{"id":3189,"date":"2023-01-24T08:50:52","date_gmt":"2023-01-24T01:50:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/wordpress\/?p=3189"},"modified":"2023-01-24T08:51:10","modified_gmt":"2023-01-24T01:51:10","slug":"quan-sat-va-khong-kim-nen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=3189","title":{"rendered":"Quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0110i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tim, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea5t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta k\u00ecm n\u00e9n; n\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i. M\u1ecdi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a tim ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ee5ng ‘Rama, Rama’. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn, ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong ph\u00f2ng, \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn n\u00e0y. Nh\u00ecn c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 – “Gi\u1eadn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u1eady? N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a gi\u1eadn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Gi\u1eadn n\u00e0y n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? T\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 n\u1ea3y sinh? N\u00f3 bao quanh t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?”<\/p>\n

Trong s\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 gi\u1eadn \u0111i. Nh\u00ecn gi\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3, nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3. N\u00f3 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? T\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 n\u1ea3y sinh? Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a gi\u1eadn. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng l\u1edbn, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi gi\u1eadn, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft gi\u1eadn – v\u00ec, nh\u1edb, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o l\u1edbn h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngu xu\u1ea9n n\u00e0o l\u1edbn h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh nhau v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111ang ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang v\u1eadt v\u1edbi tay ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu tay n\u00e0y v\u1eadt v\u1edbi tay kia, kh\u00f4ng tay n\u00e0o s\u1ebd bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1eafng, v\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y trong c\u1ea3 hai tay v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1nh nhau gi\u1eefa hai tay th\u00ec n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ti\u00eau t\u00e1n. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c th\u1eafng. Trong lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh nhau n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. M\u1ecdi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ai c\u00f3 trong gi\u1eadn? N\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh nhau v\u1edbi n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n chia b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh nhau, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1 tung ra, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tan r\u00e3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh nhau v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00e0o trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh nhau. Bi\u1ebft n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00fang, quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi ch\u00fang \u0111i.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n m\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. Kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft, v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quen thu\u1ed9c, v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. H\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khi s\u00e9t \u0111\u00e1nh xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u1eafp tay v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “\u00d4i Tr\u1eddi! Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn sao? C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra?” Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, s\u00e9t l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ee3. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y nay ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec7n, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft n\u00f3 l\u00e0m n\u00f4 l\u1ec7, cho n\u00ean ng\u00e0y nay n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ee3, thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7. Trong m\u1ecdi nh\u00e0 n\u00f3 cho \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, n\u00f3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ed1m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho m\u00e1y ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi n\u00f3, b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n b\u1edfi n\u00f3. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng trong h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ee3 v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec7n l\u00e0 g\u00ec. M\u1ed9t khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7. B\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111ang ch\u00e1y, ch\u00fang to\u1ea3 s\u00e1ng. Gi\u1eadn r\u1ef1c s\u00e1ng, h\u1eadn r\u1ef1c s\u00e1ng, y\u00eau r\u1ef1c s\u00e1ng. Ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y b\u00ean trong \u0111i – quan s\u00e1t ch\u00fang, nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd k\u00ecm n\u00e9n cho d\u00f9 b\u1edfi sai l\u1ea7m, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd s\u1ee3 cho d\u00f9 b\u1edfi sai l\u1ea7m, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed1 bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u1edf b\u00ean trong. N\u1ebfu gi\u1eadn t\u1edbi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y may m\u1eafn v\u00e0 c\u00e1m \u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i – n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u00f3. Nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng, trong s\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh; t\u00ecm xem n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7; ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7. V\u00e0 nh\u1edb, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi n\u00f3 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb th\u00f9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eafng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau hay th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft \u00e1n kho b\u00e1u v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c k\u1ebb th\u00f9 b\u00ean trong; b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea9n k\u00edn b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n \u0111i.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea9n k\u00edn b\u00ean trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi – kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u01b0a \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd sau m\u01b0\u1eddi hay hai m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t s\u1ebd l\u00e0 xa x\u00f4i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 kh\u1ec9 xa x\u00f4i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta b\u00e2y gi\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i m\u1edbi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn ho\u00e1 –   *??*  l\u00e0 b\u00ean trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng qu\u00e3ng m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng t\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n cho n\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111ang n\u1eb1m kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3. Ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1, v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1 trong t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ph\u1ea7n \u0111ang n\u1eb1m kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb m\u00f9 th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u00c1nh s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eaft th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng. Nh\u1eefng con v\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eaft th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Ch\u00fang th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u00fang th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 n\u0103m gi\u00e1c quan. Ai bi\u1ebft – n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 gi\u00e1c quan th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1eefa m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi! V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 b\u1ea9y gi\u00e1c quan th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01a1n…. Ai bi\u1ebft gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1edbn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t \u00edt v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n \u00edt h\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong, sinh l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng k\u1ebft tinh.<\/p>\n

