C\u00f3 ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi-1 – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. T\u1eeb personality-nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb g\u1ed1c Hi L\u1ea1p ‘persona’. Trong k\u1ecbch Hi L\u1ea1p h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1, v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i s\u1ebd b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. ‘Sona’ ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i, \u00e2m thanh, v\u00e0 ‘per’ ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 qua m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. M\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft – ai l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean th\u1ef1c. C\u00f3 m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1, v\u00e0 qua m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i \u0111i t\u1edbi. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u1edbi t\u1eeb m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c. T\u1eeb ‘personality-nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch’ l\u00e0 hay, n\u00f3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb drama Hi L\u1ea1p.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Trong k\u1ecbch Hi L\u1ea1p h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u. M\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00ean m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c l\u1edbp v\u1ecf h\u00e0nh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 ra c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u00e1o m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 \u0111\u00f3 ra l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c th\u00e1o v\u00e0 th\u00e1o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111ang mang bao nhi\u00eau m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. Bao nhi\u00eau! Trong nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng thu th\u1eadp ch\u00fang. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed5i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng m\u1eb7t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 khi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong ph\u00f2ng: khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c thay \u0111\u1ed5i. N\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng – b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u v\u00e0 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu – kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Khi \u00f4ng ta nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta, \u00f4ng ta m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau m\u1eb7t. V\u00f4 s\u1ed1. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfm.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Hay b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n b\u1edfi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 t\u1eeb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i – t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tu s\u0129 v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 s\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 trao cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c su\u00f4n s\u1ebb. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111i ch\u00e2n l\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i thay th\u1ebf. V\u00e0 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t thay th\u1ebf n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhanh th\u1ebf v\u00e0 ch\u00fang nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c m\u1eb7t n\u00e0o l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ef1c ra ch\u1eb3ng m\u1eb7t n\u00e0o trong nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n n\u00f3i: Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o \u00f4ng ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft m\u1eb7t nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 g\u00ec. V\u00ec Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
M\u00f3n qu\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t sannyas, vi\u1ec7c khai t\u00e2m. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi Hindu hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u00f4 ha m\u00e9t gi\u00e1o, m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb b\u1ecf. V\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh cho n\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ee9c, b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n
M\u1ecdi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh. V\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd g\u00ec t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00ean thi\u00ean, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1i ‘\u0111\u00fang’ l\u00ean b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n qu\u1eb1n qu\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n la h\u00e9t b\u00ean trong, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c th\u1ebf v\u00e0 tinh t\u1ebf th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o khu\u00f4n theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m qu\u00e8 theo c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch. B\u1ecb l\u00e0m t\u00ea li\u1ec7t, b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n
Ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf c\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. Ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u1ec7 v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. Ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n. M\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb thi\u00eau ch\u00e1y.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao Thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u00e0: ‘Tr\u1ef1c ch\u1ec9 nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m. Ki\u1ebfn t\u00ednh th\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt. B\u1ea5t l\u1eadp v\u0103n t\u1ef1. Gi\u00e1o ngo\u1ea1i bi\u1ec7t truy\u1ec1n.’ Vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i kinh s\u00e1ch: Koran kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 trao n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n, Dhammapada kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 trao, Kinh Th\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 trao, Talmud v\u00e0 Gita kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 trao. Kh\u00f4ng kinh s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin v\u00e0o kinh s\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00e2n l\u00ed \u1edf trong b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. ‘Ki\u1ebfn t\u00ednh th\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt. Tr\u1ef1c ch\u1ec9 nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m.’ B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n \u0111i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169, cho n\u00ean ph\u1ecfng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1edbi Himalayas, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mang m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh, m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3ng vai, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mang m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1eb7t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, tri th\u1ee9c vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kinh s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u00e1m b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. Ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong hang \u1edf Himalayas b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 quanh b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c tu s\u0129 v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n x\u00fam v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Hindu \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u00f4 ha m\u00e9t gi\u00e1o. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eb9t. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n
Thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n, thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean trong. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec b\u1edfi thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. Ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng – nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edb, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00e0ng nguy hi\u1ec3m, v\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1eady. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ebf, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang \u0111i\u1ec3m nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i th\u00ec qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eaft. T\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3, anh ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3. Th\u1ef1c ra anh ta ch\u00e1n ng\u00e1n v\u1edbi n\u00f3, n\u00f3 x\u1ea5u th\u1ebf. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh b\u1ecf n\u00f3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u1ebf? N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn th\u1ebf. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111i l\u00ean ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t cao h\u01a1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i tr\u00e8o ti\u1ebfp l\u00ean chi\u1ebfc thang th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0y. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc thang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 leo ti\u1ebfp m\u00e3i m\u00e3i.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ea7u h\u01a1n, kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tinh luy\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. M\u1ecdi th\u1ea7y l\u1edbn, t\u1eeb Ph\u1eadt t\u1edbi B\u1ea1ch \u1ea8n, kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n. C\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “s\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n’. Th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng M\u0129 \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3: c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c. V\u00ec ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, v\u00ec v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n – s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng h\u01a1n, s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean tinh vi h\u01a1n, s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n, s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 h\u01a1n – nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n m\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng b\u1ecf nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n
Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n cho gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb c\u00e0ng gi\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00ed h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng m\u00ea m\u1ea3i h\u01a1n trong n\u00f3, b\u1ecb b\u1eaft r\u1ec5 trong n\u00f3. Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00ed t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00ean l\u00e3ng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n: T\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed \u0111i. Ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed \u0111i, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i n\u1ecd. Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh m\u1edbi: L\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. L\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, l\u00e0m c\u00e1i n\u1ecd. C\u00e1i n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i sao? \u0110\u1eebng lo, t\u1edb c\u00f3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch kh\u00e1c cho c\u1eadu. Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c ra t\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed c\u0169ng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i<\/em> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u. T\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 – n\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n ngay c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111i t\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eadn nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i? N\u00f3 th\u00fac b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 \u00e9p b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u00ecm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111i xa. V\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 kia. V\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i n\u00f3i ‘l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3’ v\u00e0 ‘\u1edf kia’. Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Ch\u00ednh kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y! N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u B\u1ea1ch \u1ea8n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ch\u00ednh ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hoa sen,<\/p>\n ch\u00ednh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean c\u00e1i ‘ng\u01b0\u1eddi’ \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, \u0111\u00f3ng vai. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3 bao quanh b\u1ea1n. M\u1eb7t c\u00f4ng khai, c\u00e1i r\u1edfm. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t n\u00f3 l\u00ean b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. V\u00ec ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. M\u1ecdi qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o l\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M\u1ecdi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i – \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 trao nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 khai th\u00e1c tinh vi.<\/p>\n Khai th\u00e1c th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kinh t\u1ebf hay ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, khai th\u00e1c th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng m\u00e3i cho t\u1edbi gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, kh\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. L\u00ed do? V\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c khai th\u00e1c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u01b0 s\u1ea3n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. D\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9c t\u00e0i, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9c t\u00e0i, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed9c t\u00e0i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t, nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n Khai th\u00e1c t\u00e2m l\u00ed l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Khai th\u00e1c t\u00e2m l\u00ed l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. R\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. R\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd v\u1eady? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00ean h\u1ecd v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, b\u1ea1n k\u00ednh trong nh\u1eefng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng k\u00ednh trong s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i r\u1edfm, gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd, \u0111\u00f3ng vai. B\u1ea1n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3ng vai c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n C\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi-1 n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb b\u1ecf \u0111i. Freud \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh r\u1edfm n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a Marx, cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 \u0111i s\u00e2u, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ee7 xa. N\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi-2. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n, b\u1ea1n b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c b\u00ean trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ecb kho\u00e1 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi trong m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi trong c\u00e1c \u1ea9n d\u1ee5, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n say, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n trong ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n xa x\u00f4i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng r\u1edfm.<\/p>\n Freud \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. V\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111ang la h\u00e9t b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n, b\u1ecb nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft \u00e1n n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n con v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft \u00e1n n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n \u00fd th\u1ee9c. N\u00f3 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n \u00fd th\u1ee9c, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n \u00fd th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh con v\u1eadt. Con v\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00e2y c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Ch\u00fang v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i trong s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1edfi c\u00e1c tu s\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. Ch\u1ec9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 con v\u1eadt b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng duy nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian – b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ecdi con v\u1eadt \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb. Do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 sao? Khi con chim \u0111ang tung c\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ghen t\u1ecb sao? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 trong con h\u01b0\u01a1u \u0111ang chay nhanh trong r\u1eebng sao? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ghen t\u1ecb v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng, v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng sao?<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb: b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ghen t\u1ecb sao? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ghen t\u1ecb th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c k\u1ebft \u00e1n t\u00ednh tr\u1ebb con. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c k\u1ebft \u00e1n. Montague l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng thay v\u00ec b\u1ea3o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ‘\u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con’ ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea3o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ‘\u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn’. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb ch\u1eb7n theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f4ng c\u1ee9ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1edd \u0111\u1eabn v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 say m\u00ea, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n k\u00e9o l\u00ea. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb ch\u00e1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3. Do \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t th\u01a1 ca v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u0169 v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1c tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n ‘Ng\u01b0\u1eddi’ th\u1ee9 hai n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 t\u00f4i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 t\u00f4i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi tu s\u0129, v\u00ec h\u1ecd b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 Freud kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 t\u00e2m l\u00ed nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch – \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n ch\u00fat n\u1eefa so v\u1edbi Freud nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ee7 s\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 ‘ng\u01b0\u1eddi’ th\u1ee9 ba, ng\u01b0\u1eddi-3. B\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c, m\u1eb7t nguy\u00ean b\u1ea3n, c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi-1 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi-2, c\u1ea3 hai. C\u00e1i si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t. Ph\u1eadt t\u00ednh. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n chia. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t mang t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai mang t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba mang t\u00ednh thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Hay, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a B\u1ea1ch \u1ea8n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u00e2n v\u1eadt l\u00ed, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 th\u00e2n ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 th\u00e2n tinh tu\u00fd. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ba th\u00e2n Ph\u1eadt.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 nh\u1edb, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu trung t\u00e2m v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t th\u1ebf th\u00ec ngo\u1ea1i vi n\u1eefa c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u1ebf th\u00ec chu vi n\u1eefa c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trung t\u00e2m, ch\u1ec9 chu vi, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ebf ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Ch\u00ednh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t c\u00e1i ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129a n\u1ea3y sinh.<\/p>\n D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1edbi r\u1ec5 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng hoa n\u00e0o t\u1edbi. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00e1n l\u00e1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, l\u00e1 r\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e1 m\u1edbi n\u00e0o t\u1edbi. V\u00e0 d\u1ecbch c\u00e2y d\u1eebng ch\u1ea3y, nh\u1ef1a c\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i n\u1eefa. C\u00e2y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ebft, c\u00e2y \u0111ang ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 c\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tri\u1ebft l\u00ed, c\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n sinh, m\u1ed9t Sartre hay ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 c\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hoa trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. R\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hoa, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec chim n\u00e0o n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 c\u00e2y th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng v\u1eady, v\u00e0 c\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 l\u1eeba b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 hoa – h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. ‘N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1eady, m\u00f9a xu\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng. Ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt n\u00e0y v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Jaina n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng, r\u1eb1ng hoa n\u1edf v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui l\u1edbn v\u00e0 chim t\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1i, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a.’ C\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n hoa n\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hoa kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m l\u00e0 hoang t\u01b0\u1edfng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi r\u1ec5 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft r\u1ec5 trong Ph\u1eadt t\u00ednh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u1edf hoa. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1edf h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 g\u00ec. V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1edf h\u1ed9i? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean c\u00e1ch h\u00e1t v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u1ebf th\u00ec Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ebft. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ebft trong b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 trong b\u1ea1n. C\u00e2y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4 h\u00e9o, nh\u1ef1a c\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm r\u1ec5 l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. T\u00ecm nh\u1eefng r\u1ec5 n\u00e0y \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? R\u1ec5 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u00e0i ca v\u1ec1 thi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a B\u1ea1ch \u1ea8n.<\/p>\n T\u1eeb “Ch\u00ednh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt”, Ch.6<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" C\u00f3 ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi-1 – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. T\u1eeb personality-nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb g\u1ed1c Hi L\u1ea1p ‘persona’. Trong k\u1ecbch Hi L\u1ea1p … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1734,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-than-the-tam-tri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1733"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1736,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733\/revisions\/1736"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1734"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}