Thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
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Thi\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 k\u0129 thu\u1eadt. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh: tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Thi\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam v\u00e0o cho b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 qua bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, vi\u1ec7c chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u1edf hoa, s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 t\u1eeb c\u00e1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u00eam v\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi thi\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c n\u1edf hoa to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u1ebf! Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ch\u00fang l\u1eeba, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a th\u1ef1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i. Ch\u00ednh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cho thi\u1ec1n – quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 thi\u1ec1n d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p – v\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 sai. V\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, ch\u00ednh ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ecb hu\u1ef7 ho\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ec1n. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi thi\u1ec1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 g\u00ec nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd? N\u00f3 v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n
T\u00e2m tr\u00ed bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft l\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a suy ngh\u0129, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed1n kh\u1ecfi suy ngh\u0129. B\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111o\u00e1 hoa v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi; b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i qua ph\u1ed1 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111ang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7m t\u00f9. Th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean bi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi, bi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi, l\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng d\u1eebng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9; kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef; \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef; \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi n\u00f3, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00e1y m\u00f3c t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 k\u1ebd h\u1edf gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3, v\u00e0 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. K\u1ebd h\u1edf gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i ra l\u1eddi b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1eddi. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed5i kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y chen v\u00e0o gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Thi\u1ec1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi, s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. \u0110\u00f4i khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau l\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau, h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean im l\u1eb7ng. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 kh\u1ed1i l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi khi y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111i.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd im l\u1eb7ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u1ea5p k\u1ebd h\u1edf b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi. Khi y\u00eau l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a y\u00eau l\u00e0 tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp, xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 l\u1eddi b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua. V\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua trong y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
Thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 cao tr\u00e0o c\u1ee7a y\u00eau: y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec ri\u00eang m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 v\u00ec to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111ang bao quanh b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf trong y\u00eau v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong thi\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u00e0m t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u th\u00f3i quen m\u00e1y m\u00f3c c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi, c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi, k\u1ebd h\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra. N\u00f3 t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t. N\u00f3 \u0111i theo vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao \u1edf trong thi\u1ec1n, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng trong thi\u1ec1n. Ch\u00ednh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh thi\u1ec1n mang t\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00eam c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n; n\u00f3 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef; n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1eadt v\u00e0 t\u1eaft c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi; nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eaft n\u00f3 \u0111i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 – n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n m\u00e3i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng d\u1eebng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i – th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7.<\/p>\n
Khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i phi thi\u1ec1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7, \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i thi\u1ec1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Cho n\u00ean thi\u1ec1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf t\u00e2m tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n
T\u00e2m tr\u00ed, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. B\u1ea1n \u1edf ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3; s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3. T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef; s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Khi t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t, ch\u00fang \u1edf trong giao c\u1ea3m. Giao c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i k\u00ecm n\u00e9n n\u00f3 hay lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf n\u00f3. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y cho b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111ung \u0111\u01b0a khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u00ean. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eaft ch\u00fang \u0111i. Theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch, khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u0129 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i, li\u00ean l\u1ea1c. Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong thi\u1ec1n. Thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u0129 thu\u1eadt. K\u0129 thu\u1eadt bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ch\u1ebft, cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam v\u00e0o cho b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng. N\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, n\u00f3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n
Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i trong n\u00f3. Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi, khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c v\u1eadt. \u00dd th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1eafc b\u00e9n h\u01a1n, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n, v\u00ec ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef l\u00e0m \u0111\u1edd \u0111\u1eabn n\u00f3. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra ch\u00e1n. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u00e0ng quan tr\u1ecdng cho b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb ch\u00e1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. M\u1ecdi hoa h\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 hoa h\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi, m\u1edbi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. N\u00f3 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 hoa h\u1ed3ng, l\u1eddi \u2018hoa h\u1ed3ng\u2019 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ebft c\u00e1i m\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u0169.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng tr\u1ebb, v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng gi\u00e0. Qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, b\u1ea1n tho\u00e1t li s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, v\u00ec ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng d\u00ednh l\u00edu nhi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb n\u00f3 l\u00e0m u m\u00ea. B\u00e1c h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ebft v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Sartre \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi t\u1ef1 ti\u1ec3u s\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ‘L\u1eddi’. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng trong l\u1eddi. T\u1ee9c l\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. L\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh n\u00f3. B\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ra cu\u1ed1n album nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh ch\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng trong thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 album ch\u1ebft. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 k\u00ed \u1ee9c. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng; m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Thi\u1ec1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 khi b\u1ea1n im l\u1eb7ng. B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng s\u1ed1ng. L\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1.<\/p>\n
Qua c\u00e1c m\u1eadt ch\u00fa b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 th\u00f4i mi\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00e1n trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c t\u00e2m tr\u00ed s\u1ebd \u0111i ng\u1ee7. B\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ee5ng “Ram Ram Ram” t\u00e2m tr\u00ed s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n
Thi\u1ec1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 giao c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng m\u1eadt ch\u00fa n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap, kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ee5ng n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap. T\u1ef1 th\u00f4i mi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u1ef1 th\u00f4i mi\u00ean l\u00e0 tho\u00e1i lui. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef; n\u00f3 r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi m\u1eadt ch\u00fa \u0111i, b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi k\u0129 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y \u0111i. Cho ph\u00e9p nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng m\u1eadt ch\u00fa v\u00ec ch\u00ednh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m? Th\u1ef1c ra, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fat n\u00e0o ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng trong thi\u1ec1n, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng im l\u1eb7ng, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 h\u01a1n. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh. C\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i – ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi l\u1eddi. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1ch t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft n\u00e0y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i: xa c\u00e1ch, nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ea5y k\u1ebd h\u1edf gi\u1eefa kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 l\u1eddi. K\u1ebd h\u1edf c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
Gi\u1eefa hai l\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebd h\u1edf, d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng hai l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 hai; ch\u00fang s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t. Gi\u1eefa hai n\u1ed1t nh\u1ea1c bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebd h\u1edf, im l\u1eb7ng. Hai l\u1eddi hay hai n\u1ed1t nh\u1ea1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 hai ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng h\u1edf gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang. Im l\u1eb7ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u1eadm h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u00edt nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00e0ng nhanh; b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00e0ng ch\u1eadm h\u01a1n. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u1eadm d\u1ea7n v\u00e0 k\u1ebd h\u1edf gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c \u00fd ngh\u0129 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ra. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
N\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ed9 phim. Khi m\u00e1y chi\u1ebfu ch\u1ea1y v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1eadm, b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c k\u1ebd h\u1edf. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i gi\u01a1 tay l\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee5p trong h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn ph\u1ea7n. T\u1eebng ph\u1ea7n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p. N\u1ebfu h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p n\u00e0y ch\u1ea1y qua tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n nhanh t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c k\u1ebd h\u1edf, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y tay t\u00f4i gi\u01a1 l\u00ean nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng trong chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1eadm, k\u1ebd h\u1edf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n
T\u00e2m tr\u00ed gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ed9 phim. K\u1ebd h\u1edf c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng ch\u0103m ch\u00fa t\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i: b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee9a hai \u1ea3nh ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi. \u1ea2nh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y hay \u1ea3nh kia c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 hai \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 gi\u00e0, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u1ea3nh kia; v\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o \u1ea3nh kia, \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 hai \u1ea3nh, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
C\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn l\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebd h\u1edf, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn k\u1ebd h\u1edf b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y l\u1eddi. M\u1ecdi l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i theo sau b\u1edfi k\u1ebd h\u1edf v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi k\u1ebd h\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i theo sau b\u1edfi l\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o k\u1ebd h\u1edf, l\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e9m v\u00e0o trong thi\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
\u00dd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o k\u1ebd h\u1edf l\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ec1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 k\u1ebd h\u1edf, l\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n quan s\u00e1t c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y l\u1eddi; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y k\u1ebd h\u1edf.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai l\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai k\u1ebd h\u1edf. L\u1eddi bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 k\u1ebd h\u1edf bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng duy nh\u1ea5t: “m\u1ed9t” k\u1ebd h\u1edf. Ch\u00fang h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t. Thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 v\u00e0o k\u1ebd h\u1edf. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb \u201cT\u00e2m l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u00ed truy\u1ec1n\u201d, ch.2<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Thi\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 k\u0129 thu\u1eadt. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2760,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-than-the-tam-tri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2759"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2759\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2762,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2759\/revisions\/2762"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2760"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}