Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 do. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3, v\u00e0 thay v\u00ec l\u00e0m ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 do n\u00f3 l\u00e0m ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1ecb tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. V\u1eady xin n\u00f3i cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do.<\/p>\n
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Y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 ch\u01a1i, t\u1ef1 l\u1eeba b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. G\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i; y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u01a1n tr\u1edbn. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau, s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 – v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 kh\u1ed5 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. C\u01a1 ch\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra?<\/p>\n
M\u1edbi v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m. Anh ta n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. T\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1eafm. Ng\u00e0y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ch\u1ebft t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 than v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean trong t\u00f4i, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u01a1i th\u1edf s\u00e2u, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 do.”<\/p>\n
Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 anh ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7ng th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a anh ta. B\u00ean ngo\u00e0i anh ta v\u1eabn than v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 sng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, hay s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 ch\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi,” anh ta n\u00f3i, “t\u00f4i tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 do.”<\/p>\n
T\u1ea7ng th\u1ee9 ba b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh ta, “M\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00e0y?” V\u00e0 x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m \u0111\u00f3 ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc anh ta, anh ta n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 anh ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m. Anh ta n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, “Gi\u00fap t\u00f4i v\u1edbi. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1edbm th\u1ebf sao?”<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra; kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i. Khi y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng, s\u1ef1 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u1ebfu y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 trong \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 y\u00eau. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 trong nhu c\u1ea7u g\u1eafn b\u00f3. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n \u0111i s\u00e2u th\u00eam, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 trong nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb n\u00f4 l\u1ec7.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 tinh vi v\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 do, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb n\u00f4 l\u1ec7. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 do, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do, v\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u1ee7 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3? B\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00e1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a. V\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra ngh\u0129a nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o quanh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa: ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, anh ta hay c\u00f4 ta, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i t\u00ecm ai \u0111\u00f3. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1edbi v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i – tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm g\u1eafn b\u00f3, cam k\u1ebft, l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng may nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i t\u1edbi x\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u01a1n tr\u1edbn s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Khi ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m xong, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng, n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 l\u1eabn cho nhau, khi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, y\u00eau s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u00ec y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng trong \u0111\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho nhau.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, “Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a anh (em) \u0111i.” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u1ed5i d\u1eady. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, “Anh (em) mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a em (anh),” cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “Anh (Em) kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 em (anh).” Nh\u01b0ng ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nhau. V\u00e0 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y – ham mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c n\u00e0y – \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, y\u00eau bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c, s\u1ef1 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 do.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed: b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 ch\u00e1n n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khao kh\u00e1t n\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khao kh\u00e1t s\u1ef1 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n trong l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khao kh\u00e1t t\u1ef1 do. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1c n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 m\u1edbi khao kh\u00e1t t\u1ef1 do. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 do l\u1ea1i c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb n\u00f4 l\u1ec7. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed dao \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 con l\u1eafc, chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ef1c \u0111oan n\u00e0y sang \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ef1c \u0111oan kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3. G\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u; y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm con c\u00e1 c\u00f3 t\u00ean g\u1eafn b\u00f3: y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft c\u00e1. Khi c\u00e1 b\u1ecb b\u1eaft, m\u1ed3i b\u1ecb v\u1ee9t \u0111i. Nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u1ef1c, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 g\u1eafn b\u00f3. C\u01a1 ch\u1ebf cho y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, “Ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau anh (em) th\u00f4i,” b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1edf h\u1eefu. V\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt.<\/p>\n
Khi t\u00f4i s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt trong s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i – m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4i d\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c d\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i b\u1ecb s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m t\u00f4i th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m n\u00f4 l\u1ec7. T\u00f4i l\u00e0m ra n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ra n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 t\u1eeb t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf th\u00ec v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 do, v\u00e0 d\u1ea7u v\u1eady t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb t\u00f4i s\u1edf h\u1eefu; b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 d\u1ea7u v\u1eady v\u1eabn s\u1edf h\u1eefu t\u00f4i – \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
S\u1edf h\u1eefu ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o gi\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, t\u1ef1 do. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi nhau, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o nhau, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1edf h\u1eefu. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3.<\/p>\n
G\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t. V\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd th\u1ea9m m\u0129 n\u1eefa. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb g\u1eafn b\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ednh \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu – v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng s\u1edf h\u1eefu n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb s\u1edf h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n
Jesus n\u00f3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, “Kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t.” N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t: “Kh\u00f4ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb s\u1edf h\u1eefu.” \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 khi kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00ec khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 khi kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “Th\u1ebf th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 l\u00e0 g\u00ec? L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 khi kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i?” Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m ra n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
S\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 do, c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, v\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, im l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec y\u00eau s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft trung t\u00e2m b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, y\u00eau s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft trung t\u00e2m b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, y\u00eau s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u00f9ng k\u00ednh. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt \u0111i qua m\u1ed9t l\u00e0ng. M\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean t\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “D\u1ea1y cho t\u00f4i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i: l\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c?” Ph\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi anh ta v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu \u0111\u00e3. Qu\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111i theo.”<\/p>\n
Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “Khi t\u00f4i y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3,” b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i sai v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t. \u0110i\u1ec3m b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i sai. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu \u0111i, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 y\u00eau. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u1eafn b\u00f3.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i g\u1eafn b\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ed1i r\u1ebd sai. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n. Nhi\u1ec1u s\u01b0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea9n d\u1eadt, sannyasins \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd b\u1ecb g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u1edbi t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 h\u1ecd, v\u1edbi con h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb giam gi\u1eef, b\u1ecb c\u1ea7m t\u00f9. H\u1ecd tr\u1ed1n \u0111i, h\u1ecd b\u1ecf gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd b\u1ecf v\u1ee3, h\u1ecd b\u1ecf con v\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin v\u00e0 tr\u1ed1n v\u00e0o r\u1eebng, v\u00e0o n\u01a1i \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t h\u1ecd m\u00e0 xem. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 v\u00e2y quanh m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i t\u1edbi th\u0103m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u1ea9n d\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y trong r\u1eebng s\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 h\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea9n d\u1eadt n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1edbi t\u1edbi trong khi b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t. \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i ra s\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eafm. D\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta sannyasin m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thi\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y quay l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb s\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u1ea9y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi n\u00e0y ra kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i c\u00e2y v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Anh \u0111i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e2y kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.” V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf nh\u00e0, b\u1ecf v\u1ee3, b\u1ecf con. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e2y n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n s\u1edf h\u1eefu – b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ec1n d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ecfi g\u1eafn b\u00f3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u1ebf. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1edbi, h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng m\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb l\u1eeba, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi g\u1eafn b\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec bi\u1ebft nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u: v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, g\u1eafn b\u00f3 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
B\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eafng b\u00f3ng nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft r\u1ec5, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u00e0nh r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft r\u1ec5 trong c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u00e1i \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 tm th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec, c\u00e1i \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec chia s\u1ebb l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 – v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n chia s\u1ebb b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 d\u01b0 th\u1eeba, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf n\u00f3 tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n ra.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 y\u00eau. V\u00e0 khi vi\u1ec7c tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tr\u1eadn l\u1ee5t, khi b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00f3t \u0111\u1ea7y v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1m t\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u00ec sao, trong y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 trong y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eafm t\u00e1p, th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u00f9ng k\u00ednh.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb \u201cVigyan Bhairav Tantra\u201d, T.1, Ch.20 Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ph\u1eadt