T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang ng\u1ee7? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
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Niraj,<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh n\u00f3i ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n do s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c – nh\u01b0ng ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n
Khi ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u1ee7, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ng\u1ee7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c. B\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3, b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, ban \u0111\u00eam b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7 hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb “ng\u1ee7” theo c\u00f9ng ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quen thu\u1ed9c; h\u1ecd ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. H\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u1ee7 si\u00eau h\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1edf s\u1ed1ng d\u1edf ch\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u00e1y m\u00f3c. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1ea1i l\u1eafng nghe qua m\u1ecdi r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra trong ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, qua m\u1ecdi t\u1ea7ng c\u1ee7a ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i ch\u00fang. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00fang – b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c, Niraj. Theo ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 sai. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7 h\u1ecd ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n
Khi h\u1ecd b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n, “Th\u1ee9c d\u1eady \u0111i!” h\u1ecd ng\u1ee5 \u00fd: C\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 cho kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i t\u0103m c\u00f2n trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 cho kh\u00f4ng x\u00f3 x\u1ec9nh n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c – m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n m\u01b0\u1eddi – r\u1ea5t mong manh; ch\u00edn ph\u1ea7n m\u01b0\u1eddi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ea3ng b\u0103ng: ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea3nh t\u00ed x\u00edu c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u1ed9 ra tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t – m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n m\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n m\u01b0\u1eddi – v\u00e0 ch\u00edn ph\u1ea7n m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n
Khi b\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc hi\u1ec3u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng theo b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng theo h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n nghe t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng theo b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe m\u00e0 g\u1ea1t t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n sang b\u00ean.<\/p>\n
T\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u00f3p m\u00e9o; n\u00f3 t\u00f4 m\u1ea7u ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 n\u00f3 nghe. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh ngu, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh th\u00f4ng minh.<\/p>\n
Nghe Ph\u1eadt c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng gian n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng gian kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u00fd ngh\u0129 n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng nghe v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 hay ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang hay sai. Ch\u1ec9 l\u1eafng nghe m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 hay ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ngu xu\u1ea9n.<\/p>\n
Gi\u1eef t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ngu xu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n im l\u1eb7ng \u0111i. B\u1ea3o t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, “Xin y\u00ean t\u0129nh \u0111i cho.” N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh.<\/p>\n
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B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed m\u1edbi t\u1edbi v\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt Gautam, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, “Trong hai n\u0103m ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ta m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho \u00f4ng v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u00f4ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u.”<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft gia l\u1edbn, Maulingaputta, t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng ta c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. \u00d4ng ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft gia n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 l\u1edbn. Khi Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ta, “Trong hai n\u0103m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa ta v\u00e0 \u00f4ng,” t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean \u00f4ng ta b\u1ecb kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu.<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i, “\u00d4ng ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng sao? \u00d4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u cho t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee3i t\u1edbi hai n\u0103m. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Vedas, Upanishads, Gita – sao kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u Vedas, Upanishads, Gita, sao \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y? \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1ed3i! N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u Upanishads, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i? Th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a ta. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i. V\u1eady n\u00ean \u0111i \u0111i!”<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t cho\u00e1ng. \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi n\u0103m tr\u0103m \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed; h\u1ecd c\u0169ng b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 can \u0111\u1ea3m l\u1edbn – \u00f4ng ta hi\u1ec3u ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i, “\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u – th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u – th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u1edbi \u00f4ng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u00f4ng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi Vedas v\u00e0 Upanishads, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i.”<\/p>\n
Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “L\u00e0m theo \u0111i\u1ec1u ta n\u00f3i \u0111i. Trong hai n\u0103m kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0o. D\u1ee1 b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Trong hai n\u0103m gi\u1eef y\u00ean t\u0129nh v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y.”<\/p>\n
Khi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i T\u1eed, m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Maulingaputta n\u00f3i, ‘Sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1eddi? \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i\u00ean hay c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3?”<\/p>\n
Ph\u1eadt n\u00f3i, “\u00d4ng h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i.”<\/p>\n
X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i T\u1eed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi. X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t tinh qu\u00e1i” – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 Ph\u1eadt – “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i y\u00ean t\u0129nh v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng trong hai n\u0103m. V\u00e0 trong hai n\u0103m \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi! C\u00f2n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i, ‘X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i T\u1eed, sao \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd?’ Cho n\u00ean g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i cho \u00f4ng l\u00e0: n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi, h\u1ecfi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i; n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec nghe \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec im l\u1eb7ng trong hai n\u0103m.”<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Sau hai n\u0103m Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi Maulingaputta – \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c sau hai n\u0103m – “C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u r\u1ed3i?”<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta c\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00fai m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ea1m ch\u00e2n Ph\u1eadt, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta n\u00f3i, “Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong im l\u1eb7ng. Ch\u1ec9 quan s\u00e1t th\u1ea7y, ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea7y, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng trong su\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y th\u1ea7y b\u1eb1ng v\u00f4 tr\u00ed. M\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ec1 t\u1edbi nh\u00e0.”<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh, ‘Khi n\u00e0o anh t\u1edbi New York, g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho anh b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, Jimmy Sexover. Anh \u1ea5y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf c\u00f4ng ti XYZ.”<\/p>\n
Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 n\u00e0y t\u1edbi New York anh ta g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1edbi c\u00f4ng ti XYZ v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 ti\u1ebfp t\u00e2n, “C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 Sexover (h\u1ebft gi\u1edd t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c) \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n
“Gi\u1edd t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c sao? \u0110\u1ed3 ch\u1ebft ti\u1ec7t!” c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e1p. “Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec9 gi\u1eefa gi\u1edd!”<\/p>\n
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B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, Niraj: T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1ee7<\/em>?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n V\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ng\u1ee7! \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Quan s\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ch\u00e2n l\u00ed c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i: T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd<\/em>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3<\/em> \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t cho s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd x\u1ea3y ra. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n dai d\u1eb3ng, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c: b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. Ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00f3i: T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7<\/em>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c. Khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “Anh ngh\u0129 anh y\u00eau em.” N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd t\u00e1t v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n! N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Ph\u1ecfng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “Anh ngh\u0129”? Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1t b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i kh\u00e1t.” N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1t b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00e1t.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i: T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7<\/em>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea5y! C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 trong gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c… \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec: m\u01a1, m\u01a1 v\u1edbi m\u1eaft m\u1edf.<\/p>\n Nghe theo ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt \u0111i. Im l\u1eb7ng, y\u00ean t\u0129nh, b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n h\u01a1n \u0111i. Trong im l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 n\u00e0y… V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tri\u1ebft l\u00ed, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh, r\u01a1i v\u00e0o ho\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n Niraj, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 t\u00f4i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00f4 suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. Kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea9y suy ngh\u0129 sang b\u00ean v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta quen suy ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t t\u00e0i t\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft hay b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i t\u1edbi thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3: ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y? Anh ch\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, \u0111i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u00e2u. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c g\u00f5 b\u00faa th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o s\u1ecd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a b\u1ecb v\u1ee1 ra b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ee9c d\u1eady.<\/p>\n B\u00e1o th\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. T\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra b\u00e1o th\u1ee9c phi th\u01b0\u1eddng. Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1eed b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y sang nh\u00f3m kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0 b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ng\u1ee7. Ch\u1ec9 khi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u00edt th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “B\u01b0\u1edbc trong thi\u1ec1n, ng\u1ed3i trong thi\u1ec1n”, Ch.2<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang ng\u1ee7? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1575,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1566","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quan-sat-nhan-biet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1566","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1566"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1566\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1569,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1566\/revisions\/1569"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1575"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1566"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1566"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1566"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}