L\u00e0m sao ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 “th\u1ee9 th\u1ef1c”? L\u00e0m sao tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1?<\/p>\n
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Farid, ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n, ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n b\u1edfi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ho\u00e1. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1eadt, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m. Th\u1ef1c ra, t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c l\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00fang. S\u1ebd \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m; \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ec9, v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 lo\u1ea1i \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng trong n\u00f3 – hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra cho vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c; nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t. N\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o v\u00f9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2u h\u01a1n n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p – kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 hai t\u1eeb n\u00e0y, kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. Khi b\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi. Trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n, d\u00f2ng s\u00f4ng v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi; n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111ang t\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi. Do \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang. N\u00f3 cho quan ni\u1ec7m sai v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o; n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. Tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n
Trong tham chi\u1ebfu t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c, m\u1ecdi danh t\u1eeb l\u00e0 sai, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2y,” b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u sai v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng sai v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, kh\u00f4ng sai v\u1ec1 v\u0103n ph\u1ea1m, nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u sai, v\u00ec c\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u0129nh t\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u00e2y n\u00e0y, n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh. Th\u1ef1c ra g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang: n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2y \u0111ang m\u1ecdc. S\u00f4ng l\u00e0 s\u00f4ng \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, danh t\u1eeb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c \u1edf b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, “T\u00f4i \u0111i t\u1edbi s\u00f4ng ch\u1ea3y,” hay, “S\u00e1ng nay t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y c\u00e2y m\u1ecdc \u0111\u1eb9p.” H\u1ecd s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u0129nh t\u1ea1i trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc l\u1edbn, Eddington, t\u01b0\u01a1ng truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u1eeb ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111ang chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng. N\u00f3 to\u00e0n l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m theo ngh\u0129a tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 “T\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00f3.” B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 – “N\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra” – v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u1eeba. L\u1eeba d\u1ed1i t\u1edbi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 “T\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00f3.” Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh khi n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed7i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi.” V\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 ng\u1ea9ng \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00ean.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 n\u00f3, n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t hay thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 thu\u1ef7 ng\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n b\u1eaft l\u1ea5y n\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi n\u1eafm tay c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi b\u00e0n tay m\u1edf, kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi n\u1eafm tay kh\u00e9p. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ra danh t\u1eeb cho n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 b\u1eaft n\u00f3 trong n\u1eafm tay; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ec3 n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb \u0111i. \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi.” \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i, “Cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0nh h\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111i.”<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb. Bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111i l\u1eeba v\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb l\u1eeba. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd l\u1eeba b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1eeba b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng; \u0111\u1eebng gi\u00fap n\u00f3 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng trong b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1eebng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00f3. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u00e2m linh. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y Christ, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y Ph\u1eadt; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y kundalini d\u00e2ng l\u00ean trong x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, con r\u1eafn \u0111ang du\u1ed7i ra; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng l\u1edbn, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y hoa sen n\u1edf trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y lu\u00e2n xa tim m\u1edf ra, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u00e0o lao \u0111\u00f3 – nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ebb tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 k\u1ebb ngu b\u1ecb l\u1eeba b\u1edfi ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu k\u1ebb ngu bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, m\u1ecdi xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00ed truy\u1ec1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u01a1 ca l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00ed truy\u1ec1n trong n\u00f3. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed m\u00eanh m\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00ed truy\u1ec1n trong n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 – t\u00e2m linh hay c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c, tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7 hay c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c – b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1edb, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 n\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung trong t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c – v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i m\u1ecdi n\u1ed9i dung g\u1eafn l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau; vi\u1ec7c t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 c\u00e1c n\u1ed9i dung l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n
