Osho k\u00ednh y\u00eau, l\u00e0m sao l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i?<\/p>\n
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Anand Somen, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cho n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u v\u00e0o tim b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 k\u0129 thu\u1eadt, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p. Ch\u00fang ta thu m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c. C\u00f3 h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m sao tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m sao: l\u00e0m sao l\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, l\u00e0m sao l\u00e0m c\u00e1i kia, l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ea7u, l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 thu ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, l\u00e0m sao thi\u1ec1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0m sao y\u00eau. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng xa khi anh ch\u00e0ng ngu n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao th\u1edf.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m sao kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1eebng thu s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng b\u1ecb thu th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u1ecdi h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m vui.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch; t\u00ean cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch th\u1eadt n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i<\/em>. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1i “ph\u1ea3i” l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e1c \u1edf tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e1c – B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i – s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u1ed1 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd. C\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00e0ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n Th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 to\u1ea3 s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n: s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh. R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh? N\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f3 quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch n\u00e0o v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch n\u00e0o \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1eb3ng \u00edch g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3.<\/p>\n B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn h\u01b0\u1edbng theo m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch; t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh mang t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0o; m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00f4ng gian cho c\u00e1c \u00fd ngh\u0129 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, ham mu\u1ed1n n\u1ea3y sinh. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i. H\u00f4m nay ch\u00fang ta \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y mai ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i – c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng. V\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 lo ngh\u0129, lo ngh\u0129 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean “li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng” – tim run r\u1ea9y, rung chuy\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng. B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 trong c\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea5t b\u00ean trong, b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u00ean b\u1edd c\u1ee7a suy s\u1ee5p th\u1ea7n kinh. C\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, v\u00e0 s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd k\u1ebft th\u00fac tr\u00ean tr\u00e0ng k\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n C\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, ch\u1eb3ng v\u00ec l\u00ed do n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u, th\u1ebf th\u00ec v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc sang kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n, m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb t\u1eeb Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hay c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 hay b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 – \u0110\u1ea1o, ph\u00e1p, logo.<\/p>\n Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n: h\u00e1t b\u00e0i ca, s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 trong t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 hi sinh n\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o m\u00e0 s\u1ebd t\u1edbi trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. S\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n H\u1ecd n\u00f3i ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt v\u00ec ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady – t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n: S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. T\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Hi sinh n\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi th\u00f3i quen hi sinh l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi sinh cho kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ti\u1ebfp, v\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ti\u1ebfp cho kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ti\u1ebfp, v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e3i – h\u1ebft n\u0103m n\u00e0y t\u1edbi n\u0103m ti\u1ebfp, h\u1ebft ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0y t\u1edbi ki\u1ebfp ti\u1ebfp! Th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh logic \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n: m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, th\u1ebf th\u00ec to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u – cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o trong mi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea5t hoang, cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh sa m\u1ea1c, cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 hu\u1ef7, t\u1ef1 t\u1eed.<\/p>\n S\u1ed1ng trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y v\u00ec ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u1ef1c th\u00edch. V\u00e2ng, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c sannyasin c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i n\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eddi r\u0103n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb t\u1eed v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1o, b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. V\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng, y\u00eau, t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng, l\u00e0 qu\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho n\u00f3. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta mang qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ea1i. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ebd mang qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9? N\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, ph\u1ecfng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec m\u00e0 mang tri th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 trao cho b\u1ea1n? N\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh h\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u, t\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u t\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00e0 gi\u1eefa hai c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd-\u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u (nowhere) bao g\u1ed3m hai t\u1eeb: b\u00e2y gi\u1edd-now, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y-here. Gi\u1eefa hai c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u (nowhere) n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd-\u1edf \u0111\u00e2y (now-here).<\/p>\n V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i theo k\u0129 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 c\u0169 – h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00edch – b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean canh ch\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u1eadm; b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u1eadm.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1ee3, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean k\u0129 thu\u1eadt, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c th\u00f3i quen c\u0169 s\u1ebd chi\u1ebfm quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec th\u1ef1c ra th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft r\u1ec5 trong tri\u1ebft l\u00ed v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t: \u0110\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3!<\/p>\n T\u1eeb ch\u00ednh kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea5p cho n\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c: tham v\u1ecdng, th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3, t\u00ean tu\u1ed5i, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3; ch\u00fang ta cho s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u1edbn… hai m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m n\u0103m b\u1ecb ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i trong vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb em s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ba cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ba quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta hai m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00fat gi\u1ea3m theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch. \u0110\u1ec9nh cao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 \u1edf qu\u00e3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea9y tu\u1ed5i r\u01b0\u1ee1i; qu\u00e3ng m\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1m tu\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec9nh d\u1ee5c cao nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 hai m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u00e0.<\/p>\n Hai m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m n\u0103m b\u1ecb ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t…. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 c\u1ea1nh tranh, xung \u0111\u1ed9t. Tr\u00ean t\u1eebng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. Ngay c\u1ea3 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb: ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u1ee3, v\u1ee3 c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u1ed3ng, con c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con c\u00e1i. Th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh khai th\u00e1c. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Martin Buber g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 “t\u00f4i-n\u00f3”: m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ecb thu l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh h\u00e0ng ho\u00e1.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0: ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u00e0nh m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng, thu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 v\u1ee3, v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang c\u1ed1 thu b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00e0nh ch\u1ed3ng. L\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 thi\u00eang li\u00eang, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 hay l\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p. Th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3, kinh doanh. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u01a1 ca ch\u1ebft. V\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111ang trong ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd: ai chi ph\u1ed1i ai?<\/p>\n T\u1eeb m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t t\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f4 nh\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i-n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi x\u1ea5u x\u00ed. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, khi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea1nh tranh th\u1ebf v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ea1nh tranh th\u1ebf, Somen, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n thua cu\u1ed9c! N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 v\u00f4 danh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i ch\u1eef k\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ai n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i? M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua Olympic v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i, “L\u00e0m sao ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i?” N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c! Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua Olympic n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua Olympic. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111ua, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111ua t\u1edbi t\u1ed1i \u0111a, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. H\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u k\u1ebb th\u00f9… ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea1nh tranh, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9. H\u1ecd \u0111ang ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tham v\u1ecdng n\u00e0y, th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u1edf hoa, y\u00eau g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u1eeb bi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ed1ng l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n x\u1ea5u th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0 b\u1ea3n hay n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng tri\u1ebft l\u00ed. Ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a c\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a t\u01b0 b\u1ea3n, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a Do Th\u00e1i gi\u00e1o. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t; ch\u1ec9 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t – \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch sang ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n Ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c l\u00e0 l\u1edbn trong n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n – th\u1ef1c ra c\u00f2n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n trong n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0 b\u1ea3n – v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c s\u01a1n tr\u1eafng t\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u01a1n tr\u1eafng ch\u00fang, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ea7u; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t th\u1ef1c n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m trong c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch thi\u1ec1n. T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao. \u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i “T\u1ea1i sao \u00e0? Thi\u1ec1n cho an b\u00ecnh, im l\u1eb7ng, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh.”<\/p>\n T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng ta, “\u00d4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n \u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i, “C\u00f3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb n\u01a1i xa th\u1ebf.”<\/p>\n “Th\u1ebf th\u00ec,” t\u00f4i n\u00f3i, “\u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u00f4ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh. \u00d4ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn. N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a thi\u1ec1n, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. \u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u00ean hai con ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 hai con ng\u1ef1a \u0111ang \u0111i theo c\u00e1c h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1ee9ng.”<\/p>\n \u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i, “\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 th\u1ec3! Th\u1ef1c ra t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u00f4ng v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1ebf trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ban \u0111\u00eam, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, t\u00f4i tr\u1eb1n tr\u1ecdc tr\u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam n\u1eefa, c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng lo \u00e2u ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb li\u00ean t\u1ee5c. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i t\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i k\u0129 thu\u1eadt thi\u1ec1n m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea1nh tranh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf cho thi\u1ec1n. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n thi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 t\u00f4i trong c\u1ea1nh tranh ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf trong ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, v\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00ednh trong bang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.”<\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Thi\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ecdc l\u00ean trong b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n; thay \u0111\u1ed5i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng. N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdc l\u00ean; n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n Thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c g\u00ec. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp n\u00f3. Th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o, tu\u1ef3 ti\u1ec7n. Tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp ra – nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c. V\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u00e2n l\u00ed gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t.<\/p>\n Thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 ch\u1eadm – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 ch\u1eadm nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o m\u00e0 \u0111i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh, vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. Khi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu l\u00e0 ch\u1eadm, kh\u00f4ng n\u0103ng n\u1ed5, kh\u00f4ng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn n\u00e0o v\u00e0o c\u00e1i \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. M\u1eaft b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch xa x\u00f4i, ng\u00f4i sao xa x\u0103m; b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nh\u00ecn ra \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5, chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf Hi L\u1ea1p. M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 chi\u00eam tinh l\u1edbn, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, ng\u00e3 xu\u1ed1ng gi\u1ebfng. V\u00ec ban \u0111\u00eam \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u sao, b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i gi\u1ebfng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 ng\u00e3 v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3.<\/p>\n Ti\u1ebfng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ng\u00e3 xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y k\u00eau…. M\u1ed9t b\u00e0 gi\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng trong l\u1ec1u b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u01b0\u1edbc ra, gi\u00fap \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ra kh\u1ecfi gi\u1ebfng. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t sung s\u01b0\u1edbng. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ee9u m\u1ea1ng t\u00f4i! B\u00e0 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 chi\u00eam tinh ho\u00e0ng gia \u0111\u1ea5y. Ph\u00ed c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t cao – ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c vua c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tham v\u1ea5n t\u00f4i – nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi b\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u00e0. B\u00e0 t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u00e0o s\u00e1ng mai \u0111i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh ph\u00ed \u0111\u00e2u.”<\/p>\n B\u00e0 gi\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Qu\u00ean m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i! \u00d4ng th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eeda m\u00e9t – l\u00e0m sao \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i?”<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0. \u00c1m \u1ea3nh l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 “c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0.” \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u0111i\u00ean.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i t\u1ee9c kh\u1eafc, c\u00e1i \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong c\u00e1i t\u1ee9c kh\u1eafc, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong c\u00e1i \u1edf c\u1eadn k\u1ec1, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi ng\u00f4i sao xa x\u0103m trong n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng \u1edf trong tay b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ai. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 \u0111ang m\u01a1 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xin. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xin \u0111ang c\u1ed1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf – trong m\u01a1 h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady th\u00f4i! V\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i th\u1ee9c d\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai? Trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9? Qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 – b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady ch\u1ec9 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady ch\u1ec9 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu v\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed5i tri\u1ebft l\u00ed c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 tri\u1ebft l\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i. Th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eady. V\u1edbi m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o – nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t khi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u, v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Lo ngh\u0129 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111i d\u1ea1o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eebng c\u00e2y v\u00e0 t\u1eebng \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u1eebng chim v\u00e0 t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i qua.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7”, T.2, Ch.18<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Osho k\u00ednh y\u00eau, l\u00e0m sao l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i? 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