Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a l\u00e0 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c, v\u00f4 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong b\u1eaby c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00f4 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, c\u00e1i b\u1eaby n\u00e0y bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap c\u00e1i b\u1eaby n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 – c\u00e1i b\u1eaby n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1edfi ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Cho n\u00ean t\u1eeb \u201cch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a\u201d n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 qua vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00f4 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1edf hoa trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a? T\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt, ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t s\u00f3ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a tinh vi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong b\u1ea1n, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111i qua b\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o, v\u00ec n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u1ee5 \u00fd: “T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.” Th\u1ef1c ra, s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn r\u1ed3i; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc b\u1eaby r\u1ed3i. H\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea5t; s\u1edbm s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3i, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e2y non v\u00e0 c\u00e2y.<\/p>\n
Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “Chi\u1ebfc xe n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p,” ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u00fat n\u00e0o r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu chi\u1ebfc xe n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o, ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh. Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 n\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u00f3 n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a l\u00e0 tinh vi v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t k\u0129 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y: vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 n\u00f3i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i – c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t: c\u00e1i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u00e1i kia x\u1ea5u, c\u00e1i n\u00e0y t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00e1i kia t\u1ed3i. Kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t. V\u1eabn c\u00f2n xa c\u00e1ch! M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. T\u00ednh t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o. M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u; ch\u00fang \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang v\u1eady – t\u00ednh \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p? C\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ti\u00eau ch\u00ed n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1ee9ng ngay b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n, ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129, “C\u00e1i n\u00e0y x\u1ea5u \u00f2m!” – cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch quan; kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. H\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn v\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft ra v\u1ec1 th\u1ea9m m\u0129, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh gian nan, l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c, nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 tri\u1ebft gia \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 g\u00ec – h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u1edbn, c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean lu\u1eadn l\u1edbn, h\u1ecd \u0111i l\u00f2ng v\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ec9 ra \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Kh\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1i g\u00ec nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eb9p hay x\u1ea5u, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1i b\u1eaby v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p – \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecba \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/em>, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00e2m l\u00ed – v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong c\u00e1i b\u1eaby n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e0o h\u1ed1 v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n ng\u00e3 v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n k\u00eau kh\u00f3c xin gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n k\u00eau kh\u00f3c g\u1ecdi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n, tantra n\u00f3i. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n th\u1ea5y ra to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ecba \u0111\u1eb7t ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u? N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd n\u1edf hoa; t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, m\u01b0a s\u1ebd t\u1edbi, v\u00e0 m\u00f9a h\u00e8 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u00f9a v\u1ee5 c\u00e1i n\u1ecd s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp c\u00e1i kia – nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a anh ta. M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc v\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00eam tr\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea7y sao – nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o ra \u1ed3n \u00e0o. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t; c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u?<\/p>\n Trong t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. V\u00e0 nh\u1edb, tantra l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. N\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n mang cho b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t, s\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n r\u1eddi b\u1ecf kh\u1ecfi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed – v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u1ea1o ra ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t, v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kia ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e1nh. V\u1edbi c\u00e1i n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00e1i kia b\u1ea1n n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh v\u00e0 tho\u00e1t li. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c; kh\u00f4ng tu luy\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n – ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n Tr\u0103ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p; t\u1ea1i sao? – v\u00ec trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng tr\u0103ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. Trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ca ng\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 tr\u0103ng, trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tin – gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n s\u00e2u. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi tr\u0103ng: n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00eam d\u1ecbu, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbu xu\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u0103ng \u0111em h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed cho to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean; n\u00f3 cho m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i th\u00f4i mi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u01a1i ch\u00fat bu\u1ed3n ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n; n\u00f3 cho ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ef1a m\u01a1 cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cung tr\u0103ng. T\u1eeb “ng\u01b0\u1eddi cung tr\u0103ng” b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb t\u1eeb “tr\u0103ng,” tr\u0103ng. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean, h\u00e2m h\u00e2m.<\/p>\n Tr\u0103ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i h\u00e2m h\u00e2m, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u0111i\u00ean, th\u1ea7n kinh. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ec3n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi tr\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u00f3ng tri\u1ec1u t\u1edbi. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m n\u01b0\u1edbc bi\u1ec3n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 sinh l\u00ed h\u1ecdc h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00ec tr\u0103ng, v\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a bi\u1ec3n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb bi\u1ec3n t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t; v\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra trong bi\u1ec3n. Khi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean m\u1ecdi con v\u1eadt bi\u1ec3n c\u0169ng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi tr\u0103ng, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a bi\u1ec3n, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb bi\u1ec3n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 du h\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o; th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch. Ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u01b0\u1edbc bi\u1ec3n, v\u1edbi c\u00f9ng ho\u00e1 ch\u1ea5t, c\u00f9ng v\u1ecb m\u1eb7n.<\/p>\n Trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u01a1i trong ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng, n\u1ed5i trong n\u01b0\u1edbc bi\u1ec3n; t\u1eed cung c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc bi\u1ec3n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 mang thai h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00f9ng, \u0103n nhi\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1i h\u01a1n. Nhi\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1i h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n cho t\u1eed cung c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef c\u00f9ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1eb7n. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ecdi pha m\u00e0 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua. L\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1, n\u00f3 b\u01a1i trong \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a t\u1eed cung c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, n\u1ed5i. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, trong ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng n\u00f3 tr\u1ea3i qua h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u n\u0103m. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 sinh l\u00ed h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ecdi giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng trong ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eady, r\u1eb1ng tr\u0103ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eb9p – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra? Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t ho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec7n trong ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea3 ra n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 – b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i m\u1eaft n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u00f4i mi\u00ean, nh\u01b0 m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a Adolf Hitler. Ngay kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u00f4ng ta nh\u00ecn b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra trong b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i m\u1eaft l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec b\u1edfi \u0111\u1eb9p? B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n Th\u1ef1c ra, khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng theo c\u00e1ch tinh vi, c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i. Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp. B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y ra hay b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb h\u00fat v\u00e0o. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb h\u00fat v\u00e0o n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y ra n\u00f3 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n<\/em>, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3, v\u00ec c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00fat ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y; m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i, “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kia – th\u1eadt s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t!” Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kia l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kia, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kia l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ho\u00e1 th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p. L\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y? Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed kh\u00e1ch quan, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3.<\/p>\n Tantra n\u00f3i: nh\u1edb, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y hay ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, ch\u00ednh t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang gi\u1edf th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1eadt n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p; ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng theo c\u00e1ch tinh vi” – nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i “t\u00f4i.” N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n chuy\u1ec3n to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y l\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00ec t\u1eeb b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1, b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 r\u1ec5. R\u1ec5 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1i b\u1eaby v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u di chuy\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u0103n \u0111u\u1ed5i anh ta, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n \u0111u\u1ed5i theo anh ta. V\u00e0 sau v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ecdi m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba, r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t Laila hay m\u1ed9t Juliet, hay b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u01b0\u1edfng anh ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t Majnu hay m\u1ed9t Romeo, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean, sau v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y, m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e3 bay h\u01a1i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng; th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eeba b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eeba v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 – v\u00ec m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang trong th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u. M\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng! Cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c trong m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tho\u00e1t li kh\u1ecfi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y xa nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u1edb c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi trong ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tan n\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1edf d\u00e0i v\u00e0 h\u00e1t v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 than v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p – nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n c\u00f4 \u1ea5y!<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n, th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i kh\u00e1ch quan c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m l\u1ed9 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 va ch\u1ea1m gi\u1eefa th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i kh\u00e1ch quan v\u00e0 m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ai s\u1ebd b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i – m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i kh\u00e1ch quan kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 tantra n\u00f3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft: kh\u00f4ng ai l\u1eeba b\u1ea1n ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng quanh c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3 quanh c\u00f4 \u1ea5y; b\u1ea1n tin v\u00e0o n\u00f3, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2m l\u00fang t\u00fang ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec, v\u00ec m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. M\u01a1 ph\u1ea3i tan v\u1ee1 – v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Hindu \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ra ti\u00eau ch\u00ed v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed: h\u1ecd n\u00f3i ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u00e1i k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i, m\u00e3i m\u00e3i, m\u00e3i m\u00e3i; v\u00e0 phi ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ec9 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t kh\u00e1c \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00e1i k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u00e3i l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u00e3i; s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u00e3i. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi – cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111em cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i. V\u00e0o l\u00fac vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i v\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec cho hai kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed li\u00ean t\u1ee5c thay \u0111\u1ed5i, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lu\u1ed3ng. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i – v\u00e0o l\u00fac b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa, ngay c\u1ea3 trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Tantra n\u00f3i: hi\u1ec3u c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 ch\u1eb7t r\u1ec5. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, v\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi n\u00f3, theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau xe h\u01a1i, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n t\u1edbi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu chi\u1ebfc xe b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i sai v\u1edbi xe, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i sai v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi nh\u00e0. Y\u00eau ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t; t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n th\u1ebf, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 hai c\u00e2y n\u1ebfn s\u00e1t g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n – ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t. Nhi\u1ec7t, vi\u1ec7c ch\u00e1y c\u1ee7a ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda… d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. Hai ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda t\u1edbi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea5t h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi: b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u th\u1ee9, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt. Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a mang t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t mang t\u1edbi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ng\u1ee7 th\u00f4i mi\u00ean.<\/p>\n Gurdjieff ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, m\u1ecdi k\u0129 thu\u1eadt, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 s\u1edf \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 c\u01a1 s\u1edf \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f3c; khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3c. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai quan s\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o nh\u00ecn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 \u0111i – b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t h\u00fat trong vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3c. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft v\u00e0 m\u1eaft s\u01b0ng v\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecf m\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tim b\u1ea1n trong kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. C\u00e1c th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o nh\u01b0 Gurdjieff, khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t, h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f3c \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai trong \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u00f3 – kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t.” V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m tuy\u1ec7t di\u1ec7u n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng sang b\u00ean. Kh\u00f3c, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3c, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ch\u1ea3y, kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u00f3 v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c k\u00ecm n\u00e9n kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap g\u00ec cho ai, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9ng sang b\u00ean v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m – v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i tr\u00ean to\u00e0n tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t – con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 – con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u01a1 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 n\u00e0o. M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t. S\u00e2u trong chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng. M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u1edf ngo\u1ea1i vi, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 b\u00e1nh xe chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i trung t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u1ede trung t\u00e2m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1eady, v\u00e0 tr\u00ean trung t\u00e2m n\u00e0y b\u00e1nh xe chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n Nh\u1edb t\u1edbi trung t\u00e2m \u0111i! Quan s\u00e1t h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra; d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u0111i v\u00e0o trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i – ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hai. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i, \u0103n, l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra xung quanh – v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea3y v\u00e0o v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i: b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3i, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3i” – b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng, hay \u0111\u00f3i \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3i hay b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3? B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, khi c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n ngon v\u00e0 b\u1ee5ng no v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i? B\u1ecb bay h\u01a1i r\u1ed3i sao? Kh\u00f4ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean no. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t m\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra; b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean no.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb; gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thanh ni\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0 – gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai? L\u1ea7n n\u1eefa b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i thanh ni\u00ean hay tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb \u201cTantra hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft t\u1ed1i cao\u201d, Ch.8 Ch\u1eb7t r\u1ec5