Khao kh\u00e1t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec trong t\u00f4i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft n\u00e0o l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u00e0 phi\u00eau l\u01b0u \u0111\u1eb9p?<\/p>\n
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Prem Kavita, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u00edt th\u00f4ng minh. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh lo\u1ea1ng cho\u1ea1ng v\u1edb ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n – v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng th\u00f4ng minh, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm h\u01a1n – r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1i sao? – v\u00ec m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u0169i t\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh l\u1edbn h\u01a1n \u1edf ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc – ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fat \u00edt h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fat \u00edt h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu c\u01a1n kh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ch\u00fat \u00edt h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1t h\u01a1n, s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3i h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra trong m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Thay v\u00ec cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n, n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. T\u1eebng quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y – v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 n\u00f3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i; ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd l\u00e0 tai ho\u1ea1 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ch\u00ednh ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh l\u00e0 n\u00f3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
V\u00ec t\u1eebng quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, v\u1edbi c\u00e0n kh\u00f4n. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o, b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0o; r\u1eb1ng t\u1eebng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec1u k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u trong hi v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn v\u00e0 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf b\u1ea1n trong v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady, n\u00f3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n l\u1edbn v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong v\u1ecb cay \u0111\u1eafng. Khi n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 – r\u1eb1ng t\u1eebng quan h\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i: “Khao kh\u00e1t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec trong t\u00f4i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n?<\/em>”<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i n\u00f3 ra, \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c n\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec, v\u00ec l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, m\u1edd m\u1ecbt, b\u1ecb bao quanh b\u1edfi s\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00f9 l\u1edbn. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, \u0111\u1ec3 cho kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i, vi\u1ec7c t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u1ea3y ra. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, v\u00e0 sau khi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 qua \u0111i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i l\u1edbn. Sau ch\u1edbp lo\u00e9 \u0111\u00f3, tia s\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i, t\u1ed1i s\u1ebd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n t\u1ed1i h\u01a1n n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eady tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau – v\u00ec \u00edt nh\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta quen v\u1edbi t\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n: ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n cho n\u00f3, cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i y\u00eau, m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y v\u00e0i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a vui, c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eadp r\u1ed9n r\u00e0ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3 khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 hai…. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i \u0111i r\u01a1i l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec9nh \u0111\u00f3; v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i l\u00fac b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u1ed1i c\u00f2n t\u1ed1i h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec9nh, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea1n, r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111i t\u1edbi v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u0103n v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 – r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh lang c\u1ee7a l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi v\u00e0o trong v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng \u1edf h\u00e0nh lang, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t khi c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 m\u1edf ra v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i – c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, c\u00e1i v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, c\u00e1i huy ho\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 – hay m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb t\u1ed1ng ra ngo\u00e0i, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u00e0nh lang kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n b\u1ea1n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u00e0nh lang n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng tr\u00ean tim b\u1ea1n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1eefa l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra. T\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra?<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u1ec9, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y v\u00e0i tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf ra v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y c\u00f5i b\u00ean kia. L\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? L\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u1ea5m c\u00fang trong ch\u1ed7 h\u00e0nh lang ngu xu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00f3? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nh\u00e0 vua n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft, “L\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n t\u1eadp \u1ea5m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.” M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao \u0111i v\u00e0o trong l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i, l\u00e0m sao tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u01b0 d\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00fa trong n\u00f3. V\u00e2ng, t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf b\u00ean trong, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed1ng ra ngo\u00e0i l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng trong b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng th\u00f4ng minh, s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n t\u1eeb ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y t\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng; b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xin tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng mang b\u00f9n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u01a1i ch\u00fat ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n. H\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c khoe khoang v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3: “Tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2y! Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 cung c\u1ea5p cho ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y m\u1ecdi ti\u1ec7n nghi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n. V\u00e0 \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang t\u00f4i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec, v\u1eady m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n.” Th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c khoe khoang v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c khoe khoang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ngu\u1ef5 bi\u1ec7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y – ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3i – kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. H\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u00ec ti\u1ec7n nghi, s\u1ef1 thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 cung c\u1ea5p cho h\u1ecd, \u0111\u00e3 cho h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m, \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i nh\u1ea1c, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa, t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c v\u00e0i tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea3y ra. H\u1ecd \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t; ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u00ecm s\u00e2u.<\/p>\n Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o – v\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, nh\u1edb l\u1ea5y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, ngh\u00e8o s\u1ebd l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n da d\u1ea7y quanh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t m\u00f9, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong n\u01b0\u1edbc ngh\u00e8o. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xin c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ed1m c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00ean ph\u1ed1, s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft: n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fat n\u00e0o? Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xin kia s\u1ebd \u00e1m \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3ng c\u00e1c c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra tr\u00ean c\u00e1c ph\u1ed1 \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9. Kh\u00e1ch th\u0103m ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y r\u1ea5t ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n: m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft tr\u00ean ph\u1ed1 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111i qua. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o; h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 xa hoa nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 xa hoa! H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi th\u1ebf, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m ch\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd, v\u00ec ai s\u1ebd ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd? H\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u00f9 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ebfc. H\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 th\u00e2y ma, kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn c\u00e1i g\u00ec. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi h\u1ecd, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu nghi\u1ec7p ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xin ch\u1ebft tr\u00ean ph\u1ed1 l\u00e0 \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu t\u1eeb nghi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 – c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ki\u1ebfp qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ef1c ra b\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1eeb nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac. L\u1ea7n sinh ti\u1ebfp ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u00e0 vua, hay c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf – c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00ed ho\u00e1 hay \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n m\u00f9, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea9m m\u0129 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea9m m\u0129 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i ngh\u00e8o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y – c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m cho h\u1ecd? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1, h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u1ee7 trong ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u, v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 m\u1ee5c ru\u1ed7ng – ch\u00fang l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, nh\u1edb l\u1ea5y. