M\u1ed1i r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c sinh \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u0103n minh ho\u00e1 theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3: c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e1ch ng\u1ed3i, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee9ng, c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e2n v\u00e2n. M\u1ecdi quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m s\u1eb5n, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ch\u00fang ta l\u1edbn l\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u1edbn l\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn r\u1ea5t quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u1ecd d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00fai l\u1ea1y v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd tin, v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ec9 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 trao cho n\u00f3. V\u00e0 v\u00ec nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra b\u00ean trong n\u00f3 \u2013 v\u00ec nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u1edfm. \u0110au kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 r\u1edfm.<\/p>\n
Ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra t\u1eeb ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, t\u1eeb c\u00e1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u00ecm t\u00ednh t\u00e2m linh, t\u00ecm \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang, tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7, yoga, thi\u1ec1n. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ecdc kh\u1eafp xung quanh d\u00f2ng su\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, hay t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00e1 l\u1edbn \u0111ang c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf su\u1ed1i n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang, \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi an b\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee5ng t\u1edbi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1edf trong phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb g\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u1edbn v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 v\u1eady. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t n\u00e0y v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3.<\/p>\n
Nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i v\u1eabn di\u1ec5n ra v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i, “B\u1ecf b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111i” nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u2013 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch Hindu, ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch M\u00f4 ha m\u00e9t gi\u00e1o; ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi Jaina, v\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea1o ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t v\u1edbi n\u00f3, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, “\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 v\u1eady.”<\/p>\n
C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf n\u00f3. Ngay c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n xoay x\u1edf l\u00e0m v\u00e0i l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng trong n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00e0m gi\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1i m\u00e1t nh\u1ecf \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00e9m n\u00f3 \u0111i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee7 cho b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1edfi ra v\u00e0 \u0111eo v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 n\u00e0y khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i v\u1ee9t \u0111i m\u1ecdi t\u1ea7ng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1ee9t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e2m v\u00e0o phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c l\u1edbn, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng v\u1ee9t \u0111i nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 trong vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u2013 n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
B\u1ecf nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1edfi n\u00f3 ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111eo n\u00f3 l\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vui ch\u01a1i cho b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho n\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, v\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111eo m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1edfi n\u00f3 ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 sang b\u00ean. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang thi\u1ec1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ed3n. Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1edf k\u1ecbch cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u di\u1ec5n trong n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean \u0111ang di\u1ec5n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean trong v\u1edf di\u1ec5n.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u mang t\u00ednh k\u1ecbch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1ea3y sinh. B\u1ea1n l\u00ean m\u1eb7t ra v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00edch m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3, v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec? Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n to\u00e0n \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean b\u1ecf m\u1ebd ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111eo m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec ai? B\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 l\u1eeba ai?<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee9 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t. N\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ea5t b\u00f4i tr\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m tr\u01a1n chu c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m c\u1ecd s\u00e1t. N\u00ean tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u1ecd s\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 gi\u1eef n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao b\u1ecdc quanh b\u1ea1n ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e2ng c\u1ea7n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch; nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. V\u00e0 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o nh\u1eefng tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng ra, huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ed3n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed9 ra, v\u00ec trong ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i n\u00fat n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u00a0b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1n n\u1eb1m \u1ea9n k\u00edn.<\/p>\n
C\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng. B\u1ea1n qu\u00ean r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi su\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft anh ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. V\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ec7 th\u1ebf trong \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c? M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m anh ta t\u1edbi \u1edf c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i. Qu\u00e3ng n\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam t\u00f4i d\u1eady \u0111i ra nh\u00e0 t\u1eafm. T\u00f4i b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n l\u00ean v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, ngay c\u1ea3 trong gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed3m anh ta v\u1eabn m\u1edf ngo\u00e1c trong n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u01a1i ch\u00fat lo \u00e2u. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 anh ta c\u00f3 tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t trong c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c, v\u00ec th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng anh ta th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh cho t\u00f4i v\u00e0 th\u00fa nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng anh ta b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a anh ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i th\u00f3i quen x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u00eam, khi anh ta ng\u1ee7 say, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t anh ta!<\/p>\n
Khi anh ta d\u1eady bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi anh ta v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Anh ta \u0111\u00e1p r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c cho d\u00f9 anh ta mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf n\u00f3, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n khi anh ta m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n anh ta, anh ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Anh ta n\u00f3i, “D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 quai h\u00e0m t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean trong v\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o th\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang.”<\/p>\n
C\u1ee9 tr\u1ea7m t\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i. Ngay sau khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c \u0111i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y hai m\u1eb7t: m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 khi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quay v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p, v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t kia \u2013 m\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 sau khi th\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i quan s\u00e1t m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thi\u1ec1n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t. V\u00e0 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u1ee9 hai khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111i\u00ean, th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i qua c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u2013 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0y, m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, m\u1eb7t th\u1ee9 ba; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng d\u00e0i c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t! T\u00f4i l\u1ea5y tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111eo l\u00ean v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng cho c\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111a d\u1ea1ng. V\u00e0 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u1ee9 t\u01b0, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng y\u00ean t\u0129nh, th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n mang m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i t\u00ednh v\u00f4 m\u1eb7t. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n ch\u00fat n\u00e0o; m\u1ecdi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e9t lo ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ebd gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eady trong th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u; nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eady tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00f3p m\u00e9o b\u1ea1n; hay n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, khi ch\u01b0a ai \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u00edt s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1edbi m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trao cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u1ede Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n, c\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u00ecm “m\u1eb7t nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n” c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1eb7t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u00e0o l\u00fac sinh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, hay m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 sau ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t \u1edf gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb \u201cTi\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a im l\u1eb7ng\u201d, Ch.14 K\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng tim b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
M\u1ed1i r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c sinh \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5432,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cac-khai-niem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4820"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4820\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4822,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4820\/revisions\/4822"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}