Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi: D\u1ee5c c\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng? L\u00e0m sao m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o?<\/i><\/p>\n
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\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi quan tr\u1ecdng. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 hai ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y: m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec d\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u kia l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 y\u00eau l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp. Khi y\u00eau t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng d\u1ee5c tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edt \u0111i, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu y\u00eau tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edt \u0111i d\u1ee5c tr\u1edf n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u00edt d\u1ee5c; v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00f3t \u0111\u1ea7y to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 b\u1edfi y\u00eau s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u1ee5c n\u00e0o b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau, b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n
Bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i, th\u0103ng hoa c\u1ee7a n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra qua y\u00eau. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sai c\u1ed1 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u00ean. Trong m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng khi v\u0103n minh \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, t\u00ednh \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean v\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u0103n minh k\u00ecm n\u00e9n d\u1ee5c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c b\u1ecb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra \u0111i\u00ean; n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra \u1ed1m tinh th\u1ea7n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n th\u1ef1c ra l\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean. V\u00e0 l\u00ed do duy nh\u1ea5t cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng d\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda t\u1edbi y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf ra, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea3y qua d\u1ee5c s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i qua \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a y\u00eau. C\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda c\u1ee7a \u0111am m\u00ea s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a y\u00eau. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau n\u00e0y m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ra \u0111i. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n
R\u00f3t \u0111\u1ea7y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng y\u00eau \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng y\u00eau.” V\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n hi\u1ebfm khi y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khao kh\u00e1t y\u00eau… v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t bao la gi\u1eefa hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n y\u00eau l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb con trong m\u1ecdi ki\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i t\u00ecm y\u00eau. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed; khao kh\u00e1t v\u1ec1 y\u00eau l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t tr\u1ebb con. Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau; khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 cho ch\u00fang t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean. Ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00fang. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i khi h\u1ecd l\u1edbn l\u00ean gi\u00e0 h\u01a1n, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 y\u00eau t\u1eeb v\u1ee3, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 y\u00eau t\u1eeb ch\u1ed3ng. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi xin, y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho. Trong vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mong \u0111\u1ee3i y\u00eau c\u0169ng mong \u0111\u1ee3i y\u00eau t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 \u0111ang xin l\u1eabn nhau. Tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3, v\u00e0 l\u00ed do duy nh\u1ea5t cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 c\u1ea3 hai mong \u0111\u1ee3i y\u00eau t\u1eeb nhau nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111i – nhu c\u1ea7u th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ai \u0111\u00f3 y\u00eau b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 y\u00eau b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia y\u00eau b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh b\u1eaft c\u00e1: ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh cho c\u00e1 \u0103n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft c\u00e1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n cho c\u00e1 \u0103n th\u00ednh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111ang y\u00eau quanh b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111ang th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd v\u1eabn th\u1ea3 th\u00ednh, ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 y\u00eau n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cho t\u1edbi khi chung cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m: t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf. V\u00e0 theo th\u1eddi gian t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec y\u00eau n\u00e0o t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi va ch\u1ea1m b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c, v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 y\u00eau nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch cho n\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi tranh \u0111\u1ea5u. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 h\u00e0i ho\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 lo\u1ea1i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m ra qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0o. C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi xin. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng. V\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cho y\u00eau thay v\u00ec h\u1ecfi xin n\u00f3, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi cho h\u1ecd. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 d\u1eebng h\u1ecfi xin n\u00f3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u y\u00eau h\u01a1n v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u00edt b\u1ecb m\u1eafc v\u00e0o trong d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n
Gandhi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi th\u0103m Sri Lanka c\u00f9ng v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, Kasturba. Khi Gandhi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 s\u1ebd gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u1edf bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean r\u1eb1ng Ba, v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, c\u0169ng \u0111i c\u00f9ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng Gandhi ng\u1ee5 \u00fd m\u1eb9 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. V\u1edbi t\u1eeb Ba, m\u1eb9, \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 coi n\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Gandhi c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi c\u00f9ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Cho n\u00ean khi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u Gandhi \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, “Ch\u00ednh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c \u00e2n l\u1edbn l\u00e0 c\u00f3 Gandhi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u0169ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.”<\/p>\n
Ba \u0111\u00e3 h\u01a1i ch\u00fat ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. Th\u01b0 k\u00ed c\u1ee7a Gandhi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i c\u00f9ng Gandhi. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng Gandhi s\u1ebd gi\u1eadn \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u Gandhi \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i, v\u00ec trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m Ba \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4i l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u1ea5y gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i.”<\/p>\n
Sannyasin nam th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1eb9 anh, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecf v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y \u0111i. Sannyasin n\u1eef th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef hay v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n gi\u00e0. V\u00e0o th\u1eddi x\u01b0a m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd ch\u00fac ph\u00fac, “C\u1ea7u cho c\u00f4 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u00f3 m\u01b0\u1eddi con trai v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u cho ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con trai th\u1ee9 m\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4.” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 l\u1ea1. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi ch\u00fac ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho c\u00f4 d\u00e2u v\u00e0o l\u00fac c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y: c\u1ea7u cho c\u00f4 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u00f3 m\u01b0\u1eddi con trai v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u cho ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con trai th\u1ee9 m\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb1ng sau n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu y\u00eau gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 n\u1eefa: m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u00edt d\u1ee5c gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh y\u00eau. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o c\u00f2n d\u1ee5c, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 khai th\u00e1c. D\u1ee5c l\u00e0 khai th\u00e1i – v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khai th\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau? D\u1ee5c l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m c\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng t\u00ednh khai th\u00e1c nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khai th\u00e1c h\u1ecd theo c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng theo c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3, khi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, vi\u1ec7c khai th\u00e1c s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, vi\u1ec7c khai th\u00e1c s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i t\u0103ng l\u00ean.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m sao l\u00e0m cho d\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o r\u1eb1ng d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ea5t huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tinh n\u00e0y m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 v\u00e0o d\u1ee5c. Ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean trung t\u00e2m d\u1ee5c, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng xoay quanh \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u xoay quanh v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd qua trung t\u00e2m d\u1ee5c. D\u1ee5c l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 d\u1ee5c. Nh\u01b0ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh y\u00eau. V\u00e0 c\u00f9ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd l\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i s\u00e2u v\u1edbi d\u1ee5c – kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u, m\u00e0 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1ee5c. T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n d\u1ee5c. V\u00f4 d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a d\u1ee5c, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a d\u1ee5c. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea3y xu\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi, c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chuy\u1ec3n l\u00ean tr\u00ean. N\u1ebfu n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ee5c v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean tr\u00ean n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y chuy\u1ec3n xu\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c. Nh\u01b0ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i qua y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch y\u00eau \u0111i. H\u1ecdc ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a y\u00eau \u0111i. V\u1ec1 sau, khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a y\u00eau. V\u1edbi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i ch\u1eebng n\u00e0y th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb \u201cCon \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a Thi\u1ec1n\u201d, Ch.3<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi: D\u1ee5c c\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng? L\u00e0m sao m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2910,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nang-luc-cam"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2909","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2909"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2909\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2911,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2909\/revisions\/2911"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2910"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2909"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2909"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}