{"id":2698,"date":"2022-05-06T16:29:05","date_gmt":"2022-05-06T09:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/wordpress\/?p=2698"},"modified":"2022-05-06T16:29:12","modified_gmt":"2022-05-06T09:29:12","slug":"chet-va-song","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/?p=2698","title":{"rendered":"Ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/em>. N\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 v\u1eady v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta b\u00e1m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o s\u1ed1ng. S\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1m v\u00edu n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1m v\u00edu n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng, v\u00ec s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 hai nh\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft, v\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u2013 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh s\u1ed1ng \u0111em ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi. Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qua vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f4ng c\u1ee9ng t\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea3y, \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft b\u00e1m v\u00e0o s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u; nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 cho d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e1m v\u00e0o s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn cho vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u s\u1ed1ng n\u1eefa. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trong hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, trong d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n th\u1ea5y: r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9. Ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1ef1c ra, k\u1ebb th\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 cho sinh th\u00e0nh ra b\u1ea1n; s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n. Cho n\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i sinh.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ebft gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng: ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00eam. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00eam, ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00eam chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ng\u00e0y cho b\u1ea1n, ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00eam l\u00e0m kho\u1ebb l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n, cho b\u1ea1n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. B\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 say t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi \u0111\u00eam b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o trong ch\u1ebft \u2013 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft nh\u1ecf — do \u0111\u00f3 bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ebf. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ebft m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00eam l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng may m\u1eafn. \u0110\u1ebfn s\u00e1ng h\u1ecd m\u1ec7t h\u01a1n khi h\u1ecd \u0111i ng\u1ee7. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 m\u01a1, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y s\u1ed1ng trong m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o trong bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p ch\u1ebft n\u1eafm quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu h\u1ecd v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 cho ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1edbi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng may m\u1eafn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i v\u00e0o trong gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 say v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng, gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng m\u01a1. \u0110\u1ebfn s\u00e1ng h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ea7y ni\u1ec1m vui, \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0a ra.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ebft gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00eam. S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u00e2m. S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ef1c, ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 c\u00e1i. S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 n\u0103ng n\u1ed5, tham v\u1ecdng \u2013 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. V\u00e0 ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi n\u0103ng n\u1ed5 — cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh b\u00ean trong. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ‘n\u01a1i \u1ea9n tr\u00fa c\u1ee7a ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i’.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u; b\u1ea1n \u0111i xa kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111i xa, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1ed5. B\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng xa kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tri\u1ebft l\u00ed, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111i xa, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2013 nh\u01b0ng mang kh\u1ed5 t\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t nho\u00e0i v\u00e0 ng\u00e1n ng\u1ea9m. Cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn.  B\u1ea1n th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n quay v\u1ec1. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng qu\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng t\u00ecm v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a th\u00f4i. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. Ch\u1ebft ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh n\u00f3. Do \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i: ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9. Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi sau nhi\u1ec1u nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u2013 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c \u2013 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ch\u1ed7 tr\u00fa ng\u1ee5, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, \u0111\u1ec3 thu l\u1ea5y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 hai: s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi th\u1ebf nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n ch\u1ebft. Cho n\u00ean c\u00f3 k\u1ebd h\u1edf b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i hay t\u00e1m m\u01b0\u01a1i hay m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m n\u0103m. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. Vi\u1ec7c sinh v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ebft \u0111i c\u00f9ng nhau trong c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1edf b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ebft n\u1eefa. T\u1eebng<\/em> kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ebft \u2013 hai b\u00e1nh xe c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe. Ch\u00fang \u0111i c\u00f9ng nhau. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi th\u1ebf — b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi th\u1ebf — ch\u00fang c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc. M\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra trong b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ch\u1ebft \u0111i.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau. Trong th\u1eddi gian b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u1edbi tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i c\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tranh c\u00e3i, tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i c\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: C\u00e1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u00e1i kia l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i! Tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea9m t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u0111ang l\u1eb7n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Sau b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1ee3t v\u00e0o trong vi\u1ec7c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i s\u00e2u. Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f9ng nhau. Nh\u00ecn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd mang t\u1edbi s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t l\u1edbn cho b\u1ea1n. T\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. T\u01b0\u01a1ng lai t\u1ea1o ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1: Ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u2013 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n? L\u00e0m sao t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ee9c Tr\u01b0\u1eddng Th\u00e0nh Trung Qu\u1ed1c ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3? Thu x\u1ebfp n\u00e0o ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n, hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n l\u00e2u th\u00eam ch\u00fat \u00edt?<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed3i! V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. N\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra t\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3! Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u2013 ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 t\u1edbi r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 to v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eadm n\u00e9t khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, v\u00ec y\u00eau cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quan s\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng? Sau t\u1eebng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng y\u00eau b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00e1n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, im l\u1eb7ng, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a y\u00eau b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong ch\u1ebft. T\u1eebng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng y\u00eau mang s\u1ed1ng t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec9nh, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t tho\u00e1ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m c\u1ee7a ch\u1ebft, c\u00e1i \u0111ang bao quanh n\u00f3. Thung l\u0169ng ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng khi \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t cao.<\/p>\n

