V\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas \u1edf Poona, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00ec sao?<\/p>\n
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Anand Lionel, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd b\u1ecf t\u00ednh sannyas m\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y h\u1ecd s\u1ebd thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, r\u1eb1ng “M\u00ecnh s\u1ebd v\u1ee9t n\u00f3 khi m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0,” t\u00ednh sannyas s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed tinh ranh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sannyasin v\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sannyasin.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi…. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c khi h\u1ecd t\u1edbi nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas – m\u1eaft h\u1ecd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, rung \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ed1c m\u00f9i tinh ranh. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 h\u1ea1i g\u00ec n\u00e0o? \u0110\u1ec3 h\u1ecd ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i l\u00e0 sannyasin \u0111i. V\u00e0 ai bi\u1ebft? \u0110\u00f4i khi v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb m\u1eafc n\u1eefa. L\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u khi h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 xem n\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb m\u1eafc v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb s\u1eadp b\u1eaby.<\/p>\n
\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y trong ba hay b\u1ed1n th\u00e1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t sannyasin, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 h\u1ecd b\u1ecf n\u00f3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ngu. H\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u1ed1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, v\u00ec th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n vi\u1ec7c sinh m\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a tinh ranh gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i. V\u00e0 b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i cho h\u1ecd t\u00ednh sannyas, khi v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y, b\u1ee9c Tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh Trung Qu\u1ed1c, gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3; h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u00e1u l\u1ec9nh. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e1u l\u1ec9nh, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u00e1u l\u1ec9nh, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1u l\u1ec9nh th\u1ef1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u1eeba b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u1edfi ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai, di\u1ec5n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea7u cho b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ef1c ra, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n y\u00eau, tinh ranh \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd lu\u00e2n chuy\u1ec3n trong m\u00e1u b\u1ea1n, trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 to\u00e0n l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o – v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3i l\u1ed9. T\u00ednh sannyas l\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tinh ranh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tinh ranh, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1eeba ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao, Anand Lionel, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea9n khu\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng r\u1ea5t \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai m\u00e0 lo v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd? B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 lo ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n sao? Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 s\u00e2u trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 d\u1ea7u v\u1eady, t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t trong c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 – cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu v\u00e0i k\u1ebb t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 xoay x\u1edf t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ec1 m\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m cho h\u1ecd; m\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. Th\u1ef1c ra ch\u00ednh ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u l\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a cam k\u1ebft, tham d\u1ef1. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a cam k\u1ebft, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd cho vi\u1ec7c sinh ra h\u1ed3n trong b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 t\u00edch h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ed1ng. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 cam k\u1ebft – trong y\u00eau, trong tin c\u1eady – h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ed9t s\u1ed1ng; l\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u1ed9t s\u1ed1ng, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1edb h\u1ed7n h\u1ee3p, t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi; h\u1ecd c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ch\u00e2n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cam k\u1ebft, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham d\u1ef1, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111i t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh c\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o n\u00f3 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi – t\u1edbi c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 ch\u01b0a th\u0103m d\u00f2. V\u00e2ng, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee3, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn.<\/p>\n
H\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb con, b\u1edfi l\u00ed do \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch cam k\u1ebft cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng r\u1ec5. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u1ec5, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra cho c\u00e2y. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, m\u1ecdi n\u01b0\u1edbc qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi c\u00e2y, v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ngu\u1ed3n nh\u1ef1a n\u00e0o. Nh\u1ef1a c\u00e2y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea3y trong n\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t m\u1ea7u xanh, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng th\u00eam n\u1eefa. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t l\u1ed9ng l\u1eaby, v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi ch\u00f3i s\u00e1ng, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u1edf hoa. Xu\u00e2n s\u1ebd t\u1edbi r\u1ed3i \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ebft, kh\u00f4.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Qua t\u00ednh sannyas t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u1ef1a c\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ea3y l\u1ea1i trong h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa n\u01b0\u1edbc qu\u1ea3 ch\u1ea3y trong b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ecdng n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb, thanh xu\u00e2n, t\u01b0\u01a1i m\u00e1t.<\/p>\n
Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 say m\u00ea. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 say m\u00ea, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee3i ch\u1ebft sao? N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. Ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi say m\u00ea b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng; ngo\u00e0i ra b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c v\u1eadt.<\/p>\n
