\u00ca te ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng gian. Vi di\u1ec7u ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u1ea5t, sukshma, c\u00e1i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, nguy\u00ean t\u1eed, c\u00e1i m\u00e0 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t d\u1eebng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. V\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. V\u1edbi t\u00e2m linh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. V\u1edbi c\u00e0n kh\u00f4n n\u1eefa c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea9y, th\u1ec3 ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n. Ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd vi\u1ec7c d\u1eebng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m n\u00e0o t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd; m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u1eeb n\u00e0y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd vi\u1ec7c t\u1eaft ng\u00f3m ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda. Ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i; \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng b\u1ecb t\u1eaft \u0111i. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n
Ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3, hay \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian hay kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng gian, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u1eddi gian. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. V\u00ec n\u00f3 \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, cho n\u00ean \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. Cho n\u00ean v\u1edbi th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng \u2018ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n\u2019, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Ch\u1ec9 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a. Ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea9y th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a cho b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u1edf t\u1eebng b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n
B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb v\u1eadt l\u00ed. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi b\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c m\u1edf ra cho b\u1ea1n. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ean th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai. Cho n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb v\u1eadt l\u00ed \u0111i. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc sang kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111i. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 tay t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 n\u1eefa. Khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i tay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong. Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf b\u00ean trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 d\u00e0nh cho t\u00f4i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y tay t\u00f4i t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y n\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 mang t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb tri th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng tay t\u00f4i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh c\u00f4ng khai. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft v\u1eady.<\/p>\n
Duy nh\u1ea5t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong th\u00ec n\u00f3 m\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. Duy nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft trong ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Duy nh\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong; tri th\u1ee9c c\u00f4ng khai kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao sinh l\u00ed h\u1ecdc hay t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quan s\u00e1t t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi tri th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c th\u1ec3 b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed7i th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 x\u1eed \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tin r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u b\u00ean trong. Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 phong c\u00e1ch th\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, ti\u00eau ch\u00ed b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c; m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p trong th\u1eddi k\u00ec l\u1ecbch s\u1eed n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p trong th\u1eddi k\u00ec l\u1ecbch s\u1eed kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb9p, cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 chung. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. N\u1ebfu t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u00f9, kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ebd l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t; khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m gh\u00e9t, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi Ph\u1eadt \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “Y\u00eau l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p,” v\u00ec trong vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y y\u00eau, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. Khi c\u00f3 h\u1eadn, gi\u1eadn, ghen, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra b\u00ean trong l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau, trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00e1c nhau, trong nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. Khi b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed3n ng\u1ee7, c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft l\u1ecbch s\u1eed b\u00ean trong, \u0111\u1ecba l\u00ed b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n trong th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u, th\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean, trong tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0.<\/p>\n
Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn. Th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb b\u00ean b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai, nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong n\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai. M\u1ecdi th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 hai chi\u1ec1u: c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 hai ph\u00eda – m\u1ed9t ph\u00eda nh\u00ecn ra ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 ph\u00eda kia nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong – m\u1ecdi th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi, t\u01b0\u1eddng. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u1edf gi\u1eefa: b\u00ean trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai. Th\u1ebf th\u1ee9 hai n\u00e0y, th\u1ec3 \u00ea te, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f3i d\u1ea7y \u0111\u1eb7c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i qua n\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng trong su\u1ed1t; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Th\u1ebf th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 r\u1eafn ch\u1eafc. Th\u1ebf th\u1ee9 hai c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng r\u1eafn ch\u1eafc.<\/p>\n
