{"id":4917,"date":"2025-05-05T23:10:36","date_gmt":"2025-05-05T16:10:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=4917"},"modified":"2025-10-27T07:50:17","modified_gmt":"2025-10-27T00:50:17","slug":"ban-nga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=4917","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Vinh v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i; qu\u00ed v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u00e2n<\/em>.”<\/p>\n

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L\u00ed do g\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u1eb1ng sau ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u tr\u00ean? B\u1ecb m\u1ea5t danh gi\u00e1 sau khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hoan ngh\u00eanh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t khen v\u00e0 t\u00f4n vinh, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 khi b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t, l\u00e0m n\u1ea3y sinh s\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3m nguy v\u00f4 t\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u1ea9n trong ti\u1ebfng v\u1ecdng quanh l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y. Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 vinh v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t s\u1ee7ng c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n vinh khi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ecbnh n\u1ecdt v\u00e0 t\u00e2ng b\u1ed1c. Nh\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y khi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb xem th\u01b0\u1eddng hay b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u00c2n s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t s\u1ee7ng c\u1ea3 hai l\u00e0 c\u00e1c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c, l\u00e0 phi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec. C\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, l\u00e0 atman. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta tin b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0, c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u1ebd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. V\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta d\u1ed1t to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 trung t\u00e2m \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c; v\u00e0 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trung t\u00e2m, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra trung t\u00e2m gi\u1ea3 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta xoay quanh trung t\u00e2m gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 gi\u1eef b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng. Trung t\u00e2m gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng trung t\u00e2m n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta coi l\u00e0 khen, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 g\u00e2y cho n\u00f3 \u0111au ch\u00fang ta coi nh\u01b0 nh\u1ee5c. V\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3, m\u1ecdi kinh nghi\u1ec7m x\u1ea3y ra qua n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 khen ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e2ng l\u00e2ng; khi ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ea ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au.” \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c g\u00e2y ra vui th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c g\u00e2y ra \u0111au, nh\u01b0ng c\u0103n nguy\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi vui th\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111au l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta \u2013 v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui th\u00edch hay \u0111au t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui th\u00edch hay \u0111au tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf trong ananda (ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c).<\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta vui hay bu\u1ed3n. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb b\u1eaft gi\u1eef trong tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n n\u1ed9p ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fat x\u00edu v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1edbi vui ho\u1eb7c bu\u1ed3n. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fat x\u00edu v\u00e0 m\u1eaft ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eabm l\u1ec7; h\u01a1i ch\u00fat thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 m\u1eaft ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea1ng r\u1ee1 v\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1i l\u00ed b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u1edf s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta: n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. V\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n hay th\u00f9, d\u00f9 khen hay ch\u00ea, ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c g\u00e2y ra \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trung t\u00e2m ch\u00ednh c\u1ed1ng (atman) c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 trung t\u00e2m gi\u1ea3, trung t\u00e2m r\u1edfm, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a trung t\u00e2m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

C\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y! T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129, “N\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.” \u0110i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t n\u1ebfu xua \u0111u\u1ed5i \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y \u0111i. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean trong ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u1eebng l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 th\u1ebf v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e0o b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i qua tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m b\u1ea1n, vai b\u1ea1n r\u0169 xu\u1ed1ng. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen, b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y hoa; khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ch\u00ea, m\u1ecdi ni\u1ec1m vui ch\u1ebft \u0111i b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, m\u1ecdi hoa h\u00e9o v\u00e0 t\u00e0n \u0111i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o l\u00ean b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, cho d\u00f9 n\u00f3 \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1edfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 li\u00eau c\u1ee7a r\u1eebng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n, \u0111\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu im l\u1eb7ng trong ph\u00f2ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n lo \u00e2u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh. Kh\u00f3 cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong ch\u1ed7 h\u1ebbo l\u00e1nh; n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 m\u1ecdi ph\u00fat. C\u0169ng v\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1ee5c hay th\u1ea5t s\u1ee7ng, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 khen, ch\u1eedi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ed7 h\u1ebbo l\u00e1nh l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh t\u00f4i, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i, anh ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u00f4i; v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu anh ta ch\u1eedi t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec anh ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh n\u1ebfu t\u00ean t\u00f4i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m trong b\u00e1o ch\u00ed. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i b\u1ecb b\u1eaft b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i trong xi\u1ec1ng x\u00edch tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf ch\u1ed7 giam c\u1ea7m \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n

