Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0 xo\u00e1 \u0111i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta? V\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 g\u00ec trong vi\u1ec7c tan bi\u1ebfn?<\/p>\n
Divya, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec chung. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e1c nhau, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1ee9ng.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mang t\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. L\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd trong nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n
Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 h\u1ec1, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 r\u1edfm, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n b\u1edfi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. T\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. T\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n mang v\u00e0o trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1edfm. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, c\u00e0ng \u00edt kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chi\u1ebfm to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n ung th\u01b0. N\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u0103ng l\u00ean, n\u00f3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. N\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng gian n\u00e0o cho t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 g\u00f3c ri\u00eang. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i, \u0111\u1ec3 cho t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n
T\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng phi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ednh hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ trong n\u00f3. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’: n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu trong n\u00f3. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 hung h\u0103ng, b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh, chi ph\u1ed1i, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. T\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eeb bi; n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng m\u1ecdi n\u1ed9i dung – c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m r\u1ed7ng c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed3ng n\u00e1t m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho n\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ed7 h\u01a1n, nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng gian h\u01a1n. Khi m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho \u0111i r\u1ed3i, c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3, c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n
Xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng – ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 ch\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng gian c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 ch\u00ednh t\u00ednh duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. Xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7.<\/p>\n
T\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n cho b\u1ea1n quy\u1ec1n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7; n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ea5t, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft r\u1ec5. N\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u m\u01a1. N\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc, n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf, trong su\u1ed1t, c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh t\u00ednh duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng m\u1edd \u1ea3o h\u01a1n, thay v\u00ec tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 s\u1ebd c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 r\u1ea5t tinh vi, tinh vi t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c s\u1ebd g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra n\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 t\u00ednh khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u01b0ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd c\u00f2n dai d\u1eb3ng. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “Tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa.”<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa” b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i – b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111ang n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa?”<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, “\u00d4ng c\u00f3 l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng” – nh\u01b0ng l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c \u00f4ng ta n\u00f3i th\u00eam, “M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 ‘Ta l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi.'”<\/p>\n
Theo c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp \u00f4ng ta \u0111ang n\u00f3i, “Ta l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. Nh\u01b0ng ta gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc m\u1ecdi s\u00e1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 ‘Ta l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf.'”<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y cho t\u00f4i, “Quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o \u00f4ng \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, ‘Ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi’.” M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “Ta l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi” hay “Ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi” – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, n\u00f3 ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 theo c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch. Th\u1ef1c ra n\u00f3 \u0111ang tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 theo c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch: “Ta \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y!” N\u00f3 \u0111ang tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong hoa, trong chim; n\u00f3 \u0111ang tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i: “Ta \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y!”<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n Krishnamurti \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, “T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i?”<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, n\u00f3i.” \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i n\u00f3i theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 hoa to\u1ea3 ra h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.”<\/p>\n
Hoa kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3; h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0ng \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng to\u1ea3 ra t\u1eeb n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 cho s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n: “Ta \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi.”<\/p>\n
\u1ede Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n c\u00f3 t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef: “Hoa kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i.” T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai – hoa c\u00f3 n\u00f3i. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang n\u00f3i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i sao? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Trung Qu\u1ed1c n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i sao? Ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i sao? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Trung Qu\u1ed1c c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi c\u0169ng v\u1eady, hoa c\u0169ng v\u1eady, con v\u1eadt c\u0169ng v\u1eady, chim, \u0111\u00e1. Trong h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i.” Nh\u01b0ng ai \u0111ang n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd trong c\u00e1i t\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, ‘t\u00f4i’ ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i n\u00f3. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.”<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed cho li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n hay \u0111ang xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c h\u01a1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tho\u00e1ng \u0111\u00e3ng h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 cho Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1edf v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1edd \u0111\u1eabn v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft h\u01a1n – v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i t\u1ef1 t\u1eed ch\u1eadm. C\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, r\u1ea5t nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, v\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng nhau.<\/p>\n
Nguy hi\u1ec3m th\u1ef1c trong tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh l\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1ee9ng nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t gi\u1ed1ng nhau. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp nh\u00ecn t\u1eeb ngo\u00e0i; v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c n\u1ea3y sinh v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u1ebf, v\u1eady m\u00e0 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ed1i l\u1eadp th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a gh\u00e9t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 y\u00eau, \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t – n\u00f3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng th\u1ebf, ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? \u0110\u1ed1i l\u1eadp th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a y\u00eau l\u00e0 y\u00eau gi\u1ea3: y\u00eau gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd l\u00e0 y\u00eau, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 y\u00eau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u00ednh quan s\u00e1t \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ed1i l\u1eadp th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb bi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn. \u0110\u1ed1i l\u1eadp th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb bi l\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu t\u1eadp: t\u1eeb b\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 \u1edf trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb bi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u01a1n v\u1ebd l\u00ean chu vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ed1i l\u1eadp th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4 v\u1ebd, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f4i m\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i b\u00e0i t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tim c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ee9ng sau ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ee9ng sau n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc. N\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp v\u1edbi n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u00f9 th\u00eam. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n
Bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c. N\u1ebfu n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd gi\u00fap l\u1eabn nhau v\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ea1ng cho ch\u00e2n l\u00ed c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3, th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8; ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ea1nh cho c\u00e1i gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Xung \u0111\u1ed9t l\u00e0 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hay c\u00e1i gi\u1ea3. L\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00eanh m\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m. Xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch tinh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 – b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb c\u1eeda sau.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh th\u1ebf. T\u00ednh nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 l\u00ed do trong n\u00f3. L\u00ed do l\u00e0, h\u1ecd \u0111ang duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gian nan, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c canh ch\u1eebng. Ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fat \u00edt s\u01a1 s\u1ea9y \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 duy tr\u00ec l\u00e2u th\u1ebf. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec s\u1ebd gi\u1eef cho b\u1ea1n nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n, s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb b\u1eaft qu\u1ea3 tang, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb b\u1eaft trong t\u00ednh gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1ed1n kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang mang c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ea3 trong b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, l\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec trong th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nguy hi\u1ec3m l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1eef m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0 ra xa kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7, v\u00ec c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u01a1i ra b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1ed1n v\u00e0o trong c\u00e1c tu vi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1eeb s\u1ee3. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd m\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3 h\u1ecd ch\u1eafc b\u1ecb b\u1eaft; ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o, r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u1eeba, r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3. Trong tu vi\u1ec7n h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c \u1edf \u0111\u00f3; t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec \u00e2m m\u01b0u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Tu vi\u1ec7n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng ngay c\u1ea3 trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi theo c\u00e1ch tu vi\u1ec7n, gi\u1eef m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u1edf ra, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o nh\u00ecn tr\u1ed9m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 xem b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tr\u00e1nh m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u00ecn sang b\u00ean. V\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng v\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n b\u1eadn th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0o n\u00f3i l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o, c\u1ea7m tay ai \u0111\u00f3, ng\u1ed3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n – ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ee3, con – v\u1edbi h\u1ecd b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c, quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
Do \u0111\u00f3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf. \u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 x\u1ea5u l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00f4 c\u1ee7ng th\u1ebf l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u1ed5 th\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n
Divya, b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: “Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0 xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n
Xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u. Trong l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 – v\u00e0 trong vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi n\u00f3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd, v\u1edbi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 n\u00e0o \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh v\u1ec1 t\u1ea1i sao hay l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 xo\u00e1! C\u00e1i \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb xo\u00e1. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u xo\u00e1 n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u01a1i r\u1ee5ng \u0111i, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 mang ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Ngay ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ma, \u00e1c m\u1ed9ng; ch\u00fang tan t\u00e1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang khi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang v\u00e0o. L\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ec1n. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u1ec7 l\u00e0m s\u1eb5n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 hay ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng m\u1ecdi n\u1ed9i dung – \u00fd ngh\u0129, ham mu\u1ed1n, k\u00ed \u1ee9c, ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu, hi v\u1ecdng – khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i, l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng gian thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng gian trinh nguy\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb n\u1eb7ng g\u1ea1nh b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c phi n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec! Th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m. N\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb xo\u00e1 \u0111i. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng d\u00e2y th\u1eebng l\u00e0 r\u1eafn, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 gi\u1ebft r\u1eafn. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd trong r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i l\u1edbn. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft r\u1eafn, v\u00ec ngay ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e1nh d\u00e2y th\u1eebng, nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 r\u1eafn th\u00ec sao? R\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
R\u1eafn t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; r\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft r\u1eafn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3? B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh nhau v\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh nhau v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec gi\u1ea3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. C\u00e1i gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i? Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o. C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0, mang \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u00e0o v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
Ihi passiko, t\u1edbi v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y! Trong ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3, r\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y. D\u00e2y th\u1eebng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, r\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u tranh \u0111\u1ea5u.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, c\u1ef1c k\u00ec ngu xu\u1ea9n.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i, “Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n?”<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i n\u00f3i. “Ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o. Neti neti, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i n\u1ecd. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o.”<\/p>\n
Anh ta n\u00f3i, “Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 g\u00ec v\u1eady? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9.”<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i n\u00f3i, “B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u. B\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec; b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. T\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?”<\/p>\n
Khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m lo\u00e3ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m lo\u00e3ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u1eafn, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y \u0111i r\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a r\u1eafn? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec. R\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf kh\u1ecfi r\u1eafn; gi\u1edd r\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u1edd r\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1eafn, gi\u1edd r\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u1ea1i n\u00e0o – nh\u01b0ng r\u1eafn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng r\u0103ng kia l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3, v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eafn l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. C\u1ea3 hai l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n – c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh th\u1ebf. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi danh v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i; tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n
Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i cho b\u1ea1n l\u00e0, xin \u0111\u1eebng xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. L\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111i, nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 trong ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Ngay c\u1ea3 n\u00f3i “bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t” l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang: b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. S\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 – n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 h\u00e2n hoan l\u1edbn. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1edf hoa, xu\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e1t. L\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n l\u1edbn n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n duy nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n. C\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn xem Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t bao nhi\u00eau k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng l\u00ean b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec7t t\u00e1c – kh\u00f4ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00f4 song, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n duy nh\u1ea5t. Ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t, tim t\u1ef1a \u0111\u00e1, s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tan ch\u1ea3y trong l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. N\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ea3y, n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 vui m\u1eebng, n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ean.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng xin nh\u1edb, l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng xo\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7 – T\u1eadp 1”, Ch.6<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa l\u00e0m tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0 xo\u00e1 \u0111i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3283,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3282","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cac-khai-niem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3282","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3282"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3282\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3285,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3282\/revisions\/3285"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3283"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3282"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3282"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3282"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}