\u0110i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m trong c\u00e1i ng\u00e3, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00f4i \u0111i v\u00e0o trong \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn ba c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c qua \u0111\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 trong r\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady. M\u1ed9t khi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9c, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda qua \u0111\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n ba \u0111i\u1ec3m, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i s\u1ebd th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u0111\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n \u0111\u00fang. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u00fang. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u0111\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m t\u1ea1i r\u1ed1n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 ba \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 lo\u00e0i duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi lo\u00e0i v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. Nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1eadt l\u00ed c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fang n\u00ean \u0103n v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0103n; ch\u00fang n\u00ean \u0103n bao nhi\u00eau, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0103n bao nhi\u00eau; khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i \u0103n v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang d\u1eebng. Nh\u01b0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. B\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0103n c\u00e1i g\u00ec, m\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0103n bao nhi\u00eau, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh khi n\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng \u0103n. V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0o trong nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u00edt vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u – n\u1ebfu cho d\u00f9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00f4ng minh, cho d\u00f9 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat tr\u1ea7m t\u01b0, cho d\u00f9 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra ch\u00fat x\u00edu, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n \u0111\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng; kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec d\u1ec5 h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n \u0111\u00fang ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh hai ph\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t: con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean \u0103n g\u00ec v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0103n g\u00ec? Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed ho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ednh ho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc. N\u1ebfu r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi ch\u1ea5t ho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc – n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb say, v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Cho d\u00f9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb, cho d\u00f9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 an b\u00ecnh, h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ho\u00e1 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c say s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. D\u00f9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, n\u1ebfu con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb cho ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
Socrates \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c v\u00e0 Gandhi ch\u1ebft t\u1eeb vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1n. Vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y li\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n hay t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n; ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y li\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 Socrates hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ea5t say c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eabn trong th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai hay l\u00e0 g\u00ec. V\u1eadn h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp – n\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ho\u00e1 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u1ee9c \u0103n g\u00e2y say n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n trong t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u1ee9c \u0103n n\u00e0o \u0111em con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lo\u1ea1i v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lo\u1ea1i k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lo\u1ea1i c\u1ef1c \u0111oan n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lo\u1ea1i r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i h\u1ea1i s\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t, t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 khi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi r\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng trong thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, \u0111\u1eafp b\u00f9n, th\u1ee9c \u0103n chay, th\u1ee9c \u0103n nh\u1eb9, qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o v\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eabm n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 t\u1eafm b\u1ed3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u0111\u1eabm n\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u1eafp b\u00f9n, hay t\u1eafm b\u1ed3n l\u00ean th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang m\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y – b\u00f9n, n\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ed3n t\u1eafm – \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u1ee7 trong trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n v\u00e0 khi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y n\u1ea3y sinh, m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ea3y sinh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u00edch l\u1ee3i n\u00e0y t\u1edbi t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eafp b\u00f9n hay t\u1eeb b\u1ed3n t\u1eafm hay \u0111\u1eafp v\u1ea3i \u01b0\u1edbt l\u00ean b\u1ee5ng! Ch\u00fang qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 \u00edch l\u1ee3i, nh\u01b0ng \u00edch l\u1ee3i th\u1ef1c t\u1edbi t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong trung t\u00e2m \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a r\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n sai, th\u1ee9c \u0103n sai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n trung t\u00e2m \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u01a1i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. Chung cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 \u0111i v\u00e0o ng\u1ee7. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec trung t\u00e2m n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi hai trung t\u00e2m: m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 n\u00e3o n\u01a1i \u00fd ngh\u0129 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m kia l\u00e0 ch\u00fat \u00edt c\u1ee7a tim, n\u01a1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111ang chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng. S\u00e2u h\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Cho n\u00ean, th\u1ee9c \u0103n c\u00e0ng nh\u1eb9, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng \u00edt t\u1ea1o ra n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 l\u00ean th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
