Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/p>\n
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Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ed1ng theo c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. N\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng trong d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1, n\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng trong an \u1ee7i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t th\u1ebf. Tu\u1ef3 theo n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n, tu\u1ef3 theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1eb7t. V\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c b\u1ecf \u0111i m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u1eeb ‘personality-nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch’ b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb Hi L\u1ea1p. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. Trong k\u1ecbch Hi L\u1ea1p, v\u00e0o th\u1eddi c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i, m\u1ecdi di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. Persona ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb persona \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi t\u1eeb personality-nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a b\u1ecf nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u00ecm ra t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
T\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i; nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t b\u1edfi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 dung th\u1ee9 t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n theo nh\u01b0 c\u1eebu. T\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u01b0 t\u1eed; s\u01b0 t\u1eed \u0111i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
C\u1eebu bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, hi v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng \u1edf trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1ea5m c\u00fang. \u1ede trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, an ninh. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n – nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh sao? Ch\u1ec9 s\u01b0 t\u1eed \u0111i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u00e0 s\u01b0 t\u1eed, nh\u01b0ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n, l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u1eebu. N\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch \u1ea5m c\u00fang, \u0111\u1eb9p, r\u1ea5t thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n, r\u1ea5t v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c n\u00f4 l\u1ec7, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng cho t\u1ef1 do. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 v\u00ec m\u1ecdi quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang n\u1eafm quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea9ng cao \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7, b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea9y t\u1eeb b\u00ean n\u00e0y qua b\u00ean kia. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cho v\u00e0o l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd: v\u00ec t\u00f4i tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 ch\u1ebft \u0111i nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c sinh th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 vua l\u1edbn, Prasenjita, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt Gautam, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p Ph\u1eadt Gautam l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. V\u1ee3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt Gautam trong th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1ea5y Prasenjita. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 vua l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean khi Ph\u1eadt Gautam t\u1edbi kinh \u0111\u00f4 c\u1ee7a Prasenjita, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, “\u0110i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 Ph\u1eadt Gautam t\u1edbi kinh \u0111\u00f4 c\u1ee7a anh m\u00e0 anh kh\u00f4ng ra \u0111\u00f3n ch\u00e0o \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Em \u0111i \u0111\u00e2y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 anh. Em s\u1ebd n\u00f3i g\u00ec?”<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed1c, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Th\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, anh c\u0169ng t\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec anh t\u1edbi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, anh mu\u1ed1n t\u1eb7ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Anh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn; ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u0169ng ghen t\u1ecb v\u00ec vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3. Ph\u1eadt ph\u1ea3i ca ng\u1ee3i n\u00f3, cho n\u00ean anh s\u1ebd \u0111em vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111i.”<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Thay v\u00ec kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu anh \u0111em \u0111o\u00e1 sen t\u1eeb ao l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. V\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt hoa sen l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng? N\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.”<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Anh s\u1ebd mang c\u1ea3 hai v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta xem ai th\u1eafng.”<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta \u0111i tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfc xe v\u00e0ng t\u1edbi t\u00e2m x\u00e3 c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt, n\u01a1i m\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00ecn s\u01b0 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i quanh \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e0i n\u00f3i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, chi\u1ebfc xe v\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 vua d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u00e0 vua b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Nh\u00e0 vua t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u00f4ng ta t\u1eb7ng Ph\u1eadt vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “B\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i!” R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 cho Prasenjita b\u1ecf vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta! – nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 – “v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eb7ng vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y cho n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u00f4ng.”<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng ta do d\u1ef1. Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “B\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i!” Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y b\u1ecf vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a t\u1eb7ng \u0111o\u00e1 sen b\u1eb1ng b\u00e0n tay kia.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “B\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i!” Prasenjita ngh\u0129, “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 d\u1edf h\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9?” \u00d4ng ta b\u1ecf \u0111o\u00e1 sen, v\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “\u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5y \u00e0? B\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i!”<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i, “C\u1ea3 hai tay t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u1ea7y mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i b\u1ecf c\u00e1i g\u00ec?”<\/p>\n
V\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed l\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt, X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i T\u1eed, n\u00f3i, “\u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u. Ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i b\u1ecf kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng, hay b\u1ecf \u0111o\u00e1 hoa. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i, `B\u1ecf nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111i. B\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00f4ng l\u00e0 vua \u0111i. B\u1ecf m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 n\u00e0y \u0111i, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec qua m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 n\u00e0y ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn t\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.'”<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t im l\u1eb7ng l\u1edbn, v\u00e0 m\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi… v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t s\u1ee5p xu\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n Ph\u1eadt.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ea3o \u00f4ng: b\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng. Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi \u00f4ng.<\/p>\n
“M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd chinh ph\u1ee5c v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u00f4ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u0103n xin. T\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb chinh ph\u1ee5c, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng b\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n – v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng.”<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb “M\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t xanh”, Ch.4<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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