{"id":6036,"date":"2026-04-19T18:38:50","date_gmt":"2026-04-19T11:38:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=6036"},"modified":"2026-04-19T18:38:55","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T11:38:55","slug":"giet-ham-muon-ve-truong-thanh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=6036","title":{"rendered":"Gi\u1ebft ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Gi\u1ebft s\u1ea1ch c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tham v\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh g\u00e2y tai ho\u1ea1 ch\u00ed t\u1eed nh\u01b0 tham v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u01a1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u00f2n h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 k\u00ec l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ngay c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m linh sau r\u1ed1t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. D\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta ham mu\u1ed1n ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta ham mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang\u2026 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1eefa c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1\u00a0<em>tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.\u00a0<\/em>Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng: c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1edbi qua ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00e1c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng qua ham mu\u1ed1n; tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1edbi khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1edbi t\u1eeb n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1edbi t\u1eeb n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0\u00a0<em>kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c;\u00a0<\/em>h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n? Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y l\u1edbn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n n\u00f3 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ee9c tranh c\u1ee7a ho\u1ea1 s\u0129 \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ee9c tranh. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o do ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m ra, nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n: h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 t\u00e2m linh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u1eafc v\u00e0o b\u1eaby. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u2013 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f2n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u2013 xin l\u01b0u \u00fd, t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng cho d\u00f9\u00a0<em>th\u00f4ng qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n\u00a0<\/em>b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u2013 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady, v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00ed do b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3: b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi kinh n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Gi\u1ebft s\u1ea1ch c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 hoa tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng lo \u00e2u h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf h\u1ed3n n\u00f3 ra kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o n\u1ee5 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh hoa, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0\u00a0<em>\u2026 lo \u00e2u h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf h\u1ed3n n\u00f3 ra kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed.\u00a0<\/em>N\u1ee5 ch\u1ec9 h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c n\u1edf ra, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec\u00a0<em>n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o\u00a0<\/em>\u0111\u1ec3 n\u1edf ra. Kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0 th\u1ebf yoga, kh\u00f4ng k\u0129 thu\u1eadt th\u1edf \u2013 n\u1ee5 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 khao kh\u00e1t s\u00e2u r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u1ea3 ra theo gi\u00f3. S\u1ef1 h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c; n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i. N\u1ee5 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee3i: m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 gi\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u1ee5 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hoa. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hoa, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, k\u0129 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eadt ch\u00fa n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>m\u1edf h\u1ed3n \u00f4ng cho c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>c\u00e1i k\u00e9o t\u1edbi s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u1ec3u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o t\u1eeb ph\u00eda b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng; ch\u1ec9 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u1ebfu c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf n\u00e0o. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1eeda m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng g\u00f5 c\u1eeda v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y c\u1eeda b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng, \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng t\u1edbi t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf nh\u00e0; \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1edbn t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o cho n\u00f3 v\u00e0o; r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ed7 cho kh\u00e1ch \u1edf l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i m\u1edf qua \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0o; r\u1eb1ng c\u1eeda ra v\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1eebng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 \u2013 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm n\u00f3 tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n; v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m s\u1ebd b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n b\u1edfi t\u00ednh h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng m\u1edbi mang ra s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft; trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn b\u1edfi \u0111am m\u00ea m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m c\u1ee1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 n\u1eafm c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng trong n\u1eafm tay c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1eafm tay c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf, c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng kh\u1edbp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng si\u1ebft n\u1eafm tay l\u1ea1i, c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00f3. N\u1eafm tay c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eeba v\u00e0o trong n\u1eafm tay c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean c\u00f3 hai c\u00e1ch tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m, lao \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, qua lao \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. C\u00e1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m v\u00e0 lao \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m m\u1ea1nh b\u1edfi n\u00f3 \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u2013 qua bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i, qua bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf, qua ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, qua l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n; kh\u00f4ng qua lao \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 qua th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i. N\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n trong l\u1eddi nguy\u1ec7n, n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang, n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u01a1i m\u00e0 n\u1ed5i c\u00f9ng d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y c\u1ee7a s\u00f4ng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n m\u1edf. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1i l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra \u2013 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0o. V\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00e2m linh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cn\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c\u201d v\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tu luy\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o tay c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang; th\u1ebf th\u00ec d\u00f9 n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u, d\u00f9 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u2013 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xo\u00e1 b\u1ea1n hay c\u1ee9u b\u1ea1n \u2013 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng s\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng s\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ea1t s\u1eaft, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb n\u00f3 h\u00fat d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nam ch\u00e2m. M\u1ea1t s\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1edbi nam ch\u00e2m \u2013 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nam ch\u00e2m k\u00e9o n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e0 m\u1ea1t s\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng b\u1ecb h\u00fat \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. Khi b\u1ecb h\u00fat, n\u00f3 ch\u1ea1y x\u00f4 v\u1ec1 nam ch\u00e2m \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. V\u00e0 d\u00f9 sao ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o cho m\u1ea1t s\u1eaft ch\u1ea1y x\u00f4 l\u1ea1i theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0 nam ch\u00e2m c\u00e0n kh\u00f4n. Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ea1t s\u1eaft \u0111i.<\/p>\n<p>Kinh n\u00e0y n\u00f3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec tham v\u1ecdng n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t khao kh\u00e1t. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng h\u00e9t v\u00e0 la v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y th\u00f4i: b\u1ea3o s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. M\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh x\u1ea3y ra. Th\u1ef1c ra, th\u1ebf th\u00ec\u00a0<em>duy nh\u1ea5t\u00a0<\/em>vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, c\u00e1i l\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n, x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady. Trong c\u00f5i t\u00e2m linh b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00f9ng k\u00ednh n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi b\u1edfi \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. L\u00ed do duy nh\u1ea5t cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta b\u1eb1ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta; b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi qua \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, qua t\u1eeb bi c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a trong \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00f9ng k\u00ednh n\u00f3i. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd n\u00f3i l\u00e0, \u201cC\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta? Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3 qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra, h\u1ecd\u00a0<em>\u0111\u00e3\u00a0<\/em>l\u00e0m n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. Cho n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129, \u201cTh\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u1eady t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 n\u00f3 khi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00f3,\u201d v\u00ec n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i \u2013 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o d\u00f9 theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u2013 v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111ang l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3; vi\u1ec7c bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m; bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt t\u00e2m linh. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129, \u201cTh\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c ch\u1ed7 h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u1edf, v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129, \u201cV\u1eady l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1edbi. M\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 ng\u1ed3i l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>Ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3 qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u1eebng n\u1ea5y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c: kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf n\u00e0o. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf; nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng quay l\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i b\u1ecb kho\u00e1 k\u00edn trong ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi c\u1eeda ra v\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i. M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng m\u1ecdc v\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mang m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u00e0. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o trong tay b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 mang c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh x\u00e2m l\u1ea5n: n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1 c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee3i; n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee3i tr\u00ean b\u1eadu c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n m\u1edf c\u1eeda, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u1edf ngay ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ng\u1ed3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, h\u1ebft ki\u1ebfp n\u1ecd t\u1edbi ki\u1ebfp kia. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1eeda m\u1edf \u0111i.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1edf, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng m\u1edf c\u1eeda v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i, \u201cC\u1eeda m\u1edf r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y m\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng t\u1edbi!\u201d B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng khi m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i, n\u1ebfu c\u1eeda \u0111ang m\u1edf n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng quay \u0111i.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u1eddi gian ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i. Khi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi v\u00e0 c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1edf \u2013 c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng \u1edf ngay c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ki\u00ean tr\u00ec ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i n\u00f3, h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c \u2013 khi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 c\u1eeda l\u00e0 m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. Cho d\u00f9 c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1edf v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u201cC\u1eeda m\u1edf r\u1ed3i nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi,\u201d th\u1ebf th\u00ec bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ho\u1eb7c c\u1eeda ch\u01b0a m\u1edf v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang m\u01a1 r\u1eb1ng c\u1eeda m\u1edf, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf c\u1eeda m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u00edt, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 t\u1edbi. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i t\u1edbi! Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ee3, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 t\u1edbi trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, th\u1ebf th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang v\u1eady b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n<p>\u1ede Sri Lanka m\u1ed9t Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng thuy\u1ebft gi\u1ea3ng cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m. Th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, \u201cTa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c \u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u trong th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u. Gi\u1edd ng\u00e0y ra \u0111i c\u1ee7a ta g\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i. Ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Cho n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ta ch\u1ebft ta s\u1ebd cho c\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. Ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n, thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o trong c\u00e1c \u00f4ng m\u00e0 h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c c\u00f3 n\u00f3, ta s\u1ebd trao n\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn l\u1eabn nhau \u0111\u1ec3 xem ai s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady. H\u1ecd ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0 th\u1ea3m ho\u1ea1 \u1edf c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd! Duy nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ebd gi\u01a1 tay v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201c\u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y: kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00f4m nay. Xin n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, ai bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3! T\u00f4i d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t mu\u1ed1n ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m; nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c th\u1ebf v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a th\u1ebf, l\u00e0m cho con c\u00e1i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u2013 v\u00e0 b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u1ed1m \u2013 cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Xin th\u1ea7y c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u cho! Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i: m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n, cho n\u00ean xin ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c cho t\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd lo ngh\u0129 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n h\u00f4m nay, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. M\u1edbi m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc tr\u01b0\u1edbc,\u00a0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u2013 v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 th\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 lo ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 n\u00f3 ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1eafc v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u lo ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c: \u201cTr\u1eddi, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb m\u1eafc v\u00e0o r\u1ed3i! L\u00e0m sao v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, c\u00e1i m\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ec7t n\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb1ng sau th\u00ec sao? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n ch\u0103m nom t\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi, \u201cV\u1ed9i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi? \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. V\u00e0 b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u2013 v\u1ed9i g\u00ec? Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. Ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh s\u1edbm, trong khi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u1eddi gian, ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian; nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y, th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1eddi gian, v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. T\u00f4i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i th\u1ea7y.\u201d Cho n\u00ean n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y th\u00f4i \u2013 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u2013 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m trong thi\u1ec1n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0y. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. T\u00ednh Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi qua b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i t\u00ednh T\u00ednh Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf g\u00ec v\u1eady \u2013 c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi qua ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p?<\/p>\n<p>T\u00ednh Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi qua b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f5i kh\u00f4ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra trong\u00a0<em>v\u00f4 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p<\/em>. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1edfi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p. \u1ed4 kho\u00e1 tr\u00ean c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7. Ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 g\u1ec9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t v\u00ec c\u1eeda \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb kho\u00e1 l\u00e2u th\u1ebf. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1eddng; ch\u00fang th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 c\u1eeda n\u1eefa, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u1edf ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee9t ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 \u0111i \u1edf m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 m\u00e0, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ch\u00fang, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang \u2013 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 v\u00e0 c\u1eeda c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u00fd! M\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh: ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i, \u201cC\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra qua m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? Ngay c\u1ea3 ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1edf s\u00e2u trong m\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00fat, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea3y nh\u00f3t xung quanh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u00e9t l\u00ean \u2018Hoo, Hoo\u2019 \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi t\u00ednh Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi qua m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb xo\u00e1 \u0111i b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft cho t\u00ednh Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n cho b\u1ea1n. Qua nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 xo\u00e1 b\u1ea1n \u0111i, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi t\u00ednh Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u2013 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00ednh Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb xo\u00e1 \u0111i, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ebft \u0111i, t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb xua tan; \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb tri\u1ec7t ti\u00eau, tan ra; \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n tan bi\u1ebfn; \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, v\u1edbi c\u1eeda ra v\u00e0o m\u1edf. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00fang, c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u201cTi\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a im l\u1eb7ng\u201d, Ch.4 Ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gi\u1ebft s\u1ea1ch c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh &nbsp; Tham v\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh g\u00e2y tai ho\u1ea1 ch\u00ed t\u1eed nh\u01b0 tham v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u01a1n, &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6037,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[80,57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6036","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ban-nga-ham-muon","category-quan-sat-nhan-biet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6036","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6036"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6036\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6038,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6036\/revisions\/6038"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6037"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6036"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6036"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6036"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}