Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quen thu\u1ed9c ch\u00fat n\u00e0o v\u1edbi n\u00f3. S\u1ee3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 – b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 s\u1ee3 n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng ai th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i ‘T\u00f4i s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft’ ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111ang n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi. Cho n\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng – ch\u00ednh s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ed1ng cho b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5 n\u00e3o v\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 s\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee3 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu v\u1ec1 v\u00e0i s\u1ee3 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang tu\u1ed9t d\u1ea7n \u0111i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u01b0a s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i kinh ho\u00e0ng, kinh ho\u00e0ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n – r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang tu\u1ed9t kh\u1ecfi tay b\u1ea1n, m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 l\u1edbn n\u1ea3y sinh: b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111ang b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m n\u00f3 l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 ai bi\u1ebft? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c. S\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra n\u1eefa – ai bi\u1ebft? \u0110\u00e2y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng duy nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y n\u00f3 \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t hoang. Do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee3.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ee9 hai, ch\u00ednh s\u1ed1ng chung cu\u1ed9c mang t\u1edbi ch\u1ebft. Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 cao tr\u00e0o c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng, ng\u1ecdn \u0111u\u1ed1c \u0111ang k\u1ebft th\u00fac. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa v\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng – r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd mang ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. R\u1eb1ng c\u00e2y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 hoa s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 xu\u00e2n s\u1ebd t\u1edbi v\u00e0 c\u1ecf s\u1ebd xanh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 trong khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n, c\u1ecf s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc tr\u00ean m\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00ean n\u00f3. V\u00e0 trong khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00ean n\u00f3 v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 v\u00e0 gi\u1ecdt s\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e1t m\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh ch\u1ebft, c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. C\u00e1i bi\u1ebft bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0o trong c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. S\u00e1ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong t\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a ch\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng? C\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n – r\u1eb1ng ‘N\u1ebfu c\u00e1i n\u00e0y<\/em> x\u1ea3y ra, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.’ V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c theo b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i theo s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. C\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i, ‘B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n.’<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 hay v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, v\u00e0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3: ‘T\u00f4i s\u1ebd y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh – r\u1eb1ng em (anh) s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec anh (em) s\u1ebd y\u00eau em (anh).’ B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ee9a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta h\u1ee9a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111i qua, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn anh ta th\u1ebf n\u00e0o – th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c – nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng, tr\u00e1i tim c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ee1 nh\u1ecbp.<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1ebf tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd. Cho n\u00ean m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ea1o ra gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ra c\u00e1c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i, ‘B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1edbi, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa. M\u00ecnh s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3 v\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.’ Th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee3. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng, s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ee3.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i: V\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 s\u1ee3. V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1edbn. V\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Hay cho d\u00f9 n\u00f3 t\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i – kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp r\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng, trong c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng, v\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 v\u00ec c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n Th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i. R\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n y\u00eau v\u00ec ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a y\u00eau v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng. L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c \u0111i. L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo Epicurus. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, Epicurus l\u00e0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi V\u01b0\u1eddn Eden – t\u00e2m x\u00e3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 ‘V\u01b0\u1eddn’. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i Epicurus, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111i qua \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i qua V\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a Epicurus, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec7n th\u1edd c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt – b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n Ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p – \u0103n, u\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb – nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u1ed5ng v\u00f2m c\u1ee7a l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u, \u1edf ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u, nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i qua c\u1ed5ng v\u00f2m. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 s\u1ee3. C\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o ra kh\u1ed5. H\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c thuy\u1ebft gi\u1ea3ng cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0m v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o h\u1ecd cung c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111i. V\u00e0 nh\u1edb, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng. Epicurus l\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eebng t\u1ea1i Epicurus, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u. Nh\u01b0ng d\u1eebng \u1edf Epicurus l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o Epicurus ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. V\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c t\u00e2m linh – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i cho b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ee9 hai. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 trong th\u00e2n th\u1ee9 ba.<\/p>\n Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u1ef1c th\u00edch t\u1eeb v\u1eadt l\u00ed, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u1eeb abc. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea3y t\u1edbi xyz – v\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 abc. H\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u01b0a h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng trong C\u00f5i tr\u1eddi. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111i – li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n ch\u00e0o trong C\u00f5i tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00f3? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang v\u1eady – c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n kh\u1ed5 h\u01a1n, v\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 h\u01a1n, nhi\u1ec1u y\u00eau h\u01a1n, m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t h\u01a1n trong m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111am m\u00ea<\/em> h\u01a1n – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00f3? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ngay c\u1ea3 s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y – \u0111i\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi \u0111am m\u00ea, \u0111i\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi y\u00eau, \u0111i\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui, nh\u01b0ng theo s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9. Trong C\u00f5i tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. C\u00f5i tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111i. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u. Ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd – v\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u00e0 anh ta bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y – nh\u01b0ng anh ta ch\u1ec9 th\u1ed1t ra m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n tan v\u1ee1. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 n\u00f3 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t th\u1ebf – v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ecf t\u1eeb c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc c\u1ea7u b\u1ecb g\u1eaby v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi li d\u1ecb.<\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7. V\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i: T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft?<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1eefa: S\u1ed1ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd bao gi\u1edd y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. S\u1ed1ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i. Ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n t\u1edbi, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u01b0u \u00fd n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n t\u1edbi v\u00e0 mang b\u1ea1n \u0111i, n\u00f3 k\u00e9o l\u00ea b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi. Ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng cho th\u1eddi gian th\u00eam m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. N\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. S\u1ed1ng k\u00ednh trong h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n – n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n th\u1eddi gian, n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn, n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c hay kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c.<\/p>\n Do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee3. S\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. Vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u1eady, s\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111ang tr\u00ean r\u00e3nh \u0111\u00fang ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. S\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd mang t\u1edbi th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd co l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n M\u1edbi v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean t\u1edbi t\u00f4i t\u1eeb ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u anh ta v\u00e0 v\u00e0o tim anh ta – tim anh ta s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t sannyas nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea7u anh ta kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i b\u1edfi anh ta – l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00ean cho anh ta t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t sannyas kh\u00f4ng? Tr\u00e1i tim anh ta n\u00f3i c\u00f3. S\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea9y l\u1edbn trong tim, tim \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f3c v\u00ec n\u00f3. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf ng\u00e3 t\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u1ecf v\u00e0 xanh, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00e8n, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1eadt. V\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec7u \u0111i qua hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111i qua – m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e8n n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e8n kia n\u00f3i ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 anh ta, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7 anh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi tim anh ta. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1, anh ta c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u1ea1nh – c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u1ea1nh. Tim \u0111\u00e3 vui v\u1ebb. Khi t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c anh ta l\u1ea5y c\u00fa nh\u1ea3y, tim \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y c\u00fa nh\u1ea3y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m vui. Tim \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda l\u1edbn, n\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 s\u1edd m\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3? tim \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft l\u1eeda. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed7i l\u00fac m\u1ed9t t\u1ed1i h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 cho anh ta, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang t\u1edbi qua t\u00f4i v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3. T\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t sannyas l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i, t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t sannyas l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1edbi. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 nghe gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n – n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3 thu th\u1eadp r\u00e1c r\u01b0\u1edfi. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an ninh, n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y logic.<\/p>\n Tim l\u00e0 phi logic. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 \u0111i c\u00f9ng tim, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n l\u00ean b\u1edd \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng si\u00eau xa l\u1ed9, tim l\u00f4i b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o trong m\u00ea cung n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong r\u1eebng r\u1eadm c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t x\u00edt, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1c gi\u00e1o, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Tin l\u00e0nh, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Hindu, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u00f4 ha m\u00e9t gi\u00e1o. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng. Tim l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh – b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Hindu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u00f4 ha m\u00e9t gi\u00e1o. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3. V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Khi b\u1ea1n n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong tay ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t tr\u00ed, khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 trong t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee3.<\/p>\n Khi th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 y\u00eau hay t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t sannyas hay samadhi hay Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf x\u00fai b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ebft \u0111ang t\u1edbi c\u1eadn k\u1ec1. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft \u0111i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, ch\u1ebft \u0111i c\u00e1i c\u0169; ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u00e0 m\u1edbi. S\u1ee3 b\u1eaft gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, ‘M\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129.’ \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u anh thanh ni\u00ean kia \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: ‘T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i.’<\/p>\n Suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o c\u00e1i m\u1edbi. Logic kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn m\u1edbi n\u00e0o, n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9. Logic l\u00e0 lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n, xoay v\u00f2ng, n\u00f3 \u0111i theo c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn n\u00e0o t\u1edbi qua logic \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf trong ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng m\u1edbi. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang n\u00f3i gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho trong ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean.<\/p>\n Duy nh\u1ea5t y\u00eau – v\u00e0 y\u00eau ng\u1ee5 \u00fd phi logic, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi – \u0111em b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn m\u1edbi. V\u00ec y\u00eau bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u1ea5y c\u00fa nh\u1ea3y. Logic l\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00fa nh\u1ea3y. Y\u00eau bi\u1ebft c\u00fa nh\u1ea3y, c\u00fa nh\u1ea3y l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eed. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea3y t\u1eeb c\u00e1i c\u0169 sang c\u00e1i m\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea7u \u1edf gi\u1eefa. Y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ee3. V\u00e0 y\u00eau l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1ng – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 y\u00eau b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng ‘M\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u1ecf l\u1ee1.’<\/p>\n B\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho ph\u00e9p tim b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t qua c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ‘b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ea7u’ bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. \u0110i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111i, \u0111i h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi tim. V\u00e0 tim kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u00e2u h\u01a1n tim. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi r\u1ed1n – \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ‘hara’. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ba trung t\u00e2m: hara – qu\u00e3ng s\u00e1u x\u0103ng ti m\u00e9t d\u01b0\u1edbi r\u1ed1i; tim, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1ea7u l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u00ean xa nh\u1ea5t – khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf xa nh\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf g\u1ea7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong tim. Khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf ch\u00ednh c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong hara.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 qua hara, s\u1ee3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Ch\u1ec9 qua hara b\u1ea1n l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n chia s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f4i – th\u00e2n th\u1ec3\/t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t\/h\u1ed3n, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf\/s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u00e2n chia, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trong tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. B\u1ecf m\u1ecdi ph\u00e2n chia \u0111i, s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ba th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ba m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n – th\u00e2n v\u1eadt l\u00ed, th\u00e2n ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 th\u00e2n Ph\u1eadt. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec th\u00e2n n\u00e0o – t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ch\u1ecdn th\u00e2n Ph\u1eadt ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i th\u00e2n v\u1eadt l\u00ed. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn th\u00e2n Ph\u1eadt ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i th\u00e2n v\u1eadt l\u00ed, Ph\u1eadt t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u1edf hoa to\u00e0n b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1c b\u1ecf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, khi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u1edf hoa. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u1edf hoa trong hoa sen ngh\u00ecn c\u00e1nh, sahasrar<\/em>.<\/p>\n T\u1eeb “Ch\u00ednh th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt”, Ch.4<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quen thu\u1ed9c ch\u00fat n\u00e0o v\u1edbi n\u00f3. 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