{"id":3201,"date":"2023-01-27T18:24:22","date_gmt":"2023-01-27T11:24:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/wordpress\/?p=3201"},"modified":"2023-01-27T18:28:03","modified_gmt":"2023-01-27T11:28:03","slug":"yeu-va-ban-nga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=3201","title":{"rendered":"Y\u00eau v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft k\u1ecbch hay v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 hay, ch\u1ebft \u0111i. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ho\u1ea3 t\u00e1ng cho \u0111\u00e1m ma c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c c\u00f4ng ti phim m\u00e0 t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00f4ng n\u00e0y n\u00f3i v\u00e0i l\u1eddi chia bu\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n

\u00d4ng gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129. Ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00f4i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ra t\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00f2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00ean xa l\u1ed9. Ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y vai \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong phim. Ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 l\u00ed do \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.” \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y – t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u1ec5 tang n\u00e0y v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c v\u1ecb c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 – \u00f4ng gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean c\u00e1i x\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eb1m \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Xin l\u1ed7i \u00f4ng, th\u01b0a \u00f4ng, ai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y – \u00f4ng hay t\u00f4i? \u00d4ng \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ai v\u1eady?”<\/p>\n

\u00d4ng gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ra s\u1ef1 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y vai \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong phim…. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi….”<\/p>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1i x\u00e1c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ed3n \u00e0o c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’. N\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Xin l\u1ed7i \u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng xin n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: ai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00f4n trong m\u1ed3, \u00f4ng hay t\u00f4i? \u00d4ng \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ai v\u1eady?” Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1i x\u00e1c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ed3n \u00e0o n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ – v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m ra \u1ed3n \u00e0o n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 ‘t\u00f4i’.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3?<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 hai ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a y\u00eau b\u00ean trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb tr\u00fat \u0111\u1ea7y b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’ b\u00ean trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00fat \u0111\u1ea7y b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a y\u00eau. Hai trong ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00f9ng nhau. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng nhau.<\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a t\u1ed1i \u0111i t\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi c\u1ee9 s\u0103n \u0111u\u1ed5i t\u00f4i. \u00d4ng ta g\u00e2y cho t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. \u00d4ng ta theo t\u00f4i t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng t\u1edbi \u0111\u00eam v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1i t\u00f4i m\u1ec7t nho\u00e0i. V\u00e0 khi tr\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, \u00f4ng ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i \u0111i theo t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb c\u00f3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng; t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng ta gi\u1eadn. Cho n\u00ean t\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng ta c\u1ee9 theo t\u00f4i th\u1ebf? T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai n\u00e0o?”<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf g\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi t\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi, “Sao \u00f4ng c\u1ee9 s\u0103n \u0111u\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i kia v\u1eady? \u00d4ng ta bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111i \u1ea9n n\u1ea5p, l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed7 tr\u00fa ng\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng c\u1ee9 \u0111i theo \u00f4ng \u1ea5y trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd? Nhu c\u1ea7u l\u00e0 g\u00ec?”<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi n\u00f3i, “T\u1ed1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ai v\u1eady? T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd g\u1eb7p \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. T\u1ed1i l\u00e0 ai? T\u1ed1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 th\u1ea5y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 g\u1eb7p \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u00fd th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng h\u1ecfi xin tha th\u1ee9. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i theo \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u1eefa.”<\/p>\n

H\u1ecd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u v\u00e0 ngh\u00ecn t\u1ec9 n\u0103m \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i qua t\u1eeb bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 n\u00e0y. V\u1ee5 n\u00e0y b\u1ecb treo l\u1ea1i trong h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u1ee7a th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. V\u1eady m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u1edf c\u00f9ng nhau v\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady d\u00f9 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 to\u00e0n n\u0103ng t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u. Ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea5ng to\u00e0n n\u0103ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111em t\u1ed1i ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, v\u00ec t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng nhau. L\u00ed do l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang n\u00f3, cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi. B\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi – cho n\u00ean l\u00e0m sao vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?<\/p>\n

