C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ed5 m\u00f3c n\u1ed1i kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ngu. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng? S\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ho\u00e1 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb kh\u00f4n theo tu\u1ed5i hay m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi? Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t g\u00ec gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu?<\/p>\n
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Truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. C\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i ngu, c\u00e1i \u0111i cao h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4n – s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p trong \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ngu bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ec3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
Ngu v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean, nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean kh\u00e1c: \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam, m\u00f9a h\u00e8 v\u00e0 m\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng, s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. M\u1ecdi nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o c\u00e1c nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t, c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5.<\/p>\n
Theo ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu – v\u00ec trong si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao h\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu theo ngh\u0129a th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4n theo ngh\u0129a th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng. Kh\u00f4n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, ngu c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft, r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4n v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft, r\u1eb1ng d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t l\u00e0 t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t l\u00e0 t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n th\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. C\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u0169ng v\u1eady – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft theo ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a tri th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ngu v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 thi\u1ebfu tri th\u1ee9c; ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 am t\u01b0\u1eddng, l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y tri th\u1ee9c. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c. C\u00f3 c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3. Tri th\u1ee9c h\u00e0m \u00fd ph\u00e2n chia – ph\u00e2n chia gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft; tri th\u1ee9c h\u00e0m \u00fd ph\u00e2n chia; tri th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi, n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea3o, n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eadp r\u1ed9n r\u00e0ng c\u00f9ng c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f9ng c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. Duy nh\u1ea5t Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y Upanishad khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 ‘Aham Brahmasmi<\/em>‘ – ‘Ta l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf’. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a khi Christ li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i ‘Ta v\u00e0 cha ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t.’<\/p>\n Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n tham gia c\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia, khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tri th\u1ee9c, l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t? D\u1ed1t n\u00e1t v\u00e0 tri th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf c\u1ea3 hai. Cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o v\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ed5 m\u00f3c n\u1ed1i kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ngu<\/em>. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng Jesus l\u00e0 ngu – v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 v\u1eady. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng th\u00e1nh Francis l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu – v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 v\u1eady. \u1ede \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 c\u00e1i t\u00ean c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 mang m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng r\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u1ea1. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh Buddhu<\/em> – c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ‘ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu’. Ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i t\u00ean ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp c\u1ef1c – n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh Buddhu<\/em>. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a ‘ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ngu’.<\/p>\n V\u00e2ng, c\u00e1c c\u1ef1c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i t\u1edbi h\u00f4m qua – v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh. T\u1eebng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘T\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng.’ B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t b\u00ean. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee3i b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb chia ch\u1ebb.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 ho\u00e0 quy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong nhau. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u William Blake \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ‘h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u00ean trong’ khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 hai, l\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh, c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. \u1ede \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o cho n\u00f3 – ardhanarishwar<\/em>. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a Shiva trong \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, \u00e2m v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh.<\/p>\n C\u00f9ng ki\u1ec3u g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp li\u00ean t\u1ee5c x\u1ea3y ra theo nhi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u chi\u1ec1u. Ngu v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n l\u00e0 hai c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn ngu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n, v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea5p thu. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang treo quanh b\u1ea1n; n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn, b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai v\u1eady m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 hai cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p m\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng<\/em>? Kh\u00f4ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. L\u1ea7n n\u1eefa c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean: t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 tr\u00ed. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed ph\u00e2n chia. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 b\u1ee9c Tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh Trung Qu\u1ed1c – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00e1o gi\u00e1p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1o gi\u00e1p. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 mong manh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1edf. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea9y s\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ea3y c\u00f9ng n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00e0o v\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ri\u00eang t\u01b0. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ri\u00eang t\u01b0. Cho n\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ri\u00eang t\u01b0? T\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7.<\/p>\n Ho\u1eb7c g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 tr\u00ed ho\u1eb7c g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 T\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u1edbi ch\u1eef ‘T’ hoa. Thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 hai. H\u1ecd g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ‘v\u00f4 tr\u00ed’ n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3; v\u00e0 h\u1ecd g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 T\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, T\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00e0n kh\u00f4n, T\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u1edbi ch\u1eef ‘T’ hoa, khi h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 ra t\u00ednh kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n N\u00f3 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ‘v\u00f4 tr\u00ed’ ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3; khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 T\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, c\u00e0n kh\u00f4n, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c n\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Vi\u1ec7c g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ‘v\u00f4 tr\u00ed’ n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 – n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quen thu\u1ed9c. Vi\u1ec7c g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 T\u00e2m tr\u00ed, T\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u1edbn, ch\u1ec9 ra b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 tr\u00ed hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n l\u00e0 T\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00e0n kh\u00f4n.