Osho \u01a1i, th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i: \u0110i ra ngo\u00e0i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Kh\u00f4ng nghe theo huy\u00ean thuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u1ea1o k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt cho n\u00f3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi n\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ecb v\u00e0o k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o n\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n? Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t sannyas \u0111\u00eam h\u00f4m n\u1ecd th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ecb m\u00f3c v\u00e0o th\u1ea7y. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3ng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea1i sau khi con ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
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Prem Lisa,<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 l\u1edbn t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. \u0110\u00e8 n\u00e9n x\u1ea3y ra qua tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n. K\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt x\u1ea3y ra qua vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 t\u00ednh quan s\u00e1t, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. Trong k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tranh \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd. Trong k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft \u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng, th\u1ea5y to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 l\u01b0u th\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai, c\u00e1i g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0, \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i qua – th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ec7 – nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m. N\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eaft ra kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Anh “ecstasy-c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c”. C\u1ef1c l\u1ea1c ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u1edf ngo\u00e0i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn l\u00ean m\u00e2y \u0111ang bay tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi hay nh\u00ecn d\u00f2ng s\u00f4ng \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y qua – b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n, t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ra xa kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft: b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u00e0 trong vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng, ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u x\u1ea3y ra – ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u c\u1ee7a k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, l\u01b0u th\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. \u00dd ngh\u0129 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt di chuy\u1ec3n tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean m\u00e0n \u1ea3nh, k\u00ed \u1ee9c, t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt \u0111i. K\u1ebd h\u1edf b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n
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B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a con, “Con ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u00fa khi con \u0111i t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ec giao th\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0o gi\u1edd cao \u0111i\u1ec3m.”<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ee9a con n\u00f3i, “M\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng lo. Con bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee3i b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Khi k\u1ebd h\u1edf \u0111i qua, th\u1ebf th\u00ec con \u0111i qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.”<\/p>\n
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“Khi k\u1ebd h\u1edfi \u0111i qua…” Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: k\u1ebd h\u1edf \u0111i qua, kho\u1ea3ng h\u1edf khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t v\u1eabn c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t. G\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y. Trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh h\u1edf n\u00e0y k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt n\u1ea3y sinh.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb “k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt-discipline” c\u0169ng hay. \u0110\u00f4i khi \u0111i t\u1edbi g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c t\u1eeb l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. “Discipline-k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt” b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t g\u1ed1c c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc. Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o k\u1ebd h\u1edf, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc x\u1ea3y ra. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec? Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp. V\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb sao l\u00e3ng b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t g\u1ed1c c\u00f3 t\u1eeb “disciple-\u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed.” “\u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed” ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c im l\u1eb7ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trong s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Th\u1ea7y. \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho ph\u00e9p c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3ng h\u1edf x\u1ea3y ra khi anh ta \u1edf c\u00f9ng Th\u1ea7y. C\u00f9ng v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7y, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eafc c\u1ea7u ch\u1ec9 qua im l\u1eb7ng; khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eafc c\u1ea7u. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed. Ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda nh\u1ea3y t\u1eeb Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0o t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed. Chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn ch\u01b0a s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00e1y s\u00e1ng. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u0169 l\u1edbn n\u1ea3y sinh.<\/p>\n
Lisa, k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n. \u0110\u00e8 n\u00e9n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. Trong \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai – quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Th\u1ef1c ra, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u1ed1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c c\u00e1i l\u00e0 sai – hay c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 sai – v\u00e0o s\u00e2u trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 tranh \u0111\u1ea5u, r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n l\u1edbn. Thay v\u00ec mang t\u1edbi im l\u1eb7ng cho b\u1ea1n, m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n \u0111\u1ec1u mang t\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, lo ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n lo ngh\u0129 ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd lo ngh\u0129 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n lo ngh\u0129 ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfp t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Lo ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec khi so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng lo ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean n\u00fai l\u1eeda, v\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7. \u0110\u00e8 n\u00e9n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. V\u00e0 m\u1ed1i nguy l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ec7t v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n ngh\u1ec9, c\u00e1i b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Do \u0111\u00f3, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t li\u00ean t\u1ee5c suy ngh\u0129, t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n.<\/p>\n
Mahatma Gandhi \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft trong t\u1ef1 ti\u1ec3u s\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y: “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi ban ng\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng ban \u0111\u00eam, trong m\u01a1, n\u00f3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9.” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i… c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n!<\/p>\n
