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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng cho hay nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean – v\u00ec \u0110\u1ea1i th\u1ee7 \u1ea5n l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u00e1c b\u1ecf.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng cho hay nh\u1eadn<\/em>, v\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 sao l\u00e3ng, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb tr\u1ed9n l\u1eabn, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea3y ra ngo\u00e0i. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n cho hay nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan – ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu; m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 khi m\u1eaft b\u1ecb h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00ec m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5, th\u1ef1c ra b\u1ecb \u0111\u1edd ra tr\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m n\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n tho\u00e1t li kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c: “M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh?” Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n tr\u1ed1n l\u00ean Himalayas, ng\u1ed3i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129, “B\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n l\u1edbn, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi; tr\u00ean b\u00e1o ch\u00ed ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eafc v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh.” V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee3i kh\u00e1ch l\u1eef h\u00e0nh \u0111\u01a1n \u0111c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi lang thang, \u0111i t\u1edbi v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n tin t\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n<\/em>.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n. Ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p. Ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n x\u1ea5u, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mang v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i “x\u1ea5u” – b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh x\u1ea5u. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t c\u00e1c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 k\u00ec l\u1ea1, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kia, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd – h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd qua b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i hay: t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i qua b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n qua t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ai.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c – bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ho\u1eb7c l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c cho h\u1ecd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Tilopa n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng cho hay nh\u1eadn. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec? \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng chia s\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn hay vi\u1ec7c cho; n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, th\u00ec hay, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c cho v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 cho v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng “V\u00e2ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i.” B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1m \u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng; \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3. Th\u1ef1c ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Ngay c\u1ea3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 cho \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Tilopa kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng chia s\u1ebb. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn hay vi\u1ec7c cho. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch cho, cho \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 n\u00ean l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb, qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c cho.<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3; kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec; th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng – kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi n\u00f3, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o n\u00e0o trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. Th\u1ef1c ra, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi n\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u01a1i ch\u00fat ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e1c b\u1ecf; kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 – th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho b\u1ea1n m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e1c b\u1ecf n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7.<\/p>\n

Tilopa kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng cho, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c cho v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn. Ngay c\u1ea3 Tilopa c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1edf, ngay c\u1ea3 Tilopa c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i xin th\u1ee9c \u0103n, ngay c\u1ea3 Tilopa c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i ra s\u00f4ng u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc. Tilopa kh\u00e1t, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n n\u01b0\u1edbc; Tilopa \u0111\u00f3i, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n th\u1ee9c \u0103n; Tilopa c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1t th\u1edf trong ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3ng k\u00edn, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i ra v\u00e0 th\u1edf s\u00e2u. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc – b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 cao si\u00eau nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1eeb b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ngu, ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n! Tilopa kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n Tilopa. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 th\u1ea5y, m\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n c\u01a1 s\u1edf r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c, kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp – m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 li\u00ean thu\u1ed9c. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1, “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ngu xu\u1ea9n! B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc trong s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n

Hai c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 li\u00ean thu\u1ed9c, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb l\u1eabn nhau. Ngay c\u1ea3 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta; v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf – \u00edt nh\u1ea5t h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed; \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp ch\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, Tilopa bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y qui \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean – l\u00e0m sao \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? \u00d4ng \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft n\u00f3; s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn. B\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 – b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. Vi\u1ec7c cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cho nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n cho c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb l\u00e0m \u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb mang \u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 li\u00ean thu\u1ed9c. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u1eabn nhau, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a l\u1eabn nhau. \u00dd th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng bao la v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea3o. Ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp l\u1eabn nhau. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi… m\u1ecdi bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 Tilopa bi\u1ebft – th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec?<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng cho hay nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean…<\/em><\/p>\n

Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c ngh\u0129<\/em> r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Vi\u1ec7c cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh x\u1ea5u, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n cho v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i cho. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1eadn v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra qua vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn hay qua vi\u1ec7c cho – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u00edch lu\u1ef9, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf – b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1edbi tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng, b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng s\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Kh\u00f4ng \u00f4m gi\u1eef v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf; kh\u00f4ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu, kh\u00f4ng v\u00f4 s\u1edf h\u1eefu. Nh\u00ecn con v\u1eadt hay con chim \u0111\u00f3: kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng cho. V\u1ea1n v\u1eadt t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, t\u1eeb c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt chia s\u1ebb, trong c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt chia s\u1ebb. Chim v\u00e0 c\u00e2y v\u00e0 con v\u1eadt, ch\u00fang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 con v\u1eadt phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean duy nh\u1ea5t – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Con v\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o, chim kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o – v\u00ec ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Duy nh\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi h\u01a1n. Cho n\u00ean nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y: b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 h\u01a1n, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i t\u1ea1i sao \u1edf M\u0129 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u1ec1 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n th\u1ebf, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm…. V\u00ec M\u0129 l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t ng\u00e0y nay, n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, k\u0129 thu\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ec1n k\u0129 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khao kh\u00e1t t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khao kh\u00e1t l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean; c\u00f3 v\u0103n ho\u00e1 h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 v\u0103n minh h\u01a1n – c\u00f3 phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n. Khi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 v\u0103n ho\u00e1 th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng tinh t\u1ebf. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o.<\/p>\n

L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Ta \u0111\u00e3 nghe t\u1eeb c\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c. Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qui t\u1eafc \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p.” L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m, v\u00e0 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u0103n ho\u00e1…. V\u00e0 Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u0103n ho\u00e1; kh\u00f4ng n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u v\u0103n ho\u00e1 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ra m\u1ed9t k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o ho\u00e1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi – ba ngh\u00ecn ba tr\u0103m qui t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean L\u00e3o T\u1eed t\u1edbi trong hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, v\u00ec Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u1ebft to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i – ba ngh\u00ecn ba tr\u0103m qui t\u1eafc sao? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00e1o ho\u00e1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fat n\u00e0o! L\u00e3o T\u1eed b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t v\u00e0 L\u00e3o T\u1eed v\u1ee9t m\u1ecdi qui t\u1eafc v\u00e0o c\u00e1t b\u1ee5i, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i qui t\u1eafc v\u00e0ng duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. L\u00e3o T\u1eed l\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed l\u00e0 v\u0103n ho\u00e1.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 thu\u1ed1c, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thu\u1ed1c. B\u1ea1n \u1ed1m, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n thu\u1ed1c; c\u00e0ng \u1ed1m, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u thu\u1ed1c. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u1ed1m khi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u1ed1m khi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ecb qu\u00ean \u0111i. V\u00e0 Tilopa ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 cho t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1edb ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng c\u00f9ng<\/em> t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean – v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo m\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u1eeb gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ee9c \u0103n h\u1eefu c\u01a1; kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai trong n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 quan t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh quan t\u00e2m chi li t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi th\u1ee9c \u0103n h\u1eefu c\u01a1, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 phi h\u1eefu c\u01a1 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i\u1ec7u ho\u00e1 n\u00f3 qu\u00e1 r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin v\u00e0o tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean qua li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m sao n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. N\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c k\u00e9o c\u0103ng tr\u00ean t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. T\u1eeb “ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng” ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u00edch k\u00ec c\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1edf h\u01a1i;<\/p>\n

T\u1eeb \u201cTantra hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft t\u1ed1i cao\u201d, Ch.9 B\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i