Th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3: H\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u1edf trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed?<\/p>\n
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Anurag, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 t\u00ean ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb k\u1ebft \u00e1n trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ec9. G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3, v\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ebfn t\u1ebf c\u00e1i h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n c\u00e1i v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh; h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ch\u1eb7t r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n
Th\u00f4i th\u00fac v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e3 chi ph\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i c\u00f3 quan ni\u1ec7m kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 ham mu\u1ed1n. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. Ham mu\u1ed1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o, ham mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00edch, ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1, ham mu\u1ed1n thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft, l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 t\u00ean ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
Ham mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft. Ham mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n; ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i hoa v\u00e0 chim v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng. Ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. Ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n
Kinh s\u00e1ch ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang khi ch\u00fang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ham mu\u1ed1n l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh trong \u00f4ng \u1ea5y – ham mu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, ham mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9, ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ra nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t, ham mu\u1ed1n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u d\u1ee5; Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi ham mu\u1ed1n. Ham mu\u1ed1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd khao kh\u00e1t, khao kh\u00e1t l\u1edbn, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh to l\u1edbn – kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, quan s\u00e1t ham mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd. Ngay c\u1ea3 trong ham mu\u1ed1n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u01a1 s\u1edf hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. Th\u1ef1c ra \u0111i\u1ec1u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n th\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00e1i mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng, v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1eddn l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i kia – l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. V\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ti\u1ec1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ti\u1ec1n. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 y\u00eau ti\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 thi\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ham mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n, nhi\u1ec1u danh v\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u h\u01a1n, s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y? C\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 th\u00f4i, \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9: h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3, \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt, m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00e2y t\u1ed3n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, v\u00ec c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ecb c\u1ea7m t\u00f9.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n, s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n, \u0111\u1ec1u g\u00e2y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3, v\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a th\u00eam ch\u00fat \u00edt, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. Ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. V\u00e2ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u quy\u1ec1n h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i. H\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1eb3ng ai bi\u1ebft t\u00ean h\u1ecd. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong c\u00e1t b\u1ee5i – b\u1ee5i v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi b\u1ee5i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft n\u00e0o c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Alexander \u0110\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebf \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? \u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t Alexander \u0110\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ebft hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xin s\u1ed1ng? H\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 xem, v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xin c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t Alexander.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n quan s\u00e1t c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, ti\u1ec1n, quy\u1ec1n, danh – ch\u1eb3ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n h\u01a1n. T\u1ea1i sao? – v\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o c\u00f2n c\u00f3 hi v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e3i m\u00e3i, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i n\u00e0o. Th\u1ef1c ra, b\u1ea1n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y lo \u00e2u h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n
Ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e3 mang t\u1edbi v\u00e0i ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 mang t\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u tai ho\u1ea1 n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00edt an b\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ed1 d\u01b0 ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u00ean l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, lo \u00e2u, th\u1ea7n kinh, r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n. Ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e3 mang t\u1edbi v\u00e0i th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t; theo g\u00f3t n\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea7u tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ti\u1ec1n s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra – m\u1ed7i ch\u1ebft, ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9; gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 v\u1ecb. M\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m sao ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ham mu\u1ed1n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng ham mu\u1ed1n trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng sai. Ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n, ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 quy\u1ec1n, ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 danh, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 sai cho ham mu\u1ed1n – \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111i. B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 sai c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ham mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sai. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfc ki\u1ebfm v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft ai \u0111\u00f3 – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ki\u1ebfm th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00f9ng chi\u1ebfc ki\u1ebfm n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thu\u1ed1c n\u1eefa. Trong b\u00e0n tay \u0111\u00fang, ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc cam l\u1ed3; trong b\u00e0n tay sai, cam l\u1ed3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt trong m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u00e1c tu s\u0129 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9; \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 mang t\u1edbi cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n
Ham mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. L\u00e0m sao bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i ham mu\u1ed1n? M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch, c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00e1ch t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111i theo ti\u1ec1n, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i theo Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n – tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, \u0111i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1n ch\u00f9a, t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 th\u1edd h\u1ed3i gi\u00e1o. \u0110\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 m\u1edbi mang t\u00ean Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01a1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf? Ti\u1ec1n \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf? B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 nghe n\u00f3i t\u1eeb n\u00e0y. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u1eeb tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a r\u00f3t n\u1ed9i dung n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o n\u00f3 qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi h\u1ecd b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ham mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3: h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m ra \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c – c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi, thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u1ea1i l\u1eeba b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu.<\/p>\n
Th\u00f4ng minh l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Th\u00f4ng minh ng\u1ee5 \u00fd s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi – ngay c\u1ea3 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh d\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 – d\u00f9 tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c hay th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong s\u1ef1 thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc sang kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y ham mu\u1ed1n, \u0111\u1ea7y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t, \u0111am m\u00ea t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Kim lo\u1ea1i c\u01a1 s\u1edf tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 c\u00e2y ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i \u0111i t\u1edbi n\u1edf hoa.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 Ph\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i, c\u00e2y ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ecdc l\u00e1; tr\u00e1i v\u1ee5, c\u00e2y s\u1ebd n\u1edf hoa. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u01a1 ca hay v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed si\u00eau h\u00ecnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft, ch\u1ec9 ham mu\u1ed1n. Kh\u00f4ng ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 vua. Th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ti\u1ec1n, th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7, th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi hai m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn tu\u1ed5i – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ed1n \u0111i. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t, v\u00ec sau ba m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi hippy l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u1eebng tin v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean ba m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i.” Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ed1n \u0111i v\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c hai m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn tu\u1ed5i – v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m theo c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00e8n h\u01a1n. T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ed1n \u0111i. Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ed1n \u0111i t\u00ecm Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, \u0111i t\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 thay th\u1ebf ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n. Trong s\u00e1u n\u0103m \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ba m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m tu\u1ed5i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ecbn \u0103n h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng, \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ec1n, \u0111\u00e3 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp yoga. V\u00e0 v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i kh\u00e1c nhau. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1eeb th\u1ea7y n\u00e0y sang th\u1ea7y kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i n\u00e0y sang tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i kh\u00e1c, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean ch\u1edbp lo\u00e9.<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i qua s\u00f4ng Niranjana. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 con s\u00f4ng nh\u1ecf – khi t\u00f4i t\u1edbi th\u0103m s\u00f4ng n\u00e0y t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. Chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00f4ng Niranjana, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u01a1i qua n\u00f3, v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 y\u1ebfu th\u1ebf. S\u00f4ng n\u00e0y h\u1eb9p th\u1ebf, s\u00f4ng n\u00e0y nh\u1ecf th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m nh\u1ecbn \u0103n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ecbn \u0103n l\u00e2u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ed9 x\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 khung x\u01b0\u01a1ng; b\u1ee5ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 l\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00f4ng n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 m\u1eafc v\u00e0o r\u1ec5 c\u00e2y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi s\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n
Trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. S\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Khi th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, khi ch\u00e1n ng\u00e1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, khi v\u1ee1 m\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 hi v\u1ecdng… trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang v\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c kia \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ngu nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c. Trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, trong s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f3, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n, kinh s\u00e1ch thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t sai. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u1ecbp tim \u0111\u1eadp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c, m\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ham mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3; n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, vi\u1ec7c ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng, ham mu\u1ed1n thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3, ham mu\u1ed1n thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y v\u00e0 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u1ee7. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 m\u01a1 n\u1eefa, v\u00ec m\u01a1 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u01a1 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u01a1 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a k\u00ecm n\u00e9n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u01a1 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng ban ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u01a1, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 s\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng m\u01a1.<\/p>\n
Patanjali n\u00f3i gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 say kh\u00f4ng m\u01a1 l\u00e0 g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t t\u1edbi samadhi – ch\u1ec9 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eefa th\u00f4i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0o s\u00e1ng s\u1edbm. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, Ph\u1eadt m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00fang t\u00fang. Gi\u1edd th\u00ec sao? Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1m v\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4m gi\u1eef. Ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Th\u1eddi gian ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0o th\u00eam n\u1eefa. M\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eady v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trau d\u1ed3i, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, nhi\u1ec1u nghi l\u1ec5 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u00f4m nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i! Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft – ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eadp, s\u1ef1 r\u1ed9n r\u00e0ng, ch\u1ec9 \u0111am m\u00ea v\u1ec1 h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ri\u00eang. Ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y v\u1edbi m\u1eaft m\u1edf, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn l\u00ean tr\u1eddi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111ang r\u1ea1ng h\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi l\u00ean. V\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi l\u00ean v\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi r\u1ea1ng h\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u00f4i sao cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00eam \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn \u0111i, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 n\u00e0y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec? N\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh y\u00eau, t\u1eeb bi thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft. V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft n\u00e0y c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c; v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u00e1i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. Ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf v\u00ec b\u1ea1n gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00f3 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecf, ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf. Th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ham mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 l\u1edbn – nh\u01b0ng th\u1ee9 l\u1edbn c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf; d\u00f9 ch\u00fang l\u1edbn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 xem. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u1edbn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ai C\u1eadp th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y cao hai m\u00e9t m\u1ed1t – ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u sannyasin H\u00e0 Lan \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t sannyasin H\u00e0 Lan, t\u00f4i nh\u1edb ngay t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ai C\u1eadp v\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ai C\u1eadp. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 n\u00f3i ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 ba m\u1eb7t. V\u1eady th\u00ec sao? C\u00e1c ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t. Ch\u1ec9 ba th\u00f4i sao? Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t, khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, l\u1ea1i m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, l\u1ea1i m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Quan s\u00e1t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 xem, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau m\u1eb7t! V\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t ngh\u00e8o – ch\u1ec9 ba m\u1eb7t th\u00f4i sao? L\u00e0m sao ng\u00e0i xoay x\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi ba m\u1eb7t?<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. C\u00e1c quan ni\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec b\u1edfi v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n? C\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1edf trong kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ngay c\u1ea3 t\u1eeb v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 xem, b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec? Bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3; l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 \u0111i v\u00e0 \u0111i m\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi – c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u1edf r\u1ea5t xa x\u00f4i, xa x\u0103m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec b\u1edfi “v\u00f4 t\u1eadn”? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd kh\u00f4ng \u0111o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec th\u00eam n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f2 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1y cho n\u00f3 sao? \u0110\u00e1y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f2 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. C\u00e1ch \u0111o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf, th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u1eeb n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. Do \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, h\u1ecd n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0i. Ph\u1eadt th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ch\u1eebng n\u1ea5y, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0i, v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u00e0i r\u1ed3i! “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0i” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec1u x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1eeb c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecf t\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n v\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng theo quan ni\u1ec7m m\u00e0 theo tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i c\u00e1i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai trong n\u00f3 – ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3. V\u1edbi t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3, ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7”, T.1, Ch.15<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3: H\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3388,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[80],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3387","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ban-nga-ham-muon"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3387","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3387"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3387\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3389,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3387\/revisions\/3389"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3388"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3387"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3387"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3387"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}