Khi th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t ch\u1ebft, th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng trong m\u01b0\u1eddi ba ng\u00e0y. N\u00f3 du h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, sau m\u01b0\u1eddi ba ng\u00e0y, n\u00f3 n\u1eefa c\u0169ng ch\u1ebft. N\u00f3 tan t\u00e1c, bay h\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai trong khi th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi trong thi\u1ec1n th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai n\u00e0y \u0111i l\u00ean hay xu\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng s\u1ee9c h\u00fat kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea5t. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi l\u00fac. Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean, v\u00ec th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai, kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. Trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u00fat, cho n\u00ean kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi cho th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 quay l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee9 hai n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 ao \u01b0\u1edbc \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. V\u1edbi th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u00fat h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u1ef1c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi l\u1ef1c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ec3 \u00ea te l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong th\u00f4i mi\u00ean. Th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham gia v\u00e0o trong th\u00f4i mi\u00ean; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh m\u00f9. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i mi\u00ean n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u00f9, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c tin v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh th\u1ec3 \u00ea te \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng; vi\u1ec7c g\u1ee3i \u00fd \u0111i t\u1edbi th\u1ec3 \u00ea te. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong th\u00f4i mi\u00ean s\u00e2u, th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb li\u1ec7t b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c g\u1ee3i \u00fd cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng “anh b\u1ecb li\u1ec7t.” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i mi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0o t\u1ea1o ra ho\u00e0i nghi. N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng ta n\u00f3i, “D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 anh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u00f9,” n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. \u00d4ng ta ph\u1ea3i tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u1eddi g\u1ee3i \u00fd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i \u1edf ngo\u00e0i th\u00e2n th\u1ec3.” Ch\u1ec9 ao \u01b0\u1edbc \u1edf ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1edf ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3. Gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u00ednh th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t – b\u1ecb ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c b\u1edfi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong ng\u00e0y – tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i. Trong th\u00f4i mi\u00ean, ch\u00ednh th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o ng\u1ee7. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o ng\u1ee7, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb b\u1ea5t k\u00ec b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0o, b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i nh\u0103m ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m b\u1ec7nh t\u1edbi t\u1eeb th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai v\u00e0 lan sang th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. Th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb g\u1ee3i \u00fd t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c sinh vi\u00ean y n\u0103m th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1ecb c\u00f9ng b\u1ec7nh m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho h\u1ecdc. H\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 c\u00e1c tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng. N\u1ebfu \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u00fd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecfi, “M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng? M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?” V\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111i v\u00e0o trong \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, l\u1eddi g\u1ee3i \u00fd b\u1ecb b\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ecb ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra.<\/p>\n
\u0110au c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c sinh con kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai. Cho n\u00ean qua th\u00f4i mi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c sinh con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111au – ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng g\u1ee3i \u00fd. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 trong \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au khi sinh v\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i v\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u00ed h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi ki\u1ec3u v\u0103n minh \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng g\u1ee3i \u00fd chung m\u00e0 r\u1ed3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
D\u01b0\u1edbi th\u00f4i mi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111au. Ngay c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh d\u01b0\u1edbi th\u00f4i mi\u00ean m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111au g\u00ec v\u00ec n\u1ebfu th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai nh\u1eadn g\u1ee3i \u00fd r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111au th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111au. Khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi t\u00f4i, m\u1ecdi ki\u1ec3u \u0111au, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ki\u1ec3u vui th\u00fa n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1edbi t\u1eeb th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai v\u00e0 lan sang th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. Cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu g\u1ee3i \u00fd thay \u0111\u1ed5i, c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 \u0111au c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vui th\u00edch, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u1ee3i \u00fd, thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u00ea te, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u1ec9 ao \u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. T\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t duy nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa ao \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 \u00fd ch\u00ed. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, v\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u00fd ch\u00ed.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ao \u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 sinh l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i th\u1ec3 v\u1eadt l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u1edf gi\u1eefa: b\u00ean trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u1edf b\u00ean trong th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai. Th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111i, c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean trong. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n th\u1eed n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u1edf b\u00ean trong hai th\u1ec3: th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee9 hai. \u0110i\u1ec3m ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u1edf hai c\u00f5i, hai chi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb \u201cT\u00e2m l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u00ed truy\u1ec1n\u201d, ch.7<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00ca te ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng gian. Vi di\u1ec7u ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u1ea5t, sukshma, c\u00e1i … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2811,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2810","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quan-sat-nhan-biet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2810","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2810"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2810\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2813,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2810\/revisions\/2813"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2811"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2810"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2810"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2810"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}