T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u. Sau khi nghe th\u1ea7y t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 r\u1eb1ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m phong ph\u00fa s\u00e2u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i mang l\u1ea1i, chung cu\u1ed9c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i g\u1eafn b\u00f3 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 phong ph\u00fa th\u1ebf, v\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn th\u1ebf?<\/p>\n
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Donna, y\u00eau l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111au v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c – v\u00ec y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5t v\u00e0 tr\u1eddi, c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
Y\u00eau l\u00e0 bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi ph\u00e2n chia v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c, bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1i cao h\u01a1n. Y\u00eau c\u00f3 r\u1ec5 trong \u0111\u1ea5t; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111au c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. V\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u00f3 c\u00e1c c\u00e0nh v\u01b0\u01a1n tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ri\u00eang m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y th\u1eebng c\u0103ng gi\u1eefa hai c\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u hai c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y: m\u1ed9t c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 d\u1ee5c, c\u1ef1c kia l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y th\u1eebng c\u0103ng gi\u1eefa d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ee5c, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ea7n d\u1ee5c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh mang t\u1edbi kh\u1ed5, ph\u1ea7n thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd mang t\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u vui. Do \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf y\u00eau, v\u00ec trong t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ee3 vui t\u1edbi c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 trong n\u00f3, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi \u0111au \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau: ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau s\u1ed1ng trong c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, b\u1ecb k\u00e9o t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi ra.<\/p>\n
Donna, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau, v\u00ec y\u00eau mang t\u1edbi c\u1ea3 hai, nhi\u1ec1u gai v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u hoa, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai t\u1edbi c\u00f9ng nhau. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 b\u1ee5i h\u1ed3ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1c gai kia, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n b\u1ee5i h\u1ed3ng to\u00e0n l\u00e0 hoa v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gai; nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u1edbi c\u00f9ng nhau, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf y\u00eau, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u00e1ch ra. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0: l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ednh l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n h\u01a1n. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1ec1 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i, kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m d\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. C\u00e1i th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1edfi c\u00e1i cao nh\u1ea5t, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111au c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
\u0110au g\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ee5c? V\u00ec n\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh con v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au. N\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, n\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c sinh h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 do, b\u1ea1n \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng do t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trao cho; r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u1edbi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, r\u1eb1ng d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean k\u00e9o, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con r\u1ed1i trong tay c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
D\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ebd m\u1eb7t. Trong d\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111au. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi th\u1ebf; s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh n\u00e0o s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp sau b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn.<\/p>\n
C\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 l\u00e0n gi\u00f3 tho\u1ea3ng, n\u00f3 t\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u01b0 sa m\u1ea1c, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi v\u1ecdng nhi\u1ec1u; nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ee9a b\u1edfi ph\u1ea7n b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n giao.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c ra d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n sinh s\u1ea3n, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i m\u00e0 d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, theo \u00fd ch\u00ed ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0o d\u1ee5c hay kh\u00f4ng. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n th\u1ebf, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi. Ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 xem – n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ch\u1eb3ng ai s\u1ebd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111i v\u00e0o d\u1ee5c. Kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng \u0111i v\u00e0o; ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i, ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111i v\u00e0o n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u00f4n tr\u00f9ng kh\u00e1c nhau b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n: l\u00e0m sao \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i? Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 lo\u00e0i nh\u1ec7n m\u00e0, khi con \u0111\u1ef1c l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi n\u00f3, con c\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0103n n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac, con \u0111\u1ef1c b\u1ecb k\u1ebft th\u00fac! B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c con nh\u1ec7n n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a: kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ch\u00fang th\u1ea5y con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang s\u1ebd tr\u1ed1n xa nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 t\u1eed, khi bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u00f5? Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch – m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra – nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng. Run r\u1ea9y, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, d\u1ea7u v\u1eady ch\u00fang l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh, v\u1eabn bi\u1ebft ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u00f5 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i k\u1ebft. Khi con \u0111\u1ef1c c\u00f3 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch, con c\u00e1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0103n n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