T\u1ed1i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi. T\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng s\u00e1ng. Cho n\u00ean l\u00e0m sao vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng s\u00e1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? L\u00e0m sao c\u1ea3 hai th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thu x\u1ebfp \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng nhau. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ed1i. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a y\u00eau, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a y\u00eau. B\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng cho n\u00ean b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’ li\u00ean t\u1ee5c vang v\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’ ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ‘t\u00f4i’ mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau, ‘t\u00f4i’ mu\u1ed1n cho y\u00eau; ‘t\u00f4i’ mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean! Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o gi\u1eefa ‘t\u00f4i’ v\u00e0 y\u00eau. V\u00e0 ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i v\u00ec y\u00eau – ‘t\u00f4i’ mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, ‘t\u00f4i’ mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, ‘t\u00f4i’ mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t.”<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u00f4m m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch trong nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi.” \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quan ni\u1ec7m n\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

‘T\u00f4i’ l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n y\u00eau. ‘T\u00f4i’ l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu y\u00eau, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea1nh cho ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’, s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u00edt c\u00f3 y\u00eau b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, y\u00eau s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng;\u00a0 khi c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, y\u00eau s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft to\u00e0n b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 y\u00eau b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’ \u0111ang vang v\u1ecdng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1edf c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1n th\u1edd v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y. C\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y?<\/p>\n

Qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’. Tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’. Th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’ c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ngay c\u1ea3 t\u00ednh sannyas c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 t\u00ednh sannyas c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’ c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ea1nh n\u1ea3y sinh b\u00ean trong r\u1eb1ng ‘t\u00f4i’ l\u00e0 sannyasin; ‘t\u00f4i’ kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 h\u1ed9; ‘t\u00f4i’ kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng; ‘t\u00f4i’ l\u00e0 sannyasin; “t\u00f4i” l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1; “t\u00f4i” l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi am t\u01b0\u1eddng; ‘t\u00f4i’ l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u; ‘t\u00f4i’ l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y; ‘t\u00f4i’ l\u00e0 c\u00e1i kia….<\/p>\n

Ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng quanh c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng quen bi\u1ebft v\u1edbi y\u00eau. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang tim t\u1edbi c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 quen bi\u1ebft v\u1edbi ch\u00e2n l\u00ed c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e0n veena c\u1ee7a tim. C\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1edf, n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u r\u1ea5t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ea1nh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, n\u00f3 s\u00e2u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o! V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111ang cho n\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ecf hi v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n hay r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i n\u00fat \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra hay r\u1eb1ng kho b\u00e1u c\u1ee7a y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. B\u1ecf ch\u00ednh \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y \u0111i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau v\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ‘t\u00f4i’ l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u00e0 ‘t\u00f4i’ y\u00eau. Y\u00eau t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3 do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 – v\u00ec n\u00f3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. V\u00e0 nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m h\u01a1n gh\u00e9t, v\u00ec gh\u00e9t l\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, sau m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecb tr\u00f3i l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng xi\u1ec1ng x\u00edch s\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u00e0n tay y\u00eau. Sau m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i hay v\u00e0 b\u00e0i ca hay cho b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c trong nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i ca ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu y\u00eau m\u00e0 t\u1edbi d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a hoa l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec, khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o hoa \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y gai b\u00ean trong \u0111\u00e2m v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i b\u1eaft c\u00e1 h\u1ecd m\u00f3c m\u1ed3i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u00e2u. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu h\u1ecd, cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 g\u0103m s\u00e2u h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a y\u00eau tr\u00ean l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u00e2u. Cho n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf v\u00ec \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 y\u00eau; ngay c\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf. V\u00ec \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 y\u00eau m\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111ang kh\u1ed5. Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3…. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra.<\/p>\n

Y\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00ednh v\u00e0o l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ghen – \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o ghen nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau ghen. Y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eafn v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u01b0u \u0111\u1ed3 v\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00e2m m\u01b0u – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng ai g\u00e2y ng\u1ea1t th\u1edf cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 y\u00eau. T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra v\u00ec ‘y\u00eau’ t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 – kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o gi\u1eefa y\u00eau v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3.<\/p>\n