V\u1edbi ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n \u0111\u00fang \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y say, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb7ng. Sau khi \u0103n \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 v\u00e0 u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 v\u00e0 u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i sau b\u1eefa \u0103n – th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0103n sai.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 r\u1ea5t n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, Kenneth Walker, \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i trong t\u1ef1 ti\u1ec3u s\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n, m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u00f3t v\u00e0o d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u00f3t v\u00e0o d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0103n ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u00e1i h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0103n th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u1ed1m ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u00e1c s\u0129.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb \u1ed1m v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0103n \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb \u1ed1m v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9c \u0103n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft v\u00ec \u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. V\u00e0 s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft v\u00ec \u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3i. R\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3i. Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ebft trong \u00edt nh\u1ea5t ba th\u00e1ng. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9c \u0103n trong ba th\u00e1ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u trong ba th\u00e1ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y k\u00ec l\u1ea1. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u1edbn t\u00ean l\u00e0 Nero. \u00d4ng ta c\u00f3 hai b\u00e1c s\u0129 m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng ta n\u00f4n ra sau b\u1eefa \u0103n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0103n \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m t\u1edbi hai m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y. Cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng ta s\u1ebd \u0103n m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u00f4ng ta s\u1ebd u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng ta n\u00f4n ra \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c \u0103n l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n
Nero c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u1edf cung \u0111i\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta v\u00ec \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m. Nero l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng ta n\u00f4n ra m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh n\u00f4n ra c\u1ee9 v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng m\u1ed9t. Ch\u00fang ta \u0103n ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n sai v\u00e0 t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u00e1c s\u0129 cho ch\u00fang ta vi\u1ec7c d\u1ecdn s\u1ea1ch. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i \u0103n sai n\u1eefa. Nero l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n! \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 thu x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ecdn s\u1ea1ch m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y – ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 sau m\u1ed7i hai hay ba th\u00e1ng. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec7n nghi, cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta c\u01b0\u1eddi Nero nh\u01b0ng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c \u00f4ng ta.<\/p>\n
Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 sai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nguy hi\u1ec3m cho ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng. Th\u1ee9c \u0103n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb trong ch\u00fang ta, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi th\u1ee9c \u0103n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 k\u00ec l\u1ea1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ea3y ra. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu v\u00ec ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng sai c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t d\u00e0nh cho thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0103n g\u00ec, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0103n bao nhi\u00eau, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00ean th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m trong v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00fang cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec, th\u1ee9c \u0103n n\u00e0o cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 y\u00ean t\u0129nh, an b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1ef1c nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi th\u1ee9c \u0103n, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 hai v\u1ec1 th\u1ee9c \u0103n l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta khi ch\u00fang ta \u0103n l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta \u0103n. Th\u1ee9c \u0103n s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c \u0111i n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0103n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ghen t\u1ecb, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, hay n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0103n khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y bu\u1ed3n r\u1ea7u v\u00e0 lo ngh\u0129. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0103n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i lo ngh\u0129, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 th\u1ee9c \u0103n ngon nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ed9c. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0103n v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i khi ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00ean b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0103n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00e0o l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n
\u1ede Nga \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc l\u1edbn t\u00ean l\u00e0 Pavlov. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m l\u00ean con v\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m l\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u00f3 v\u00e0 m\u00e8o. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y cho m\u00e8o \u0103n v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y quan s\u00e1t con m\u00e8o qua m\u00e1y tia X \u0111\u1ec3 xem c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra trong d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y m\u00e8o sau khi n\u00f3 \u0103n th\u1ee9c \u0103n. Khi th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y, d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ti\u1ebft ra d\u1ecbch ti\u00eau ho\u00e1. Theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch ch\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang t\u1edbi c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 m\u00e8o \u1edf trong. Khi ch\u00f3 s\u1ee7a, m\u00e8o tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 m\u00e1y tia X ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebft d\u1ecbch ti\u00eau ho\u00e1 b\u00ean trong n\u00f3 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. D\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i. N\u00f3 co l\u1ea1i. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ch\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111em \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng trong s\u00e1u gi\u1edd d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trong c\u00f9ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u00eau ho\u00e1 th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u00eau ho\u00e1 trong d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y trong s\u00e1u gi\u1edd. Sau s\u00e1u gi\u1edd, khi d\u1ecbch b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ea3y l\u1ea1i, th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ti\u00eau ho\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 ti\u00eau ho\u00e1. Khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u00e8o tr\u1edf n\u00ean lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00f3, d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y d\u1eebng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
