T\u00f4i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng m\u01a1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Osho \u01a1i, th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i trong vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n
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Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u, th\u01b0a ng\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd, v\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 t\u1eed, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng v\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec.<\/p>\n
Tham v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng Nobel. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1 s\u0129 gi\u1ecfi, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n – t\u00f4i gi\u00fap t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi t\u00ean tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 danh v\u1ecdng, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u1edbi th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ch\u00fang, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1? N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 trong ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u01a1 ca? N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u, l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1 s\u0129 th\u1ef1c? To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u. Ho\u1ea1 s\u0129 c\u1ea7n to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o b\u1ee9c tranh, v\u00e0 b\u1ee9c tranh l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. V\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai – c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft; n\u00f3 to\u00e0n l\u00e0 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean – th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 <\/em>ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean, danh v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ebd v\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c. Li\u1ec7u b\u1ee9c tranh c\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng hay kh\u00f4ng, li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t Picasso hay kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u1ebd theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 trong khi b\u1ea1n v\u1ebd ngay c\u1ea3 Picasso c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ghen t\u1ecb v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1ea5t h\u00fat trong vi\u1ec7c v\u1ebd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui th\u1ef1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a y\u00eau v\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc l\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc trong \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t h\u00fat – khi c\u00e1c bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, khi trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu v\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1eebng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng; t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ed1t. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 h\u1ed9i ho\u1ea1, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 th\u01a1 ca, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 b\u00e0i ca m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang h\u00e1t ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd; v\u00e0 khi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u00e0n tay tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u1edfi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ea5t trong n\u00f3 – th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 r\u1ed7ng tu\u1ebfch.<\/p>\n M\u1edbi \u0111\u00eam h\u00f4m n\u1ecd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Somerset Maugham, \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi Willie<\/em>. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft b\u1edfi ch\u00e1u g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a Somerset Maugham, Robin Maugham. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, Somerset Maugham \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1n h\u1ed3i k\u00ed n\u00e0y \u0111ang ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 ra. Nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n Robin Maugham vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u00f4ng b\u00e1c n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, Somerset Maugham:<\/p>\n \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ea5t. V\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bu\u1ed3n nh\u1ea5t… ‘Ch\u00e1u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y,’ \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i ‘B\u00e1c s\u1ebd s\u1edbm ch\u1ebft, v\u00e0 b\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o…’ v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t tu\u1ed5i. ‘B\u00e1c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t gi\u00e0’ \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i. ‘Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u00e1c.’<\/p>\n \u00d4ng \u1ea5y gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3, n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1eabn l\u00e0m ra c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i, cho d\u00f9 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ebft ra m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ti\u1ec1n hoa h\u1ed3ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1eabn ch\u1ea3y v\u00e0o t\u1eeb kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi theo \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u0111en, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e2m m\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u1ea1i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y b\u1ed1n v\u1edf k\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n \u1edf \u0110\u1ee9c. V\u1edf k\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y The Circle<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n l\u1ea1i v\u1ebb vang \u1edf Anh v\u00e0 v\u1edf The Constant Wife<\/em> v\u1eeba m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh nh\u1ea1c. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, Of Human Bondage<\/em>, \u0111\u00e3 s\u1edbm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh phim, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang t\u1edbi cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m Rain, The Moon And Sixpence<\/em> v\u00e0 The Razor’s Edge<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. Kh\u00f4ng may, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho m\u1ecdi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bu\u1ed3n nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n ‘K\u00ed \u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec?’ t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i ‘B\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o.’ T\u00f4i nh\u00ecn quanh – c\u00f4 ch\u00e1u g\u00e1i n\u00f3i – ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c tranh v\u00e0 t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt m\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y thu nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t th\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 khu v\u01b0\u1eddn tuy\u1ec7t di\u1ec7u – khung c\u1ea3nh m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed5 t\u00edch tr\u00ean b\u1edd bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u1ecba Trung H\u1ea3i – \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u00e1u tr\u0103m ngh\u00ecn pounds. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n Ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 xem trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh v\u00e0 n\u00f3i ‘B\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t tr\u00edch \u0111o\u1ea1n: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i g\u00ec n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i h\u1ed3n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?<\/em> \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111an tay v\u00e0o nhau v\u00e0 th\u00e1o ra trong \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i ‘B\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u, ch\u00e1u Robin y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c, r\u1eb1ng \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u0103n b\u1ea3n n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c treo \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi gi\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c khi b\u00e1c c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf.’ V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i d\u1ea1o trong v\u01b0\u1eddn v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i ‘Ch\u00e1u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y, khi b\u00e1c ch\u1ebft, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u00e1c – m\u1ecdi c\u00e2y, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ed3ng qu\u00ea. B\u00e1c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111em m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u00e0n theo b\u00e1c.’