Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n veena s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 d\u00e2y trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 c\u0103ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 ch\u00f9ng. Ch\u1ec9 trong c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i v\u00e0o trong \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c. Bi\u1ebft \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft h\u1ed3n. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft h\u1ed3n; v\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c \u1ea9n k\u00edn b\u00ean trong c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, h\u1ed3n t\u1ed1i cao.<\/p>\n
D\u00e2y \u0111\u00e0n veena n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0: c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u d\u00e2y trong n\u00e3o r\u1ea5t c\u0103ng. Ch\u00fang c\u0103ng t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o ch\u00fang, ch\u1ec9 \u0111i\u00ean kh\u00f9ng n\u1ea3y sinh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c d\u00e2y trong n\u00e3o ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t c\u0103ng. Trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta gi\u1eef n\u00f3 c\u0103ng ra, t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng t\u1edbi t\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng bu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00eam, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea7m. Ngay c\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u00eam n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn b\u1ecb k\u00e9o c\u0103ng v\u00e0 d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n.<\/p>\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec di\u1ec5n ra trong n\u00e3o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong \u0111\u00eam nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u00e1y m\u00f3c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t minh ra – khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 m\u00e1y s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e3o b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y, \u1edf M\u0129 v\u00e0 Nga, c\u00f3 qu\u00e3ng m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m ki\u1ec3m tra \u0111i\u1ec1u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m trong gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. Qu\u00e3ng b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m khi ng\u1ee7 trong \u0111\u00eam. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm ra l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong ng\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u00eam. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y…. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng ban ng\u00e0y th\u1ebf th\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 ban \u0111\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng qu\u1ea3n l\u00ed c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng. N\u1ebfu t\u00e2m tr\u00ed lo ngh\u0129 c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c lo ngh\u0129 trong \u0111\u00eam. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn ban ng\u00e0y th\u1ebf th\u00ec gi\u1eadn v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trong \u0111\u00eam.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00eam l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed trong ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u vang v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfng vang trong \u0111\u00eam. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ed1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh n\u00f3 trong \u0111\u00eam. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu gi\u1eadn b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh hay b\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed x\u1ea3 n\u00f3 ra ban \u0111\u00eam. B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1eadn to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, d\u00e2y \u0111\u00e0n veena c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u00fang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ecbn \u0103n trong ng\u00e0y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ban \u0111\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0103n trong m\u01a1. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh trong ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ban \u0111\u00eam. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0m trong ng\u00e0y, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00eam. Trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i t\u01b0 gi\u1edd t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. C\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng. C\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed r\u1ea5t c\u0103ng…. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0: c\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a tim r\u1ea5t ch\u00f9ng. C\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a tim ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft gi\u1eadn, ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft t\u1ecb, ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft ghen, ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft h\u1eadn. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta gh\u00e9t v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng…? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 tim v\u1edbi gh\u00e9t v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00fac th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u00fac th\u00ec ch\u1ebft. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebft. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00fac th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u00fac th\u00ec ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ho\u1eb7c tim ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft gh\u00e9t ho\u1eb7c tim ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 tho\u1ea3 hi\u1ec7p gi\u1eefa hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Trong tim c\u00f3 y\u00eau, h\u1eadn tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
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C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1eef tu s\u0129 fakir t\u00ean l\u00e0 Rabiya. Trong s\u00e1ch thi\u00eang m\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ecdc, b\u00e0 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 xo\u00e1 \u0111i m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng. B\u00e0 \u1ea5y g\u1ea1ch m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng trong n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng ai xo\u00e1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec d\u00f2ng n\u00e0o trong s\u00e1ch thi\u00eang v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong s\u00e1ch thi\u00eang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t th\u1ea7y tu fakir kh\u00e1c t\u1edbi \u1edf c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi Rabiya. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Rabiya, ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 s\u00e1ch thi\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 r\u1ed3i! N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng thi\u00eang, m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb xo\u00e1 kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3. Ai \u0111\u00e3 xo\u00e1 n\u00f3?”<\/p>\n
Rabiya n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i xo\u00e1 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y.”<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng fakir n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t cho\u00e1ng. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Sao b\u00e0 xo\u00e1 d\u00f2ng n\u00e0y?” D\u00f2ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0, ‘Gh\u00e9t l\u00e0 qu\u1ec9’.<\/p>\n
Rabiya n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2m v\u00e0o kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. T\u1eeb ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u1ea3y sinh trong t\u00f4i, gh\u00e9t \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong t\u00f4i. Cho d\u00f9 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gh\u00e9t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cho d\u00f9 qu\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau n\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gh\u00e9t t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gh\u00e9t trong t\u00f4i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gh\u00e9t, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 gh\u00e9t trong tim t\u00f4i. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?”<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a y\u00eau v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t tim l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn nh\u01b0 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft; ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng nhau trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t tim. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 y\u00eau?<\/p>\n
