C\u00e1i m\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf… n\u00f3 l\u00e0 chi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt Gautam \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf ra. Kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. N\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u trong t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n
T\u00e2m tr\u00ed bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng h\u1ecfi, ho\u00e0i nghi, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai, c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng trong ph\u00e2n chia v\u00e0 trong xung \u0111\u1ed9t. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
T\u00ednh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. C\u00e2y xanh v\u00e0 hoa h\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ecf – b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec? C\u00f3 k\u1ebb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u1eady – c\u00e2y n\u00e0y th\u00ec cao v\u00e0 c\u00e2y kia th\u00ec nh\u1ecf, s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i cho ph\u00e9p t\u00ednh \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 theo \u0111a d\u1ea1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u00f3, v\u1edbi th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n, v\u1edbi t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ph\u1eadt t\u00ednh.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft \u00e1n t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t l\u00ean tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 hai – b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a hai, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean, \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i r\u1ee5ng \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a hai, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? T\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Ch\u00fang t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00e1t ki\u1ebfm. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp con tim c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp con tim c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp con tim c\u1ee7a to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec chim b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00f3t, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chim, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e2y \u0111\u1ee9ng trong im l\u1eb7ng – n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e2y, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec9nh cao \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Himalayas v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con s\u00f3ng tri\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3; ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u00ednh ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u n\u00e0y Ph\u1eadt g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ‘c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.’ Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u00e0o; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 sai. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai m\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh? – b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e2n hoan v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tham gia v\u00e0o trong \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u0169. Trong \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u0169 n\u00e0y t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n. Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 xem, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u00e1n th\u1ebf, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4 c\u1eb1n th\u1ebf, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 sa m\u1ea1c, v\u00f4 t\u1eadn.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1eady… ti\u1ebfng con chim c\u00fac cu xa x\u0103m v\u1eaby g\u1ecdi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 tim ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u00ed thuy\u1ebft m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m – r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa c\u00f9ng gi\u00f3 khi c\u00e2y nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1edf hoa c\u00f9ng hoa khi ch\u00fang m\u1edf c\u00e1nh ra, r\u1eb1ng khi \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean con chim c\u00fac cu h\u00f3t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i ca ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t: \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, v\u00e0 sai c\u0169ng v\u1eady.<\/p>\n
Kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u1edf k\u1ecbch n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n c\u00e1c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y \u0111i ng\u00e0y, \u0111\u00eam s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y \u0111i \u0111\u00eam, ng\u00e0y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Ch\u00fang xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, nh\u01b0ng trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n b\u00f9. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con l\u1eafc c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 di chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb c\u1ef1c \u0111oan n\u00e0y sang c\u1ef1c \u0111oan kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ea5y th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 hai \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd con l\u1eafc li\u00ean t\u1ee5c chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi k\u1ebft \u00e1n t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai. Ch\u00ednh hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u00f3t \u0111\u1ea7y b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n l\u1edbn lao.<\/p>\n
Kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p l\u1edbn lao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt Gautam. V\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1i Hu\u1ec7 \u0111ang \u0111i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o trong Ph\u1eadt Gautam – kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n
Trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n…. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh th\u1ebf, im l\u1eb7ng th\u1ebf, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vui v\u1ebb t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00f3. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ea1i Hu\u1ec7 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u trong l\u1eddi kinh bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng n\u00e0y: c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 hai c\u00e1i t\u00ean cho m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o. L\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed5i ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang khi ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. L\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang; ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u1edbi t\u1eeb ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ee9c tin v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u00f4 ha m\u00e9t gi\u00e1o hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi Hindu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i l\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho ni\u1ec1m tin, v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i ho\u00e0i nghi b\u1ecb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n. M\u1ecdi ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb1ng sau n\u00f3 ho\u00e0i nghi. \u0110\u1ec3 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n ho\u00e0i nghi b\u1ea1n tin ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n… nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0i nghi c\u00e0ng \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ee9c t\u00edn trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt Gautam kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 tri\u1ebft l\u00ed, th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf h\u1ecdc, \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u1ec7. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi tin c\u1eady, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi y\u00eau, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean quan v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u00f9ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, d\u00f9 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean ‘\u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn’ trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt Gautam v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin. Ni\u1ec1m tin bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m – Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c, th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ni\u1ec1m tin l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n, \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin v\u00e0o Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn v\u00e0o Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn v\u00e0o c\u00e2y c\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o c\u00e2y c\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ee9c t\u00edn c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, kinh nghi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean c\u1ea3 hai t\u1eeb n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c k\u00ec c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng trong t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u tri th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n, nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin h\u01a1n, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