T\u00ednh sannyas kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ecdi chi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u0169 c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh sannyas. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra s\u01b0 v\u00e0 ni – kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, rung \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u1eadp r\u1ed9n r\u00e0ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi say m\u00ea, tr\u1ebb trung v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1eafn, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u n\u00e0o trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm y\u00eau, trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf t\u00ednh sannyas \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i n\u00f3i h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd b\u1ecf t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c; h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9ng du, robot, th\u00e2y ma. Khi h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sannyasins, t\u00e2m l\u00ed qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c cho h\u1ecd \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, “V\u1eady m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sannyasin.”<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1i sao? Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh th\u00e2m t\u00e2m b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea1i sao b\u1eadn t\u00e2m t\u1edbi n\u00f3? Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, t\u1ea1i sao b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1edbi n\u00f3? Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a ch\u1ea1m t\u1edbi d\u00e2y \u0111\u00e0n trong tim b\u1ea1n, ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a x\u1ea3y ra trong b\u1ea1n qua t\u00f4i, t\u1ea1i sao b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 n\u00f3?<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas t\u1eeb t\u00f4i; h\u1ecd \u0111ang nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb c\u00e1c sannyasin kh\u00e1c. Khi th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf trong b\u1ed9 m\u1ea7u cam, v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb, h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ghen t\u1ecb. H\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ganh \u0111ua, h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd thi\u1ebfu c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. M\u01a1 n\u1ea3y sinh trong h\u1ecd: “M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft t\u00ednh sannyas n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec.” Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111i theo n\u00f3 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, h\u1ecd tranh lu\u1eadn, b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd, “\u00cdt nh\u1ea5t trong khi m\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, sao kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 sannyasin v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3? V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i khi m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 cho kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ec7 c\u0169 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.”<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00e2m tr\u00ed qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh. V\u00e0 t\u00ednh sannyas kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1eebu. N\u00f3 d\u00e0nh cho s\u01b0 t\u1eed.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, Anand Lionel…. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i t\u00ean sai. S\u01b0 t\u1eed, m\u00e0 h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady sao? C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb t\u00e2m tr\u00ed r\u1ea5t h\u00e8n. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb t\u00e2m tr\u00ed r\u1ea5t tinh ranh. V\u00e0 d\u1ea7u v\u1eady, t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 – nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i \u0111ang tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n – v\u00ec l\u00e0m sai ch\u00e2n l\u00ed t\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu, n\u00f3 g\u00e2y \u0111au. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu m\u00e0 t\u00f4i l\u00e0m, t\u00f4i l\u00e0m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec thu\u1ed1c m\u00ea n\u00e0o, v\u00ec v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Cho n\u00ean khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 mang ch\u00e2n l\u00ed v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7, v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00fd th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean cu\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu t\u00e2m l\u00ed n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec thu\u1ed1c m\u00ea n\u00e0o. C\u00e1i \u0111au ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3n ch\u00e0o n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3n ch\u00e0o n\u00f3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00e1m \u01a1n, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 mang c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang \u1ea9n n\u1ea5p s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i v\u00e0o trong ph\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf \u0111i.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf \u0111i r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u00e2m l\u00ed kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn ho\u00e1 ra t\u1eeb ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc: mang m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c t\u1edbi \u00fd th\u1ee9c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc. M\u1ed9t khi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ecf ch\u00fang – v\u00ec ai mu\u1ed1n mang nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 x\u1ea5u khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3? Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 x\u1ea5u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang trong nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 nh\u1edb, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00fd th\u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Do \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, trong m\u01a1 n\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u00e1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng qu\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. T\u1ea1i sao? N\u00f3 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00eam b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u01a1. Trong t\u00e1m gi\u1edd, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t s\u00e1u gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u01a1. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. N\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng? H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xoay x\u1edf m\u01a1 m\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1u gi\u1edd trong t\u00e1m gi\u1edd! H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u00f9ng nhau, m\u01a1 n\u1ecd ch\u00e8n l\u1ea5p l\u00ean m\u01a1 kia, m\u01a1 trong m\u01a1 trong m\u01a1. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u01a1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady… ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0o r\u1ea1p chi\u1ebfu phim, v\u00e0 trong phim b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean m\u00e0n \u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp \u0111i ng\u1ee7, r\u01a1i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u01a1 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111i t\u1edbi r\u1ea1p chi\u1ebfu phim! \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n m\u00e3i, m\u01a1 b\u00ean trong m\u01a1 b\u00ean trong m\u01a1.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng; ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u01a1 s\u00e1u gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam. Th\u1ef1c ra \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c trong s\u00e1u gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y. S\u00e1u gi\u1edd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u01a1! V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u00e1ng m\u1ecdi m\u01a1 b\u1ecb qu\u00ean \u0111i; hay ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00e0i gi\u00e2y s\u1edbm, qu\u00e3ng b\u1ed1n hay n\u0103m n\u0103m gi\u00e2y b\u1ea1n nh\u1edb v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u, v\u00e0i m\u1ea3nh. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y ch\u1ed1c, \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac b\u1ea1n u\u1ed1ng tr\u00e0 tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
