T\u1ea1i sao th\u1ea7y nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf v\u00e0o phi l\u00ed? C\u00e1i g\u00ec sai v\u1edbi l\u00ed tr\u00ed?<\/p>\n
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L\u00ed tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00ed tr\u00ed. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 sai v\u1edbi n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1<\/em> l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ed tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 phi l\u00ed trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ed tr\u00ed, l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u phi l\u00ed trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ed tr\u00ed nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n phi l\u00ed.<\/p>\n Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 phi l\u00ed. B\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u00ed do n\u00e0o cho n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u00fan vai, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra.’ B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p, th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u1ebf n\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c; kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n – v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau. Th\u1eadt ra s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111i v\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c – b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p. V\u00e0 ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y r\u1ed3i, v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129, ‘M\u00ecnh \u0111i\u00ean sao? T\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0y?’ V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n V\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi nhau – v\u00ec y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3, \u1ea3o v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3, m\u00f2n \u0111i nhanh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y trong c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao Majanu li\u00ean t\u1ee5c y\u00eau, v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c, ‘Laila, Laila, Laila!’ – v\u00ec anh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Laila c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y r\u1ed3i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, ‘L\u00e0m sao g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?’<\/p>\n C\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra? N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p – c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 phi l\u00ed trong b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, con trai hay con g\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ec1u mang hai nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 – nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra t\u1eeb hai sinh h\u1ecdc, t\u1eeb hai t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 t\u1ed5 h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, hai nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch – c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 nam ph\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u00ean trong n\u00f3 s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i ph\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u1edbp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau – nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i phi l\u00ed. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n mang ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n – khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u1edbp v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y…. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1edbp v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n, m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hai c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nhau – \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n – theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y gi\u1ed1ng m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y gi\u1ed1ng m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1eaft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng m\u1ea7u, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f3c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng m\u1ea7u. Hay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea9n s\u00e2u \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n, cho n\u00ean s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u00e9o t\u1edbi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u – tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n phi l\u00ed. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00ed tr\u00ed, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nhi\u1ec1u nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 phi l\u00ed. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 logic h\u1ecdc v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. Phi l\u00ed, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n phi l\u00ed.<\/p>\n T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o phi l\u00ed? V\u00ec, v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, l\u00ed tr\u00ed ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u1edf gi\u1eefa. B\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00ed tr\u00ed c\u00f3 phi l\u00ed – phi l\u00ed c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. V\u00e0 b\u00ean tr\u00ean l\u00ed tr\u00ed l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 phi l\u00ed – phi l\u00ed c\u1ee7a si\u00eau th\u1ee9c. V\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed r\u1ea5t t\u00ed hon. B\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng: t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, gi\u1eadn, tham, s\u1edf h\u1eefu, ghen t\u1ecb, b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh – to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea7n con v\u1eadt t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i phi l\u00ed.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng quan s\u00e1t sao? – khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn anh ta c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng con v\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n gi\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u00ean anh ta s\u1ee7a nh\u01b0 ch\u00f3 hay g\u1ea7m g\u1eeb nh\u01b0 s\u01b0 t\u1eed hay nh\u1ea3y nh\u01b0 h\u1ed5 hay c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 kh\u1ec9. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao, m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf ngo\u00e0i gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00fang t\u00fang v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfc.’ V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘M\u1eb7c cho t\u00f4i… l\u00e0m sao chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft.’ N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi; n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb t\u1ea7ng ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3; n\u00f3 chi\u1ebfm quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n B\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00ed tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecba bao la c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 phi l\u00ed. Con v\u1eadt t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, rau c\u1ecf t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 – to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a l\u00ed thuy\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e1 th\u00e2n theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1m m\u01b0\u01a1i t\u01b0 ngh\u00ecn yonis<\/em> – b\u1ea1n<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng t\u00e1m m\u01b0\u01a1i t\u01b0 ngh\u00ecn ki\u1ebfp tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau. Ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1 – c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c v\u1eadt; c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang; hoa v\u00e0 gai, c\u1ea3 hai. Ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00f3 v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1o. V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang – ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t c\u00e1i n\u1ecd l\u00ean c\u00e1i kia, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t l\u00ed tr\u00ed, c\u00e1i phi l\u00ed k\u00e9o t\u1edbi v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfm quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Tr\u00ean n\u00f3, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 si\u00eau th\u1ee9c. C\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa c\u0169ng l\u00e0 phi l\u00ed. C\u00f3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea9n k\u00edn. B\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 con v\u1eadt, b\u00ean tr\u00ean l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con v\u1eadt, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i l\u00ean tr\u00ean nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 \u0111i\u1ec1u phi l\u00ed v\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i phi l\u00ed – c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi. V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ea1y \u0111i\u1ec1u phi l\u00ed \u1edf tr\u00ean. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00ean cao h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf logic c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Khi b\u1ea1n thi\u1ec1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra. Khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn th\u1ebf n\u1eefa \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, th\u1ebf n\u1eefa b\u1ea1n \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00ed tr\u00ed. Khi b\u1ea1n thi\u1ec1n b\u1ea1n \u1edf tr\u00ean l\u00ed tr\u00ed – nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i l\u00ed tr\u00ed theo c\u1ea3 hai c\u00e1ch. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00ed tr\u00ed. V\u00e0 khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf tr\u00ean l\u00ed tr\u00ed. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u01a1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau – c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: h\u1ecd c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00ed tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00ed tr\u00ed l\u00e0 l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecba bao la c\u1ee7a phi l\u00ed tr\u00ed. V\u00e0 b\u00ean tr\u00ean l\u00ed tr\u00ed l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh thi\u00eang li\u00eang, b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 phi l\u00ed. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh dung n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng l\u00ed tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a Aldous Huxley. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 Trung Qu\u1ed1c: ‘Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 Trung Qu\u1ed1c l\u00e0m b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c tr\u00e0 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam l\u1ea1nh c\u00f3ng. Kaizenji n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, “C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. N\u00f3 \u0111en nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 s\u01a1n m\u00e0i. N\u00f3 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3 trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a ta, l\u00e0m sao c\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3?”<\/p>\n ‘\u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tathata<\/em>‘ – nh\u01b0 v\u1eady – hay \u0110\u1ea1o, hay Ph\u00e1p<\/em>. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i: ‘C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn…’ ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn<\/em>, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 chi ti\u1ebft n\u00f3, n\u00f3 l\u1edbn th\u1ebf. ‘N\u00f3 \u0111en nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 s\u01a1n m\u00e0i’ – \u0111en nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00eam t\u1ed1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t h\u00fat trong n\u00f3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 s\u00e1ng, n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. T\u1ea1i sao? V\u00ec trong s\u00e1ng, ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u1ed9t tr\u1ee5, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 – b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n Trong s\u00e1ng, nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 n\u1ea3y sinh. Trong t\u1ed1i, c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean tr\u1eddi b\u1ecb t\u1ed1i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u1ed9t tr\u1ee5 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 c\u00e2y \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t. Cho n\u00ean c\u00f3 tathata<\/em> \u0111\u00f3 – c\u00e1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3, \u0110\u1ea1o, Ph\u00e1p<\/em>, ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, hay Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf…. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i t\u00ean n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nhau, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u d\u1ee5.<\/p>\n “‘N\u00f3 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3 trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a ta, l\u00e0m sao c\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3?” \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tathata<\/em>, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec3u d\u1ee5…’<\/p>\n <\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng; c\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110\u00eam l\u1ea1nh c\u00f3ng, tr\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng, \u1ea5m \u0111un n\u01b0\u1edbc reo, h\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00e0 to\u1ea3 trong ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e0, th\u1ea7y \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean th\u1ea7y h\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. T\u1eeb tr\u1eddi xanh. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tri\u1ebft l\u00ed l\u1edbn; \u0111\u00eam l\u1ea1nh c\u00f3ng v\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u00edch u\u1ed1ng tr\u00e0 n\u00f3ng. V\u00e0 tr\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nguy hi\u1ec3m, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 – th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Ti\u1ec7c tr\u00e0, c\u00e1i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c u\u1ed1ng tr\u00e0.<\/p>\n ‘C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a Kaizenji \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i.’ Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tri\u1ebft l\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00eau d\u1ec7t c\u00e1c l\u1eddi – h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi, th\u1ea7y \u0111ang h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u<\/em>. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec – v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. L\u00ed tr\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i t\u1edbi t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n ‘Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i chung cu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd, Tai Shuso theo t\u00ean, \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed: “\u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3 v\u00ec \u00f4ng c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3 trong chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng.” \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y thi\u1ec1n trong im l\u1eb7ng, tathata<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y.’