S\u1ee8C M\u1ea0NH C\u1ee6A T\u00c2M TR\u00cd<\/p>\n
V\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t nh\u1eb9, di \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 mong manh trong trung \u1ea5m, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u00fd ngh\u0129 n\u00e0o n\u1ea3y sinh, t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ef1c k\u00ec l\u1edbn. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o, c\u00e1c \u00fd ngh\u0129 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c. T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00fd ngh\u0129 ti\u1ebfc th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y khi ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y nghi l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00e1m tang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n nh\u00e2n danh ch\u00fang ta, hay h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng tham lam c\u00e3i nhau tranh chia \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau m\u1ebfn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta, \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khinh b\u1ec9 hay ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea1o t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta hay \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang ta theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p. M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, trong s\u1ef1 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp t\u1edbi t\u00e1i sinh kh\u00f4ng may m\u1eafn.<\/p>\n
S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp c\u1ee7a \u00fd ngh\u0129, th\u1ebf th\u00ec, l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 then ch\u1ed1t trong trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb ph\u01a1i ra cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 cho ph\u1ed1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ch\u00fang kh\u1ecfi n\u1eafm gi\u1eef t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec trong trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, b\u1ecb x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y t\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111i b\u1edfi s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, h\u01a1i ch\u00fat c\u00e1u b\u1eb3n trong trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc S\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft<\/em> ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i t\u1ed1t; n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh \u00e2m thanh gi\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdc t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n Gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n n\u00eau cho ch\u00fang ta nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh th\u00f4 c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed trong trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh; \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t trong c\u00e1c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u00fang ta trong trung \u1ea5m n\u00e0y t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 thanh s\u1eaft nung n\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng u\u1ed1n theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n cho t\u1edbi khi n\u00f3 ngu\u1ed9i \u0111i, khi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u1eef b\u1ea5t k\u00ec d\u1ea1ng n\u00e0o trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f4ng c\u1ee9ng. C\u0169ng theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong trung \u1ea5m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e9m b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o kh\u1ed5 c\u00f9ng c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i nh\u1ea5t. S\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft<\/em> c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o cho ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u00fac cho \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ranh gi\u1edbi gi\u1eefa \u0111i l\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t v\u00e0o l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u1ebfu b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp trung m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c \u00f4ng s\u1ebd h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eb1ng. H\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m; c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n S\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft<\/em> c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i n\u00e0o v\u1edbi tu luy\u1ec7n t\u00e2m linh m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u1ed5 v\u0169 ch\u00fang ta: t\u1eeb b\u1ecf g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, b\u1ecf kh\u00e1t khao v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n hay gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, trau d\u1ed3i l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u1eadn th\u00f9, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng suy ng\u1eabm h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. N\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ee3: m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t n\u00f3 b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh trung \u1ea5m kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng; m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c n\u00f3 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 “m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00e1c khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00f3i quen,” v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. “V\u1eady tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng.”<\/p>\n B\u1ea3n t\u00ednh d\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0 b\u1ea5p b\u00eanh c\u1ee7a trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n cho nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t, v\u00e0 t\u00ednh d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed trong trung \u1ea5m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m l\u00e0 ghi nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn; m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u1ea3y sinh cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ee9ng kh\u1edfi cho ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 tu luy\u1ec7n, hay c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i s\u00e2u v\u1edbi tu luy\u1ec7n t\u00e2m linh, th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n Trong trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh, c\u00f5i ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong trung \u1ea5m ph\u00e1p t\u00ednh. Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1edb ch\u00fang, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea7u v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt, v\u1ecb \u1ea5y s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edb, cho d\u00f9 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong trung \u1ea5m n\u00e0y; v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c k\u00ec kh\u00f3, v\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y mong manh, ph\u00e2n m\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean trong trung \u1ea5m n\u00e0y, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 tho\u00e1ng ch\u1ed1c, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi tu luy\u1ec7n t\u00e2m linh, nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt, v\u00e0 kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1ch suy t\u01b0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay gay c\u1ea5n, hay ch\u00fang tr\u01b0\u1ee3t ra ngo\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea7u hay g\u1ee3i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9, nh\u01b0 Ph\u1eadt hay Li\u00ean Hoa Sinh, Tara hay Qu\u00e1n th\u1ebf \u00e2m, Jesus hay \u0110\u1ee9c m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed3ng trinh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7t th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u00f9ng k\u00ednh m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 tim b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec qua s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng trong kh\u00f4ng gian t\u00e2m tr\u00ed tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. L\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f4i khi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i ch\u00fat k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong trung \u1ea5m l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n V\u1eady m\u00e0 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u1eeba n\u00eau cho b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 trung \u1ea5m ch\u1ec9 ra kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u1ed1i n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n trong gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 