<\/p>\n V\u00e2ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1edd. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u00e2y th\u01a1, nh\u1edb l\u1ea5y. C\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t bao la gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb con. Khi Jesus n\u00f3i, ‘Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111i v\u00e0o trong v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ta,’ \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u – nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh tr\u1ebb con, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 non n\u1edbt. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng non n\u1edbt m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p theo ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng tri\u1ebft gia, nh\u00e0 logic, nh\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p theo ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c th\u00eau d\u1ec7t c\u00e1c l\u00ed thuy\u1ebft – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p theo ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f3. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n Ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i thay th\u1ebf. Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129. Khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft, ngh\u0129 ph\u1ecfng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. Ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u00f9 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u1eeda \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1eeda \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1ee3 v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e2m v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u1eeda \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u1eeda \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y n\u00f3, cho n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ‘C\u1eeda \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?’ l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea5y n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eaft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ngh\u0129. Ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f9 ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n \u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a Rodin v\u1ec1 ‘Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129’, hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ee9c tranh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129. ‘Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129’ c\u1ee7a Rodin d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu, lo ngh\u0129. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u \u00fd ngh\u0129 x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u01b0u th\u00f4ng gi\u1edd cao \u0111i\u1ec3m. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang trong b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e1 n\u00e0y – trong c\u00e1ch \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ng\u1ed3i, \u0111\u1ea7u trong tay, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u0103n lo ngh\u0129 tr\u00ean tr\u00e1n. B\u1ea1n g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u1edf trong c\u00f9ng t\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean.<\/p>\n Quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y. M\u1ed9t Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129; m\u1ed9t Mahavir l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129; Jesus l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng Thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y. T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y? H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u0129. C\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y? Khi m\u1eaft s\u1eb5n c\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c ngh\u0129 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i. Ngh\u0129 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 chi\u1ebfc g\u1eady c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f9 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 mang \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00f2 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1ee5 ng\u00f4n. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f9 t\u1edbi Jesus. Jesus ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa kh\u1ecfi. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang mang m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc g\u1eady l\u1edbn c\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 mang c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1m \u01a1n Jesus v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh – r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eaft v\u00e0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 hoa v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn mang chi\u1ebfc g\u1eady c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Jesus g\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, ‘Th\u01b0a \u00f4ng, sao \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng v\u1ee9t g\u1eady c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd? Sao \u00f4ng \u0111ang mang n\u00f3?’ V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1p, ‘V\u1ee9t n\u00f3 \u0111i sao? L\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ee9t n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3.’<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen c\u0169. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u mang g\u1eady.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi v\u00f4 tr\u00ed l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ngh\u0129. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f9 c\u0169. Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 – b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00f2n c\u0169.<\/p>\n Ngh\u0129 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1edd. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 – l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? \u00dd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng, \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thi\u00eang li\u00eang, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf – cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1edd. Gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129, nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u l\u1ea7n h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n; h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u00e0m \u00f4 u\u1ebf, c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb che m\u1edd.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi: S\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ho\u00e1 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb kh\u00f4n theo tu\u1ed5i hay m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi<\/em>? \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1edbi c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Kh\u00f4n ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu gi\u00e0 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi kh\u00f4n. V\u00e2ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 am t\u01b0\u1eddng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ngu nh\u01b0 bao gi\u1edd.<\/p>\n C\u1ea3 ngu l\u1eabn kh\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu bi\u1ebft \u00edt h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c d\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i m\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t, c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu, v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi am t\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u – kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi am t\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi\u1eefa \u00edt v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u; kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tr\u00ean c\u00f9ng b\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00f3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00f3ng kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu l\u00e0 l\u1edbn v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. V\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi am t\u01b0\u1eddng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf xa kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi am t\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf xa kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf xa kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf xa kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i m\u1edbi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. Ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. L\u1eafng nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3… kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n Jesus; th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n Jesus, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n Ph\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu Ph\u1eadt t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m b\u00e0i thi l\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u1eed nh\u00e2n hay b\u1eb1ng sau \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u01b0\u1ee3t – nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed7 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4n h\u01a1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ‘l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eed’ l\u00e0 g\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00ed thuy\u1ebft t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u00e0 Albert Einstein \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t l\u00e0 g\u00ec, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4n.<\/p>\n Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t. S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb bi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u. Ngay c\u1ea3 v\u00e0o th\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e3i nhau v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ec3 tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng cao ng\u1ea1o th\u1ebf. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y. Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 – \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00f3ng kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i theo \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft \u00edt h\u01a1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin h\u01a1n, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i trong \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u0110\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed1i trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n \u00c1nh s\u00e1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n. L\u00e0m sao \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi b\u1edfi tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c? \u0110\u00f4i khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho tr\u1ebb con – v\u1ec1 L\u00e3o T\u1eed chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra m\u00e0 gi\u00e0 l\u00e3o, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra gi\u00e0 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n t\u00e1m m\u01b0\u01a1i hai tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u00f3c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y tr\u1eafng to\u00e1t, tr\u1eafng nh\u01b0 tuy\u1ebft, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 r\u00e2u. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n hay n\u00e0y l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u d\u1ee5 – n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n nh\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n v\u00e0o l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi t\u00e1m m\u01b0\u01a1i hai tu\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n \u1ede \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 Shankara ch\u1ebft khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ba – r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n tu\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi hippie l\u00e0 ba m\u01b0\u01a1i. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i r\u1ea5t xa. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t gi\u00e0 v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1edbi v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y chuy\u1ec3n t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n Khi Jesus b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng \u0111inh \u00f4ng \u1ea5y m\u1edbi ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ba tu\u1ed5i. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i, \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t am t\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1o s\u0129 Do Th\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00edch d\u1eabn kinh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. Jesus \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, l\u00e0 con trai \u00f4ng th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong th\u00f4ng tin, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, \u0111\u1ea7y ni\u1ec1m vui, \u0111\u1ea7y ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi – kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi th\u00eam n\u1eefa, m\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n Khi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n – ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4n theo \u0111u\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh – tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i n\u1ecd, l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u, l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u1ecd. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac theo c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady, \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, v\u00e0o l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 khao kh\u00e1t – th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng khao kh\u00e1t Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng khao kh\u00e1t ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng khao kh\u00e1t c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4n ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i. V\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi t\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng am t\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thuy\u1ebft gi\u1ea3ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd; h\u1ecd m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, m\u1ec7t nho\u00e0i, v\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u, ghen t\u1ecb. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu tr\u1ebb tr\u00e8o l\u00ean c\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ghen t\u1ecb sao? V\u00e0 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ghen t\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh trong l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 – b\u1ea1n b\u1ea3o c\u1eadu b\u00e9, ‘\u0110\u1eebng l\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00e3 xu\u1ed1ng. Nghe b\u00e1c \u0111\u00e2y. Nghe theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i.’ Nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ghen t\u1ecb r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 qua r\u1ed3i, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e8o l\u00ean c\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 n\u00e0y \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n Khi \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t nam thanh ni\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eef thanh ni\u00ean \u0111i tay trong tay v\u1edbi rung \u0111\u1ed9ng y\u00eau l\u1edbn lao quanh h\u1ecd, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ghen t\u1ecb. Gi\u1edd \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00eam n\u1eefa cho d\u00f9 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng ghen t\u1ecb l\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edbng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ngu xu\u1ea9n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi. ‘Nghe \u0111\u00e2y,’ \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 n\u00f3i, ‘\u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecb l\u1eeba b\u1edfi n\u00f3.’ \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4n. N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u thanh ni\u00ean, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4n th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng; kh\u00f4n th\u1ef1c bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ‘c\u00f3’ v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 ‘kh\u00f4ng’. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i ‘kh\u00f4ng’ m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh, nh\u1edb, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c \u0111ang gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi: Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t g\u00ec gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu<\/em>? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngu v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “Thi\u1ec1n: con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed”, T.1, Ch.1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ed5 m\u00f3c n\u1ed1i kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 ngu. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng? S\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ho\u00e1 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2286,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2285","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cac-khai-niem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2285","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2285"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2285\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2287,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2285\/revisions\/2287"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2286"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2285"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2285"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}