<\/p>\n \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n im l\u1eb7ng, b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u00ean trong – m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u00f4 vi<\/em>, b\u1ea5t ho\u1ea1t, th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng – th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u1ea1o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean r\u00f3t \u0111\u1ea7y b\u1ea1n, tr\u00e0n ra t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3 trong khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111ang chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u00e0 trong h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, n\u00f3 t\u1edbi theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3, v\u00ec hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3; khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 ch\u1ee9a, b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1edbi. N\u00f3 t\u1edbi trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i b\u1ea5t ho\u1ea1t n\u1eef t\u00ednh, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t l\u00ed tr\u00ed. Nh\u01b0ng…<\/p>\n ‘Kaizenji gi\u1ea3i t\u00e1n ti\u1ec7c tr\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0y.’<\/p>\n N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi mang t\u00ednh l\u00ed tr\u00ed, n\u00f3 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn – b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o tathata \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft gi\u1eef trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u1edf b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3 n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 trong Himalayas, th\u1ebf th\u00ec Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda. V\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n chia Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i khi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i \u1edf trong hang \u0111\u1ed9ng Himalay n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 n\u1ea3y sinh – b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u n\u00f3, thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 v\u1ed3 l\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i, ‘Tr\u1ed1n \u0111i, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111i. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf: \u0111i l\u00ean Himalaya.’ Im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a Himalayas – n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a hang \u0111\u1ed9ng. Quay v\u1ec1, sau ba m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m ng\u1ed3i trong hang, t\u1edbi \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng M.G. \u1edf Poona – v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 im l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t ti\u00eau.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u1eeb b\u1ecf tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ee3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi – h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y hang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 trong hang \u0111\u1ed9ng. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. Duy nh\u1ea5t Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu: ng\u00e0i ph\u1ea3i \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. Ngay c\u1ea3 \u1edf b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3 ng\u00e0i \u0111ang \u0111\u1eadp r\u1ed9n r\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 \u1edf Himalayas. \u1ede Himalayas ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, \u1edf b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3 ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 \u1ed3n \u00e0o – nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0i \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y ng\u00e0i \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y – nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh l\u00ed tr\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3; l\u00ed tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. L\u00ed tr\u00ed ph\u00e2n chia, l\u00ed tr\u00ed ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, l\u00ed tr\u00ed m\u1ed5 x\u1ebb – n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ed5 x\u1ebb ngay c\u1ea3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed5 x\u1ebb. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n. Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – c\u00f2n ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady? V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft, ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u00e0 d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Ph\u1eadt ng\u1ee5 \u00fd khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i: Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t; \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. \u0110\u1eebng ph\u00e2n chia – b\u1ea1n ph\u00e2n chia, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf l\u1ee1.<\/p>\n Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i t\u00e1n b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c. Aldous Huxley b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ngh\u0129 – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 tri\u1ebft gia l\u1edbn theo quy\u1ec1n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ngh\u0129 n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u1ea5y m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 trong b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111o\u00e1n c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi hay h\u01a1n. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, ‘Vi\u1ec7c \u0111o\u00e1n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c tr\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u00eam, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t trong v\u00e0i ph\u00fat, n\u1ebfu Tai Shuso \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi theo c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0: “N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u tathata<\/em> trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng l\u00e0 \u2018t\u00f4i’, \u0111\u1ec3 cho tathata<\/em> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u c\u00e1i ngo\u00e0i t\u00f4i n\u00e0y v\u00e0 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n trong s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a thi\u1ec1n – nh\u01b0 x\u1ea3y ra cho a la h\u00e1n<\/em> – nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng – nh\u01b0 x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ed3 t\u00e1t<\/em>, cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 sansara<\/em> v\u00e0 ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n<\/em> l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t.”‘<\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n \u0111i t\u1edbi t\u1ed3i h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 Aldous Huxley \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh! Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u1ea3i t\u00e1n b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng l\u1edbn h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi – \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u1ea3i t\u00e1n n\u00f3. C\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 gi\u1eef c\u00e2y quy\u1ec1n tr\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1nh. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00ed do g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng l\u00ed do th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e0o, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1nh. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3: n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang mang trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i, ‘Tr\u01b0\u1ee3t ra kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 \u0111i.’ H\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u hay cao h\u01a1n c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u; \u0111\u1eebng b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi qu\u00e1 mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111o\u00e1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. Aldous Huxley, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, ‘\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.’ Vi\u1ec7c \u0111o\u00e1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng! – ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng ‘C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.’ Kh\u00f4ng, \u0111o\u00e1n l\u00e0 \u0111o\u00e1n – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh l\u00ed tr\u00ed. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Aldous Huxley ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh – nhi\u1ec1u tri\u1ebft l\u00ed n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 dung th\u1ee9.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf t\u1edbi chi\u1ec1u cao phi l\u00ed. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00ean tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n. Bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng th\u1eed m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1ecf: \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc g\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u. M\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y – ch\u1ec9 trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat, ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat, b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat – \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0o.’ Trong v\u00f2ng hai hay ba th\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t h\u00f4m \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t: b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec – kh\u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i. V\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u01b0u lo\u00e1t; \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m<\/em> c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/em> ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3; h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0ng<\/em> n\u00f3 ra. \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ra – ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, ngay t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7, trong h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a anh ta, trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a anh ta – r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7y – n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n N\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra – \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y, th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng \u00e1n. C\u00f4ng \u00e1n l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi ph\u00e1t r\u1ed3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi – c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ea7y bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi – trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng, \u0111\u00f4i khi nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn th\u00eam. C\u00f4ng \u00e1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n – nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i. V\u00e0 s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi anh ta bi\u1ebft, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 nghe, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, ‘Ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, t\u00ecm ra n\u00f3 \u0111i.’<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0o t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, ph\u00e1t r\u1ed3. B\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 c\u1ed1, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111i v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111i v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111i. \u1ede Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ‘\u0111i\u00ean Thi\u1ec1n’. \u1ede Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n, ngay c\u1ea3 b\u00e1c s\u0129 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 – v\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i khi n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra cho \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em anh ta t\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129. V\u00ec anh ta n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u – anh ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e9t l\u00ean, l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, la l\u1ed1i, rung chuy\u1ec3n, run r\u1ea9y, rung ring, ch\u1eb3ng b\u1edfi l\u00ed do n\u00e0o. Hay b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u01b0\u1eddi hay kh\u00f3c ch\u1eb3ng v\u00ec l\u00ed do n\u00e0o, hay b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa. \u0110\u00f4i khi gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111em ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129. Nh\u01b0ng \u1edf Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Th\u1eadt ra, m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc y n\u00ean d\u1ea1y cho c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t – r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean: \u0111\u1eebng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb cho h\u1ecd, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m r\u1ed1i h\u1ecd trong c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd. Thu\u1ed1c, s\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec7n, thu\u1ed1c an th\u1ea7n, ti\u00eam l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u00ean Thi\u1ec1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u1ede Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh Thi\u1ec1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean h\u1ecd l\u00e0m l\u00e0 t\u00ecm h\u1ecfi: ‘Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 hay Thi\u1ec1n vi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111em anh ta t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y, \u0111em anh ta t\u1edbi thi\u1ec1n vi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u1eebng mang anh ta t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 y.’<\/p>\n C\u00f4ng \u00e1n t\u1ea1o ra ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ea7n kinh nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang mang nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ea7n kinh b\u00ean trong. N\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n – ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00fai l\u1eeda. C\u00f4ng \u00e1n Thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u00eau t\u1ee9c, tr\u00eau t\u1ee9c, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u00eau t\u1ee9c – v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean n\u00fai l\u1eeda \u0111\u00f3 b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t, b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n trong ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t; b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n; m\u1ecdi l\u00ed tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i trong c\u00e1c m\u1ea3nh m\u1ea9u. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb n\u00e9m ra xa ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y; c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n Ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u00ean Thi\u1ec1n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/em>. Th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, ‘T\u1ed1t. V\u1eady l\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Gi\u1edd th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee3i, gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn.’ Trong ba tu\u1ea7n, b\u1ed1n tu\u1ea7n, s\u00e1u tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t, anh ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, anh ta \u0103n, ng\u1ee7, t\u1eafm, khi anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n. Anh ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong thi\u1ec1n vi\u1ec7n trong m\u1ed9t l\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf, xa x\u00f4i. Kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111i t\u1edbi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi anh ta, kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p khuy\u00ean b\u1ea3o anh ta. Anh ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, t\u1eafm n\u1eafng, n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean c\u1ecf, l\u0103n tr\u00ean c\u1ecf. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec anh ta l\u00e0m. Khi anh ta mu\u1ed1n m\u00faa anh ta m\u00faa, khi anh ta mu\u1ed1n h\u00e9t anh ta h\u00e9t.<\/p>\n Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m nom t\u1edbi – r\u1eb1ng anh ta ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n anh ta. V\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. R\u1ea5t h\u00e3n h\u1eefu, ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa – trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh – th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed kh\u00e1c li\u00ean t\u1ee5c quan s\u00e1t t\u1eeb ch\u1ed7 xa. Kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh n\u00e0o ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n anh ta hay cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n Trong v\u00f2ng ba tu\u1ea7n, s\u00e1u tu\u1ea7n, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 d\u1ecbu xu\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t m\u1edbi – v\u1edbi m\u1eb7t nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. T\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1eafn nh\u01b0 gi\u1ecdt s\u01b0\u01a1ng bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng. M\u1eaft anh ta l\u00e0 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u00ean, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u00ean; anh ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o si\u00eau th\u1ee9c. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o si\u00eau th\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. Kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1edfi c\u00f4ng \u00e1n.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, ch\u1ec9 xem, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng Thi\u1ec1n. Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean – ‘\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o g\u00ec v\u1eady?’ H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u00ean. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i\u00ean; m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. Duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng l\u1edbn gi\u00e1ng xu\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n N\u00f3 g\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh – tri\u1ec7u l\u1ea7n h\u01a1n. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh, c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra? T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh r\u1ea5t gi\u1ed1ng nhau. T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, nguy\u00ean t\u1eed – v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh l\u00e0 bao la nh\u01b0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi. Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u1edf l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng chung cu\u1ed9c d\u1eabn t\u1edbi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n H\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u l\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, l\u1edbn lao, l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m linh – nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch d\u1ee5c. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh, c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra? Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u0103ng l\u00ean. Nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n, nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u0103ng l\u00ean, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u00ean d\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu c\u1ef1c th\u00edch s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean: n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 – t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec9nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5.<\/p>\n Khi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui l\u1edbn. V\u00ec trong b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa, tathata<\/em> hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu – ch\u1ec9 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft. C\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3; c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong c\u1ef1c th\u00edch. C\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1eadp r\u1ed9n rang trong b\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00f3ng kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc – m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc, hai kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc, ba kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc – ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra? Sau khi ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eafng xu\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n ngu\u00f4i \u0111i. An b\u00ecnh l\u1edbn n\u1ea3y sinh, im l\u1eb7ng l\u1edbn. B\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 trong gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1eb9p. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t t\u00ed hon, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 c\u1ecdng r\u01a1m. V\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh l\u00e0 r\u1eebng r\u1eadm. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 r\u1eebng r\u1eadm. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u t\u1eeb n\u00f3 – \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh bi\u1ec3u d\u1ee5.<\/p>\n Trong t\u00e2m linh c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Tr\u00ean qui m\u00f4 c\u00e0n kh\u00f4n n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. Trong thi\u1ec1n, trong c\u00f4ng \u00e1n, trong m\u1eadt ch\u00fa, trong t\u1ee5ng ni\u1ec7m, trong l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o ra c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng – v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng t\u0103ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u0103ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng, n\u0103m, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u0103ng l\u00ean n\u00e0y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u0103ng m\u00e3i, v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecbu n\u00f3 th\u00eam n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m vui l\u1edbn, c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u00faa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ni\u1ec1m vui n\u00e0y l\u1eafng v\u00e0o trong im l\u1eb7ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc; ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n, y\u00ean t\u0129nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 phi l\u00ed, c\u1ef1c th\u00edch t\u00e2m linh c\u0169ng v\u1eady. M\u1ecdi kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ef1c th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 phi l\u00ed. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 phi l\u00ed.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb \u201cThi\u1ec1n: con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed\u201d, t.2, ch.10<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u1ea1i sao th\u1ea7y nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf v\u00e0o phi l\u00ed? C\u00e1i g\u00ec sai v\u1edbi l\u00ed tr\u00ed? L\u00ed tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00ed tr\u00ed. … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2504,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2503","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cac-khai-niem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2503"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2503\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2506,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2503\/revisions\/2506"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}