T\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y, hai ki\u1ec3u v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

V\u0103n ho\u00e1 ch\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng \u0111i theo sau h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ee5c. N\u00f3 li\u00ean quan nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi thung l\u0169ng. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i, “Tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. \u0110\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 to\u00e0n l\u00e0 \u1ea3o v\u1ecdng; \u0111\u1ec9nh \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ef1c th\u00edch d\u1ee5c, \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o v\u1ecdng, nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi. Nhi\u1ec1n c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1edbi \u1edf ch\u1ed7 cu\u1ed1i \u2013 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i s\u00f3ng xo\u00e0i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t. Cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u1ea3o v\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i.”<\/p>\n

Sau t\u1eebng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ee5c, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 d\u1ee5c, c\u00e1ch b\u1ecf to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 b\u00e1nh xe kh\u1ed5 n\u00e0y, c\u00e1ch tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi b\u00e1nh xe lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n n\u00e0y. \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 brahmacharya<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh v\u00ec ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3! Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec9nh, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong thung l\u0169ng. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 thung l\u0169ng. Thung l\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec9nh.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn xem, c\u00f3 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 cho \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ec9nh th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. Ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 m\u1edbi, v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng quen thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y cho\u00e1ng cho b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ef1c th\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ee5c, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh thung l\u0169ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i chung cu\u1ed9c, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, thung l\u0169ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y, n\u01a1i d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 do h\u01a1n v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edt ch\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c h\u01a1n, h\u1ecd ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. H\u1ecd tranh \u0111\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

\u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong thung l\u0169ng. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai; h\u1ecd n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o v\u1ecdng. V\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong thung l\u0169ng, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ebft, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft. Th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee3i ch\u1ebft; th\u1ef1c ra, hi v\u1ecdng ch\u1ebft, ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ebft, m\u01a1 ch\u1ebft. \u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng chung l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao ch\u1ebft ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n

\u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ebft ch\u00fat n\u00e0o; b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng \u2013 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i v\u00e0 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. C\u1ea3 hai th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec1u thi\u00ean l\u1ec7ch. C\u1ea3 hai th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn thung l\u0169ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd qu\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai \u0111i,” hay “T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00fai v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n qu\u00ean thung l\u0169ng.” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn c\u1ea3 hai nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang v\u1eady. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n. L\u00e0 v\u00f4 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a l\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n: nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang v\u1eady trong t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u2013 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c, s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft, ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam, m\u00f9a h\u00e8 v\u00e0 m\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng \u2013 nh\u00ecn ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang v\u1eady. Thi\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 tri\u1ebft l\u00ed ho\u1eb7c\/ho\u1eb7c. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a v\u00ec n\u00f3 n\u00f3i, “N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn, \u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd s\u1ee3 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn.”<\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ecb m\u1eafc b\u1eaby v\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn, v\u00ec c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ecb b\u00e1c b\u1ecf, c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n. C\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c khao kh\u00e1t tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9. C\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn \u0111ang s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u2013 ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1o th\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ee3 b\u00e1o th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a d\u1ee5c \u2013 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft, ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng run khi ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u ng\u1ea7m \u1ea9n. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u1edbi. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c s\u1ebd s\u1ee3 d\u00e2m d\u1ee5c b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o trong \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o v\u00e0 s\u1edf h\u1eefu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea3 hai lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n h\u01b0\u1edbng theo s\u1ee3; v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tranh \u0111\u1ea5u, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c xung \u0111\u1ed9t. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i t\u1edbi an b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean, c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. C\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1eady. S\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ho\u1eb7c\/hay, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn. N\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau. B\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n l\u00e2m v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t. C\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n treo quanh b\u1ea1n, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o cho n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ebft… ch\u1ebft c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 treo quanh b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i b\u00f3ng.<\/p>\n