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L\u1eddi kinh th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta – ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang, nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00fang, nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong ch\u00fang v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang. T\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o gi\u1eadn, n\u1ebfu, khi ng\u1ed3i im l\u1eb7ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi th\u1ea5y n\u00f3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec gi\u1eadn s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Khi b\u1ea1n quan s\u00e1t gi\u1eadn, n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c d\u1ee5c n\u1ea3y sinh trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c quan s\u00e1t ch\u00fang, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng d\u1ee5c n\u1ea3y sinh trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t \u0111i b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra r\u1eb1ng, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 tham kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c l\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t, v\u1edbi nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi gi\u1eadn. Anh ta n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i b\u1ecb n\u00f3 g\u00e2y phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u1edf ngo\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0m sao. Ch\u1ec9 cho t\u00f4i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 – v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi gi\u1eadn n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.”<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a cho anh ta m\u1ed9t t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi: ‘B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn \u0111\u00e2y’. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o anh ta, “\u0110\u1ec3 m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y n\u00e0y trong t\u00fai c\u1ee7a anh v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o anh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn, r\u00fat n\u00f3 ra, \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u1ea5t n\u00f3 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i.” V\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i, “\u00cdt nh\u1ea5t anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y; \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o anh l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u00edt h\u01a1n! \u0110\u1ecdc m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u1ea5t n\u00f3 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o t\u00fai.” Anh ta n\u00f3i anh ta s\u1ebd th\u1eed.<\/p>\n

Sau hai hay ba th\u00e1ng, khi t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i anh ta, t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi, “C\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra?”<\/p>\n

Anh ta n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5y. M\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1eadt ch\u00fa. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn t\u00f4i l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 ra. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u00f4i l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 ra, tay v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n t\u00f4i tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u00ea t\u00ea. Khi t\u00f4i cho tay v\u00e0o trong t\u00fai t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u00f4i ch\u00f9ng ra; s\u1ef1 n\u1eafm gi\u1eef c\u1ee7a gi\u1eadn l\u00ean t\u00f4i \u1edf b\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Khi tay t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o trong t\u00fai, n\u00f3 th\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3. Khi t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y trong t\u00fai c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.”<\/p>\n

Anh ta h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i, “L\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y n\u00e0y c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y? B\u00ed m\u1eadt l\u00e0 g\u00ec?”<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u00ed m\u1eadt cho n\u00f3. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o anh v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, l\u1ea7m l\u1ea1c, m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, h\u1ed7n \u0111\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1eaft gi\u1eef anh. Nh\u01b0ng khi anh tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.”<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t s\u1ebd c\u00f3 hai k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7. V\u00e0 th\u1ee9 hai, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u1eafm gi\u1eef c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y l\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m \u0111i. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng gi\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u1edbi v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n quan s\u00e1t. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i sau m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng gi\u1eadn t\u1edbi v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng gi\u1eadn s\u1eafp n\u1ea3y sinh nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. T\u1eeb ng\u00e0y vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u1ea3y sinh gi\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. H\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00ec n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1ec1 sau. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 sau; k\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c v\u1ec1 sau l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ho\u00e0n t\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i quay l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i. H\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u1ed7i \u0111au sau khi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m – v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i tr\u00ed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u00ec. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n; nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n khi ch\u00fang ta d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tim.<\/p>\n

L\u1eddi kinh th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

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T\u1eeb “H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh b\u00ean trong”, Ch.7<\/p>\n

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