<\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y run.<\/p>\n \u00d4ng \u1ea5y im l\u1eb7ng m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u01b0\u1edbc qua r\u1eb7ng cam, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u00f4ng n\u00f3i ‘B\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i cho to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng qua \u0111\u1eddi b\u00e1c.’ T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 an \u1ee7i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. ‘B\u00e1c l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9?’ T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi. ‘B\u00e1c \u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd vi\u1ebft ra m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi’ \u00f4ng \u1ea5y tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. ‘N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 mang c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u1ea1i cho b\u00e1c? C\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi b\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i’ \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i. ‘N\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5.’ V\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft tr\u00e0o ra trong m\u1eaft \u00f4ng \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang t\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec cho b\u1ea1n? B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, Somerset Maugham, \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 \u00edch. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u – ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t tu\u1ed5i – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao cho \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i; n\u1ebfu gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i; n\u1ebfu bi\u1ec7t th\u01b0 l\u1edbn v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n Trong ph\u00e2n t\u00edch t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, t\u00ean tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 danh v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ra chung cu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1edf h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng? T\u1eafm, nh\u1ea5m nh\u00e1p tr\u00e0, lau s\u00e0n, lang thang trong v\u01b0\u1eddn, tr\u1ed3ng c\u00e2y, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, hay ng\u1ed3i im l\u1eb7ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, hay ng\u1eafm tr\u0103ng, hay ch\u1ec9 l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng chim – b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? T\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u00f3 l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u00f3i s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea1ng ng\u1eddi v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui kh\u00f4ng? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n trong ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng. Kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u, v\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p c\u00e2u n\u00e0y trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh ‘Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i g\u00ec n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i h\u1ed3n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?’ b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c trong th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ‘V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i.’<\/p>\n T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5 \u0111\u00e2u<\/em>, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m: b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh r\u1ec5. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i qua thay \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1ea3 kim thu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o theo ngh\u0129a th\u1ebf gian. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o m\u1ecdi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean trong; t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh gi\u1ea7u – gi\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec Ph\u1eadt n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u; nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 th\u1ebf gian quanh h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u th\u1ef1c – h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o \u0111ang l\u1eeba ph\u1ec9nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u. S\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n Ph\u1eadt t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 vua c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u00edt ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i \u0111i ra \u0111\u00f3n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Th\u1eeba t\u01b0\u1edbng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 vua n\u00f3i ‘N\u1ebfu b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec xin nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb ch\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 th\u00eam n\u1eefa.’ Nh\u00e0 vua n\u00f3i ‘Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao?’ – v\u00e0 \u00f4ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eeba t\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u00e0 vua ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, th\u1eeba t\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 th\u1ef1c cho quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 vua. \u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i ‘Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao? T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng th\u1ebf? T\u1ea1i sao ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0111\u00f3n k\u1ebb \u0103n xin?’ V\u00e0 th\u1eeba t\u01b0\u1edbng, \u00f4ng gi\u00e0, n\u00f3i ‘B\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao. B\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 \u0111i \u0111\u00f3n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ec7 h\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5.’<\/p>\n Nh\u00e0 vua ph\u1ea3i \u0111i. Ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i, \u00f4ng ta \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng khi \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p xong Ph\u1eadt, \u00f4ng ta ch\u1ea1m ch\u00e2n \u00f4ng gi\u00e0, th\u1eeba t\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta n\u00f3i ‘\u00d4ng \u0111\u00fang, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 vua, ta l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin.’<\/p>\n S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 k\u00ec l\u1ea1. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00f4i khi vua l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin v\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin l\u00e0 vua. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecb l\u1eeba b\u1edfi d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong \u0111i. Tim l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1eadp r\u1ed9n r\u00e0ng v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui, tim l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 khi n\u00f3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ea1o, v\u1edbi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi lu\u1eadt t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, v\u1edbi ph\u00e1p – dhamma. Tim l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 khi b\u1ea1n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ‘Tr\u1ec5 qu\u00e1 r\u1ed3i…’<\/p>\n T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n cao cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0 th\u1eeba.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i”, Ch.10<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00f4i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng m\u01a1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Osho \u01a1i, th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i trong … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1942,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[80],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1941","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ban-nga-ham-muon"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1941","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1941"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1941\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1943,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1941\/revisions\/1943"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1942"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1941"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1941"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1941"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}