V\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, trong s\u00e1u gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00eam, \u0111\u1ec3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe. N\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m. V\u00f4 th\u1ee9c bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi \u00fd th\u1ee9c. T\u1ea1i sao? V\u00ec v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c b\u1ecb n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh th\u1ebf, n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 g\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 g\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch: li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi \u00fd th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n
Do \u0111\u00f3 Freud \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u0129 thu\u1eadt li\u00ean k\u1ebft t\u1ef1 do. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t minh ra tr\u00e0ng k\u1ec9, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n ng\u1ed3i th\u00ec kh\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. C\u00e1ch k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i quen thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1eb1m ra tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u1edf chi\u1ec1u ngang. Tr\u00e0ng k\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a Freud l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a; n\u00f3 gi\u00fap v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi \u00fd th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 Freud th\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb1ng sau tr\u00e0ng k\u1ec9, \u0111\u1eb1ng sau t\u1ea5m r\u00e8m – v\u00ec n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n, v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f3p m\u00e9o, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m duy\u1ec7t. Cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea9n \u0111\u1eb1ng sau m\u00e0n ch\u1eafn. B\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd n\u1eb1m ra tr\u00ean tr\u00e0ng k\u1ec9 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, v\u00e0 Freud s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1edbi v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Kh\u00f4ng s\u1eeda n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eefa n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, logic, c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. C\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1eady, th\u00f4 s\u01a1. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 t\u1edbi nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1eady.”<\/p>\n
V\u00e0i phi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u li\u00ean k\u1ebft t\u1ef1 do, v\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 g\u00e1nh v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i. V\u00e0 ngay trong ch\u00ednh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thay \u0111\u1ed5i. M\u1ed9t hay hai n\u0103m l\u00e0m ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn l\u1eafm; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n, \u1edf nh\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra? V\u00ec nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3; kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho, kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c ra nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn, v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y r\u1ed1i. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nghe; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tai v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe im l\u1eb7ng th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 g\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec can nhi\u1ec5u n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
V\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i theo bi\u1ec3u d\u1ee5, n\u00f3 n\u00f3i trong h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Lionel \u0111ang h\u1ecfi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c – n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady.<\/p>\n
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T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe: M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i da \u0111en. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a con duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 g\u00e1i m\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1m th\u00e1ng. Anh ta ba hoa v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n xem \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi ra v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9, thi\u00ean t\u00e0i, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u1ecd. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 n\u00f3i, “M\u1eb9….” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 r\u1ea1ng r\u1ee1 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, “Th\u1ea5y ch\u01b0a, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eeda t\u1eeb!”<\/p>\n
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Hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng?…<\/p>\n
… B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3 – ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian! B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i “M\u1eb9” nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a anh ta, anh ta di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a anh ta.<\/p>\n
B\u1ecf di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i \u0111i. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i. T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: “Osho \u01a1i, n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i quay l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1ecf t\u00ednh sannyas, th\u00ec sao…?” \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 hay th\u1ebf, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh th\u1ebf. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i: “V\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas \u1edf Poona, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 khi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd th\u00ec sao?”<\/p>\n
H\u1ecd ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o trong b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh tim c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 th\u1ea5m v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
T\u00ednh sannyas kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o m\u1ea7u cam v\u00e0 v\u00f2ng \u0111eo mala; c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. T\u00ednh sannyas l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 – nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i n\u00fat th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 ngay ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i b\u1edfi n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u00e2m tr\u00ed s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “Ph\u1ecfng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec? Trong ba th\u00e1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 sannyasin, v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Sao kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf n\u00f3?”<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 mang t\u00ednh ngo\u1ea1i giao.<\/p>\n
Xin \u0111\u1eebng mang t\u00ednh ngo\u1ea1i giao \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft; xin \u0111\u1eebng mang b\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u00e1u l\u1ec9nh n\u00e0o v\u00e0o gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n l\u00e0m ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7 – t\u1eadp 1”, Ch.6<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
V\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas \u1edf Poona, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00ec sao? Anand Lionel, h\u1ecd … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3287,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3286","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cac-khai-niem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3286","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3286"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3286\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3288,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3286\/revisions\/3288"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3287"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3286"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3286"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3286"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}