Lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed. N\u00f3 mang t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ai \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec th\u1ea5y ra r\u1eb1ng trong khi ch\u1ea1y \u0111i, c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 di chuy\u1ec3n c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea1y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u0169ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1y, c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng s\u1ebd \u0111u\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec d\u00f9 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u1ea1y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee9u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 \u2013 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, khi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng, b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee9u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3; sau r\u1ed1t, t\u1ea1i sao c\u1ed1 c\u1ee9u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i?<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t v\u00e0 ngay khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t. Theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00ecm trong s\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ecm; x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd n\u1ed5i tr\u00ean s\u00f4ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ecm, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft n\u1ed5i \u2013 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a s\u00f4ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t phi logic. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u v\u00ec cho d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft ch\u00ecm xu\u1ed1ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 – nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u1ecb ch\u00ecm, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ecm. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft hi\u1ec3u lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a s\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u00f9ng s\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e2m v\u00e0o phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n
V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 g\u00ec m\u00e0 x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft bi\u1ebft c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft? X\u00e1c ch\u1ebft bi\u1ebft ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 trong tay c\u1ee7a s\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, s\u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n ch\u00ecm, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n n\u1ed5i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi s\u00f4ng v\u00e0 trong ch\u00ednh v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 v\u00e0 b\u1ecb ch\u00ecm. S\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5n ch\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh qua v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u00ecm. N\u1ebfu s\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft n\u1ed5i, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n <\/em>n\u1ed5i. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0nh x\u1eed theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch v\u1edbi s\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft h\u00e0nh x\u1eed, s\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o l\u00e0m ch\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c k\u00ec kh\u00f3.<\/p>\n H\u00e0nh x\u1eed d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a sannyasin. V\u00e0 ng\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0nh x\u1eed nh\u01b0 x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. S\u1ed1ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1ee3t ra kh\u1ecfi b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1eafm ch\u1eb7t n\u00f3.<\/p>\n Jesus \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t n\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0 th\u1eeba, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y tr\u1ecf t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed n\u00e0y. L\u1eddi kinh th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Gi\u1ebft ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ebft ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng? \u0110\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ecb ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y b\u1edfi ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 \u2013 nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ebft, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ebft, v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 b\u1ecb d\u00e0nh v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng ai \u0111\u00f3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng ham mu\u1ed1n \u2013 “Ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u1ebft mu\u1ed1n t\u1edbi ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 t\u1edbi. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng lo ngh\u0129, t\u00f4i s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng ch\u1ebft” \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t t\u1eed. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u00ed do cho m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 khi tr\u1eddi r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 m\u00e2y d\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ee5 l\u1ea1i tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi, s\u00e9t m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh t\u1ed1i, \u0111en, th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u00e9t l\u00e0 s\u00e1ng ch\u00f3i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y s\u00e9t th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh m\u00e2y t\u1ed1i l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn s\u1ed1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ch\u1ebft. Tia l\u1eeda c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng chi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng cho ai \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfp h\u00e3i v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 c\u1ee9u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y tia l\u1eeda c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra t\u00ednh b\u1ea5t t\u1eed l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u1ee9u ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ecfi ch\u1ebft! B\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd t\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang ngay \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho ch\u00fang ta tr\u00f4i qua ch\u00fang ta. M\u1eaft ch\u00fang ta m\u00e3i m\u00e3i h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng tr\u00f4i qua ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. \u0110\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. S\u1ed1ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n <\/em>\u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n quay lui, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111i t\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c \u0111i h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i qua trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, ho\u1eb7c \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng lo ngh\u0129 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. N\u00f3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t h\u00fat trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, trong c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a t\u1edbi. V\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng tinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee9 ch\u1ea3y qua, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eafm trong n\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Gi\u1ebft ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1ea1i sao? \u0110\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n Ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. M\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, kh\u00f4ng ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u1ea1: b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong<\/em> kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Ham mu\u1ed1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. V\u1edbi ham mu\u1ed1n, th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n; v\u00ec th\u1eddi gian ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng gian l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai th\u1ebf th\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ebft, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u0111i t\u1edbi k\u1ebft th\u00fac.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 hai kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng: ho\u1eb7c ham mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, ho\u1eb7c, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111i v\u00e0o trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i th\u1ebf n\u1eefa ham mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb r\u01a1i r\u1ee5ng \u0111i \u2013 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t sinh ham mu\u1ed1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00e1i g\u00ec ngay \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd? Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y? Ngay khi b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i n\u00e0o gi\u1eefa ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n cho ng\u00e0y mai, cho ng\u00e0y s\u1eafp t\u1edbi; t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a “ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng” c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf gi\u1eefa n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y mai. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ng\u00e0y hi\u1ec7n th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y, n\u00f3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao kinh n\u00e0y n\u00f3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf “ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng” \u2013 \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ecf ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111i; \u0111\u1ec3 cho tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ch\u00ednh trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt v\u1ec1 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u2013 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm kh\u1ed5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u01a1i th\u00e0nh con m\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh v\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111ang t\u1edbi. C\u00e1i th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i t\u1edbi l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i; c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong th\u00f3i quen s\u1ed1ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u00f4m nay b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, ng\u00e0y mai n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y kia c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o t\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1edf trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai? N\u1ebfu t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi, khi n\u00e0o ao \u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh? K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. S\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. Ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y, kh\u1ed5 c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i gi\u1eadn b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y ham mu\u1ed1n. V\u00e0 khi nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng trong l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 b\u1ecf b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ecf ham mu\u1ed1n \u2013 v\u00ec b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. Ch\u00ednh ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gieo h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eafn m\u0169i t\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u0169i t\u00ean n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a b\u1ecb th\u1ea3 ra kh\u1ecfi cung. Sau khi th\u1ea3 n\u00f3 ra, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eebng m\u0169i t\u00ean n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u1ed5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gieo h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ed3ng c\u00e2y gi\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i thu ho\u1ea1ch qu\u1ea3. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u1ed5 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m ham mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gieo trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng gieo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o h\u00f4m nay, v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n gieo b\u00e2y gi\u1edd s\u1ebd sinh ra qu\u1ea3 \u2013 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00f4m nay th\u00ec ng\u00e0y mai.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng hi\u1ec3u: kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 <\/em>mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ebd bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian s\u1ebd bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, cho d\u00f9 to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat x\u00edu kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ra ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ra b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ch\u1eebng n\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n T\u00ednh to\u00e1n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n cho ch\u00fang ta, qui t\u1eafc ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n cho ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf. Ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng: h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin n\u00f3.<\/p>\n L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng ai h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 ta v\u00ec ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.” Ng\u1ecdc qu\u00ed tr\u00fat xu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin. Ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi xin b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi xin th\u00ec m\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf? T\u00f4i g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin c\u00e1i g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin ngay c\u1ea3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac; v\u00e0 t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Cho n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin, v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf b\u00ean trong. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y Ph\u1eadt \u2013 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i \u0103n xin tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi b\u00ecnh b\u00e1t \u0103n xin nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf th\u1ef1c. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n Th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Trong ba ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u00e0o, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i xem l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp v\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 xem r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n tan bi\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7u xin s\u1ef1 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 xem m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n tr\u00fat xu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Xin th\u1eed \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u2013 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m s\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t ki\u1ebfn c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u1ea5t trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3: kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin an b\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi xin s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi xin nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u1eed kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin v\u00e0 xem. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n tin v\u00e0o t\u00f4i; c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mang k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0o \u2013 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00f3. Trong v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3, l\u00e0m quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t trong th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin an b\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n \u2013 v\u00e0 xem \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin n\u00f3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 h\u1ecfi xin n\u00f3 l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. N\u1ebfu ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra, r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh qua vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecfi xin m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, th\u1ebf th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecfi xin c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi xin \u2013 d\u1ea7u sao \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecfi. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu l\u1eddi kinh phi th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf tham v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111i\u00ean l\u00e0m sao kh\u00f4ng? Ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u1eadp ph\u00e1p, ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ngh\u1ecb vi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc, ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng trong ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 \u2013 h\u1ecd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111i\u00ean l\u00e0m sao v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3! C\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd! H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1ee7, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i: su\u1ed1t hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u00e2m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c g\u00ec v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd!<\/p>\n Kinh n\u00e0y n\u00f3i b\u1ecf tham v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n m\u1eabn nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng. C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham v\u1ecdng ch\u1ea1y \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng theo ti\u1ec1n, theo quy\u1ec1n, theo danh \u2013 t\u00ednh \u0111i\u00ean n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb ki\u1ec3u \u0111i\u00ean n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm ti\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng? Khi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i thi\u1ec1n, b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, “\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra.” Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1y theo ti\u1ec1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, “N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra.” Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3.<\/p>\n Trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm b\u1ee5i b\u1ea9n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3. Trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm n\u01b0\u1edbc cam l\u1ed3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec.<\/p>\n H\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i \u2013 ngay c\u1ea3 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean \u0111u\u1ed5i theo ti\u1ec1n. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111i\u00ean v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n nh\u01b0ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t th\u1ea5m \u0111\u1eabm t\u00ednh \u0111i\u00ean n\u00e0y. T\u00ednh \u0111i\u00ean n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00f9ng lo\u1ea1i \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Nh\u00ecn Majnu, anh \u1ea5y \u0111i\u00ean l\u00e0m sao v\u00ec Laila! N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau say \u0111\u1eafm Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch, ai s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u00ecm b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i? T\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf b\u1ea1n? Nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh Majnus cho Laila, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean \u0111u\u1ed5i theo nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean \u0111u\u1ed5i theo c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. Khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng, h\u1ecd t\u1ecf ra th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i… T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u00e3i c\u00e1c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. Anh ta t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Xin th\u1ea7y gi\u00fap t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 cho thi\u1ec1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra cho t\u00f4i.”<\/p>\n T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o anh ta, “Khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n thi\u1ec1n b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi xin gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u1eeb n\u00e0y gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 <\/em>l\u00e0 c\u00e1i v\u1ecf che \u0111\u1eady? \u0110\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111i l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc trong ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 trong thi\u1ec1n, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y cho b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong thi\u1ec1n? B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi l\u1eddi v\u00e0 b\u00e0i n\u00f3i.” Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i n\u00f3i cho anh ta, “Nh\u1edb trong \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 thi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec n\u00f3, v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1edbi.”<\/p>\n Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed; n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ebfm, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i t\u1edbi n\u00f3. V\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng keo ki\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u00ean t\u00e2m m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 \u2013 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed, cho n\u00ean l\u00e0m sao vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed t\u1ed1i cao v\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c t\u1ed1i cao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed? L\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y n\u00f3i bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf tham v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n K\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u00f3 trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean v\u1edbi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o. Bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ham mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, s\u1ed1ng trong h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2013 t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao. Khi th\u1edf, th\u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb; n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u01a1 tay l\u00ean, l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb; n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u1ed3i, l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, l\u00e0m n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf… N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n qu\u00e9t b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb n\u1eefa \u2013 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3.<\/p>\n B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh; \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng xoay x\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1c l\u00ed do cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00ecm b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1ed1i. Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00edch th\u00e2n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 sai, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m, l\u00e0m n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u1edf tr\u1ea1i n\u00e0y, ch\u0103m ch\u00fa v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. S\u1ed1ng <\/em>m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra, t\u00ecm ra ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecf b\u00e1nh m\u00ec kh\u00f4 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2013 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm ra n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, ngay c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu kh\u00e1t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc cho b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ebf th\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng r\u00e2m c\u1ee7a c\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho cung \u0111i\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 ti\u1ebfng h\u00f3t c\u1ee7a chim bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, hay m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc, hay c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4i sao ban \u0111\u00eam, hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u1ed9t l\u00e0n gi\u00f3 nh\u1ecf, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00fat h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac xu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi xin h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2013 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111i. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng trong b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n T\u00ecm trong m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 quanh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y ch\u1ed7 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 <\/em>\u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc t\u1eeb n\u00f3 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o s\u1ebd ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3. V\u1eaft ki\u1ec7t n\u00f3. D\u00f9 c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, v\u1eaft ki\u1ec7t n\u00f3! Khi b\u1ea1n u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc, khi b\u1ea1n \u0103n th\u1ee9c \u0103n, khi b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hay ng\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1edf, ngay c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf, s\u1ed1ng trong h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. L\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thu th\u1eadp t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u00f3. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c m\u1ecdi t\u00fai \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 th\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y \u2013 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai ng\u1ed3i g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1edfi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n \u0111i, b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd \u0111i theo b\u1ea1n: b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o, s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3, hoa c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m vui s\u1ebd n\u1edf bung \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chia s\u1ebb n\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, vui v\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chia s\u1ebb theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u lan to\u1ea3 kh\u1eafp xung quanh b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1c con s\u00f3ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u00e0i ca ni\u1ec1m vui s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t to\u1ea3 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi; h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n Xin hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y cho \u0111\u00fang. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi n\u00f3i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. H\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y. C\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ecb thi\u1ebfu trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y? Kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i quanh b\u1ea1n chim \u0111ang h\u00f3t, c\u00e1c tia s\u00e1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u0111ang chi\u1ebfu l\u00ean b\u1ea1n, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang n\u1edf hoa, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng. T\u1ea1i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu ni\u1ec1m vui l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7y ni\u1ec1m vui.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ch\u00ednh kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1eebng ham mu\u1ed1n. Tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, im l\u1eb7ng… th\u1ebf th\u00ec ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n? Kinh n\u00e0y n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n M\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd <\/em>c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd \u2013 b\u1ea1n <\/em>l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb \u201cTi\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a im l\u1eb7ng\u201d, Ch.2 Ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed. N\u00f3 mang t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ai \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6011,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[80,66],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ban-nga-ham-muon","category-cach-song-va-chet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6010","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6010"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6010\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6012,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6010\/revisions\/6012"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6011"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6010"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6010"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6010"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}