Ghen l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf?<\/p>\n
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Prem Garbha, ghen l\u00e0 so s\u00e1nh. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y so s\u00e1nh, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh so s\u00e1nh, bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng so s\u00e1nh. Ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n, ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n h\u01a1n. So s\u00e1nh, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111i qua, v\u00e0 ghen l\u1edbn s\u1ebd l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 so s\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n
B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf so s\u00e1nh, ghen bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ai kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi c\u00e2y, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t ghen: t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng xanh? V\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t th\u1ebf v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n – v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi hoa? T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi chim, v\u1edbi s\u00f4ng, v\u1edbi n\u00fai; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 so s\u00e1nh ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 v\u1edbi v\u1eb9t. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, ghen c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n: b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh b\u1edfi ghen t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
So s\u00e1nh l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1ea5t ngu, v\u00ec t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 v\u00f4 song. M\u1ed9t khi vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u n\u00e0y l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng trong b\u1ea1n, ghen bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. T\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 v\u00f4 song. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n: kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ebd bao gi\u1edd gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n; ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n sao gi\u1ea5y than.<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0n g\u00e0 \u1edf trong s\u00e2n th\u00ec m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1 bay qua h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o v\u00e0 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang. Con g\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng \u0111i l\u1ea1ch b\u1ea1ch qua, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3, r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1eeda kia.”<\/p>\n
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Ngo\u00e0i c\u1eeda nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn lao \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra: c\u1ecf xanh h\u01a1n, hoa h\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3ng h\u01a1n. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ebf – ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c so s\u00e1nh. V\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111ang so s\u00e1nh n\u1eefa. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 c\u1ecf trong b\u00e3i c\u1ecf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 xanh h\u01a1n – n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb xanh h\u01a1n t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch – r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n…. B\u1ea1n m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u1eafc b\u1eaby b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf c\u00f4 \u1ea5y – v\u00e0 anh h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghen v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f4 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1ebf! V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghen v\u1edbi anh ta….<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ghen v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb ghen ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb ghen ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t h\u00e8n h\u1ea1.<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t l\u00e3o n\u00f4ng \u0111ang \u0111\u0103m chi\u00eau nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1eadn l\u1ee5t. “Hiram!” m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m k\u00eau l\u00ean, “l\u1ee3n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n tr\u00f4i xu\u1ed1ng s\u00f4ng con r\u1ed3i.”<\/p>\n
“L\u1ee3n c\u1ee7a Thompson th\u00ec sao?” l\u00e3o n\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n
“Ch\u00fang c\u0169ng b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n \u0111i r\u1ed3i.”<\/p>\n
“C\u00f2n c\u1ee7a Larsen?”<\/p>\n
“V\u00e2ng.”<\/p>\n
“H\u1eebm!” l\u00e3o n\u00f4ng th\u1ed1t l\u00ean, vui m\u1eebng. “Kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129.”<\/p>\n
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N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u trong kh\u1ed5, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i; n\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho v\u1ecb r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111i v\u00e0o trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n ngay ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean? L\u1ea7n n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n: v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p nh\u1ef1a s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea3y; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1edf hoa. Do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u00ean trong, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c: \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra ghen. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd: \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra ghen. Kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c bi\u1ebft b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec, v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf. N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 r\u1edfm, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang l\u00e0 r\u1edfm? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tim h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111ang m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 r\u1edfm, v\u00ec tim b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang k\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 v\u1eadt tr\u01b0ng b\u00e0y v\u00e0 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n Sufi c\u1ed5:<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t b\u1ecb n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh b\u1edfi kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a anh ta. Anh ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, “T\u1ea1i sao l\u00e0 con? M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ebf, sao ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed7i con trong kh\u1ed5 th\u1ebf?” M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn lao, anh ta c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, “Ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho con kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 con s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng xin l\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a con \u0111i, con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 th\u00eam n\u1eefa.”<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 anh ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 \u0111\u1eb9p – \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3i l\u1ed9. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 \u0111\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, “\u0110em m\u1ecdi kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong \u0111\u1ec1n.” M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh – th\u1ef1c ra m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00fac kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, “Con s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng xin l\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a con \u0111i; th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.”<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu th\u1eadp kh\u1ed5 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho v\u00e0o bao, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac; ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi, l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u0169ng ch\u1ea1y x\u00f4 t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u1ec3 c\u00e1c bao c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh t\u01b0\u1eddng.” M\u1ecdi bao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea1nh t\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1: “B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec bao n\u00e0o.”<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y x\u00f4 t\u1edbi c\u00e1i bao c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn n\u00f3! Nh\u01b0ng anh ta l\u1ea1i trong ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ea1y x\u00f4 v\u1ec1 bao ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ea1i n\u00f3. Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00e0y? L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c – bao c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u1eadt l\u1edbn, hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n!<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen v\u1edbi kh\u1ed5 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u1ecdn kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c – ai bi\u1ebft lo\u1ea1i kh\u1ed5 n\u00e0o s\u1ebd \u1edf b\u00ean trong bao? Sao b\u1eadn t\u00e2m? \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi kh\u1ed5 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng ch\u00fang – sao ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft?<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 mang c\u00f9ng c\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i bao ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ebfn s\u00e1ng anh ta c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u00e0 anh ta n\u00f3i, “C\u00e1m \u01a1n ng\u00e0i v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1; con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i n\u1eefa. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 cho con \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho con, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t cho con; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 trao n\u00f3 cho con.”<\/p>\n
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V\u00ec ghen b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong kh\u1ed5 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean; b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u00e8n h\u1ea1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 v\u00ec ghen b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u1edfm, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3<\/em> c\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o h\u01a1n. B\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 n\u00f3, c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i thay th\u1ebf r\u1ebb n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cho n\u00f3.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u00f4i nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng Jim v\u00e0 Nancy Smith c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian th\u00fa v\u1ecb \u1edf ch\u00e2u \u00c2u m\u00f9a h\u00e8 n\u00e0y. N\u00f3 th\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb th\u1ebf khi \u0111\u00f4i n\u00e0y chung cu\u1ed9c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3. H\u1ecd \u0111i m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Paris, Rome… b\u1ea1n n\u00eau t\u00ean n\u00f3, h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u00e0m n\u00f3.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng th\u1ebf khi quay v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u0111i qua h\u1ea3i quan. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c quan ch\u1ee9c h\u1ea3i quan d\u00f2 h\u1ecfi xoi m\u00f3i v\u00e0o trong m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh l\u00ed c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd m\u1edf t\u00fai ra v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y ra ba b\u1ed9 t\u00f3c gi\u1ea3, qu\u1ea7n l\u00f3t l\u1ee5a, n\u01b0\u1edbc hoa, thu\u1ed1c nhu\u1ed9m t\u00f3c… th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00fai c\u1ee7a Jim!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n C\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong t\u00fai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o, r\u1edfm, th\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 – \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t? – v\u00ec ghen th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ghen s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c. B\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c so s\u00e1nh \u0111i v\u00e0 ghen bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, h\u00e8n h\u1ea1 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, r\u1edfm bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng kho b\u00e1u b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111i, tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ra b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi m\u1edf ra cho b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng m\u1edf, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7”, T.2, Ch.27<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ghen l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf? Prem Garbha, ghen l\u00e0 so s\u00e1nh. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3537,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3536","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cac-khai-niem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3536","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3536"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3536\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3538,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3536\/revisions\/3538"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3537"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3536"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3536"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3536"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}