L\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac?<\/p>\n
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N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh: ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y sao? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u01b0a? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i ‘T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m ch\u00fat n\u00e0o’ th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean th\u1ea5y, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf, theo c\u00f9ng t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u – t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nh\u01b0 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111i sai? M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 h\u1ecd h\u1ecfi: ‘M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac – nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf, g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh?’ \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao: v\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n
H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ham mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 \u0111i t\u1edbi kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf; ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111em t\u1edbi kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft l\u1edbn r\u1eb1ng ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111em t\u1edbi kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 hai c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac – ch\u1ed9p l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng hay \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ch\u1ed9p l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady. C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 do v\u1eady s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa hi v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ee3, m\u01a1 v\u00e0 b\u00e1c b\u1ecf. C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 hai nh\u1eadn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi n\u00f3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 trong ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3, m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi \u00fd ch\u00ed \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng n\u1eafm gi\u1eef, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi c\u01a1n s\u1ed1t n\u1eafm ch\u1eb7t c\u1ecdng r\u01a1m \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c b\u01a1i c\u00f9ng d\u00f2ng s\u00f4ng t\u1edbi n\u01a1i s\u00f4ng ch\u1ea3y.<\/p>\n
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B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ebf n\u00e0o<\/em>?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n v\u1ed3 l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 hung h\u0103ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hung h\u0103ng, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang trong c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh, b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng; s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea9n tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u1ed1n kh\u1ecfi b\u00e0n tay b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb c\u01b0\u1ee1ng hi\u1ebfp, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng hi\u1ebfp s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1edbi trong nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh, hung h\u0103ng. Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tham v\u1ecdng, khi b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111ang tr\u00fat xu\u1ed1ng – c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n – c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1c b\u1ecf. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ea5y ngh\u0129a, khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u00e1c b\u1ecf t\u1ea1o ra kh\u1ed5. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf b\u00e1c b\u1ecf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn to\u00e0n t\u00e2m, b\u1ea1n \u00f4m cho\u00e0ng ch\u00fang, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, khi hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 khi v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n ra. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi xa t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chia s\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i: Kh\u00f4ng hung h\u0103ng. Th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi. Ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebft \u01a1n – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi. C\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn, l\u00e0 n\u1eef t\u00ednh, v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nam t\u00ednh, hung h\u0103ng.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi: L\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/em>?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Qu\u00ean v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111i, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n th\u00edch th\u00fa c\u00e1i g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n th\u00edch th\u00fa l\u00e0m nh\u1ea5t c\u00e1i g\u00ec, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3. V\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd t\u1edbi theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u00edch b\u01a1i, t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng vi\u1ec7c b\u01a1i \u0111i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u00edch ch\u1ebb c\u1ee7i, ch\u1ebb c\u1ee7i \u0111i. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u00edch, l\u00e0m n\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat trong n\u00f3. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed h\u1eadu \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed h\u1eadu \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 kh\u1eafp xung quanh b\u1ea1n, \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea1o ra trong t\u00e2m x\u00e3 m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. L\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “Ch\u00ednh th\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt,” Ch.7<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" L\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac? 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