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 khi c\u00e1c \u00fd ngh\u0129 tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, \u0111i\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<p>Hai gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 n\u00e0y \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m \u0111ang nh\u00ecn t\u1eeb l\u1ed7 kho\u00e1. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a; ch\u1eb3ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec li\u00ean quan, nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00e0o li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi c\u00e2u kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean g\u00ec, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean l\u00e0 v\u1eady. S\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd nghe. Khi anh ta d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t; anh ta s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang anh ta, t\u1eeb tr\u1eddi xanh.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m g\u00f5 c\u1eeda. H\u1ecd m\u1edf c\u1eeda. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, \u201cT\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t t\u00f2 m\u00f2 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft: t\u1ea1i sao, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia d\u1eebng n\u00f3i? V\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan th\u1ebf \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea5t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u1eddi, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan ch\u00fat n\u00e0o \u2013 th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c \u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia n\u00f3i?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>C\u1ea3 ai c\u00f9ng c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, \u201c\u00d4ng ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft lu\u1eadt h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i \u00e0?\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 lu\u1eadt h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i: \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 \u00f4ng n\u00f3i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i; khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i, \u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong\u00a0<em>c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/em>, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong\u00a0<em>c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia<\/em>. B\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n song song. \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, v\u00e0 trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111ang n\u00f3i, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n im l\u1eb7ng. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng song song, nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ray xe ho\u1ea3, c\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng song song ch\u1ea1y h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m, ch\u1eb3ng g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n t\u1ea9y r\u1eeda t\u00e2m tr\u00ed h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ra. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 nghe; do \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p \u2013 b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n cho \u00f4ng ta ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng ta nghe b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c nghe chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n. D\u00f9 ch\u00e1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn nghe v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n b\u1ea7y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, b\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i. Ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang nghe v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u2013 m\u1ed9t Freud, m\u1ed9t Jung, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7, phi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u2013 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m c\u00e0ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i \u2013 t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u01a1n theo ngh\u0129a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u2013 \u00f4ng ta c\u00e0ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 cho b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, v\u00ec b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng th\u1ebf. Ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf \u2013 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng th\u1ebf! Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t Freud c\u0169ng nghe ch\u0103m ch\u00fa th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m tr\u1ebb h\u1ecfi th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng gi\u00e0, \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i ph\u00e1t ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t sau hai hay ba b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n v\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea7y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i ph\u00e1t ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t th\u1ebf sau ba b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n \u2013 nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea7y th\u1ef1c k\u00ec di\u1ec7u. Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng t\u1edbi t\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y th\u1ea7y m\u1ec7t.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00d4ng gi\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201cAi nghe? \u0110\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t th\u00f4i. Gi\u1edd ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chuy\u00ean gia trong vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 tai nghe m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nghe ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Ai nghe?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, li\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u00f3 nghe hay kh\u00f4ng nghe. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. B\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c phun ra r\u00e1c r\u01b0\u1edfi, \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed3ng n\u00e1t, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u1ee5c ru\u1ed7ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ch\u00fa \u00fd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i, ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec t\u1eeb t\u00f4i, h\u1ecd t\u1edbi t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e2m n\u00f3ng qua vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i h\u1ecd qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd n\u00f3i. H\u1ecd c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i tr\u00e0ng giang \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ea3i; kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 d\u1eebng h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 anh ta h\u1ecfi trong nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y, n\u00f3i anh ta mu\u1ed1n t\u1edbi v\u00ec anh ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i ch\u00fang cho n\u00ean anh ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1edbi v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i cho anh ta th\u1eddi gian.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta th\u1eddi gian; anh ta t\u1edbi. Trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd anh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a anh ta. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta tr\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd. Anh ta n\u00f3i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, v\u1ec1 v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 con anh ta, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u1ecd, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a anh ta. Sau m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd \u2013 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, anh ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t k\u1ebd h\u1edf nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u\u2026 sau m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd anh ta c\u00e1m \u01a1n t\u00f4i, anh ta r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. Anh ta ch\u1ea1m ch\u00e2n t\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201cTh\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00ec di\u1ec7u th\u1ebf, th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u hay th\u1ebf\u201d \u2013 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi! \u2013 \u201cv\u00e0 th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.\u201d Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o!<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Anh ta c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 anh ta ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi anh ta.<\/p>\n<p>Bahauddin n\u00f3i, \u201c<em>Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ai nghe anh ta. Ta \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng anh ta, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thanh th\u1ea3n x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c anh ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang n\u00f3i, \u201c<em>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf ra t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p t\u1edbi th\u0103m th\u1ea7y.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u201cY nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d, Ch.2 T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u1ea7y ng\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed; v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo t\u1edbi trong ph\u00f2ng g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1. &nbsp; El-Shah y\u00eau c\u1ea7u t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd, t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6093,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57,92],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6092","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quan-sat-nhan-biet","category-thay-va-de-tu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6092","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6092"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6092\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6094,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6092\/revisions\/6094"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6093"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6092"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6092"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6092"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}