L\u00ed do c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 Mohammed, Jesus, hay Mahavira \u0111i t\u00ecm ch\u1ed7 h\u1ebbo l\u00e1nh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m xem li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec v\u1ebft t\u00edch n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb th\u1ee7 ti\u00eau.<\/p>\n

Mahavira \u1edf ch\u1ed7 h\u1ebbo l\u00e1nh trong m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m. N\u00f3i chung, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn r\u1ea5t b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Mahavira ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c. Trong m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m, Mahavira \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 xem li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 n\u00e0o c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 khao kh\u00e1t d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb r\u1eebng r\u1eadm. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 atman ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, d\u00f9 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111eo v\u00f2ng hoa cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y hay n\u00e9m \u0111\u00e1, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nhau. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 Mahavira \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1, “B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh jinn<\/em>.” T\u1eeb “jinn<\/em>” c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a: ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 chinh ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u00f4mh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho ‘ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c’. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 chinh ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00edch, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00ednh b\u00e0n tay h\u1ecd bao quanh b\u1ea1n. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i trong \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng ch\u0103m nom x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n m\u1ec9a mai l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi n\u1ec1n v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ea1y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u00f2n th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, r\u1eb1ng nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ea1o ra cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. B\u1ed1 b\u1ea3o con trai, “N\u1ebfu con t\u00ecm vinh v\u00e0 khen tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y, trau d\u1ed3i khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n \u0111i.” Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, “\u00d4ng c\u00e0ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, c\u00e0ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen.” B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng quan t\u00e2m v\u00ec ch\u00ednh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen. Cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Ch\u00fang ta k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. Do v\u1eady, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta mang trang \u0111i\u1ec3m khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n!<\/p>\n

X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 v\u00ec n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef vi\u1ec7c n\u1eafm gi\u1eef c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 tr\u00ean b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1eady, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi c\u00e1c chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u2013 t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 \u2013 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch. C\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a sadhu, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t trung t\u00e2m b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta, c\u00e1i b\u1ecb cai qu\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t b\u1edfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i: “Khen v\u00e0 ch\u00ea d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i; nh\u01b0ng l\u00ed do c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u00ean trong c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.” Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao v\u00e0o ch\u1eedi t\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng; s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u0103ng v\u00e0o t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen, khen trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1; nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Khen l\u00e0 th\u1ee9c \u0103n cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u1eedi c\u0169ng v\u1eady, theo c\u00e1ch ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh. L\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Bernard Shaw, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u1edf b\u00ean trong t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u00e0o c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho ch\u1ed7 th\u1ee9 hai \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u01b0a th\u00edch ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c, n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.” Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 c\u00f9ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y: ch\u1ed7 th\u1ee9 hai tr\u00ean c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi, hay ch\u1ed7 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u1edf \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c? V\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a b\u00ean trong s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, cho d\u00f9 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Trong s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e8o l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh, ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c th\u1ef1c quanh ch\u00fang ta. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta sung s\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ecdi kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u1ebfm nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 thu th\u1eadp c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c quanh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0m sao. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham v\u1ecdng trong ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb — ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 thu th\u1eadp nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c quanh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0m sao! Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ham mu\u1ed1n, m\u1ed9t \u00e1m \u1ea3nh, b\u1eaft gi\u1eef ng\u01b0\u1eddi: l\u00e0m sao \u1edf ngay tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Cho d\u00f9 \u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9c cao nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi danh v\u1ecdng, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111au.” T\u1ea1i sao? V\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u khen, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. C\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn l\u00fac kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u00f3, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng khen. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n lan r\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 xa th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng danh v\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec n\u1ebfu so v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tinh th\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c phi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7 r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a t\u1edbi, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i trong m\u1eaft t\u00f4i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi trong m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen v\u00e0 t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, v\u00ec khen gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c \u0103n cho n\u00f3. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ea5p thu m\u1ecdi khen v\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 v\u1eabn \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ea1, v\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi khen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng l\u00ean t\u00f4i, l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng cho t\u00f4i vui th\u00edch v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00eam c\u00f9ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u00f3 (n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00eam n\u1eefa), t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. B\u1ea1n ch\u00fac t\u00f4i kho\u1ebb h\u00f4m nay; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00ec di\u1ec7u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e0o t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu, ng\u00e0y mai, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 c\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i n\u00f3 thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00fang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i; nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ngu\u1ed3n \u0111au. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, c\u00f3 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u khen, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u khen, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafm t\u1edbi theo h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ee3 t\u1edbi \u2013 s\u1ee3 khen n\u00e0y b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng \u0111i kh\u1ecfi t\u00f4i; s\u1ee3 vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i m\u1ea5t n\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ecn gi\u1eef v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m n\u1ea3y sinh s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 \u0111au n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thanh th\u1ea3n ngay c\u1ea3 sau khi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n h\u01a1n, kh\u1ed5 h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 ch\u00ea tr\u00fat \u0111\u1ea7y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eb1ng kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111au.” \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 ch\u00ea g\u00e2y ra \u0111au theo c\u00f9ng t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i khen.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ngh\u00ecn b\u1ed1n tr\u0103m n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, B\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1t ma \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o Trung Qu\u1ed1c. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t rishi \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9. H\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c v\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u1edf bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Vua V\u0169 c\u1ee7a Trung Qu\u1ed1c c\u0169ng ph\u1ee7 ph\u1ee5c d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Khi nh\u00e0 vua nh\u00ecn l\u00ean \u00f4ng rishi, \u00f4ng ta s\u1eefng s\u1edd — v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng v\u1eady. B\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1t ma \u0111i m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc gi\u1ea7y tr\u00ean ch\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t chi\u1ebfc kia l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh. Nh\u00e0 vua n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, “Ta l\u00fang t\u00fang ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t chi\u1ebfc gi\u1ea7y l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f4ng!”<\/p>\n

