Osho k\u00ednh y\u00eau,<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u1eefa th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i? Khi t\u1eebng bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y qua m\u1eaft t\u00f4i, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, n\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, do v\u1eady l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong. V\u00e0 \u1edf m\u1eb7t kia, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u00f3 t\u00ednh v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eadt l\u1ed9n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
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Chetana, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ph\u00e1t r\u1ed3! Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng: m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang \u1edf b\u00ean trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng sao? Ch\u00fang v\u1eabn \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. G\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
C\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea3o, th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecba.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi l\u1eabn nhau; t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh v\u0169 tr\u1ee5. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, ch\u1ec9 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu: kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n
Ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00e1i \u0111ang ph\u00e2n chia m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 b\u00ean trong. Trong nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u00e2m tr\u00ed bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3 m\u1ecdi ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u1ea5t \u0111i. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n
Trong nhi\u1ec1u ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m \u1edf \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ean c\u00f9ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “T\u00ednh m\u1ed9t c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i,” v\u00ec kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n logic – n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 hai, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ba. M\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 ph\u1ed5 c\u00e1c s\u1ed1. “M\u1ed9t” s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a g\u00ec? N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hai, ba, b\u1ed1n, n\u0103m, s\u00e1u, b\u1ea9y, t\u00e1m, ch\u00edn, m\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec “m\u1ed9t” s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a g\u00ec? N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean \u1edf \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “Ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i,” h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, “C\u00e1i c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb” – ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1eafc v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n logic n\u00e0o. C\u00e1i c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 hai. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t; h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n chia. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i “b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb” c\u00e1c s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i “m\u1ed9t” c\u00e1c s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t r\u1ed3; ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u1edf trong v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u1edf ngo\u00e0i. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb: kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u00ean trong, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n
\u1ede Jaipur \u1edf \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cung \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 vua huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfn tr\u00fac s\u01b0 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho Jaipur. T\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 Jai Singh; do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 n\u00e0y. Jaipur l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u1edf \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 – v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch hay th\u1ebf! \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i Paris, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft. Th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh n\u00e0y v\u1eabn cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i Paris.<\/p>\n
N\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u, m\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ecf c\u1ee7a sannyasin – to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e1 \u0111\u1ecf. M\u1ecdi nh\u00e0, m\u1ecdi c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c nh\u01b0 nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t: kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a hai. V\u00e0 c\u00e1c con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1ebf. Ngay \u1edf gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2y b\u00f3ng m\u00e1t – c\u00e1c con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed9ng – v\u00e0 \u1edf c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e1t ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 cho trong m\u00f9a m\u01b0a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u00f4… hay trong \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi n\u00f3ng v\u1edbi \u00f4. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u00f4 \u1edf Jaipur. V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c nh\u01b0 nhau, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m t\u1eeb c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e1 \u0111\u1ecf.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m ra th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t thu\u1ed9c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lo\u1ea1i n\u00e0o. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng tr\u00ean m\u1ecdi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, nhi\u1ec1u d\u1eb7m d\u00e0i. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf – thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ng\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e1 \u0111\u1ecf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, v\u00e0 b\u00ean trong n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ecf… h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u g\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00ean trong. Cho n\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 trong h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u g\u01b0\u01a1ng. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t con ch\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 trong \u0111\u00eam. Kh\u00f4ng ai \u1edf \u0111\u00f3: ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec1n, kho\u00e1 c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 con ch\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1edf b\u00ean trong. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd s\u1ee7a v\u00e0o c\u00e1c con ch\u00f3 – c\u1ea3 tri\u1ec7u con ch\u00f3. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 nh\u1ea3y t\u1eeb b\u00ean n\u00e0y sang b\u00ean kia v\u00e0 lao b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi con ch\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ee7a… B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho con ch\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y: c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00eam n\u00f3 s\u1ee7a v\u00e0 n\u00f3 tranh \u0111\u1ea5u, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c lao v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ebfn s\u00e1ng khi c\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf ra con ch\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 d\u00e2y kh\u1eafp ch\u1ed7 – tr\u00ean t\u01b0\u1eddng – v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m n\u00f3i, “C\u1ea3 \u0111\u00eam ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Con ch\u00f3 n\u00e0y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c s\u1ee7a.”<\/p>\n
Con ch\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 ngh\u0129, “Nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00f3 th\u1ebf, tr\u1eddi! M\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian ban \u0111\u00eam v\u00e0 c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3ng, v\u00e0 b\u1ecb bao quanh b\u1edfi m\u1ecdi con ch\u00f3 n\u00e0y… ch\u00fang s\u1ebd gi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh!” V\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con ch\u00f3 kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o ch\u00fat n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 huy\u1ec1n m\u00f4n: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang th\u1ea5y kh\u1eafp xung quang ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0o nhau, tranh \u0111\u1ea5u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau, s\u1ee3 l\u1eabn nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee3 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta tch tr\u1eef v\u0169 kh\u00ed h\u1ea1t nh\u00e2n ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i l\u1eabn nhau – v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ch\u00f3, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi con kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1ch con ch\u00f3 n\u00e0y ch\u1ebft, c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch. V\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ai? – ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean Chetana, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c. \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e2m v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n h\u01a1n. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m tan bi\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 l\u1edbn. Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u00e0 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 th\u00ec tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n cho b\u1ea1n; c\u00f2n l\u00e0m tan bi\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o: c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 to\u00e0n l\u00e0 b\u1ecba \u0111\u1eb7t ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb tan bi\u1ebfn \u0111i, \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c: h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n
Gertrude Stein, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 l\u1edbn, s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao quanh b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 \u1ea5y th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u00e0 \u1ea5y m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi, “C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 g\u00ec?”<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i, “Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, cho n\u00ean l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi?”<\/p>\n
B\u00e0 \u1ea5y m\u1edf m\u1eaft l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Th\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u1eady c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 g\u00ec?” v\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u1ea5y ch\u1ebft. Ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng k\u00ec l\u1ea1.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t hay l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 th\u01a1, ho\u1ea1 s\u0129, v\u0169 c\u00f4ng, ca s\u0129. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ef1c k\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a trong h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u00e0 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi, “C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 g\u00ec?”… d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t; kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i n\u00f3 ra. V\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u1ea5y \u0111ang v\u1ed9i, cho n\u00ean thay v\u00ec \u0111i qua k\u00eanh \u0111\u00fang – h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i nghe c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi – b\u00e0 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u1ecfi, “C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 g\u00ec?”<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u1edf c\u00f9ng ch\u1ed7: c\u00f9ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi, “Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi?”<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb logic, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady: n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ngu – v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft… Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. B\u00e0 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Th\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 g\u00ec?” V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 im l\u1eb7ng.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c ra kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi; ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng trong l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n, trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, v\u00e0 t\u1eebng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi mang t\u1edbi h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u00eam n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng cho \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c: s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c – v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n khi Gertrude Stein s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u00e0 \u1ea5y, “\u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i im l\u1eb7ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1edbp tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc. Ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111i; \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng, c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, an b\u00ecnh.”<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb \u201cCon \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed\u201d, T.2, Ch.43 S\u1ee7a kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0o nhau