Khi c\u00f3 \u00edt gh\u00e9t h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 y\u00eau; khi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u gh\u00e9t h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 \u00edt h\u01a1n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n gh\u00e9t. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Sai l\u1ea7m x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y. V\u00ec m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 sai l\u1ea7m r\u1eb1ng l\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 n\u00f3ng l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau. N\u00f3ng v\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9. N\u1ebfu t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 n\u00f3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edt \u0111i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u1ea1nh. N\u1ebfu t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 n\u00f3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00f3ng. L\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3ng. Ch\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp, kh\u00e1c nhau, k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a nhau, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 \u0111\u1eb7c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft h\u1eadn theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch. H\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 \u00edt c\u00f4 \u0111\u1eb7c h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a gh\u00e9t ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 y\u00eau v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t c\u00f4 \u0111\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a gh\u00e9t ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t – nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a gh\u00e9t. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1edbi gh\u00e9t. Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi gh\u00e9t.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a tim ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ch\u00f9ng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng d\u00e2y ch\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3 \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh – \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c trong \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft y\u00eau ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft an b\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a? V\u1ec1 ch\u00fang c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft g\u00ec? Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n. V\u00e2ng, \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n \u1edf trong m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u00edt h\u01a1n – \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta coi l\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u1ebfu b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edt \u0111i ch\u00fat th\u00f4i, n\u00f3 cho \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 an b\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb \u1ed1m. Khi \u1ed1m tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edt \u0111i ch\u00fat th\u00f4i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kho\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu \u1ed1m bao quanh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edt \u0111i ch\u00fat th\u00f4i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kho\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a kho\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u1ed1m l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Kho\u1ebb l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n
Kho\u1ebb l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. R\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft kho\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft \u1ed1m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft \u1ed1m \u00edt h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft kho\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n \u00edt h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft an b\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft h\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft h\u1eadn \u00edt h\u01a1n. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft gi\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft gi\u1eadn \u00edt h\u01a1n….<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng gi\u1eadn ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f4i khi x\u1ea3y ra. \u00dd n\u00e0y l\u00e0 sai. B\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd. L\u00fac n\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, l\u00fac n\u00f3 \u00edt h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd. Ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi ch\u00fat \u00edt c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u1eadn s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ed3i l\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t. N\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. Gi\u1eadn s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u1edf b\u00ean trong; n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i c\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1eadn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1edb n\u00e0o th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1eadn cho d\u00f9 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00ed do g\u00ec. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb kho\u00e1 trong ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi ti\u1ec7n nghi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ghi ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0o x\u1ea3y ra trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed anh ta. Khi anh ta vi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ra, anh ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00ed do g\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i khi anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3ng k\u00edn \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00f4i khi anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7; \u0111\u00f4i khi anh ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean bu\u1ed3n, \u0111\u00f4i khi anh ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac; \u0111\u00f4i khi anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u00f4i khi anh ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1edb n\u00e0o \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng trong c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nhau – nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra cho anh ta? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u1ebf – v\u00ec trong m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1edb t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef \u1edf ch\u1ed7 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb trong h\u01a1n s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111i\u00ean.<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t fakir n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf Ai C\u1eadp v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng tin \u00f4ng ta cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng fakir \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb nh\u1ea5t trong th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 anh ta v\u00e0o ch\u1ed7 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp trong s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh trong th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1. M\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac theo m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch – v\u1eeba m\u1edbi l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3, c\u00f3 con, ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t, r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac – \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf. Ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf b\u1ea3o anh ta, “Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c g\u00ec cho anh. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a anh s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c – th\u1ee9c \u0103n, qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi thu x\u1ebfp s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho h\u1ecd so v\u1edbi cho anh. Anh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi ti\u1ec7n nghi nh\u01b0ng trong s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng anh s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.”<\/p>\n
Anh ta b\u1ecb kho\u00e1 trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 l\u1edbn. Anh ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u1ecdi ti\u1ec7n nghi – nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c th\u1ebf! Ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e1c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a anh ta cho n\u00ean h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau. Ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng hai hay ba ng\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n. Anh ta c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi ti\u1ec7n nghi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gian kh\u1ed5 g\u00ec d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec: v\u00e0o gi\u1edd \u0111\u00fang th\u1ee9c \u0103n l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3, v\u00e0o gi\u1edd \u0111\u00fang anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ng\u1ee7. V\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cung \u0111i\u1ec7n ho\u00e0ng gia, m\u1ecdi ti\u1ec7n nghi \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n d\u00f9 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec anh ta mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c anh ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, anh ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. Trong v\u00f2ng ch\u1ec9 hai hay ba ng\u00e0y s\u1ef1 b\u1ee9t r\u1ee9t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 sau t\u00e1m ng\u00e0y anh ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e9t l\u00ean, “\u0110em t\u00f4i ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e2y! T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y!”<\/p>\n
V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 g\u00ec? V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. C\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0, m\u00e3i t\u1edbi h\u00f4m qua, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, gi\u1edd anh ta th\u1ea5y, trong s\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111ang t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. Trong v\u00f2ng s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111i\u00ean. Sau s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng, khi anh ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho ra, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec1n r\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. Sau s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng anh ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean. M\u1ea5t s\u00e1u n\u0103m cho anh ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n
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B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o trong c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111i\u00ean. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111i\u00ean. B\u1ea1n t\u00ecm c\u1edb: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u0103ng m\u1ea1 t\u00f4i, do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea7y gi\u1eadn.” Kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea7y gi\u1eadn b\u1edfi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c l\u0103ng m\u1ea1 anh ta. Gi\u1eadn hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n b\u00ean trong; l\u0103ng m\u1ea1 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho n\u00f3 \u0111i ra.<\/p>\n
Gi\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ea7y n\u01b0\u1edbc. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea3 g\u1ea7u v\u00e0o trong gi\u1ebfng v\u00e0 k\u00e9o n\u00f3 l\u00ean, n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1edbi t\u1eeb gi\u1ebfng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong gi\u1ebfng th\u1ebf th\u00ec d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea3 g\u1ea7u v\u00e0o bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00e9o ra. G\u1ea7u trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0m cho n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea3y ra. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 trong gi\u1ebfng. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong gi\u1ebfng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec g\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong gi\u1ebfng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec g\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1eadn b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1eadn b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em gi\u1eadn hay h\u1eadn ra t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. Trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u1edf gi\u1eefa, khi kh\u00f4ng ai th\u1ea3 g\u1ea7u v\u00e0o gi\u1ebfng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong gi\u1ebfng. Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea3 g\u1ea7u v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3, n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00e9o l\u00ean; nh\u01b0ng khi gi\u1ebfng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd sai l\u1ea7m n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong n\u00f3. Theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ai cho ch\u00fang ta c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ebf th\u00ec gi\u1eadn hay gh\u00e9t hay t\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ra t\u1eeb ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong gi\u1ebfng. N\u01b0\u1edbc hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong gi\u1ebfng v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee3i ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi g\u1ea7u v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 ra. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 c\u00e1i tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng n\u00e0y, \u1edf gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a y\u00eau, c\u1ee7a an b\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 sai.<\/p>\n
Bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng v\u1eady sau b\u1ea5t k\u00ec cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn tranh n\u00e0o tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f3 ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng Gandhi n\u00f3i, “Theo hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfn tranh ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb chi\u1ebfn tranh; ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi. Ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh l\u00e0 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i.” Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfn tranh x\u1ea3y ra tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi; th\u1ebf chi\u1ebfn th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee3i th\u1ebf chi\u1ebfn th\u1ee9 ba. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta sai. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho th\u1ebf chi\u1ebfn th\u1ee9 ba. Tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho th\u1ebf chi\u1ebfn th\u1ee9 ba \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra. Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfn tranh ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb chi\u1ebfn tranh. Nh\u01b0 khi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u00e0y ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