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7 n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1edbi ch\u00e2u Phi v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n; h\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n ngh\u00e8o h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 l\u1ea1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 l\u1ea1c ngh\u00e8o nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. H\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1ef1 th\u00f4i mi\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m sao h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0103n?<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t khi m\u1ed9t n\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ea7u, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. M\u1ed9t khi m\u1ed9t n\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3, sung t\u00fac, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u, nhi\u1ec1u chi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o. N\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1ea7u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, h\u1ed9i ho\u1ea1, th\u01a1 ca, v\u00e0 chung cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n – v\u00ec thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 xa hoa cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 xa hoa n\u00e0o l\u1edbn h\u01a1n thi\u1ec1n. Thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 xa hoa cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, Kavita, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, v\u00ec th\u1ef1c ra kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 chi\u00eam tinh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem t\u01b0\u1edbng tay quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. N\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp s\u1eeda v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n; h\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng nhau. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sinh con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 y\u00eau; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n trong n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 n\u00f3: n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a li d\u1ecb. Li d\u1ecb l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 y\u00eau. C\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u t\u00f4i \u0111i. Y\u00eau ng\u1ee5 \u00fd hi v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn, y\u00eau ng\u1ee5 \u00fd “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi.” Y\u00eau ng\u1ee5 \u00fd “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng.” Y\u00eau ng\u1ee5 \u00fd vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng “Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ra cho nhau.” Y\u00eau ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecm th\u00eam b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi hi v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn th\u1ebf, qua th\u1eddi gian tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt k\u1ebft th\u00fac, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd k\u1ebft th\u00fac. Nh\u1eefng hi v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng b\u1edfi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang hi v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 n\u1eef Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf; c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y hi v\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf; anh ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i l\u1eabn nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao l\u00e2u? S\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y ra th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bay h\u01a1i.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi hi v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. V\u00e2ng, hi v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. Kh\u00f4ng b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho n\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi c\u00e1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, khi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi c\u00e1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n, s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng cho n\u00f3.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho y\u00eau, v\u00ec y\u00eau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean – t\u00f4i c\u00f3 logic ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho y\u00eau, v\u00ec y\u00eau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng; n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eb1ng. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m: b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1ef1a, nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9…. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean tinh ranh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tinh ranh. T\u1eeb t\u00ednh tinh ranh n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 t\u1ea3o h\u00f4n, v\u00ec m\u1ed9t khi ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1eafp l\u1edbn hi v\u1ecdng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ea3y sinh – khao kh\u00e1t, l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, th\u01a1 ca; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f3. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n con tr\u1ebb, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 g\u00ec, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec – ch\u00fang th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t n\u00f3 – d\u1ee5c c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee9 ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i trong ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1ec3 ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y nhau.<\/p>\n Ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 xem – b\u00e9 g\u00e1i ba tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y b\u00e9 trai n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f9ng nhau, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 anh em v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f9ng nhau. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 li d\u1ecb ch\u1ecb em b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ch\u1eb3ng ai \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd li d\u1ecb ch\u1ecb em ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u. B\u1ea1n coi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u00f3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1eb9p; ch\u1ecb em g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, anh em trai m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u1ea1n coi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean v\u1eady.<\/p>\n Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u1eeb t\u1ef1 do ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u1ede \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 ngay c\u1ea3 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho nh\u01b0 anh v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb. V\u00e0 khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f9ng nhau trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ea3y sinh. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7, \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh – v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u00f5 y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh. Ch\u1ecdn y\u00eau v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n \u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111ang r\u00e3 r\u1eddi ra, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ed7n \u0111\u1ed9n.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t n\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean Hollywood, r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng ba m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t l\u1ea7n. Sau ba ng\u00e0y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n l\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1edb nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n th\u1ebf…. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i, m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9. Ngay c\u1ea3 sau nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1edb b\u1ea1n; ngay c\u1ea3 sau nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho y\u00eau, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t lo\u1ea1i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu x\u1ebfp, v\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu x\u1ebfp cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. C\u00f2n y\u00eau? – y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u khao kh\u00e1t v\u1ec1 y\u00eau ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng khao kh\u00e1t n\u00f3 h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. Khi y\u00eau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u1edbi, lo\u1ea1i y\u00eau m\u1edbi, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a y\u00eau. Chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, thi\u1ec1n, t\u00ednh sannyas.<\/p>\n Kavita, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng khao kh\u00e1t n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. Khao kh\u00e1t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m m\u1ea1nh th\u00eam n\u1eefa; kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft n\u00e0o s\u1ebd l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 cho n\u00f3, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i. V\u1eady m\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i qua ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111i qua m\u1ecdi gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u \u0111\u1eb9p. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n Ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 xem, Kavita, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. C\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi ki\u1ec3u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y? C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u1eeb t\u00f2 m\u00f2. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, \u0111au kh\u1ed5; t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong n\u00f3, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua. N\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0ng, ng\u00e3 \u0111i ng\u00e3 l\u1ea1i, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong b\u1ea1n – v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng. Ngay c\u1ea3 h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u0169ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u00ean b\u1edd c\u1ee7a c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u c\u0169 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u m\u1edbi – kh\u00f4ng theo ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1edbi hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 m\u1edbi – cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u m\u1edbi theo ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm trong chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1edbi, l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n Chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n: t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n. Atisha \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian, kh\u00f4ng b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef s\u1ef1 m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ban ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7”, T.2, Ch.23<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Khao kh\u00e1t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec trong t\u00f4i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft n\u00e0o l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9, … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3502,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[66],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3501","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cach-song-va-chet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3501","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3501"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3501\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3503,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3501\/revisions\/3503"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3502"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3501"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3501"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3501"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}