M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra trong t\u1ef1 do, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ebft \u0111i trong l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c. B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i qui t\u1eafc v\u00e0 qui \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u lo\u1ea1i hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp quanh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u00e1o gi\u00e1p. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc h\u01a1n. C\u00e1i m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
Tr\u00ean bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1ea1o ra hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1o \u0111\u00e0i, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f2ng th\u1ee7, \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng mong manh, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng, \u0111\u1ec3 an ninh, an to\u00e0n, v\u00e0 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, k\u1ebft \u00e1n, ca ng\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ti\u00eau ch\u00ed, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 \u0111i theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o khu\u00f4n theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o; v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ea1o khu\u00f4n cho n\u00f3 – b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc – v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 h\u1ecdc m\u1ecdi qui t\u1eafc. Ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c – ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i d\u1eady; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh th\u1ed1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ec7 c\u1ed5, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c; n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb hippy, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i sang c\u1ef1c \u0111oan kia, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c – v\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00f9ng th\u1ee9 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1edbi g\u00f3c xa nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u1ed5i d\u1eady ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng qui t\u1eafc. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tu\u00e2n theo qui t\u1eafc, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n v\u00e0o c\u00f9ng qui t\u1eafc. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed9ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t thuy\u1ec1n. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i nhau, quay l\u01b0ng v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u01b0ng thuy\u1ec1n l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qui t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i theo v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qui t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn; m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qui t\u1eafc. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 khu\u00f4n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0103n ho\u00e1 – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 v\u0103n minh v\u00e0 nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a v\u0103n minh v\u00e0 v\u0103n ho\u00e1, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u0103n ho\u00e1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t tr\u00ean c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 qui t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed; l\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb bi, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tu\u00e2n theo l\u1eddi gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n: L\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi! Kh\u00f4ng. L\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1eeb bi ch\u1ea3y kh\u1eafp xung quanh. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3; \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 trong nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb trong chi\u1ec1u m\u1edbi – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng; th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o, ph\u1ea3i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00ed do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3…. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con v\u1eadt. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o; x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb b\u01b0\u1edbc qua – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0: n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i qua; ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u00e0 tr\u00ean n\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0: x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i theo v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t, qui t\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ee1 b\u1ecf.<\/p>\n
Qui t\u1eafc s\u1ebd t\u1edbi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00ec c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. Qui t\u1eafc ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o trong quan h\u1ec7; qui t\u1eafc t\u1edbi c\u00f9ng quan h\u1ec7 – v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh; kh\u00f4ng qui t\u1eafc, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh; nh\u01b0ng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, ngay t\u1eeb h\u01a1i th\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u00f3 l\u1ea5y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c, c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 s\u1ebd bu\u1ed9c n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3c ngay, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c trong v\u00e0i ph\u00fat n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3c v\u00ec ti\u1ebfng kh\u00f3c m\u1edf l\u1ed1i \u0111i qua \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1edf, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m th\u00f4ng h\u1ecdng. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb \u00e9p kh\u00f3c – ngay t\u1eeb h\u01a1i th\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i; nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o khu\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai trong \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu v\u0103n ho\u00e1, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong t\u1ef1 do, bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng qui t\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu\u00e2n theo nh\u01b0ng qui t\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1eefa v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd l\u00e0m: “Nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 con \u0111\u1eebng mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang – m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 con ph\u1ea3i si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t tr\u00ean ch\u00fang.” X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 d\u1ea1y cho c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 v\u0103n minh v\u00e0<\/em> si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t; th\u1ebf th\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u1ea1y si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t th\u1ebf th\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 th\u1ebf t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o trong n\u00f3.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1edbi ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nghe b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n \u1edf ch\u1ed7 cu\u1ed1i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ebft b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa – ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean; v\u00ec trong ch\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i \u0111i v\u00e0o chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. H\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, trong ch\u1ebft b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i \u0111i v\u00e0o trong c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra v\u00e0i ch\u1ed7 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c \u1ed1c \u0111\u1ea3o trong sa m\u1ea1c, n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft v\u00e0 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111i v\u00e0o trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 qu\u00ean x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0o t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong t\u00ednh ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i. Cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n hoang s\u01a1. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n hoang s\u01a1 b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 v\u1eabn r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1edbm \u0111i t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i s\u1ebd k\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u00e0o trong l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n Sufi: M\u1ed9t \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t con l\u1eeba. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n; c\u1ea3 hai \u0111ang b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i c\u00f9ng l\u1eeba c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n Tr\u1ebb con \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111i qua h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00fac kh\u00edch r\u1ed3i c\u01b0\u1eddi to v\u00e0 ch\u00fang n\u00f3i, “Nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu n\u00e0y: h\u1ecd c\u00f3 con l\u1eeba m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb \u0111i c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd v\u00e0 h\u1ecd b\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed9. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u00ean con l\u1eeba ch\u1ee9.”<\/p>\n Nghe nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, “L\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y? – v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd s\u1edbm v\u00e0o th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n, cho n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang n\u00f3i.” Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 leo l\u00ean c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u1eeba v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111i theo sau.