R\u1ec7p c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 m\u1edf, cho n\u00ean r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi n\u00f3. R\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7 trong con c\u00e1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y li\u1ec7u r\u1ec7p c\u00e1i l\u00e0 trinh ti\u1ebft hay kh\u00f4ng, v\u00ec m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i s\u1eb9o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i – \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 v\u1eb7n v\u00edt! – nh\u01b0ng con c\u00e1i s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng cho ph\u00e9p \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111au, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nguy hi\u1ec3m cho \u0111\u1eddi n\u00f3, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu con \u0111\u1ef1c l\u00e0m l\u1ed7 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 sai n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft – v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u1ef1c ngu n\u1eefa! Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady r\u1ee7i ro ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn; c\u00f3 l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i cho quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3. C\u00f3 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh m\u00e0 che gi\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng khai, v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi – v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf. L\u00e0m t\u00ecnh \u1edf ch\u1ed7 c\u00f4ng khai, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3; b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111ang r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i; \u0111au l\u1edbn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecb l\u00f4i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 mang t\u1edbi v\u00e0i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft v\u00e0 vui v\u00e0 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i v\u00e0i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 th\u1eddi gian, khi \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0o c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. N\u00f3 \u0111em t\u1edbi v\u00e0i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 ng\u00e3 n\u1eefa, khi trong kho\u1ea3ng c\u1ef1c th\u00edch s\u00e2u, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 b\u1ecb qu\u00ean \u0111i. N\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0i tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, do \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb b\u1ecf.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3. Su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00e1c s\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3, b\u1edfi l\u1ebd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m b\u1ebd m\u1eb7t th\u1ebf, ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf. \u1ede d\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t t\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3i b\u1ea1i. C\u00e1c s\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi vui trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. H\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n, h\u1ecd quay sang t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1edd ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tinh t\u1ebf; l\u00e0m sao gi\u1ea3i n\u00f3? C\u00e1c s\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u suy \u0111\u1ed3i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. M\u1ecdi suy \u0111\u1ed3i n\u00e0y m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb k\u1ebft \u00e1n b\u1edfi c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1edfi c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh trong c\u00e1c tu vi\u1ec7n, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u1ecb gi\u1eef c\u00f9ng nhau, \u1edf xa v\u00e0 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb gi\u1eef c\u00f9ng nhau, xa c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tu vi\u1ec7n C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c gi\u00e1o n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p v\u00e0o. Ch\u00ednh \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kinh kh\u1ee7ng; nh\u1eefng s\u01b0 n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nguy hi\u1ec3m – ngay c\u1ea3 b\u00e9 g\u00e1i s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p \u1edf trong tu vi\u1ec7n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 c\u00e1i g\u00ec? S\u1ee3 l\u00e0m sao! Hoang t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0m sao!<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00e1c s\u01b0 t\u00fam t\u1ee5m v\u1edbi nhau, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t minh ra suy \u0111\u1ed3i; h\u1ecd bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c. \u0110\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9; \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i suy \u0111\u1ed3i…. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0o l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi qu\u1ec9; qu\u1ec9 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean m\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0! Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qu\u1ec9. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 xa kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau, \u1edf trong y\u00eau, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ea1o ra ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean nh\u1eefng ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u1ea3y ra, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean c\u00e1c s\u01b0 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ni \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, h\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c th\u00eam. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c gi\u00e1c quan, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ea \u0111\u1eafm, c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5; c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c hi v\u1ecdng, t\u1eeb hi v\u1ecdng n\u00e0y t\u1edbi hi v\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong m\u1ecdi hi v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c b\u1ecf c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 qu\u00ed b\u00e1u. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00ed b\u00e1u; n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng trao n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ednh c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u y\u00eau h\u01a1n. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n d\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng linh thi\u00eang, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng l\u00ean. Thay v\u00ec d\u1ee5c k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0o trong v\u0169ng b\u00f9n c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh con v\u1eadt, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u1ee5c l\u00ean tr\u00ean.<\/p>\n
C\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n l\u00ean, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f4i c\u00e1nh. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng; ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng n\u1ea3y sinh ra t\u1eeb n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho sinh ra \u0111\u1ee9a con, cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi v\u00e0o trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3: n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi cho b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi v\u00e0o trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho vi\u1ec7c sinh m\u1edbi cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Jesus ng\u1ee5 \u00fd khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Nicodemus, “Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o \u00f4ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111i v\u00e0o trong v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ta” – ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c cho sinh ra b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n – c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t m\u1edbi cho n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec7u m\u1edbi cho nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9a \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u01a1i tr\u00ean n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
D\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt thi\u1ec1n l\u1edbn. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a Tantra cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. \u0110\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a Tantra l\u00e0 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t, v\u00ec n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1i th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i cao nh\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i b\u00f9n th\u00e0nh hoa sen. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng khoa h\u1ecdc v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra – nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1eaft khe \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, Tantra \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Kinh s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1t, h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn th\u1ea7y Tantra \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb gi\u1ebft, b\u1ecb thi\u00eau s\u1ed1ng. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ed m\u1eadt.<\/p>\n