C\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn, quan s\u00e1t \u0111i. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u1eeb t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110\u00edch x\u00e1c n\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a c\u00e1i g\u00ec? M\u1ecdi kinh nghi\u1ec7m, tri th\u1ee9c, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 l\u1ea1i – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy v\u1eadt, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy t\u00e2m, ch\u1eb3ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o; t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed duy t\u00e2m c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady nh\u01b0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed duy v\u1eadt. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1eebng tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i dung – quan s\u00e1t n\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111i qua. V\u00e0 v\u00e2ng, \u0111\u00f4i khi n\u1ed9i dung ca t\u1ee5ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng, th\u00f4i mi\u00ean t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y n\u00f3. Khi c\u00e1c kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u00e2m linh, c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea3y ra, n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 – c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng l\u1edbn b\u00ean trong, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1, “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi” – hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tin s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi r\u1ed3i. Trong khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f2n \u0111ang d\u00f2 d\u1eabm trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho m\u00ecnh.”<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i m\u1edbi, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb b\u1eaft, b\u1ecb s\u1eadp b\u1eaby, b\u1edfi n\u1ed9i dung. Hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb: n\u1ed9i dung v\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c. T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed9i dung, v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c. T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1.<\/p>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi g\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 x\u1ea5u? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 g\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p – Sophia Loren? “\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111i, b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y.” Hay b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kinh t\u1edfm n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 x\u1ea5u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. C\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi g\u01b0\u01a1ng?<\/p>\n
G\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng; n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. N\u1ebfu tr\u1eddi t\u1ed1i g\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 t\u1ed1i, n\u1ebfu tr\u1eddi l\u00e0 bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ebft n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 ch\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00fac kh\u00edch, c\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1ea3y nh\u00f3t, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Hoa h\u1ed3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 v\u1edbi c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 gai; kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra.<\/p>\n
Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n
Farid, b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: “L\u00e0m sao ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c?”<\/p>\n
C\u00e1i th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt. C\u00e1i th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1eadt, c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1a g\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
Bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1edb, bao gi\u1edd v\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1edb: “M\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng.” Kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u1ed9i dung n\u00e0o, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o sai l\u1ed7i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u1ed9i dung n\u00e0o, d\u00f9 n\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i sai, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 l\u1edbn. N\u00f3i g\u00ec khi b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y giai \u0111i\u1ec7u l\u1edbn n\u1ea3y sinh – anahat, \u00e2m thanh v\u00f4 \u00e2m, ti\u1ebfng v\u1ed7 tay c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e0n tay? N\u00f3 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m hay th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ecm ng\u1eadp trong n\u00f3 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. Hay khi \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean \u1edf b\u00ean trong, h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3ng ra….<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 nh\u1edb, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra b\u00ean trong n\u1eefa, v\u00ec t\u1eebng gi\u00e1c quan \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 hai c\u1eeda v\u00e0o n\u00f3, v\u00e0 t\u1eebng gi\u00e1c quan c\u00f3 hai kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng n\u1eefa. M\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng d\u00e0nh cho b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kia d\u00e0nh cho b\u00ean trong. M\u1eaft b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u v\u1ed3ng trong m\u00e2y, v\u00e0 sao b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i; v\u00e0 m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia c\u1ee7a m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn b\u00ean trong, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. B\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u m\u1edf c\u00e1c c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ra cho b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3n ch\u00e0o b\u1ea1n; n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb huy ho\u00e0ng l\u1edbn lao. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u0110\u00e1 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y. Nh\u1eefng kho b\u00e1u l\u1edbn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n t\u00edch tr\u1eef ch\u00fang. V\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai tranh gi\u00e0nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n; b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u0169i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ng\u1eedi hoa th\u01a1m, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u00ean trong n\u1eefa. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n quay v\u00e0o trong, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1edbi ng\u1eedi h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y – v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ecb b\u1eaft gi\u1eef b\u1edfi ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf, ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u1ef1c khi \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong ph\u1ea3i t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1eaft gi\u1eef b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1eebng t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i – nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 n\u00f3. T\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i, quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng – nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edb: “M\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.” N\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh “ngu”, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb l\u1eeba. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba \u0111i l\u1eeba l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i: kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u00e2m linh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. Th\u1ee9 hai, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung; v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby cho b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7,” Ch.7<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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