V\u00e2ng, ban ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xoay x\u1edf b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng ban \u0111\u00eam, trong m\u01a1, c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n ban ng\u00e0y nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u00e1o th\u00f9. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Do \u0111\u00f3, su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. H\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1eaft gi\u1ea3m gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd – n\u0103m gi\u1edd, b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd, ba gi\u1edd, hai gi\u1edd. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng ng\u1ee7 \u00edt m\u1ed1i nguy c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i v\u00e0o trong hai gi\u1edd n\u00e0y theo c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecdng. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111ang chen ch\u00fac b\u00ean trong \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n th\u1edd h\u1ecd! Th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e0ng \u00edt ng\u1ee7, c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n th\u1edd h\u1ecd. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, “Tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea5y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 hi sinh nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0m sao! \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 h\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn l\u00e0m sao – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7! Hay \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ng\u1ee7 ch\u1ec9 hai hay m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd.”<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ee3 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. V\u00e0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00e0y t\u1edbi t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u? N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00e0y t\u1edbi t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7, ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111ang ng\u1ee7, trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n
Cho n\u00ean, Lisa n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y tranh \u0111\u1ea5u, t\u00f4i d\u1ea1y nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. Th\u1eadt v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng m\u00e0 \u0111i tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi t\u1ed1i, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 ngu xu\u1ea9n. \u0110em \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u00e0o \u0111i. Sao tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi t\u1ed1i? V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi v\u1ecdng th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi t\u1ed1i? \u0110em \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u00e0o v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb bao quanh b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i: tham, gi\u1eadn, ghen, th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t, tham v\u1ecdng, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u1ea7ng t\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng t\u1ea7ng t\u1ed1i n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1eafng \u0111\u00e2u, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi t\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. T\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ngay ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean; n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng s\u00e1ng. Cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi t\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u00e1ng \u0111i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u1ed1i, t\u1eaft \u0111\u00e8n \u0111i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n t\u1ed1i, b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n l\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u00e1ng, qu\u00ean v\u1ec1 t\u1ed1i \u0111i. N\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 qu\u00ean v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n \u0111i xa x\u0103m kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1eabn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 trong h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, trong \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, trong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1edbi \u0111i t\u1edbi l\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 – kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o tr\u1ed1n n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00e1i th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, d\u00f9 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1ed3i l\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n
Lisa, tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111i. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 sai v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. T\u00f4i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i: Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111i; hay, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 sai. Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e1y, c\u00e1i m\u00e1y hay, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng m\u00e1y ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ph\u00e1t minh ra trong h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u00e1y t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n
Ri\u00eang t\u00e2m tr\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9a m\u1ecdi th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. N\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. N\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1edbn, h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb h\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb h\u1ea7u n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t; nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 k\u1ebb h\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra qua nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00f3, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n tranh \u0111\u1ea5u, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi tranh \u0111\u1ea5u l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi k\u1ebb h\u1ea7u ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n tranh \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi k\u1ebb h\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7”; c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7, c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i, v\u00e0 k\u1ebb h\u1ea7u c\u00fai m\u00ecnh. K\u1ebb h\u1ea7u l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o. V\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh, ch\u1ee7 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
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B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i, Lisa: Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i: \u0110i ra ngo\u00e0i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Kh\u00f4ng nghe theo huy\u00ean thuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u1ea1o k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt cho n\u00f3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea7u. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi n\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ecb v\u00e0o k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o n\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n?<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m gi\u1eefa hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n gi\u1eefa hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang kh\u00e1c nhau th\u1ebf – h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 y\u00eau v\u00e0 gh\u00e9t, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 hoa v\u00e0 gai, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc cam l\u1ed3. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 th\u1ebf! Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n. Trong suy ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang – th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t s\u1ebd tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00f3i: Osho\u2026 khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t sannyas \u0111\u00eam h\u00f4m n\u1ecd th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ecb m\u00f3c v\u00e0o th\u1ea7y. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y \u0111ang \u0111\u00f3ng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda chu\u1ed3ng ng\u1ef1a l\u1ea1i sau khi con ng\u1ef1a \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Lisa, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 v\u1ec1 ng\u1ef1a m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau ng\u1ef1a n\u1eefa! V\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t con ng\u1ef1a hay t\u00f4i l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau. T\u00f4i tin v\u00e0o y\u00eau t\u1eeb c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian! Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n, Lisa, kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a vui, y\u00eau, tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i trong m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a Mafia m\u1ea7u cam!<\/p>\n V\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecb m\u00f3c v\u00e0o t\u00f4i,” ch\u1ec9 khi t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i b\u1ecb m\u00f3c v\u00e0o v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o tho\u00e1t! T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e2u. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf trong. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3; h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 sau.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u00f3c v\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb n\u00e9m v\u00e0o t\u00f4i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng lui. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ebf th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 khi t\u00f4i tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o cho b\u1ea1n \u0111i m\u1ea5t, khi t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tan ra v\u00e0 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecb m\u00f3c v\u00e0o t\u00f4i.” T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng Lisa b\u1ecb k\u1ebft li\u1ec5u!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “b\u01b0\u1edbc trong thi\u1ec1n, ng\u1ed3i trong thi\u1ec1n”, Ch.3<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Osho \u01a1i, th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i: \u0110i ra ngo\u00e0i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Kh\u00f4ng nghe theo huy\u00ean thuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. 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