M\u1edbi h\u00f4m n\u1ecd t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c sannyasin c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1eeb M\u0129 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Gurdjieff b\u1ecb g\u00e2y phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ed m\u1eadt. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft, “Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c theo c\u00e1ch \u1ea9n k\u00edn?”<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, v\u00ec n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Gurdjieff c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c v\u00e0o trong s\u1ef1 t\u00edch h\u1ee3p b\u00ean trong – nh\u00e0 th\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf theo \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ecb g\u00e2y phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u theo \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch. M\u1edbi v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, ngh\u1ecb vi\u1ec7n \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi t\u00f4i – d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn. Nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee3 th\u1ebf! V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u1ea1i g\u00ec cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o; t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i c\u1ed5ng. V\u00e0 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n t\u1eadp \u1ea5m c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi – n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai \u0111\u1ec3 can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i… th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 g\u00ec v\u1eady?<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tu s\u0129 ngu bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u1edf trong m\u01b0u \u0111\u1ed3. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 chi ph\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, t\u1ef1 do; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua m\u1ecdi tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tu s\u0129. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai; th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. H\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u01b0 t\u1eed, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u1eebu.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tu s\u0129 quan t\u00e2m r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u1eebu. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103n c\u1eebu, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o l\u1edbn. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e8n h\u1ea1 v\u00e0 ngu xu\u1ea9n gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o l\u1edbn – nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5p trong th\u00f4ng minh, b\u1ecb gi\u1eef b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n.<\/p>\n
M\u00e3i t\u1edbi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u1ec9 hai th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m. M\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 m\u00ea \u0111\u1eafm, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eed l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa b\u1edfi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m kia l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng th\u1eed, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eed \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y b\u1edfi Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n kh\u1ea9n thi\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang trong r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n l\u1edbn, trong r\u1ed1i ren l\u1edbn. \u0110i \u0111\u00e2u? L\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta?<\/p>\n
Donna, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf d\u1ee5c, t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 sinh h\u1ecdc: \u0111em t\u00ednh t\u00e2m linh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cho n\u00f3 \u0111i. Khi l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh, thi\u1ec1n n\u1eefa. Khi l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt l\u00ed; \u0111\u1ed5 h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3 \u0111i.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf th\u00ec d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111au b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9a trong \u0111au \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ea3 ra v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh h\u01a1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111au kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u.”<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea5y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u00e8o l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd kh\u1ed5. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. R\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 trong y\u00eau l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i qua l\u1eeda; n\u00f3 l\u00e0m thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft, n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nhu nh\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u. Sau khi nghe th\u1ea7y t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 r\u1eb1ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m phong ph\u00fa s\u00e2u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i mang l\u1ea1i, chung cu\u1ed9c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n.”<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n – r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mang t\u1edbi cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong tay t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u1edf trong tay t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec? Hai c\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi hai l\u00e0 b\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00ednh lu\u1eadt n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 y\u00eau mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. Y\u00eau t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khao kh\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n
T\u00ednh sannyas l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng: vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5, v\u00e0 t\u1eebng kh\u1ed5 \u0111ang mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i t\u1edbi r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0i tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn – v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf – nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn; nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u; nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00ecm v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf – h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. Quy\u1ec1n duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n
Y\u00eau, v\u00e0 y\u00eau s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n \u0111i. Kh\u1ed5, v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n \u0111i. Y\u00eau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u0111i, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch v\u00e0ng th\u00f4 \u0111i qua l\u1eeda v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00e0ng r\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, tr\u1ed1n kh\u1ecfi chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o trong ch\u00fang \u0111i. T\u00f4i gi\u00fap c\u00e1c sannyasin c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111i v\u00e0o trong y\u00eau, v\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft y\u00eau chung cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau chung cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 r\u1edfm.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7”, T.2, Ch.27<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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