B\u00ean trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb gi\u1eadn – con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn. C\u00f3 b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n – ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 tr\u1ed3i l\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ed3i l\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u00ean trong l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a an b\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea7m.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a tim ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ch\u00f9ng. Ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eadn \u0111i ra t\u1eeb ch\u00fang, ch\u1ec9 m\u00e9o m\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 \u0111i ra t\u1eeb ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 c\u0103ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u00ean kh\u00f9ng n\u1ea3y sinh ra t\u1eeb ch\u00fang, c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a tim ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 ch\u00f9ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch, ghen t\u1ecb, h\u1eadn th\u00f9, n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb ch\u00fang. C\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a tim ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u01a1i c\u0103ng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 cho y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o ph\u1ea3i ch\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i ch\u00fat \u00edt \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft n\u1ea3y sinh ra t\u1eeb ch\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t tr\u00ed. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 hai lo\u1ea1i d\u00e2y n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng n\u1ea3y sinh.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn hai \u0111i\u1ec1u. M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao th\u1ea3 l\u1ecfng c\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kia l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao l\u00e0m c\u0103ng th\u00eam, t\u1ea1o ra c\u0103ng trong c\u00e1c d\u00e2y c\u1ee7a tim. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ba c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra; th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng trung t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta – r\u1ed1n. N\u1ebfu \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c n\u1ea3y sinh trong c\u1ea3 hai trung t\u00e2m n\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. \u00c2m nh\u1ea1c \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfc thuy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u00e0ng h\u00e0i ho\u00e0, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c c\u00e0ng n\u1ea3y sinh b\u00ean trong, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. C\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 b\u00ean trong, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u1edf tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t. Trong hai ng\u00e0y t\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn hai \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y – kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn ch\u00fang m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang nh\u1eefng d\u00e2y n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u00e0n veena s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0o c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng.<\/p>\n
Ba \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u1eeba n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i ch\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t: h\u1ed3n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi n\u00e3o c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi tim, h\u1ed3n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi r\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 r\u1ed1n; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m. R\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra qua n\u00f3 v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb k\u1ebft th\u00fac qua n\u00f3. V\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, ch\u00ednh r\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n th\u1edf b\u1eb1ng ng\u1ef1c nh\u01b0ng ban \u0111\u00eam vi\u1ec7c th\u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1edbi t\u1eeb r\u1ed1n. C\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y ng\u1ef1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ed3ng l\u00ean x\u1eb9p xu\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng ban \u0111\u00eam khi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7 b\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u1ed3ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 x\u1eb9p xu\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf th\u1edf; ng\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, ch\u00ednh b\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111ang chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 xu\u1ed1ng. Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi r\u1ed1n. Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1edbn l\u00ean, n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ec9 th\u1edf t\u1eeb ng\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u01a1i th\u1edf kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi r\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i d\u1ecdc con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ea1p xe \u0111\u1ea1p hay l\u00e1i xe h\u01a1i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean tai n\u1ea1n x\u1ea3y ra, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd l\u00e0 l\u00ean r\u1ed1n – kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean n\u00e3o hay tim. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng dao, ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1edf r\u1ed1n, kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3, ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1edf r\u1ed1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 nguy hi\u1ec3m cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1edf r\u1ed1n v\u00ec r\u1ed1n l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. C\u00e1c ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0o r\u1ed1n ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1ecf treo \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng l\u1ea5p l\u1eedng. Trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n b\u1ecb \u1ed1m to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u00e0o d\u00e0nh cho n\u00f3 – v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thu x\u1ebfp cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 thu x\u1ebfp n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00e3o, theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch thu x\u1ebfp n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n v\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 qua ch\u00fang, trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 qua ch\u00fang, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i n\u1ea3y sinh, th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft \u1edf trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n. Cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00e0ng r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n, r\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb; ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00e0ng r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. B\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng, r\u1ed1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng s\u00e2u. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 coi b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm – kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n. \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho trung t\u00e2m r\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9; n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 cho ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a r\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb “H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh b\u00ean trong”, Ch.1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n veena s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 d\u00e2y trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3138,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3137","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-than-the-tam-tri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3137","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3137"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3137\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3140,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3137\/revisions\/3140"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3138"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}