hay \u00e1c m\u1ed9ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m sao trong ch\u00fang; trong trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f3, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao kh\u1ea9u l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a S\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft<\/em> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i “Kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb sao l\u00e3ng.” Nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ra:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e2n chia n\u01a1i ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i h\u1eefu t\u00ecnh b\u1ecb t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi\u2026<\/p>\n “Trong m\u1ed9t tho\u00e1ng h\u1ecd b\u1ecb t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t tho\u00e1ng l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u00c1I SINH<\/p>\n Khi, trong trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh, th\u1eddi gian cho s\u1ef1 t\u00e1i sinh \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm b\u1ea5t k\u00ec m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh. C\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u kh\u00e1c nhau s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, b\u00e1o cho b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1i sinh. \u00c1nh s\u00e1ng \u0111a d\u1ea1ng m\u1ea7u s\u00e1ng l\u00ean t\u1eeb s\u00e1u c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb l\u00f4i k\u00e9o h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c, tu\u1ef3 theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111ang chi ph\u1ed1i trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng n\u00e0y, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 quay l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 linh \u1ea3nh s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c nhau. Khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd. C\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u h\u01a1i bi\u1ebfn thi\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng theo c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh l\u00e0 th\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 linh \u1ea3nh \u0111i v\u00e0o cung \u0111i\u1ec7n c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ea7ng l\u1ea7u. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh l\u00e0 \u00e1 th\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang xoay quay c\u00e1c ho\u1ea3 kh\u00ed, hay \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0o tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh l\u00e0 con v\u1eadt b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong hang, trong h\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t hay trong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t b\u1eb1ng r\u01a1m. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 linh \u1ea3nh g\u1ed1c c\u00e2y, r\u1eebng s\u00e2u hay m\u1ed9t m\u1ea3nh v\u1ea3i d\u1ec7t, \u1ea5y l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp t\u00e1i sinh l\u00e0m ng\u1ea1 qu\u1ec9. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb sinh v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecb d\u1eabn \u0111i, b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t h\u1ed1 \u0111en, xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111en, v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t t\u1ed1i t\u0103m c\u00f3 ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ecf hay \u0111en, hay h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 s\u1eaft.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch theo \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ch\u0103m ch\u0103m hay chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00f3ng th\u1eb3ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 ra c\u00f5i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nh\u1eafm t\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh v\u00e0o c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00ean; n\u1ebfu v\u00e0o c\u00f5i s\u00fac sinh, c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1eb3ng ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0 chim nh\u00ecn; v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu sinh v\u00e0o c\u00f5i ng\u1ea1 qu\u1ec9 hay \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn xu\u1ed1ng, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ch\u00ecm xu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea5t k\u00ec trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0o nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1eebng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u00e1i sinh kh\u00f4ng may m\u1eafn n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang n\u1eefa theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng. Gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nguy hi\u1ec3m l\u1edbn b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 n\u0103ng n\u1ed5 khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd x\u00f4 t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 cung c\u1ea5p an ninh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef n\u1ea3y sinh s\u1ebd b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd \u0111\u01b0a trung \u1ea5m \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb qu\u00e9t v\u00e0o l\u1ea7n t\u00e1i sinh ti\u1ebfp b\u1edfi d\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 do v\u1eady, nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, l\u1ea7n t\u00e1i sinh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp b\u1ecb x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi ham mu\u1ed1n, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 v\u00f4 minh.<\/p>\n T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 \u1ea9n n\u1ea5p, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng d\u1eef d\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c kinh nghi\u1ec7m trung \u1ea5m. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, b\u1ecb khi\u1ebfp h\u00e3i ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf \u0111i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c sinh m\u1edbi, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1i sinh. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, S\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft<\/em> gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, tr\u1edf n\u00ean u m\u00ea v\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 t\u00e1i sinh x\u1ea5u thay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 t\u1ed1t, hay m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 t\u1ed1t thay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 x\u1ea5u. Ho\u1eb7c nghe ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, hay l\u1eddi h\u00e1t quy\u1ebfn r\u0169, v\u00e0 \u0111i theo nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u00ea ho\u1eb7c \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng c\u00e1c c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn \u0111\u1eebng m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00f5i kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3. V\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u00ec di\u1ec7u l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n B\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n \u0111i b\u1edfi gi\u00f3 nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh. Th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng; v\u00e0 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i nghi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y g\u1eafn b\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. H\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch hay ghen gh\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n sinh ra th\u00e0nh con trai, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i.[i]<\/a> Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng n\u1ed5i ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n sinh v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi th\u1ea5p.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh b\u1ecb t\u00e1i sinh hay \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea1o vi\u1ec7c t\u00e1i sinh ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng? Gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n trung \u1ea5m cho hai lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t: ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n t\u00e1i sinh, hay n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ecdn t\u00e1i sinh t\u1ed1t. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ed1i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u thai kh\u00e1c<\/em>:<\/p>\n Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0 ham mu\u1ed1n, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, hay ghen t\u1ecb, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn d\u1ea1ng r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m trung \u1ea5m n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i an \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m tr\u00ed trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n t\u00e1i sinh. S\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft<\/em> \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o cho ch\u00fang ta:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n H\u1ee1i \u00f4i! b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9, c\u01a1n b\u00e3o l\u1edbn, lu\u1ed3ng gi\u00f3 xo\u00e1y, s\u1ea5m ch\u1edbp, c\u00e1c ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. D\u00f9 ch\u00fang xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c. M\u1ecdi ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c. Ch\u00fang gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u1ea3o c\u1ea3nh, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eb1ng, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. H\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? H\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ee3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 xem c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i …<\/p>\n <\/p>\n S\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft<\/em> ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c khuy\u00ean ch\u00fang ta:<\/p>\n “M\u1ecdi ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb che m\u1edd.” Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, gi\u1eef cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ph\u00f4i pha, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 t\u1ef1a n\u01b0\u1edbc r\u00f3t v\u00e0o n\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady, ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng, m\u1edf v\u00e0 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 an \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng l\u1ecfng, \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng l\u1ed1i v\u00e0o b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 cho m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i sinh kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i.[ii]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n t\u00e1i sinh l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 ph\u1eadt, hay nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7y b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7n yidam. V\u00e0 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng sinh ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi thanh t\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n t\u00e1i sinh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tai sinh ra \u1edf m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c c\u00f5i ph\u1eadt.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ngay c\u1ea3 lo\u1ea1i tu luy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn vi\u1ec7c t\u00e1i sinh<\/em>, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1c v\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn t\u00e1i sinh, hay b\u1ea1n \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i \u00edch l\u1ee3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi n\u00e0o ngo\u00e0i c\u00f5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u1ec9 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 t\u00e2m linh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp s\u1eeda sinh v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf may m\u1eafn trong c\u00f5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 l\u1ed9ng l\u1eaby v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, ho\u1eb7c \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang \u1edf trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, hay b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 linh \u1ea3nh nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i trai g\u00e1i \u0111ang l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, n\u00f3i chung ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb k\u00e9o h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 n\u01a1i sinh “kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 con chim b\u1ecb l\u1eeba v\u00e0o l\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0 c\u1ecf kh\u00f4 b\u1eaft l\u1eeda, hay nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t con v\u1eadt b\u1ecb l\u00fan v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7m l\u1ea7y.” S\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft<\/em> n\u00f3i: “\u00d4i con trai\/ con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9, cho d\u00f9 \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i, \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang \u00f4ng; \u00f4ng b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111i.”<\/p>\n V\u1eady m\u00e0, nh\u01b0 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta, bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 hi v\u1ecdng; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd<\/em> l\u00e0 l\u00fac cho l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. B\u1eb1ng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t, ngay c\u1ea3 t\u1ea1i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c c\u00f5i ph\u1eadt, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sinh ra kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u1eb7p con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e2m linh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i t\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nghi\u1ec7p n\u1eb7ng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a; tuy nhi\u00ean kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t.<\/p>\n Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra. Ngay c\u1ea3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1n t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 n\u00e0o, v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 Vajrasattva[iii]<\/a>, ban ph\u00fac cho b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u01b0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng linh thi\u00eang, “cung \u0111i\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ea7n,” v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c tu luy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, khi trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111ang b\u1eebng l\u00ean tr\u00ean t\u00f4i,<\/p>\n T\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1eadp trung t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m,<\/p>\n V\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ed1t,<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3ng l\u1ed1i v\u00e0o t\u00e1i sinh, v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef kh\u1ecfi t\u00e1i sinh.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft;<\/p>\n B\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 th\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Chung cu\u1ed9c ch\u00ednh th\u00f4i th\u00fac c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0 ng\u1ee5 trong c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1i sinh, v\u00e0 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong c\u1ed1 k\u1ebft v\u00e0 n\u1eafm gi\u1eef m\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong t\u00e1i sinh v\u1eadt l\u00ed. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y x\u1ea3y ra qua c\u00e1c trung \u1ea5m.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c sinh l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh v\u00e0o trong trung \u1ea5m t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong giao h\u1ee3p, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u00e1o hi\u1ec7u k\u1ebft th\u00fac trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh, khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n nhanh ch\u00f3ng t\u00e1i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c pha tan r\u00e3 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1eebng l\u00ean c\u1ee7a Ch\u00f3i s\u00e1ng N\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111en c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1ea1i n\u1ea3y sinh, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac, v\u1edbi Ch\u00f3i s\u00e1ng N\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb \u201cS\u00e1ch T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft\u201d, Ch.18 Trung \u1ea5m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/p>\n [i]<\/a> Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng c\u00e1c tinh linh trung \u1ea5m t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp l\u1ea1i, hi v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh. M\u1ed9t tinh linh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c tinh linh kh\u00e1c ch\u1ebft \u0111i v\u00ec th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng; \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ebft trong trung \u1ea5m.<\/p>\n [ii]<\/a> Fremantle and Trungpa, Tibetan Book of the Dead, 86.<\/p>\n