Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c t\u00f4i. L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh kinh nghi\u1ec7m?<\/p>\n
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Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00e0m sao, v\u00ec l\u00e0m sao ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nghe t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n. Thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i? C\u00f3 hai kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng: ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1edfi lu\u1eadn c\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y ch\u00e2n l\u00ed trong \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu lu\u1eadn c\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, tri th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cung c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec tri th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n
Khi tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c, n\u00f3 h\u1ecfi: l\u00e0m sao? C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 g\u00ec? N\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng k\u00ed \u1ee9c l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 – r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00e0n d\u01b0 t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 – \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, c\u00e1i c\u00f2n \u0111ang b\u00e1m v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 k\u00ed \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 k\u00ed \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00e0m sao. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc sang kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc – kh\u00f4ng qua b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng qua nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, vi\u1ec7c nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc sang kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc – khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u00f3i, \u0103n, ng\u1ee7 – th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u1ef1ng s\u1eb5n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e1y t\u00ednh ho\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 k\u00ed \u1ee9c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00f4 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y, s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i khi n\u00e0o n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, l\u00e0m sao n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, b\u1edfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng. T\u1eeb tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 n\u00f3 \u0111i t\u1edbi tim; t\u1eeb th\u00f4ng minh n\u00f3 \u0111i t\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; t\u1eeb \u00fd th\u1ee9c n\u00f3 chuy\u1ec3n d\u1ea7n t\u1edbi v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c tu t\u1eadp, nh\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tu t\u1eadp theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n b\u00ean trong, c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn b\u00ean trong. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i s\u00e2u trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Khi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y t\u1edbi, n\u00f3 t\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n l\u1ec7, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft – nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5. Trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3; b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, kh\u00f4ng l\u00ed tr\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng k\u00ed \u1ee9c. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng, v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng. Trong ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tri th\u1ee9c. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 tri th\u1ee9c theo ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft. N\u00f3 mang t\u00ednh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng, c\u00e1i ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u1ec9 l\u1ed1i chuy\u1ec3n, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan ni\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n nh\u1edb, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb.<\/p>\n
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Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 khuy\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n
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Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n; ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu t\u1eadp. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n tu t\u1eadp c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a trong n\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0o x\u1ea3y t\u1edbi s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu t\u1eadp. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y t\u1edbi t\u1eeb t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u0169 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n chia, vi\u1ec7c chia c\u1eaft. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 hai: t\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1i “m\u00ecnh” l\u00e0 k\u00ed \u1ee9c, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed; v\u00e0 c\u00e1i “t\u00f4i” l\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, atman.<\/p>\n
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B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nghe t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi nghe t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ecdi l\u00fac. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tri th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi tri th\u1ee9c th\u00eam n\u1eefa – v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m sao, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 ra, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1i “m\u00ecnh” s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m m\u1ea1nh th\u00eam; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i cho c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec trao \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh giao c\u1ea3m. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. N\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i s\u1ebd ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed hay nh\u01b0 phi ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft b\u1ecbp b\u1ee3m.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng – ho\u1eb7c b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i, ho\u1eb7c b\u1eb1ng im l\u1eb7ng, ho\u1eb7c b\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m r\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1i \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
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\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. T\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n cho b\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 d\u1ea7u v\u1eady ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n! L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 v\u1eabn n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i? Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ef1 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tri th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1i \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c h\u1ecfi: L\u00e0m sao? C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 v\u1eabn n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi l\u00ed t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb c\u00f5i b\u00ean kia ti\u1ebfp qu\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi l\u00fac t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c, s\u1ef1 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi khi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra n\u01a1i s\u1ef1 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb ng\u1eaft qu\u00e3ng. Ch\u00ednh t\u00ednh ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n v\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u00ed c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra k\u1ebd h\u1edf, \u0111\u1eadp tan v\u00e0 qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1ee5 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt….<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t s\u00e1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u00e0ng. Khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0o l\u00e0ng, ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin v\u00e0o \u0110\u1ea5ng t\u1ed1i cao. Xin n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng.”<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3. \u00d4ng \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a g\u00ec v\u1eady!” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ebfn tr\u01b0a, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. C\u00f3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng? Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3?”<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “Duy nh\u1ea5t Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ngo\u00e0i ng\u00e0i.” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba t\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo thuy\u1ebft b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 tri. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tin m\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00f4ng tin. Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i g\u00ec? C\u00f3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hay kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt v\u1eabn c\u00f2n im l\u1eb7ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng s\u01b0 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, Ananda, ng\u01b0\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111i c\u00f9ng Ph\u1eadt, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng h\u01a1n. Bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf,” \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ec1u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, “Duy nh\u1ea5t Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu,” v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n im l\u1eb7ng. \u0110\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 Ananda n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt, “Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u1ea7y \u0111i ng\u1ee7, xin tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m tan v\u1ee1 an b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i! T\u00f4i l\u00fang t\u00fang! Th\u1ea7y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u00e0y?”<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0o trong ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho \u00f4ng. T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 nghe ch\u00fang? Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eebng c\u00e2u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi. N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0m r\u1ed1i \u00f4ng, t\u1ed1t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng.”<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra. Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, hay t\u00e1t v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n. B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. Ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi, “\u0110\u1ea1o l\u00e0 g\u00ec?” nh\u01b0ng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi \u0110\u1ea1o ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, “Nh\u00ecn s\u00f4ng \u0111i!” hay “Nh\u00ecn c\u00e2y kia. N\u00f3 cao l\u00e0m sao!” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n.<\/p>\n
T\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c. N\u00f3 s\u1ee3 c\u00e1i ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n. N\u00f3 s\u1ee3 c\u00e1i phi l\u00ed, c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 ho\u00e1. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 qui n\u1ea1p. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng logic; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec cho b\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao. Ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u0103m ch\u00fa v\u00e0o c\u00e1i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u0103m ch\u00fa v\u00e0 c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u0103m ch\u00fa c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb \u201cT\u00e2m l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u00ed truy\u1ec1n\u201d, ch.9<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c t\u00f4i. L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh kinh nghi\u1ec7m? Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00e0m sao, v\u00ec … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2847,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2846","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quan-sat-nhan-biet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2846","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2846"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2846\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2848,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2846\/revisions\/2848"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2847"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2846"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2846"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2846"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}