Bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i theo th\u1ea7y<\/p>\n
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Thi\u1ec1n n\u00f3i ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n trao, do \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 Th\u1ea7y-\u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y – b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y cho n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n trao. Truy\u1ec1n trao ng\u1ee5 \u00fd t\u1eeb t\u00e2m sang t\u00e2m: d\u1ea1y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u sang \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n
Khi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed v\u00e0 Th\u1ea7y g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp, tan ch\u1ea3y v\u00e0o nhau, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec9nh, s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau li\u00ean t\u1ee5c mang b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh va ch\u1ea1m, xung \u0111\u1ed9t. Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 bay h\u01a1i r\u1ed3i – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 Th\u1ea7y – v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh theo Th\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 nh\u1edb, b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t; n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m t\u1eeb c\u00f9ng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u t\u1ea1o ra m\u01a1. Khi b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i c\u00e1i g\u00ec?<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ecdi m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i cho th\u1ea7y,” b\u1ea1n<\/em> c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec! V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng m\u01a1 l\u1edbn lao v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i v\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 kho b\u00e1u l\u1edbn… b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng m\u01a1 l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec.<\/p>\n Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cho Th\u1ea7y, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n coi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Khi b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn lao. Khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi Th\u1ea7y, th\u1ea7y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, b\u1edfi v\u00ec th\u1ea7y bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec – ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 r\u1ed7ng tu\u1ebfch m\u00e0 th\u00f4i! kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec m\u1ea5y m\u00e0 ba hoa v\u1ec1 n\u00f3.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u00edch nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch. Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, “Bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111i.” Khi th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, “Bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111i,” l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y \u0111ang n\u00f3i, “Trao cho ta c\u00e1i m\u00e0 \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng tin l\u00e0 \u00f4ng c\u00f3. Trao cho ta ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111i – ta s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00e1i c\u1edb n\u00e0y gi\u00fap cho \u00f4ng.” B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf n\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m. Y\u00eau khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1ea1n m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m. Trong y\u00eau b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Khi b\u1ea1n trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, “Trao cho ta b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng,” l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n Hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u00f9ng Th\u1ea7y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00f3i c\u00f3, c\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 n\u1eefa! \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u00f3 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, c\u00e1i c\u00f3 v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Cho n\u00ean khi th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, “Trao cho ta b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng,” b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n trao b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cho Th\u1ea7y. V\u1edbi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng; v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00ed g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea7y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3.<\/p>\n Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea3y ra. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd hai s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i v\u00e0o trong nhau. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a nhau; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1eadt k\u00ed v\u00e0 c\u1ef1c th\u00edch x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1eadt l\u00ed. Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau tr\u00ean b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n t\u00e2m linh: hai s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng, hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 ng\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong nhau. Trong h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ea3y ra. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 Th\u1ea7y cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, t\u1eeb g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra – c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m t\u1edbi logic; h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. H\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thuy\u1ebft gi\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y, v\u00e0 d\u1ea7u v\u1eady Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed Thi\u1ec1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi ng\u1ea1i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng n\u00eau ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng: “\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec? M\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t \u00f4ng n\u00f3i ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y, v\u00e0 m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c sao \u00f4ng v\u1eabn khai t\u00e2m, sao \u00f4ng v\u1eabn nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi?”<\/p>\n V\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u00ed \u1ea9n; ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i; kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u00edch. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 ng\u1ecdt, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 ng\u1ecdt. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n C\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1eadn t\u00e2m, do \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n M\u1ed9t Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0, Nh\u1ea5t H\u01b0u, tr\u1ecd l\u1ea1i trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i ch\u00f9a, \u1edf t\u1ea1m qua \u0111\u00eam, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam l\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y r\u00e9t run ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ebfn n\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam \u00f4ng \u1ea5y tr\u1edf d\u1eady v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1eadt, b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u1ed7, b\u00e8n \u0111\u1ed1t n\u00f3, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t sung s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1edbi ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda v\u00e0 h\u01a1i \u1ea5m.<\/p>\n S\u01b0 tr\u1ee5 tr\u00ec ch\u00f9a, th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 \u00e1nh l\u1eeda b\u00ean trong ch\u00f9a, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra. \u00d4ng ta c\u00f3 ch\u00fat ho\u00e0i nghi khi \u00f4ng ta cho ph\u00e9p Nh\u1ea5t H\u01b0u \u1edf l\u1ea1i qua \u0111\u00eam trong ch\u00f9a, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady – “\u00d4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho c\u1ea3 ch\u00f9a b\u1ecb ch\u00e1y m\u1ea5t!” \u00d4ng ta x\u00f4 v\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta th\u1ea5y \u00f4ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed1t ch\u00e1y m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta gi\u1eadn l\u1eafm, \u00f4ng ta qu\u00e1t th\u1eb3ng m\u1eb7t Nh\u1ea5t H\u01b0u r\u1eb1ng, “\u00d4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady? \u00d4ng cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed sao? R\u1ed3i \u00f4ng c\u00f2n m\u1eb7c \u00e1o cho\u00e0ng v\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a s\u01b0 Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o n\u1eefa! M\u00e0 ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u01b0 Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, \u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t Th\u1ea7y l\u1edbn v\u00e0 \u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3! Th\u1ebf m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady?” B\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb ch\u00e1y r\u1ee5i!<\/p>\n Nh\u1ea5t H\u01b0u l\u1ea5y c\u00e2y thi\u1ec1n tr\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u1ec1u kh\u1ec1u c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1ed1ng tro t\u00e0n. S\u01b0 n\u00e0y h\u1ecfi, “\u00d4ng t\u00ecm g\u00ec v\u1eady?”<\/p>\n \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Ta \u0111ang t\u00ecm x\u01b0\u01a1ng Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e2y.”<\/p>\n \u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi x\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 “hoa (x\u00e1 l\u1ecb)”. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta thu th\u1eadp x\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 sau khi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00e1y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n; nh\u1eefng x\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “hoa (x\u00e1 l\u1ecb)”.<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Ta \u0111ang t\u00ecm x\u00e1 l\u1ecb c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e2y.”<\/p>\n Ngay c\u1ea3 s\u01b0 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi. \u00d4ng ta n\u00f3i, “\u00d4ng \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3i! L\u00e0m sao \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1 l\u1ecb trong b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u1ed7?”<\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t Nh\u1ea5t H\u01b0u c\u01b0\u1eddi khanh kh\u00e1ch, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “Th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ngu \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ta t\u01b0\u1edfng! \u0110em t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1eefa t\u1edbi \u0111i… c\u00f2n c\u00f3 hai t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1eefa trong ch\u00f9a v\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam v\u1eabn c\u00f2n d\u00e0i l\u1eafm. V\u00e0 sao \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng tham gia nh\u1ec9? L\u1eeda \u1ea5m th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1t hai b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y n\u1eefa. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 x\u01b0\u01a1ng trong n\u00f3, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt th\u1ef1c r\u1ed3i – ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 g\u1ed7 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.”<\/p>\n S\u01b0 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2m ra s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean n\u00e0y qu\u00e1, \u00f4ng ta t\u1ed1ng \u00f4ng n\u00e0y ra kh\u1ecfi ch\u00f9a. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m m\u00e0 gi\u1eef \u00f4ng n\u00e0y b\u00ean trong ch\u00f9a – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 hai t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kia n\u1eefa! Ch\u00f9a ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ba t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ebfn s\u00e1ng khi s\u01b0 n\u00e0y m\u1edf c\u1eeda ra \u00f4ng ta th\u1ea5y Nh\u1ea5t H\u01b0u \u0111ang c\u00fai l\u1ea1y ngay ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00f4i ch\u00f9a tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0i \u0111o\u00e1 hoa – ch\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y hoa d\u1ea1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i – \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u00e1 hoa \u0111\u00f3 l\u00ean c\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n. V\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u1ea9m nh\u1ea9m c\u00e2u m\u1eadt ch\u00fa Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng: “Buddham sharanam gachchhami<\/em> – T\u00f4i t\u1edbi ch\u00e2n Th\u1ea7y, B\u1ea1ch Ph\u1eadt. Sangham sharanam gachchhami<\/em> – T\u00f4i t\u1edbi ch\u00e2n t\u00e2m x\u00e3 c\u1ee7a Th\u1ea7y. Dhammam sharanam gachchhami<\/em> – T\u00f4i t\u1edbi ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00e2n l\u00ed t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra.”<\/p>\n S\u01b0 n\u00e0y t\u1edbi, lay \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, “\u00d4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady? \u00d4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u1ed3i! \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1, \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i Ph\u1eadt! \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed1t t\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1eadt trong \u0111\u00eam, c\u00f2n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1 \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: Buddham sharanam gachchhami, sangham sharanam gachchhami, dhammam sharanam gachchhami?<\/em> sao”<\/p>\n Nh\u1ea5t H\u01b0u n\u00f3i, “V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hay kh\u00f4ng; v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m ta. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i c\u1edb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Trong \u0111\u00eam ta \u0111\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u1edb – \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1edb m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1edb kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u b\u1edfi v\u00ec ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1 \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o. Ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u00f9a n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o.”<\/p>\n S\u01b0 n\u00f3i, “\u00d4ng r\u1ea5t phi logic!”<\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1c Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 trong c\u00e1c th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i – t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Mahakashyap, Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, T\u1ed5 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng, “C\u00e1c \u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi l\u1eafm. M\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn: r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thuy\u1ebft gi\u1ea3ng, m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c c\u00e1c \u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, Th\u1ea7y. M\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c \u00f4ng n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c c\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n Ph\u1eadt.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y. L\u1eddi nguy\u1ec7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i ra t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hay t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00e1. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1edb. V\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i – v\u1edbi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed, Ph\u1eadt ng\u1ee5 \u00fd Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. \u0110\u00e1 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1eady. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y Ph\u1eadt t\u00ednh, t\u00ednh th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, v\u00e0 Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y h\u01a1n. Trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i c\u00f3 v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7y. T\u1eeb “\u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u” th\u1eadt hay; n\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd “nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t”. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7y. Trong t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua l\u1eddi l\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu – c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111em m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn ch\u01b0a ch\u00e1y l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn \u0111ang ch\u00e1y. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 khi chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn ch\u01b0a ch\u00e1y \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 – \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda t\u1eeb chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn \u0111ang ch\u00e1y nh\u1ea3y v\u00e0o chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn ch\u01b0a ch\u00e1y. Chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn \u0111ang ch\u00e1y kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t g\u00ec c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn ch\u01b0a ch\u00e1y thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n B\u00e2y gi\u1edd qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra: khi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n Th\u1ea7y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 trao b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u – v\u00e0 Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec. Khi Th\u1ea7y trao c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y cho v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i, th\u1ea7y cho \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t g\u00ec c\u1ea3; \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u1eeb m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eafp s\u00e1ng c\u1ea3 tri\u1ec7u chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn, v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn \u0111ang s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t g\u00ec m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u chi\u1ebfc n\u1ebfn ch\u01b0a s\u00e1ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y b\u1ecb thi\u1ebfu trong J. Krishnamurti, do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i l\u00e0 Thi\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Thi\u1ec1n, n\u00f3i<\/em> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u1ea3 hai, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m m\u1edbi \u0111em t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, s\u1ef1 n\u1edf hoa. Ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u00edch g\u00ec. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed n\u00f3 v\u1eabn v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, hay b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. Ngay c\u1ea3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i \u0111i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra ph\u1ecfng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec? Th\u1ebf th\u00ec sao b\u1eadn t\u00e2m? N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n “Ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra” r\u1ed3i m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y c\u1ee9 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i “Nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean” – th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 – v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0! Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec m\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u00e3i, tr\u1eeb phi b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n Ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n. Ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0: nh\u01b0ng ch\u00e2n l\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb – kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3, chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed v\u00e0 Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb “Ta l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3”, Ch. 9<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i theo th\u1ea7y Thi\u1ec1n n\u00f3i ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n trao, do \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra trong m\u1ed1i quan … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1305,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-thay-va-de-tu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1304"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1304\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1307,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1304\/revisions\/1307"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1305"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reikivietnam.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}