Thi\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: Nh\u00ecn c\u1ea3 hai \u2013 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau. Th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang c\u00f9ng nhau, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t tr\u00ean ch\u00fang. Th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang c\u00f9ng nhau, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ch\u1ebft. Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u giam c\u1ea7m l\u00e0 g\u00ec. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u0103n nguy\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi kh\u1ed5, n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t \u2013 t\u1eeb n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. N\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. Kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec sai v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn nh\u01b0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, t\u00ednh b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn n\u1ea3y sinh. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 v\u1ec1 b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00f9 v\u1edbi c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1edf trong xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1eafng khi ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1eafng khi ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eafng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi<\/em> th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Th\u1eafng l\u1ee3i l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi Th\u1ea7y l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf v\u00e0o bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i. Bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1eafng l\u1ee3i l\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u2013 v\u00ec th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd<\/em> th\u1eafng. Bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u0169ng th\u1eafng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eafng; n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tranh \u0111\u1ea5u.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn ph\u1ea7n nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea5y s\u1ed1ng ra t\u1eeb ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 – ch\u1ebft – v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i, “C\u00e1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng.” B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n l\u00e2m v\u00e0o phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb giam trong s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t n\u00e0y. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd xoay x\u1edf ch\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u2013 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111em b\u1ea1n \u0111i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, “M\u00ecnh l\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3,” th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, “M\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed,” th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. B\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00e2m v\u00e0o phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. \u0110\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u l\u00e0m ra d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i, m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng \u2013 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y<\/em>” hay “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i kia<\/em>.” B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng. B\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u00f4i qua, b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn ch\u1ebft nh\u01b0 tr\u00f4i qua, b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 tr\u00f4i qua, b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, vui, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u00ecn; b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u00f3c v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y.” Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3<\/em> c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai? Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng cho gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y, ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn, c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. C\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do. B\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ecb giam h\u00e3m.<\/p>\n

Thi\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: Kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec d\u00f9 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t x\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 t\u1edbi v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 n\u1ea3y sinh, nh\u1eadn ch\u00ecm b\u1ea1n, bao quanh b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1m kh\u00f3i l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “C\u00e1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u00f4i,” hay “C\u00e1i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i.” B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u00ecn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i khi m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. M\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ee5 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 gi\u1edd ch\u00fang \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi ch\u00f3i chang. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi c\u00e1i n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn r\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 quay l\u1ea1i, m\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “C\u00e1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u00f4i,” b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “C\u00e1i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i.” B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec<\/em> ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u n\u00e0o ch\u00fat n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c quan s\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra \u2013 kh\u1ed5 s\u1ebd t\u1edbi, s\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ebd t\u1edbi \u2013 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t ph\u1ea5n ch\u1ea5n. Quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean n\u00e0y, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u1edf ngo\u00e0i m\u1ecdi c\u1eb7p nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2013 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. V\u00e0 c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2013 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. V\u00e0 c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2013 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n<\/em>. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/em> l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ea5u su\u1ed1t, khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch trong su\u1ed1t, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t \u2013 nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng. Nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd sinh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng t\u1edbi trong c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 khi b\u1ea1n qua r\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1edbi trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u l\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i t\u1edbi n\u1eefa \u2013 v\u00e0 d\u1ea7u v\u1eady b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Th\u1ef1c ra, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra cho g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Hay b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra cho g\u01b0\u01a1ng?<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra cho g\u01b0\u01a1ng sao? Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n qua r\u1ed3i, g\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. Ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc g\u01b0\u01a1ng, g\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 \u0111\u1eb9p hay x\u1ea5u \u2013 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. B\u1ea1n mang t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u00e1 hoa h\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1eb9p, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1; b\u1ea1n mang t\u1edbi chi\u1ebfc gai x\u1ea5u, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1. B\u1ea1n mang t\u1edbi b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1eb9p, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1; b\u1ea1n mang t\u1edbi b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t x\u1ea5u, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “C\u00e1i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1,” v\u00e0, “C\u00e1i n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y n\u00f3. Xin \u0111\u1eebng \u0111i kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e2y, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111i. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i.” Kh\u00f4ng, g\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ef1a g\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ea1ch m\u1ecdi v\u1ebft in. N\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng v\u1ebft in n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu th\u1eadp tr\u00ean n\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Quan s\u00e1t, nh\u00ecn, t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn n\u00e0o. B\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. B\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn, v\u00e0 s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn s\u1ebd ra \u0111i, v\u00ec b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e2u. V\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 \u0111i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng r\u1eddi b\u1ecf n\u00f3; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y n\u00f3, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd k\u00eau v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c \u2013 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ecba \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra, x\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i tr\u00ed v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb sao l\u00e3ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi<\/em> t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c quan ni\u1ec7m, gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1ea9m \u0111\u1ecdc kinh. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u! V\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng mang n\u00f3 \u0111i su\u1ed1t r\u1ed3i. T\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady r\u1ed3i. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 \u0111i.<\/p>\n

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T\u1eeb \u201cThi\u1ec1n: con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed\u201d, t.3, ch.7<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9. N\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 v\u1eady v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta b\u00e1m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o s\u1ed1ng. S\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2699,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2698","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quan-sat-nhan-biet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2698","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2698"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2698\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2701,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2698\/revisions\/2701"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2699"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}