B\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1t ma \u0111\u00e1p, “\u0110i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n. Ta \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u00e0 vua s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea7u d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n ta, cho n\u00ean ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. V\u00ec s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng b\u1ecb khu\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea3o, ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t chi\u1ebfc gi\u1ea7y l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u. Ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3m c\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta v\u1edbi tay ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ta. Ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 \u00fd lau s\u1ea1ch s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Giao d\u1ecbch cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn n\u00e0y gi\u1edd qua r\u1ed3i. Ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn khen c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Bi\u1ebft cho r\u00f5, nh\u00e0 vua, n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng n\u00e9m d\u00e9p v\u00e0o ta ng\u00e0y mai, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi ta ch\u00fat n\u00e0o v\u00ec ta \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc d\u00e9p tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ta.”<\/p>\n

Mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a ch\u00ea c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng ch\u00ea t\u1edbi c\u00f9ng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i mong \u0111\u1ee3i khen. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111au trong ch\u00ea. \u0110au do ch\u00ea n\u1eb1m trong vi\u1ec7c mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u00f4ng tr\u1ea1ng. Khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1eedi t\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eedi g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n quay ngo\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ch\u1eedi t\u00f4i. Khen cho n\u1ea3y sinh \u0111au v\u00e0 s\u1ee3. Mong \u0111\u1ee3i khen \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p th\u00eam tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho ch\u00ea v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh n\u1eb7ng.<\/p>\n

L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Khen v\u00e0 ch\u00ea c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng.” Ch\u00ea sinh ra \u0111au, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00ec n\u00f3 nh\u1ed5 b\u1eadt r\u1ec5 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Nh\u01b0ng khen c\u0169ng sinh ra n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u0103n nguy\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00ea. L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00ea \u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eebng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd khen.”<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ebd ch\u00ea ch\u00fang ta, nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ph\u1ea7n kia c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. Ch\u00ednh \u1edf ph\u1ea7n kia n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o. Mong \u0111\u1ee3i vinh m\u1ed9t li tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u0103m b\u01b0\u1edbc cho nh\u1ee5c. L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i: “Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ed3i l\u00ean ngai v\u00e0ng, v\u00ec \u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ecb l\u1eadt nh\u00e0o.” \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u0169ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Xem th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1eafng l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1eebng t\u00ecm vinh. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn nh\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? N\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi vinh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1ee5c. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 c\u1ee9u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ecfi th\u1ea5t s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n cho vinh. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n vinh, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta c\u01b0 x\u1eed theo t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7. Ch\u00fang ta m\u00ea \u0111\u1eafm trong m\u1ecdi tr\u00f2 ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea1o v\u00e0 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i m\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng, L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u0111i theo tu luy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh kh\u00f3 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 v\u00f4 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c b\u00ean trong bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3, m\u1eb7c cho m\u1ecdi th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u00ecnh b\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 bao nhi\u00eau th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00fat v\u00e0o, n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng r\u1ed7ng. C\u01a1n kh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

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T\u1eeb \u201cCon \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1o\u201d, T.3, Ch.8 Hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n: vinh v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c, tham v\u00e0 s\u1ee3<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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