{"id":6004,"date":"2026-03-24T21:45:11","date_gmt":"2026-03-24T14:45:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=6004"},"modified":"2026-03-24T21:45:16","modified_gmt":"2026-03-24T14:45:16","slug":"tham-vong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=6004","title":{"rendered":"Tham v\u1ecdng"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft tham v\u1ecdng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd n\u00f3i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ecdi th\u1ea7y tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9a trong l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft tham v\u1ecdng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tham v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t Rockefeller, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t Einstein hay m\u1ed9t Ph\u1eadt hay m\u1ed9t Mahavira \u2013 ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i \u0111i\u00ean l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3. L\u1eddi kinh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft tham v\u1ecdng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea1i sao? V\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 v\u00ec n\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ao \u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn ra t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f3. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ao \u01b0\u1edbc tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: hoa h\u1ed3ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 hoa sen. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hoa sen, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. V\u00e0 trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 n\u00e0y n\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0 hoa h\u1ed3ng; n\u00f3i g\u00ec t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hoa sen!<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eady; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ngay ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. S\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3 ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m ra \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00e1c ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 c\u00f3 thi\u00ean t\u00e0i b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi m\u00e0 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd. S\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 m\u1edbi. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho t\u1eebng v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 song. Rama c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p \u2013 nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y sao? V\u00e0 ngh\u0129: n\u1ebfu nhi\u1ec1u Rama m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra h\u1ecd ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 ch\u00e1n n\u1eefa! B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y Rama nh\u01b0ng trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u0110\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i \u2013 m\u1ed9t Rama l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i! V\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1ea1t nh\u1ebdo. S\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1ea1t nh\u1ebdo.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t Rama, m\u1ed9t Krishna hay m\u1ed9t Ph\u1eadt. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea7n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c; c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sau \u0111\u00e2y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y, kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. Duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu; ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n ra, kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ecf tham v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft r\u1ec5 trong t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tham v\u1ecdng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1y quanh b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 n\u00f3i, \u201cCh\u1ea1y \u0111i, nhanh l\u00ean, l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3!\u201d M\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i che \u0111\u1eady \u2013 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 v\u1eady, s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1ea9n k\u00edn b\u00ean trong nh\u01b0 h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m, v\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i d\u00e1n hoa gi\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft tham v\u1ecdng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ec9 qu\u00ean \u0111i c\u00e1i \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean ngh\u0129 ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i m\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ra b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f3 \u2013 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed: r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec b\u1ea3n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00e2m linh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1c l\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng; vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00e2m linh l\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t l\u1ed9 ra.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i \u2013 ch\u00ednh gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat n\u00e0y. Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t li c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam v\u00e0o n\u00f3 \u2013 thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y \u0111i. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec r\u00e1c r\u01b0\u1edfi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu th\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam v\u00e0o. C\u00f3 kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea9n k\u00edn b\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ed1ng r\u00e1c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng sao ch\u00e9p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. N\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft tham v\u1ecdng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Tham v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 tai ho\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u0111ang v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean tr\u00ean b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>N\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111i t\u00ecm th\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a \u0111i xa t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cao h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch li\u00ean t\u1ee5c.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>V\u1eady m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh b\u1ee5i v\u00e0 tro trong m\u1ed3m; nh\u01b0 ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 xa r\u1eddi, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ra cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a tham v\u1ecdng. C\u00f3 m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5, gi\u1eef ch\u1eb7t ch\u00fang ta trong n\u1eafm gi\u1eef c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb n\u00e9m quanh xo\u00e1y l\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng \u0111i l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1eb7t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng gi\u1ed1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, m\u1eb7t th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng \u0111i l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1eb7t th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a tham v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi: \u201cL\u00e0m sao nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 to h\u01a1n nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m, l\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng h\u01a1n h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, l\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i?\u201d B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3. Trong khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n trong so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u2013 v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec so s\u00e1nh n\u00e0o gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. M\u1ecdi so s\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111i l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? V\u00ec t\u1edbi l\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u0111i l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng\u2026 \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 trong khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ea3n b\u1ed9 d\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e9t r\u00e1c \u0111ang qu\u00e9t s\u1ea1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t tham v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n \u2013 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3. Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ghen t\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1ebf. Ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. N\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u00e0y bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Duy nh\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua \u0111i l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c. Duy nh\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u201cM\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu \u2013 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111i l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc. M\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9; v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh; hoa c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i n\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, d\u00f9 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lo\u1ea1i g\u00ec. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 hoa c\u1ecf \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i n\u1edf hoa \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ra m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 trong c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Trong \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Khi m\u1ed9t hoa h\u1ed3ng n\u1edf hoa, hoa h\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c, l\u1edbn h\u01a1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u1edf ra \u1edf l\u00e2n c\u1eadn. Nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 hoa h\u1ed3ng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 hoa nh\u1ecf, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 \u2013 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. N\u00f3 nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa trong gi\u00f3 h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 hoa l\u1edbn v\u1eady.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0, M\u1ee5c Ch\u00e2u. Ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0m sao anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e1p, \u201cXin \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u00e3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e3.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y. Anh ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ec7t, anh ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00e1n \u2013 ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1i khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i c\u1ea3, anh ta n\u00f3i, \u201cB\u00e2y gi\u1edd xin th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1eebng tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n th\u00eam n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y d\u00e0i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i, l\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng th\u1ea7y?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 M\u1ee5c Ch\u00e2u n\u00f3i, \u201c\u0110i ra ngo\u00e0i c\u00f9ng ta.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2y b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u2013 v\u00e0i c\u00e2y nh\u1ecf, v\u00e0i c\u00e2y l\u1edbn. M\u1ee5c Ch\u00e2u n\u00f3i, \u201cNh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea5y, c\u00e2y n\u00e0y nh\u1ecf, c\u00e2y n\u00e0y l\u1edbn. Ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd nghe hai c\u00e2y n\u00e0y th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. C\u00e2y nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi c\u00e2y l\u1edbn l\u00e0m sao n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1edbn, m\u00e0 c\u00e2y l\u1edbn c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi c\u00e2y nh\u1ecf l\u00e0m sao n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1ecf. V\u00ec hoa n\u1edf ra tr\u00ean c\u00e2y nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng n\u1edf ra tr\u00ean c\u00e2y l\u1edbn, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t ng\u00e1t h\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00e2y l\u1edbn v\u01b0\u01a1n cao tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e2y nh\u1ecf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng cao. Nh\u01b0ng hai c\u00e2y n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi nhau v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang v\u1edbi nhau. T\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m t\u1edbi gi\u1edd ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u1edf g\u1ea7n c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ta: ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd nghe b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i n\u00e0o gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecfi n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng; \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t g\u00ec trong ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, v\u00ec t\u1eebng c\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. D\u00f9 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cN\u1ebfu \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh \u00f4ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi ta \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi ta. \u00d4ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 khi ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng \u00f4ng, t\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng h\u1ecfi ta c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng ta?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y n\u00f3i, \u201cT\u00f4i h\u1ecfi b\u1edfi v\u00ec th\u1ea7y an b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c th\u1ebf, c\u00f2n t\u00f4i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 lo ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng th\u1ea7y!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ee5c Ch\u00e2u n\u00f3i, \u201cTa \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i cho \u00f4ng m\u1ed9t m\u1eb9o, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng nghe n\u00f3. Ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i cho \u00f4ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p\u2026 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi ta n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e3 lo ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh v\u00ec ta c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t khi ta \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Trong so s\u00e1nh, b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, ghen t\u1ecb v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh n\u1eb1m \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 cho n\u00ean b\u1ecf so s\u00e1nh \u0111i! Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a trong \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0 v\u1eady \u0111i. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi duy nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u2013 l\u00e0m sao bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n<p>\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t Ph\u1eadt, m\u1ed9t Rama hay m\u1ed9t Krishna. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u \u2013 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed3i. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh. Duy nh\u1ea5t h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc ra. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc hay sau b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng ai \u1edf sau hay \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai; m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u1edf t\u1ea1i v\u1ecb tr\u00ed ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u1edf hoa t\u1eeb n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m \u1ea9n trong l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u1ea3 ra. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u201cTi\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a im l\u1eb7ng\u201d, Ch.1 Tham v\u1ecdng<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft tham v\u1ecdng. &nbsp; \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd n\u00f3i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6005,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[80,33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6004","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ban-nga-ham-muon","category-than-the-tam-tri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6004"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6004\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6006,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6004\/revisions\/6006"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6005"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}