V\u1eady v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec sao? Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng trong lo ngh\u0129 c\u1ea3 hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y. Ch\u00ednh ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao th\u1ee9c \u0103n ch\u00fang ta \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u00eau ho\u00e1, l\u00e0m sao s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta! Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ao \u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00eau ho\u00e1 n\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao n\u00f3 v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u00eau ho\u00e1. V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng! \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u! Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng v\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng trong nh\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta b\u00e0n \u0103n l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i u \u00e1m nh\u1ea5t. V\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0103n v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu x\u00fac c\u1ea3m c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 thu th\u1eadp trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd x\u1ed5 ra khi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111ang \u0103n. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb th\u00f9. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0a ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c l\u00ean \u0111\u0129a \u0103n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 lo ngh\u0129 sau c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y – anh \u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00fat th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u00e0o d\u1ea1 d\u1ea7y m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf \u0111i. Anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac nhanh ch\u00f3ng th\u1ebf v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y xa \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m trong v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1n, hay nh\u01b0 ai \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00ec xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, hay nh\u01b0 ai \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ed3i ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e0n veena, hay nh\u01b0 ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e1t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n: ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang cho th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u00e0o th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. N\u00f3 n\u00ean l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0103n b\u1eefa \u0103n m\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lo ngh\u0129, th\u1ee9c \u0103n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n th\u1ee9c \u0103n kh\u00f4ng chay. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n v\u1edbi gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh. Trong khi \u0103n trong gi\u1eadn, trong kh\u1ed5, trong lo ngh\u0129, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0103n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00fat n\u00e0o r\u1eb1ng h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh khi \u0103n th\u1ecbt hay c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, cho n\u00ean khi th\u1ecbt ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00e1y b\u00f9ng b\u00ean trong do gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 lo, b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1ee9c \u0103n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0103n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0103n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i r\u1ea5t an b\u00ecnh, r\u1ea5t vui v\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee3i cho t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u1eady v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0103n m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn. Khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u1edbi n\u00ean \u0103n b\u1eefa \u0103n. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng trong bao l\u00e2u? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee3i th\u1ebf th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3i trong ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y – nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd b\u1eadn t\u00e2m l\u1eafng nghe n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c \u0103n th\u1ee9c \u0103n th\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh m\u00e1y m\u00f3c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u00e0o trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi b\u00e0n \u0103n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00e2m l\u00ed – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n
\u1ede m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, th\u1ee9c \u0103n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, kh\u00f4ng k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh; \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00e2m l\u00ed, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00ean \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c, duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb; v\u00e0 tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ed3n n\u00ean c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, c\u00e1m \u01a1n. Ba \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho th\u1ee9c \u0103n l\u00e0 th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng “V\u00ec th\u1ee9c \u0103n h\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 cho t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng – t\u00f4i c\u1ef1c k\u00ec bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. S\u00e1ng nay t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady l\u1ea1i s\u1ed1ng, h\u00f4m nay m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, h\u00f4m nay t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u00ecn tr\u0103ng l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4m nay! Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4m nay, h\u00f4m nay t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf trong m\u1ed3 – nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ebfm n\u00f3; n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho t\u00f4i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho kh\u00f4ng.” V\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u00edt nh\u1ea5t, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1m \u01a1n, v\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 trong tim ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0103n th\u1ee9c \u0103n, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang th\u1edf – ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. H\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang, n\u00ean c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c bi\u1ebft \u01a1n – “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y th\u00eam n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n. V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y th\u00eam n\u1eefa t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, th\u1ea5y hoa n\u1edf. T\u00f4i l\u1ea1i s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4m nay.”<\/p>\n
Hai ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi v\u1edbi Rabindranath, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Tr\u1eddi, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u01a1n l\u00e0m sao! \u00d4i Tr\u1eddi, l\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i? Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 trao cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y cho t\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o. Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i vi\u1ec7c th\u1edf khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n th\u1edf. Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. T\u00f4i b\u1ecb m\u00ea m\u1ea9n b\u1edfi \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00e0i trao cho, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111au n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kh\u1ed5 n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lo n\u00e0o, \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i; v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c. \u0110\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi xin ng\u00e0i cho t\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu ng\u00e0i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00f4i x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec cho t\u00f4i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.”<\/p>\n
C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c bi\u1ebft \u01a1n n\u00e0y, n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng – v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n
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