Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3; kh\u00f4ng ai tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eady. Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu b\u1ecb ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn, v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 l\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh. Cho n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady v\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n khao kh\u00e1t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n khao kh\u00e1t l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady. C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra gi\u1eefa hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t, l\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang, b\u1ea5t t\u1eed, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n khao kh\u00e1t c\u1ee9u r\u1ed7i, moksha, th\u1ebf n\u1eefa c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady, t\u1ea1o ra c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. L\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n. Cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy v\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o khao kh\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1edf xa x\u00f4i. Kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 l\u1edbn t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ch\u1ec9 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y k\u1ebd h\u1edf n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd k\u1ebd h\u1edf gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady v\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0. N\u1ebfu k\u1ebd h\u1edf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 l\u1edbn, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu k\u1ebd h\u1edf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebd h\u1edf ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng khao kh\u00e1t l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng; b\u1ea1n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u1edf trong \u0110\u1ea1o. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebd h\u1edf b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o; b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong ph\u00e1p.<\/p>\n
K\u1ebd h\u1edf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ea7ng. N\u1ebfu khao kh\u00e1t l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt l\u00ed, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh v\u1eadt l\u00ed. Khi b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n khao kh\u00e1t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eadt l\u00ed – th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ec3 sinh l\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u1ee9 c\u00f2n m\u00e3i, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 lan sang c\u00e1c t\u1ea7ng kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n khao kh\u00e1t quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng t\u00e2m linh, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf m\u1ee9c t\u00e2m linh v\u00e0 lan ra. Vi\u1ec7c lan ra n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi b\u1ea1n n\u00e9m h\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o h\u1ed3. N\u00f3 r\u01a1i \u1edf m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng rung \u0111\u1ed9ng do n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c lan r\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. Cho n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb b\u1ea5t k\u00ec m\u1ed9t trong b\u1ea9y th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7: k\u1ebd h\u1edf gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khao kh\u00e1t.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3, bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3 – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e1u l\u1ec9nh h\u01a1n, th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n – th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra. Ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u, ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u duy nh\u1ea5t. T\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean duy nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft, v\u00f4 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng; c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. N\u00f3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng n\u00e0y m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra, s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Cho n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0 c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7.<\/p>\n
T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. N\u1ebfu to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u01a1 ca. T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra khao kh\u00e1t; n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng trong vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng. Vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n
Con v\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, c\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, v\u00ec ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Ch\u00fang \u1edf b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3. C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng; n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang \u0111ang ti\u1ebfn ho\u00e1. M\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc s\u1ebd t\u1edbi khi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ebd b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 trong th\u00e2n ch\u00fang v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khao kh\u00e1t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u1ea3y ra. T\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. B\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng, b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o ra ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh. Nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quan ni\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i? D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u. \u0110i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng trong t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 do t\u1ea1o ra b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c, n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. Vi\u1ec7c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a th\u01a1 ca. Th\u01a1 ca s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Hay n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1 s\u0129, b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 tranh v\u1ebd. Tranh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00f3, m\u00e0 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng trong t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00f3, hay b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0o im l\u1eb7ng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng im l\u1eb7ng, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng ch\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu t\u1eadp. Im l\u1eb7ng n\u00e0y n\u1eefa l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u00e2u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ch\u1ec9 qua im l\u1eb7ng. Ngay c\u1ea3 th\u01a1 ca c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p; tranh v\u1ebd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00e0o l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Im l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t duy nh\u1ea5t. Im l\u1eb7ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0, thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u1edf hoa kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 n\u1edf hoa b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, hoa c\u1ee7a im l\u1eb7ng, v\u00e0 qua im l\u1eb7ng n\u00e0y m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 hai c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u. Vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i qua t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m – nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3, nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra trong b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ho\u1ea1 s\u0129. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ee9c tranh; b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1; b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u01a1 ca. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb n\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u1edf hoa.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c n\u1edf hoa n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 b\u1ea9y t\u1ea7ng, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea9y t\u1ea7ng. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong m\u1ecdi th\u1ec3. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c sinh l\u00ed, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eb9p theo ngh\u0129a m\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00e0 t\u1eeb v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng n\u00e0y trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh: ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh theo ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u1ed1m ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb. M\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb n\u00e0y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ec7nh. N\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 n\u00f3; n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a y t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1ed1m th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1eefa. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb.<\/p>\n
Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc sang kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0103n v\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ch\u00ednh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0103n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111ang v\u1eady. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng; th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. Hay n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong giao c\u1ea3m d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 kh\u1ecfi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng d\u1ee5c m\u00e0, thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a y\u00eau – n\u1ebfu kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n – th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111ang t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi ch\u00fang m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi ch\u00fang; n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea1y n\u00e0y, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea1y l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch – th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 sinh l\u00ed, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi t\u1eebng th\u1ec3 trong b\u1ea9y th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y. Hi\u1ec3u kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft hai \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3: b\u1ec7nh, \u1ed1m kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh; kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a theo ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a \u1ed1m. Ng\u1ea7n n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ee9 ba, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh, s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai, th\u1ec3 \u00ea te, c\u00f3 h\u01a1i ch\u00fat kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. D\u1ea7u v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n
M\u01a1 v\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai, th\u1ec3 \u00ea te. Cho n\u00ean b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u01a1, \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i l\u00e0 m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 \u00ea te. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng s\u1ed1ng trong c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u m\u01a1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3i hay nh\u1ecbn \u0103n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u m\u01a1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u01a1 sinh l\u00ed. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi th\u1ec3 \u00ea te.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ec3 \u00ea te c\u00f3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft th\u1ec3 \u00ea te trong m\u01a1, cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu th\u1ec3 \u00ea te c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, m\u01a1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00e1c m\u1ed9ng. Ngay c\u1ea3 trong m\u01a1 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng; c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ebd \u0111i theo b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t trong th\u1ec3 \u00ea te c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 y\u00eau. D\u1ee5c c\u00f3 t\u00ednh sinh l\u00ed; y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. Y\u00eau ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed, n\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi th\u1ec3 \u00ea te; nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, m\u00e0 th\u1ec3 \u00ea te c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3; n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n th\u1ee9c \u0103n. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd trong y\u00eau. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 y\u00eau – n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1edbi ai – v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng trong n\u00f3. Ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ho\u1eb7c, trong th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9; nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c trong th\u1ec3 \u00ea te n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau l\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra trong th\u1ec3 \u00ea te. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, mong \u0111\u1ee3i, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n
Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai: n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Y\u00eau n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “ph\u1ea3i”; n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u201cph\u1ea3i l\u00e0\u201d th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i, \u0111\u00f2i h\u00f2i, ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n
Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 y\u00eau trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, r\u1ea5t tinh vi. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i n\u00f3i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau. Trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i ba gi\u1edd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd, khi t\u00f4i \u1edf c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i y\u00eau m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng trong y\u00eau \u1edf kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i ba gi\u1edd kh\u00e1c. M\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n
Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n y\u00eau m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi – kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi v\u1eadt n\u1eefa. Y\u00eau chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 n\u1eefa. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, khi kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang y\u00eau. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1edf. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u1ea5y l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd th\u1edf ch\u1ec9 khi t\u00f4i \u1edf c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo sau. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1edf kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 v\u1edbi th\u1ec3 \u00ea te, y\u00eau gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1edf. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 \u00ea te.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang y\u00eau, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111ang y\u00eau. Ki\u1ec3u y\u00eau m\u00e0 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m. Ngay c\u1ea3 b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 y\u00eau n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh v\u00ec \u00fd ni\u1ec7m sai n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ai, th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1c m\u1ed9ng. M\u01a1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u01a1 ca. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp kh\u1eafp b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u, h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m c\u1ee7a y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u lan to\u1ea3. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, s\u1ef1 v\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Y\u00eau th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u0169ng v\u1eady – v\u00ec y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c, v\u00ec n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 – n\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh, m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u chi\u1ebfn tranh. B\u1ed1 v\u00e0 con trai, m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i, ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 – h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau; ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean tranh \u0111\u1ea5u, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tranh \u0111\u1ea5u ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 y\u00eau. \u0110\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh. Gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn c\u00f3 k\u1ebd h\u1edf, th\u1eddi k\u00ec ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, gi\u1eefa hai cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn tranh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh. C\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn s\u1eafp t\u1edbi. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau. K\u1ebd h\u1edf m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho tranh \u0111\u1ea5u s\u1eafp t\u1edbi. Ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb khi ch\u00fang ta \u1edf gi\u1eefa hai tr\u1eadn \u1ed1m, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau khi ch\u00fang ta \u1edf gi\u1eefa hai l\u1ea7n tranh \u0111\u1ea5u. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 y\u00eau. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 k\u1ebd h\u1edf gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tranh \u0111\u1ea5u. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tranh \u0111\u1ea5u trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd, cho n\u00ean \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. N\u00eau y\u00eau t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – th\u1ec3 \u00ea te – tr\u1edf n\u00ean tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00ed do kh\u00e1c cho c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 lo\u1ea1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft y\u00eau, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n
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