Jalaluddin th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e1t b\u00e0i ca, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ca r\u1ea5t hay. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i t\u1eeb th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n n\u00e0y sang th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n kh\u00e1c v\u1eeba h\u00e1t b\u00e0i ca n\u00e0y. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd h\u00e1t b\u00e0i ca n\u00e0y. B\u00e0i ca n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Trong b\u00e0i ca \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111i t\u1edbi c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 g\u00f5 c\u1eeda. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau h\u1ecfi, “Anh l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u1ea5y?”<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau n\u00f3i – nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3 – “Anh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a em!” C\u00f3 im l\u1eb7ng b\u00ean trong. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0o t\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe th\u1ea5y t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u g\u00f5 c\u1eeda l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, to h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai b\u00ean trong. Anh ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u00eau l\u00ean, “T\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 im l\u1eb7ng b\u00ean trong? Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi anh \u0111i. Anh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a em. Anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi.” Nh\u01b0ng anh ta c\u00e0ng n\u00f3i to h\u01a1n “Anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi, anh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a em,” ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean im l\u1eb7ng nh\u01b0 n\u1ea5m m\u1ed3. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i anh ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o c\u1eeda v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “\u00cdt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u1ee9.”<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. N\u00f3 l\u00e0, “C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 trong nh\u00e0 n\u00e0y cho hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ‘Anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi, anh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a em’ nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 cho hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. C\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i v\u1eady! L\u00fac kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y t\u1edbi.”<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u1ecf \u0111i v\u00e0 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ec1n trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. Nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f9a tr\u0103ng tr\u00f4i qua, nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc v\u00e0 l\u1eb7n tr\u00f4i qua, nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u00f4i qua – v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i anh ta tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda n\u00e0y. Khi anh ta g\u00f5 c\u1eeda anh ta l\u1ea1i nghe th\u1ea5y c\u00f9ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, “Anh l\u00e0 ai?” L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ‘t\u00f4i’! Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 em.”<\/p>\n

Jalaluddin \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y c\u1eeda m\u1edf ra.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1edf c\u1eeda \u0111\u00e2u. Jalaluddin \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i, cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o cho t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang cho c\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf; \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p c\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm – v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i “Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 em”, v\u1eabn tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’. Duy nh\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ’em’ m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u n\u00f3i y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9a ‘hai’, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 sai t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ee9a m\u1ed9t. Trong y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng hai kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t n\u00e0o t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t, bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t. N\u01a1i ’em’ hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n, ‘t\u00f4i’ c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i s\u1ebd cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i xa l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ‘t\u00f4i’, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 em.” Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n. L\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t anh ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, ‘Anh \u0111\u00e2y’, v\u00e0 c\u1eeda v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3ng, cho n\u00ean sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m suy t\u01b0 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 em.”<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng ai s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? T\u1ea1i sao anh ta s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft ’em’, c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft ‘t\u00f4i’.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ’em’ l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a ‘t\u00f4i’. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i; \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, ’em’ c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i s\u1ebd cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau n\u00e0y \u0111i xa v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 cho hai.” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; anh ta \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e9t to v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Hai \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? B\u00e2y gi\u1edd anh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 em!”<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o anh ta ra \u0111i v\u00ec anh ta \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n. Anh ta v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu hai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 m\u1edf c\u1eeda – v\u00ec ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1edf c\u1eeda, v\u00e0 ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n m\u1edf n\u00f3? Trong nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a hai kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111i xa. Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u00f4i qua, v\u00e0 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng quay l\u1ea1i – anh ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd quay l\u1ea1i. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau \u0111i t\u00ecm anh ta.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ‘t\u00f4i’ kh\u00f4ng ‘b\u1ea1n’ c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang, \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang s\u1ebd t\u1edbi t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c cho vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u00e0 h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang, v\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n – “M\u00ecnh \u0111ang t\u00ecm, m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb trong ngh\u1ecb vi\u1ec7n, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 l\u1edbn, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i: m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. L\u00e0m sao m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf! N\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 th\u1eafng l\u1ee3i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi th\u1eafng l\u1ee3i n\u00e0y. M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang.” \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1, s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111ang che gi\u1ea5u y\u00eau m\u1edf ra cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0: ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y h\u1ed3n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u00ecm \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u01a1i ch\u00fat \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o ch\u00fat n\u00e0o? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ecb tr\u00ed m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u00ean! B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o m\u00e0 nh\u00ecn.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Cho n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y – t\u00ecm ra n\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec, n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ai. V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i; n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i ‘t\u00f4i’ t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i; n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng.<\/p>\n

T\u1eeb “H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh b\u00ean trong”, Ch.8<\/p>\n

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