<\/p>\n Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i h\u1ecd t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y nh\u00ecn h\u1ecd v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Tr\u00f4ng k\u00eca! – \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u1eeba v\u00e0 c\u1eadu tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n! \u00d4ng gi\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u1eeba.” Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed5i: \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i v\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u1eeba.<\/p>\n Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m kh\u00e1c t\u1edbi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Tr\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1 ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 n\u00f3 hay th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u00ec b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i, c\u00f2n c\u1eadu ta c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u1eeba – \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi qui t\u1eafc!”<\/p>\n V\u1eady l\u00e0m g\u00ec? C\u1ea3 hai quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh rng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng: r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u1eeba; th\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai tr\u00e8o l\u00ean con l\u1eeba. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m kh\u00e1c t\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, “Tr\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh th\u1ebf! Con l\u1eeba \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1ea7n ch\u1ebft – hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1ee1i tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t con l\u1eeba. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00eanh con l\u1eeba tr\u00ean vai h\u1ecd.”<\/p>\n Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con s\u00f4ng v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc c\u1ea7u. H\u1ecd gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n t\u1edbi bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n, cho n\u00ean h\u1ecd ngh\u0129: “T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 trong th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n n\u00e0y, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu.” Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t thanh tre, \u0111\u1eb7t thanh tre l\u00ean vai v\u00e0 kh\u00eanh con l\u1eeba b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch bu\u1ed9c ch\u00e2n n\u00f3 v\u00e0o thanh tre v\u00e0 mang n\u00f3 \u0111i. Con l\u1eeba c\u1ed1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0 l\u1eeba n\u00e0o c\u0169ng v\u1eady ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. N\u00f3 c\u1ed1 tho\u00e1t ra v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb tin v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i. Nh\u01b0ng hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c n\u00f3, cho n\u00ean l\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu ph\u00e9p.<\/p>\n Ngay tr\u00ean c\u1ea7u \u1edf gi\u1eefa gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111i qua v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd bu l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, “Tr\u00f4ng kia, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ngu! Ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady – l\u1eeba l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 mang tr\u00ean vai. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3i sao?”<\/p>\n Nghe theo h\u1ecd – v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1edbn t\u1ee5 l\u1ea1i – con l\u1eeba tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f9ng v\u1eaby, v\u00f9ng v\u1eaby m\u1ea1nh t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 nh\u1ea3y v\u00e0 ng\u00e3 t\u1eeb c\u1ea7u xu\u1ed1ng s\u00f4ng – ch\u1ebft. C\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng – con l\u1eeba \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft. H\u1ecd ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Gi\u1edd nghe theo….”<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng – \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ea7y Sufi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed v\u00e0 \u00f4ng th\u1ea7y gi\u00e0 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 cho anh ta b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi Sufis bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng; h\u1ecd n\u00f3i ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc s\u00e2u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea5y: c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 con l\u1eeba n\u00e0y \u00f4ng s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng nghe theo m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i, v\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3; m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng nghe theo c\u00e1c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng.”<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng nghe theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1ecf qua h\u1ecd, l\u00e0 trung l\u1eadp. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nghe m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u00fac b\u1ea1n theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi trung t\u00e2m b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ec7ch t\u00e2m, l\u1eadp d\u1ecb. T\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Anh n\u00e0y eccentric l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hay: n\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd t\u00e1c r\u1eddi trung t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1eadp d\u1ecb, t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi trung t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111ang gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi trung t\u00e2m v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang th\u00fac b\u1ea1n. M\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n th\u00fac b\u1ea1n sang h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eafc, b\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n th\u00fac b\u1ea1n sang h\u01b0\u1edbng nam, b\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, anh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c – m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u1ed1 \u00e9p b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n \u1edf ng\u00e3 t\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y t\u1eeb b\u1eafc t\u1edbi nam, t\u1eeb nam sang \u0111\u00f4ng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f4ng sang t\u00e2y, ch\u1eb3ng \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ec7ch t\u00e2m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nghe theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nghe trung t\u00e2m b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n M\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m, kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ec7ch t\u00e2m, \u0111i t\u1edbi trung t\u00e2m ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Nghe theo ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i, c\u1ea3m n\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111i c\u00f9ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, hay b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n trung l\u1eadp. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd; th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n \u0111i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o – \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, kh\u00f4ng ai d\u00e1m. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb m\u00ea m\u1ea9n b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i m\u1ed9t li. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t Jesus t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t Jesus nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t li. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn hay b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f4ng, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y – v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra; gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch m\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng h\u00e0ng n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn nghe b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 lay \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o s\u1ebd \u0111em b\u1ea1n \u0111i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng, ch\u00fang c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y kh\u1eafp xung quanh, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i. Do \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft: n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7; m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 h\u1ed9p k\u00edn tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u00e1o \u0111\u00e0i. Ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3: ch\u00fang l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t mong manh, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang – ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n \u00e1o gi\u00e1p t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u00e1o gi\u00e1p t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e0i, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 t\u00f9. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c g\u1ea1t sang b\u00ean c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng theo c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng. N\u1ebfu n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng linh ho\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n Linh ho\u1ea1t l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0; c\u00e0ng linh ho\u1ea1t c\u00e0ng tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n; c\u00e0ng c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc c\u00e0ng gi\u00e0 h\u01a1n. Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc. S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng, linh ho\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb \u201cTantra hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft t\u1ed1i cao\u201d, Ch.10 Hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft t\u1ed1i cao