X\u00e9t chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn n\u00e0y… \u0110\u1ea1i Hu\u1ec7 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang khi g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 “chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn.” T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf – b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh – nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf; ch\u00fang gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7u thang. Li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn. Y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, y\u00eau t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, y\u00eau t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kia – \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1edf ra, “T\u1ea1i sao keo ki\u1ec7t? T\u1ea1i sao ch\u1ecdn? T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a?”<\/p>\n
Khi y\u00eau theo c\u00e1c l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ecf cho nhi\u1ec1u vui v\u1ebb th\u1ebf – to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin c\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u1eb1n nh\u1eb1n n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0o, ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang v\u1eady – b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn. \u0110\u1ea1i Hu\u1ec7 l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00fang khi g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i ph\u1ea3i tin; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1ch con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n
Ni\u1ec1m tin c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i \u00fd ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n theo \u0111\u1ea5ng c\u1ee9u tinh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, theo s\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, theo nh\u00e0 ti\u00ean tri n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, theo Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf \u0111i m\u1ecdi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ni\u1ec1m tin, th\u1ef1c ra g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1edf trong m\u1ecdi chi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 cho m\u1ecdi kinh nghi\u1ec7m – v\u00e0 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n \u00fd ch\u00ed quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mang tri th\u1ee9c vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n, b\u1edfi th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1edfi c\u00e1c tu s\u0129, m\u1ed9t \u00fd ch\u00ed quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lau s\u1ea1ch m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n t\u00e0o lao n\u00e0y kh\u1ecfi tim b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra – \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf l\u1edbn lao. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf nh\u00ecn c\u00e2y nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ch\u00fang xanh; n\u00f3 th\u1ea5y tr\u0103ng \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. L\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng gi\u1eefa n\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. S\u1ebd m\u1ea5t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian cho n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng quanh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m, \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u1ec7, tri\u1ebft l\u00ed, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. B\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1edbn v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng to, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb c\u1ea7m t\u00f9 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n: m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m huy ho\u00e0ng b\u1ecb c\u1ea7m t\u00f9.<\/p>\n
\u00dd ch\u00ed l\u1edbn lao s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft – v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean, trong m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n gi\u00e2y, bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i x\u1ea3y ra… b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn, c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn. \u0110\u1ee9c t\u00edn n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1eeb; n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng b\u00e1n tin b\u00e1n nghi, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u1eeda tin v\u00e0 n\u1eeda nghi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn n\u00e0y, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0m nh\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng tay n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ph\u00e1 n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng tay kia. C\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 xem: b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf – qu\u00ean chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn \u0111i! – ngay c\u1ea3 trong chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng tay n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng tay kia.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n t\u00e2m l\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh l\u00e0 y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi gh\u00e9t – b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c thay \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n: s\u00e1ng b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t, t\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng lo\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 \u0111i xa l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft th\u00fac. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00edn, tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c. V\u00e2ng, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0i tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1c m\u1ed9ng. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u1ed9n l\u1eabn v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1ng l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n. \u00c1c m\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc d\u1ecbu ng\u1ecdt c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc v\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ed9n l\u1eabn – nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n n\u00e0y. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i n\u00f3 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c ra, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i n\u00f3. Ho\u1eb7c bu\u00f4ng n\u00f3 xu\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eb7t n\u00f3 l\u00ean – \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n duy nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1ecf n\u00f3, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao l\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao l\u00e2u? Kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c cho chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n
N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n \u00fd ch\u00ed quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tri th\u1ee9c, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00e9m \u0111i m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5t l\u00ean b\u1ea1n, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kho\u1ea3 th\u00e2n, nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i r\u1ed3i. Trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i – \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i trong ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng c\u00e1i v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a an b\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c, kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, kh\u00f4ng lo ngh\u0129, kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n b, ch\u1ec9 nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa c\u1ee7a tr\u00e1i tim. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ng\u1eaft v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i vi\u1ec7c ng\u1eaft \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n m\u00e3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u00e2n danh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c; nh\u00e2n danh l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh v\u0103n minh, v\u0103n ho\u00e1, b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb ng\u1eaft ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Sigmund Freud l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u1edbn trong ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u0110\u00f4i khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y g\u00e2y cho\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t g\u00e2y cho\u00e1ng khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t – m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm ra n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n… v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111i v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111i v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0y – ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb “Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 l\u1edbn \u0110\u1ea1i Hu\u1ec7”, T.2, Ch.29 \u0110\u1ee9c t\u00edn