Ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t..<\/p>\n
An b\u00ecnh m\u00e0 \u00f4ng s\u1ebd ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh thi\u00eang li\u00eang m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec5u v\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 linh h\u1ed3n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 hoa thi\u00eang tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea7m ph\u00e1 t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng.<\/p>\n
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Ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t<\/em>. Kh\u00f4ng ai ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ef1 l\u1eeba m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 – v\u00ec m\u1ed9t khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n, an b\u00ecnh x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng ai ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c lu\u1eadt t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh<\/em>, n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i sai \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?<\/p>\n Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean t\u1edbi t\u00f4i – anh ta s\u1eafp \u0111i thi l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i l\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng th\u1ea1c s\u0129 v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng. Anh ta h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i, “L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 an b\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Gi\u00fap t\u00f4i v\u1edbi. T\u00f4i ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n th\u1ebf, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1ebf.” T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi anh ta, “T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh?”<\/p>\n Anh ta n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u00e2n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0ng. K\u00ec thi s\u1eafp x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed3i. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1edbp nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 k\u00ec thi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ham mu\u1ed1n hu\u00e2n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0ng. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1ebf, l\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Cho n\u00ean gi\u00fap t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an b\u00ecnh \u0111i.”<\/p>\n Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u00e0y \u0111i! V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o anh ta, “N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u00ec thi, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi hu\u00e2n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0ng, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t l\u1edbp \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n n\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? An b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n Anh ta n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng. Sao n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady? Th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd an b\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd k\u00ec thi c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ham mu\u1ed1n hu\u00e2n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0ng. Cho n\u00ean gi\u00fap t\u00f4i an b\u00ecnh \u0111i.”<\/p>\n Tham v\u1ecdng ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 an b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a anh ta. Anh ta li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y tham v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a anh ta v\u00e0 d\u1ea7u v\u1eady anh ta v\u1eabn ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh. An b\u00ecnh trong ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 tham v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Tham v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 an b\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tham \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh, ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 \u0111i. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n. Khi l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y n\u00f3i ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t<\/em>, n\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd an b\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n. Kh\u00f4ng ai ham mu\u1ed1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0, v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch n\u00e0y, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng an b\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n ham mu\u1ed1n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n. Kh\u00f4ng ai ham mu\u1ed1n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ri\u00eang ng\u00e0i; ch\u00fang ta ham mu\u1ed1n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u00ec ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh tr\u1eeb phi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. Ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00ec trong ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c ham mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh, tham v\u1ecdng s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5; trong ch\u00ednh ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 an b\u00ecnh, lo \u00e2u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t; trong ch\u00ednh ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 an b\u00ecnh, phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tham v\u1ecdng – ham mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y hay th\u1ebf n\u1ecd, l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 – th\u1ebf th\u00ec an b\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n lo \u00e2u, c\u01b0\u1ee1i tr\u00ean lo \u00e2u, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trong phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec. Cho n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n an b\u00ecnh, ham mu\u1ed1n th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00ednh ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 an b\u00ecnh bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, an b\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ea1n, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. An b\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3 b\u1edfi tham v\u1ecdng, b\u1ea1n qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3 b\u1edfi tham lam, b\u1ea1n qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3 b\u1edfi gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, b\u1ea1n qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1eebng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3! N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m n\u00f3.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi an b\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i cho n\u00f3. T\u00ecm ra t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng an b\u00ecnh. T\u1ea1i sao? Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu tham v\u1ecdng \u0111ang qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3, g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf tham v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. An b\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00ec n\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n \u0111ang qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3, c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng khi an b\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “Gi\u1ea3 kim thu\u1eadt m\u1edbi”, Ch.5 Quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng